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This Is Why Amal Alamuddin Is A Style Star

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You may know Amal Alamuddin as Julian Assange's lawyer or maybe as a super successful, badass woman who happens to be engaged to George Clooney. But here at HuffPost Style, we know and love her for a more sartorial reason.

We first fell for Alamuddin's sense of style when she stepped out in this adorable crop-top-floral-denim combo. From her stellar taste in footwear to some effortlessly chic ensembles, she is the perfect combination of polished and funky. And while we're on the subject of perfect combinations (ahem, her & fiancée George Clooney), our minds are already reeling with possibilities for her bridal look.

Alamuddin is playful yet sophisticated, trendy yet classic and just plain stylish. Check out just some of the reasons we're crushing on her below:

She knows that two bold pieces are better than one:
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Fun pants deserve equally fun shoes to go with them. We love the way these part-patent, part-metallic oxfords pick up on the color scheme of the pant while making a statement all on their own.

Shop the look:
Oxfords, Elie Tahari, now $155
Striped trousers, Zara, now $25.99


She makes moto-chic look totally effortless:
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It's hard to go wrong in a classic black moto jacket and denim, but we love the muted color scheme -- and that awesome chunky necklace.

Shop the look:
Cropped moto jacket, Asos, now $66.69
Crystal Mariachi Bib, BaubleBar, $44.00


She looks classy in a crop-top:
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While we're not entirely sold on the crop-top craze, when paired with a looser-fitting pant and just the right amount of skin showing, Alamuddin does a good job of convincing us.

Shop the look:
Crochet-trim tank top, $49.00, Urban Outfitters
Seamed mom-jean, $29.00, Urban Outfitters


She cleans up nicely:
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Sometimes the simplest outfits are also the loveliest. We love the color and fit of this sophisticated dress -- and the mismatched shoe twist, too.

Shop the look:
Chain applique dress, Zara, now $29.00


She does slouchy in the sleekest way possible:
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Going slouchy from head-to-toe can be risky. While comfort is key, this look can drown your shape. We love the crop of her boyfriend jeans -- they give her legs a bit more length and highlight the awesome shoes, too.

Shop the look:
Leather slingbacks, Zara, now $49.99

Boyfriend jeans, Zara, now $25.99

See Who Got Married This Weekend!

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During the dog days of summer, it takes a lot for us to change out of our flip flops and into a pair of heels or dress shoes. But for any of our lovely readers who tied the knot this weekend, we'd be more than happy to oblige!





If you go to a wedding or get married yourself, tweet a photo to @HuffPostWedding or email it to us afterwards so we can feature it on the site!

Check out more of this week's Real Weddings photos in the slideshow below:



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Conor Oberst's Rape Accuser Recants, Issues Official Public Apology

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The woman who accused Bright Eyes rocker Conor Oberst of raping her after a show in 2003, when she was a teenager, has officially recanted and issued a public apology.

Joanie Faircloth, whose real name is Joan Elizabeth Harris, contacted Oberst's lawyer and issued a notarized statement on July 14, admitting that she made false allegations of sexual assault against the musician, reports Spin magazine. Faircloth wrote:

The statements I made and repeated online and elsewhere over the past six months accusing Conor Oberst of raping me are 100% false. I made up those lies about him to get attention while I was going through a difficult period in my life and trying to cope with my son’s illness. I publicly retract my statements about Conor Oberst, and sincerely apologize to him, his family, and his fans for writing such awful things about him. I realize that my actions were wrong and could undermine the claims of actual sexual assault victims and for that I also apologize. I’m truly sorry for all the pain that I caused.


In February, Oberst sued Faircloth for libel, claiming his reputation had been damaged by her accusations. According to the 34-year-old musician's lawyers, the letter of apology came after seven months of attempts to reach Faircloth, requesting that she rescind the allegations she made against Oberst in the comments section of the xoJane website in December 2013.

What The Cool Kids Wore To The Adidas Fanatic Soccer Tournament

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On Saturday, teams representing Barneys New York, Acne Studios, BLK DNM, and The Smile, among twenty-four others, came together to compete at Adidas' thirteenth annual Fanatic soccer tournament. Sure, they had some competition in the form of the World Cup's third-place match between the Netherlands and Brazil, but that didn't stop more than 1,800 people from turning out to watch.

Breathtaking Wedding Photos Will Make You Want To Visit Iceland ASAP

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When it comes to weddings, sometimes less is more.

No one knows that better than Ohio couple Sarah and Josh, who decided to forgo a big wedding in their home state and eloped in Iceland instead.

"We had our bridal party planned, I had purchased my dress, we had booked our photographer Gabe McClintock to come down to Ohio to be with us, we had a date and a time and a place," Sarah told Junebug weddings.

"But as time went on, it just never felt quite right. Things started falling out of place and becoming much more stressful than we wanted. And so, after much deliberation, we decided to elope. Our marriage was for us, and no one else."

Luckily, the couple didn't let go of all their original plans; they brought their wedding photographer to Iceland with them -- and these stunning photos are the result:





For even more of Sarah and Josh's wedding photos, check out the slideshow below.





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Can Male Guests Wear White To A Wedding?

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The rules of wedding etiquette are constantly changing, making it difficult for modern brides, grooms and guests to find up-to-date and correct information. That's why we launched #MannersMondays, a weekly series in which we ask our followers on Twitter and Facebook to submit their most burning etiquette-related questions. Then, with the help of our team of etiquette experts, we get you the right answers to your biggest Big Day dilemmas. Check out this week's question below!




Anna Post -- great-great-granddaughter of etiquette guru Emily Post and author of Emily Post's Wedding Etiquette -- is here to help us answer this week's question. Find out what she had to say below:

It’s funny, women actually can wear white. It just can’t look bridal in any way — so not floor-length, made of fabrics like satin or lace, or heavy with embellishments or beading, for example. Frankly, even though it’s technically allowed, most women, myself included, don’t want to run the risk of offending by seeming to steal the bride’s thunder. I know I wouldn’t want somebody wearing a white dress to distract from the bride in any way.

For men, I’ve never heard an interdict against wearing a white suit, especially as it relates to the bride. But if everyone else will be in dark suits, I wouldn’t recommend it. If instead the wedding is such that there will be lots of male guests in light-colored suits, then it would likely be fine in the mix. If you’re unsure, check in with the couple or someone close to them to take their temperature. If they seem hesitant, it’s probably not worth it.


You can submit your wedding etiquette questions via Facebook or tweet them to us @HuffPostWedding with the hashtag #MannersMondays.

Claire Leeson Spent $30,000 To Look Like Kim Kardashian

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Kim Kardashian's style does not come cheap. Just ask 24-year-old Claire Leeson, who freely admits to spending thousands of dollars to look like the reality star.

The Essex, England resident revealed she's spent an estimated $30,000 on breast implants, hair extensions, spray tans, makeup and clothing to emulate the 33-year-old star. Appearing on ITV's "This Morning" on July 14, Leeson explained that the extreme measures she's taken to look more like Kardashian were done in an attempt to gain self-confidence after being bullied as a teen.




"I've had my teeth whitened, then I wanted my boobs enhanced ... and with pictures [of Kardashian] explained to my surgeon that I wanted to look like this," she told "This Morning" hosts Ruth Langsford and Ben Shephard. "I also wear bum padding -- it's a silicone base. Pants with silicone inside."

Leeson says the pads "feel very real" but is planning on having surgery to increase the size of her backside, because "my bum is never going to be as big as Kim's is," she said.

Leeson apparently became obsessed with Kardashian after friends told her she resembled the reality star.

"So I watched [the show] and realized I had the same amount of siblings and that we have the same kind of arguments and things going on," she explained. "I thought she was so beautiful and I really wanted to be like her."

Whatever Leeson's reasons for wanting to look just like Kardashian, it's come at quite the price -- and not one she can actually afford. The wannabe look-alike admitted during her interview on "This Morning" that she is in debt "up to [her] eyeballs" and has received threatening letters from creditors. Still, it's not enough to deter her from her dream of looking like Kardashian.

"I work, my job doesn’t pay enough … I’ve used credit cards to pay for everything. I’m in major debt. I say that I’m going to pay them but as soon as money comes in I just think about getting my Kimmy on," she explained, adding:

"When I get my Kimmy on I feel like I’m unstoppable and untouchable and I feel like no one can stop me and I can make something of myself. I feel strong … and I feel that I have built enough confidence to love myself a little bit more.”



Of course, Leeson is hardly the first person to go to such measures to look like a celebrity. She would do well to befriend the 30-year-old woman who spent $25,000 on surgery to look more like Jennifer Lawrence and the 33-year-old man who spent $100,000 to look more like Justin Bieber.




Rumer Willis Jumps On The Blond Bob Bandwagon

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Don't expect Rumer Willis to debut her new 'do with a regular old selfie.

The 25-year-old displayed her new blond bob on Instagram July 12 with two artsy shots by photographer Tyler Shields:





Willis sported her new look at JustJared's Summer Fiesta July 12, where she also spun a DJ set:

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Her new "lob" is quite the departure from Willis's previously long, pink locks:

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Willis is the latest celebrity to hop on the blond "lob" trend. Hayden Panettiere, Vanessa Hudgens and Miranda Lambert are just a few others rocking the popular hairstyle.




Hue Series: The Soft Summer Smoke

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Driving back to Paris on a recent afternoon, I received an email from a friend asking me if I would walk in fashion show that he was styling. I agreed, and so, found myself a couple of days later on the sixth floor of a former factory building in the cramped atelier of fashion label known as the Y/Project.

It was the day before the show-time to fit models to their outfits. As I came in, the studio was a frenzy of activity; sewing machines whirring, last-minute stitching being carefully sewn, steaming, pressing, cutting, and trimming. It was approaching 10 p.m. as I was waiting for my own dress to be finished. Only hours before the show the following day, and dresses were still being cut, shaped, and altered.

Through he haze of cigarette smoke, amidst countless empty coffee cups, I watched the equipe begin their nuit blanche. To see people sewing buttons and cutting fabric seemed practically antiquated in our modern world of far-flung clothing factories. How reassuring, I thought, that this craft has not yet been completely wiped out!

Since beginning my career as a model, I have wanted to find out more about the process of actually making clothes. Where do fabrics come from? Who puts them together? Clothing is such a fundamental human necessity, yet its production seems to have developed into an abstract, often murky mysterious process.

After the show, the following week, I sat down over a drink with the brand's designer Glenn Martens. I wanted to find out more at least about his role in the fabrication of his clothes. The label, which is called the Y/Project after its founder Yohan Serfaty, was started some four years ago in Paris. Glenn, who previously worked as a junior designer at the fashion house Gaultier, took over the label just last summer. This handsome, young Belgian was full of energy as he tried to give me a brief glimpse of his world as a fashion designer.

Their factories, he explained to me, are spread out in several European countries as well as Tunisia and Turkey. Each country has its specialty; Italy for knitwear, leathers in Istanbul, silks in France... The process of fabrication begins by an idea, an inspiration drawn from fashion history, combined with modern street style. This idea then becomes a drawing, a sketch, a kind of architectural outline. The next step is then to select the fabric. Most fabrics have been carefully chosen from thousands of different varieties at the biannual fabric fair in Paris known as Premiere Vision. Now begins the tryouts, les essaies; trying to bring the two-dimensional into three dimensions. After many of these tryouts, many failures, a final product emerges; a dress, a shirt, a jacket something that I or any other model will wear to walk down the runway. The final presentation.

This intense, laborious process seems somewhat comparable to a painter testing, and countlessly retesting the construction of his painting. Dare I say that clothes can be considered as artwork? I would say yes, in so much as they can be beautiful and give the wearer a sense of elegance and composure. Reversely I would place clothes in a similar world as art in the sense that there is also an overwhelming quantity of knock-offs, copies, reproductions of the original such that we often no longer really know what we are wearing, let alone where it comes from! Indeed, who really has the time or energy to meticulously research the exact origins of their clothes? Especially when options may vary from $10 vs. $100 the former is certainly more appealing. Easiest to turn a bind eye on the backstory. I asked Glenn what it was like to try and turn a profit using such precious methods (such as fairly paid labor); he paused, and smiled discreetly. We moved on. I realized that this was a labor of love, a purely creative project. How beautiful I thought, how wonderfully human in such a seemingly inhumane industry -- that is clothing manufacturing. A project, I think, that has its own answer.


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Korean Coed Street Fashion at Ewha Woman's University!

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This is the second installment in a series introducing key fashion neighborhoods in Seoul, Korea, which has become quite a fashion hub and a hotbed of street fashion, although you may not have heard  this yet. It's my goal to familiarize Western readers  with the fact that parts of Seoul are now hotter than Harajuku in terms of fashion creativity and dynamicism, even if it lacks the Cosplay flash. But that's what makes the street fashion in Seoul all the more real and interesting. These are the fashions of everyday Koreans and those who follow them sartorially, and these are streets worth watching.
After one of the student interns bravely grab her and combine her to pose, turns out she was with one of the many Chinese tourists who are legion at the Ewha front gate, which is apparently a major tourist destination for the Chinese who come to Korea, an


Ewha Woman's University is one of the oldest universities in Seoul, founded as many were by American Protestant missionaries, and considered to be one of the top universities a woman can attend in general, right behind what Koreans call the "SKY" universities, which is short for Seoul National, Korea, and Yonsei Universities. Doesn't fit into the acronym, but it's up there bumping shoulders of those universities in terms of quality and reputation. Now, despite being a women's University, one has to remember that Korea is still defined by the gender norms of America in the 1960s. Boys are boys and girls are girls, especially at a women's University, with the social norm being to wear heels and a dress, full-on makeup, and have every hair on the head in perfect place. Ewha Woman's University is infamous for what's students only half-jokingly called the "9 a.m. morning fashion show" in which the front gate is stormed by freshly dressed and fashionable women rushing to their first class of the day amidst a cacophony of click-clacking high heels. This is not to say that every woman in Korean college dresses this way, but I think it would be safe for the non-initiated to completely eliminate any idea of the American-style undergraduate rolling out of bed and into class in one's pajamas and slippers or without at least a long session spent in front of the makeup mirror.

I started out shooting a bit of Ewha Women's University front gate for this story, with three student interns in tow, when a lady with the best Korean-style sports jersey dress ever pops into view. This is one of the most popular styles on the Korean streets this summer and it was apropos that she appeared on the scene just as we arrived, so I had to snap a surreptitious shot of her outfit just in case she decided not to pose for camera willingly.

Was out shooting a bit of Ewha Women's University front gate for a story on that neighborhood I'm planning for the Huff Post, with 3 student interns in tow, and a lady with the best Korean-style sports jersey dress ever pops into view.

After one of the student interns bravely grabbed her and got her to pose, it turned out she wasone of the many Chinese tourists who are legion at the Ewha front gate these days, which is apparently a major tourist destination for the Chinese who come to Korea, which made sense since we spotted entire tour groups led by guides with flags right in the area we started shooting.  This young lady turned out to be a confident  street fashion model possessed of a Mona Lisa smile. Turns out she's an exchange student studying somewhere and Seoul and bought her sports jersey dress in Korea.

She turned out to be a confident model with a Mona Lisa smile. Turns out she's an exchange student studying somewhere and Seoul and bought her sports jersey dress in Korea.

You can get a sense of how the mesh works and its transparency with a closer picture using the wide-angle lens, which is more my style, anyway.

You can get a sense of how the mesh works and it's transparency with a closer picture using the wide-angle lens, which is more my style, anyway.

Her and her companion were quite the couple and comfortable with the camera. We were actually pretty wise to arrive on campus around noon time, since we are able to find several real students to shoot in their natural environment actually going and coming from class. The Idae area (as it is known to Koreans by its Korean abbreviation of "Ewha" and University" (ewha+dae-hak-kyo="idae") is renowned for its young female fashion, but this is often a misleading place for street fashion photographers to shoot since is a major watering hole for women wanting to be fashionable, whether their students are not. So after school hours or on the weekends, most of the women in the area are not representative of young Korean female student fashion. We made sure to be on the spot during the prime hours for actually catching students attending the campus.

Her and her companion were quite the couple and comfortable with the camera.

We immediately spotted some girls in a coffee shop we went to have a quick meeting and noticed the "West Coast" sports jerseys and were debating whether not to approach them for picture when I noticed that they were wearing matching jerseys T-shirts and that's cinched it. We had to get them. Find and it turned out they were also Chinese tourists who had just bought T-shirts in Dongdaemun, which they let us know through Google translate, and were eager to show us the very store where they had just seen these shirts earlier and were eagerly pointing it out as I was taking the pictures. They actually wanted to walk us over and show us the shirts on the rack. However, we didn't have time.

We immediately spotted some girls in a coffee shop we went to have a quick meeting and noticed the "West Coast" sports jerseys and were debating whether not to approach them for picture when I noticed that they were wearing matching jerseys T-shirts and t

It seemed like we were mostly catching Chinese tourists, and we were hoping to get more actual students from the University. Since it was lunchtime, we decided that moving in toward the center of campus would yield more Korean students actually attending the university, who would be walking out of classes toward the surrounding area. However, given the fact that most of the Chinese tourists and exchange students we were catching seemed to be very big fans of Korean fashion and were actually better models for current trends than even the Koreans were, this turned out to be a good thing. All of the young Chinese women we caught on film were eager to tell us where they had bought their clothes -- and the new Dongdaemun Design Plaza seemed to be a major stop on the fashion train for all of them.

It seems like room most eye-catching Chinese tourists, and we were hoping to get more actual students from the University. Since it was lunchtime, we decided that moving in towards the center of campus would yield more Korean students actually attending t

We came across something pretty rare these days on the Korean university: an actual demonstration! Well, actually it was more of a quasi-demonstration, a sort of information session designed to get people to sign a petition. I was actually more interested in her hair and her T-shirt then the actual content of the petition drive, and it seemed very much along the lines of something students do. Ewha fashion!

We came across something pretty rare these days on the Korean university: an actual demonstration! Well, actually it was more of a quasi-demonstration, actually a sort of information session designed to get people to sign a petition. I was actually more i

Upon asking this young lady whether or not I could use her picture for the purposes of a street fashion piece, she said that she preferred to not use the picture with her posing without the sign. However, in all honesty, I was more interested in her cool hair color and her T-shirt. But we wish her luck with her cause and in getting more money to janitorial workers in her University, which is I think one of the goals that I heard being mentioned.

Upon asking young lady whether or not I could use her picture for the purposes of a street fashion piece, she said that she preferred to not use the picture with her posing without the sign. However, in all honesty, I was more interested in her cool hair

More toward the interior of the campus, we are bumping into more everyday students doing everyday things, such as carrying their cups of iced coffee. This young lady is wearing one of the most popular skirts in Korea this summer season and we had to ask her to pose.

More towards the interior of the campus, we are bumping into more everyday students doing everyday things, such as carrying their cups of iced coffee. This young lady is wearing one of the most popular skirts in Korea this summer season and we had to ask

No matter how far we got into the campus, tourists were still legion. These two young ladies were walking through campus and more than happy to have their pictures taken by a street fashion photography crew.If anything, the many tourists both in front of and actually on campus were testament to the power of the so-called "Korean wave" in Asia. Korea, at the very least in Asia, has definitely become a place known for being modern, fashionable, and very cool.

The matter how far we got into the campus, Chinese tourists were still legion. These two young ladies were walking through campus and more than happy to have their pictures taken by a street fashion photography crew.

We were now bumping into more Korean students coming out of or going into classes, and we caught this young fashionista on the way into campus, and she was easy and relaxed in front of the camera, a natural model.

We are now bumping into more cream students coming out of or going into classes, and we caught this young fashionista on the way into campus, and she was easy and relaxed in front of the camera, a natural model.

She's a natural model, like many Korean girls who were trained on a diet of sticker pictures, private photo booths, and cell phone cams. South Korea coined its own word for "selfie" back in around 2004. Young Korean girls our well-trained in the fine art of "selca" (SELf+CAmera) and were uploading their super selfie portraits to eoljjang (best face) sites that became popular around that time as well. The average female Korean college student has about as much de facto amateur modeling experience as the average Western amateur model who has seen the inside of a photo studio.

She's a natural.

We were lucky to meet someone do awesome. Badumbump.

Cool shot of the impromptu Ewha model of the day!

We ended our little foray into the Ewha Woman's University with a bit more conservative, representative fare for the Koreans students these days. And her heavily-ornamented gladiator sandals are definitely the thing with the kids these days.

We ended our little foray into the Ewha Woman's University with a bit more conservative, representative fare for the Koreans students these days. And her heavily-ornamented gladiator sandals are definitely the thing with the kids these days.

That's the way you end a street fashion photo foray!

That's the way you end a street fashion photo foray!

As soon as the day ended and I was sitting in my office, as if on cue, our "awesome" model from a few hours earlier sent me a message about her pictures and we quickly decided that it would be cool to do an impromptu studio session since I had my studio equipment sitting in a box in my office ready to go and all you would need to do is find a white wall in a hallway somewhere. Considering what we had to work with, but also the find the picture we came up with but also surprising. but also, considering the natural talent and these which our model possessed, it's not really any surprise we got what we did. Definitely one of the best street fashion models I've ever bump into -- and I don't think it's any coincidence that she is a true-blue Ewha student.

Our best model wanted to do a bit of studio after her great street shoot. She is indeed awesome.

 

P.S.  Many thanks to my Seoul Fashion Report interns Charlotte Gryson, Yubin Lee, and Junha Kim, without whom I would have had a lot of trouble shooting for this story.

Kate Hudson Wows In Strapless Cutout Dress At Film Premiere

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Bombshell alert.

Kate Hudson turned heads at the "Wish I Was Here" premiere in New York City on July 14. The 35-year-old looked positively radiant in a strapless, sequined little black dress, complete with a midriff cutout. With sleek hair and minimal makeup, Hudson found the perfect balance between sexy and simple:

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Hudson stars alongside Donald Faison and Zach Braff, who also directed the Kickstarter-funded comedy.

"Wish I Was Here" hits theaters July 18.

An Imaginary Daughter Is Born

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Having an imaginary child is one of the better decisions of my life. Around the time that I conceived her, my husband and I were trying to decide whether to have a third child or not. And since both my kids and my eggs were getting older, a decision needed to be made. We'd had our first two in our twenties, neck-deep in full-time work, graduate school, and not much money to our name. I had a bit of a romantic fantasy about having a third child under better circumstances like steady jobs and more square footage. I'd walk past the little girls' clothing section in stores and get a pang in my ovaries. Was this a sign?

One afternoon we were attending my older son's middle school basketball game. I sat near my friend Marianne whose son was playing for the other team. We were newish friends at this point, but I enjoyed her quick laugh and her straight-shooting manner. While we were visiting and cheering on our middle schoolers, Marianne was deftly wrangling her two little boys, ages 2 and 3. One dropped his sippy cup under the bleachers, the other was demanding more goldfish crackers. At one point, both of them were writhing on the gym floor, unhappy with each other, life in general, and overdue for a nap. I believe one of the sippy cups had been thrown at the other's head. They were so adorable.

"They're so adorable," I said to her. Or maybe my ovaries said to her.

"What?" she asked, confused.

"They're just so cute," I said. Then, to explain myself, "We're trying to decide if we want another one."

Suddenly Marianne was transformed. Her previously frazzled and semi-distracted state transformed into the stillness and clarity of an oracle. She looked me square in the eye.

"Don't. Do. It." she said.

I laughed.

"I'm completely serious," she said. "Don't do it. I'm on the other side now. I've been you, and I'm telling you, you have no idea how good you've got it."

My smile faded. She was serious.

"Listen," she said, "I love the little guys and I'd never trade them, but if you're really on the fence, I'm here to remind you that you've done the hard work, the diapers, the sleepless nights, the car seats. Do you really want to go back?"

It was a good question, and I thought about it a lot over weeks and months after that. If I was honest with myself, the third child idea was more about getting all the things out of child-rearing that I didn't get the first two times around, namely a girl and the means to dress her well. Ultimately, I decided those weren't good reasons to have another baby. Plus, I had grown quite accustomed to sleeping through the night. It was kinda my thang.

So I got knocked up on Pinterest instead. I created a Pinterest board titled, "My Imaginary Well-Dressed Toddler Daughter," and began curating the Third Child and the Third Child Life I'd wanted. I named her Quinoa. I dressed her well. And I found that it completely satiated the thirst I'd had inside.

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As it turns out, imaginary children:

  • do not interrupt sleep

  • require no diaper changes

  • do not emit strange noises, smells or fluids

  • have no food allergies

  • can be overindulged without regret

  • can be left unattended for hours, days, and even weeks at a time

  • never spill grape juice on your silk dress

  • never repeat your favorite four-letter words in front of the grandparents


I was really onto something. And then, quite literally overnight, the world was onto me. In June 2013, my Pinterest board went viral. Quinoa suddenly had countless new friends all over the world. Within a few months, I had a book deal, a lifelong dream come true. And nine months after that, I held the book in my arms for the first time. I looked it over with the same wonder that I had my newborn sons. Instead of counting toes, I counted pages. They were all there. I smelled it. And just like that intoxicating newborn scent, the industrial perfume of the paper made me want to do it again and again.

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If I'd had another real child, I have no doubt that I'd be enjoying him or her, doing my best to live out that romanticized version I'd had in my head, but I'm glad I took the road less traveled this time. In the end, my imaginary daughter has required just as much work as my two sons. And like raising my sons, the process of bringing her to life (in book form) has taught me an awful lot about myself. What is it the Rolling Stones said? You can't always get what you want, but sometimes, well, you might get what you need.

The Imaginary Well-Dressed Daughter's Guide To Parenting

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When Tiffany Beveridge started a Pinterest board about an imaginary well-dressed toddler, she had no idea how popular it would become. In 2013, her creation went viral, and now she has turned that board into a hilarious celebration of one fearless and fashion-forward little girl who is taking over the world, one playdate at a time. Here, in an excerpt from How To Quinoa: Life Lessons from My Imaginary Well-Dressed Daughter, Quinoa offers up her sage advice on how to start a child's life off right -- with a Quinoa-approved baby name.

Parenting the World's Most Influential Daughter

Sometimes Quinoa likes to daydream about what might have become of Beethoven, Michelangelo, and Coco Chanel if only they’d had the exceptional parenting she herself enjoys. Would Beethoven have become a pioneer of hip-hop instead of being limited to classical music? Would Michelangelo have eventually discovered animation instead of exhausting his efforts on mural art? Would Coco Chanel have given us chic dental decorations to improve on her couture gowns? Unfortunately, we’ll never know.

From the very beginning, Quinoa has been incredibly in touch with her own particular needs and brilliantly adept at expressing them. Even as a newborn without a vocabulary, Quinoa was able to communicate exactly what she needed through a series of adorable shrieks and wails. This process informed the child-led parenting style Quinoa developed for the young and gifted called the Quinoa Method, which can be summarized like this: The child expresses a need or want, followed by the child’s need or want immediately being fulfilled. Its utter simplicity is what makes Quinoa most proud. She likes to say it’s the Little Black Dress of parenting.

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Whether it’s a snack, a vacation, or a vintage Dior pea coat at Sotheby’s, Quinoa shows no hesitation in making her wishes known. This interpersonal modeling makes life stress-free for busy parents. No guesswork. No tears. The beauty of the system is that it ensures a happy child, which is ultimately what every parent is seeking.

Quinoa warns against the dangers of refusing a child’s demands or -- gasp! -- saying no. One time Quinoa herself heard the word no and cried for two days straight. Just think of what she could have accomplished in those two days! (She doesn’t want to make anybody feel bad, but it was actually a solution for world hunger. And she’s not going to tell now, since that would reinforce the behavior. Lesson learned?)

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Choosing a Quinoa-esque Name

Aside from attending and acceding to a child’s demands, the Quinoa Method also incorporates the intelligent naming of children. Quinoa says that properly naming a child broadcasts to the world that you have what it takes to raise successful offspring in today’s frenzied toddler-eat-toddler culture. As Quinoa puts it, times have changed and even the most precocious child cannot overcome a social setback like being named Jennifer.

As a generous gift, Quinoa has personally procured this list of approved names for your use.

Note: Please be advised that none of these names should be mixed with any non-approved Quinoa names, either as middle names (e.g., Chasm Jason) or within families (e.g., Orzo, Agave, and Morris). Doing so will immediately disqualify your Quinoa endorsement.

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Excerpted from How To Quinoa: Life Lessons from My Imaginary Well-Dressed Daughter by Tiffany Beveridge. Running Press (2014)



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Black Girls Tan, Too

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Every summer, my whole family would spend a few weeks vacationing "down the shore", jumping from house to house, playing boring miniature golf or going to the arcade on nights when we thought it might rain. The must-have items of the trip were always suntan lotion, sunscreen and mosquito repellent. "Nanny, where's the tanning lotion?" I used to say on my way to the beach or pool. Sunblock and tanning lotion were interchangeable ideas in my mind. Tanning was inevitable to sun exposure during the long summer months of my youth.

But these essentials were not enough to keep me from getting sunburned. My back- to-school conversations were always awkward and amusing to my fellow classmates who didn't quite understand.

What's wrong with your face?" they would ask.

"It's because I tanned too much this summer," was my response.

My nose would start peeling, scaling. It would turn dark brown, then red, then back to light brown, all in a few weeks; transforming like a bootleg chameleon. Further evidence could be seen through my eyeglasses' tan lines, my face was a major beauty wreck, and there was no way I could hide it! Aside from being a brace face kid, I had to deal with this too. It was before I discovered magic weapons like Bobby Brown's concealer stick in a gazillion shades or Tarte's vegan CC cream. I would just have to deal with people staring at the random pieces of skin hanging from my nose. And, when I responded in defense, "It's because I went tanning; I was in the sun too long." I would get the funniest looks: because of my natural brown skin complexion and their lack of knowledge about black girls who tan.

This winter's polar vortex temperatures were a major skin-party foul for those of us who believe that our skin complexion and the sun gives us energy and brings happiness. The cold weather got so depressing, I desperately needed a pick-me-up. A past romantic interest suggested I go tanning because it would "make me feel better." The idea was very tempting; who wouldn't want to be bronzed during the coldest winter ever! When I mentioned it to a few people, they were definitely confused -- why would I need to go tanning?

Um, didn't you know? Black girls tan, too.

Here, I'd like to take a moment to shed light on the topic of skin cancer, as it is a topic that affects all different races. A recent study found that the 30 percent of white teen girls between the ages of 15-18 used indoor tanning devices. Moreover, melanoma skin cancer is the most common form of cancer among young adults, and one person will die from it every fifty-seven minutes.

People who are genetically born with more melanin pigment are able to withstand the sun's rays better, and their skin is stronger than that of light-skinned people, hence able to ward off cancerous diseases caused by too much sun exposure. These people typically have darker skin complexions. African-Americans, Indians, Latinos and some peoples from the southern regions of Asia all have a greater ability to resist the damaging powers of the sun, (i.e., more melanin), resulting in their being less likely to burn from the sun's rays. Although the risks for blacks and Latinos is relatively low (.01 percent chance of developing skin cancer), there is still the possibility. Moreover, meteorologists are warning that this summer's UV rays are expected to rise due to notable changes in the ozone layer. So, the daily use of sunscreen for any skin type is obligatory.

So this summer, I've made it my personal goal to achieve brown lines. Laying-out as my skin glistens red in the sunset, feeling the warmth of the sun while contemplating what I'm going to wear or what makeup look to experiment with my new shade. I've been meaning to write something like this for a while, to put to rest any stereotypes that exist about skin and black girls who can get dark (er). And, I'm utterly tired of the both false and ignorant stereotypes about different races, specifically black girls. Furthermore, I'd like to stand up for all black girls and be a model representative of how beauty is universal. Because, yes, black girls get dark too. Skin changes, melanin is a cell that increases as the sun's rays hit it! It's a natural effect and darker skin just has more of it!

But on the flip side of this cultural lesson, there are some black girls who prefer not to get dark. I am aware of the self-consciousness that comes with being a dark skinned girl, and I don't want to ignore how being dark skinned has many complexities. Consequently, there are many types of ideologies related to beauty and skin that I really want to believe don't exist in our society, but they absolutely do. However, I hope that that some of these stereotypes carried through with the diaspora of black culture and even used as a way to distinguish blacks in the U.S., are becoming less important as we progress with time.

Furthermore, I'm not ignoring the fact that there are a bunch of blacks who prefer not to tan, I'm just highlighting how there are some black girls who opt out of the nuances related to skin and who really enjoy their nature complexion with a little extra help from the sun.

In fact, growing up I was more self-conscious about my acne than my skin color. My mom (who's super light-skinned, if that makes a difference) use to tell me to "shut up and get a tan," because the acne scars on my face would "blend in with my complexion." I later learned that this was a laughably bad idea, although I hope you understand the point I'm trying to make. I grew up as a fifth generation American; and my mom or family didn't have to tell me every day that I was pretty to enhance my self-esteem. To say that blacks can't get dark because we're already dark is to say there are no shades of sanguine.

And for the black girls who think this is total bullshit, can you explain your obsession with Instagram filters?

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Pic Courtesy of @ChapterXXIII's Instagram


The fact of the matter is, that the sun re-energizes us; warms our bodies after a long winter. Slapping on some Tahitian oil and laying out dressed with your favorite sunnies and bikini, is the cheapest remedy for the winter blues. "I don't want to get too dark" is a popular saying amongst a segment of blacks, but it's not everyone's thinking.

Black girls tan, too. These girls are not one type of people. It's just putting colorism in another category, letting other morals take precedents in one's life. So, whether you choose to Instagram your tan or prefer sitting poolside, tanning is a beautiful thing.

To conclude, I've made it my personal ambition to go to the beach every two weeks. And right now, I'm obsessing over Carol's Daughter Browning Oil as my key to success. Remember to always apply sunscreen to your face and wear a wide brim hat to protect your eyes and prevent extreme discoloration -- especially on your forehead. Turn over every fifteen minutes to avoid irritation because too much exposure could cause nausea. If you're not working on a specific part of your body, I recommend using a heavy oil with SPF 10. Go ahead and try it, you're only a shade away from being perfectly bronzed.

Frock On: How to Dress for Your Shape

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With warm-weather frolics, spur-of-the-moment road trips, and cocktail-fueled seaside adventures ahead of you, your summertime wardrobe should be as full of potential as these long, sunny days are. But in a world of ever-changing trends, knowing what to wear to flatter your body shape can be a bit of a challenge even for the savviest of dressers.

Luckily for you, these tips will flatter and flaunt, whatever your size and shape. From curvy to petite and everywhere in between, I'll have you looking longer and leaner -- no diet required.

Pint-Sized

A pint-sized frame calls for proportion play. If you think high fashion is only for the similarly statuesque, you're mistaken. After all, just because your small, doesn't mean you can't make a big style statement. Most dresses, when tailored properly, are great for women with a petite frame. When choosing the perfect frock, don't be afraid to choose a slim fitting number with a short hemline (think above the knee) to highlight your smaller frame. Avoid bold prints that engulf you and embrace subtle patterns instead. When going voluminous on the bottom (i.e. a full skirt or wide leg pant) make sure you offset it with a sharply tailored top or jacket. When in doubt, go to new heights in a pair of nude heels to create the appearance of impossibly long legs.

Curves Ahead

If your body's dimensions rival a pinup girl's, keep your dress shapes simple, and let your curves take center stage. Get wrapped up in a monochromatic wrap dress that cinches the waist to emphasize what you're workin' with and avoid baggy dresses that make you look like you're wearing a tent. Steer clear of wide belts in high-contrast colors as they visually chop you in half. Instead, try a thin belt in a hue similar to that of your dress.

Finally, when amping up the sex appeal is your goal, reach for a dress with a V-neck or sweetheart neckline. Not only is this style super flattering on any woman with a larger chest, it also helps elongate the torso.

Long and Lean

If you're looking to create womanly curves and add definition to your frame, try transforming your physique by accentuating your middle to create the illusion of a fuller bust and hips. Opt for styles that fit snugly at your middle but flare out at the bottom to create curves. In other words ladies, peplum, and a line dresses are your best friend!

Avoid dresses that are tight all over and anything too unstructured around the waist as it will do nothing to showcase your figure. Wide belts, textures, and plays on color will give a touch more shape to your toned body. But if you're not looking to add va-va-voom curves, a flowy dress will give you soft lines and add beautiful movement to your look. Finally, when looking to elongate your frame, choose a dress with a slightly higher neckline to flatter your broader shoulders.

Whatever your shape is, embrace it. After all, the most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence.

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Teyonah Parris Cried Over Her Natural Hair: It Didn't Look Like 'What I Thought Was Beautiful'

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Natural hair in the black community has been a hot topic for some time, with discussions ranging from its care to the debate surrounding its exclusivity. But one thing we can all say for sure is that not everyone has the same experience with their own manes.

"Mad Men" actress Teyonah Parris stopped by HuffPost Live to dish about her upcoming gigs, like "Dear White People," and took a moment to open up about her personal natural hair story.

Parris described going natural as "a challenge" and said that she had her "aha moment" when she saw a woman on the streets of Harlem rocking her kinky curls. "I said, 'Oh my gosh, I wish my hair could do that,'" Parris recalls.

Once Parris decided to grow out her chemically relaxed hair and wear her natural tresses, she started on an emotional journey towards self-acceptance.

"I cried, I cried. I was not used to seeing myself like that, I did not want to walk outside...My [friend]...had to literally come over to my house and walk me outside because it was such an emotional experience and it wasn't just about hair. It was what my perception of beauty was and had been for all of my life and then I look at myself in the mirror and I'm like, 'That doesn't look like what I thought was beautiful.'"


HuffPost Style also asked Parris if she thought white women belonged on #TeamNatural.

"Natural is natural," she said, mentioning that everyone has their own "natural" hair. "But that is not to take away from the part of our journey that's specific to being a woman of color, and what it means to accept who you are. We tried for a while to measure up to a level of beauty that we see depicted in the media and so I do think that it is a very specific journey and experience for women of color, when you’re natural."

Watch the rest of Teyonah Parris' heartfelt HuffPost Live segment above, and tell us about your natural hair stories.

Philosophy Unveils Hope & Grace Initiative In Support Of Mental Health

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Chances are, you know someone touched by mental illness. You may even experience a mental condition yourself. Not surprising, given the fact that one in four adults in the U.S. -- about 61.5 million people -- will experience mental illness in any given year.

Given how pervasive mental illness is -- and the need to remove stigma around it -- philosophy, the well-being beauty brand known for its uplifting messages, announced today (July 15) the launch of its "hope & grace" initiative. The initiative was announced at a breakfast with speakers including Arianna Huffington, president and editor-in-chief of The Huffington Post Media Group; Jill Scalamandre, senior vice president of philosophy; and actress Glenn Close, co-founder of the mental health organization Bring Change 2 Mind.

Through the initiative, the company will donate 1 percent of sales from products purchased on philosophy.com through the end of this year to community-based mental health organizations.

And starting in 2015, 1 percent of all sales of products -- whether it be retail, online or on QVC -- will be donated to mental health organizations. A first grant of $20,000 has already been awarded to Bring Change 2 Mind.

Today only, for every use of the hashtag #hopeandgrace on social media, philosophy will donate $1 to these mental health organizations.

For more information on the initiative, watch the video below.

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Anna Kendrick Tells Glamour Appearance Has 'Never Been My Moneymaker'

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Anna Kendrick always keeps it real, and her hilariously raw interview in Glamour's August 2014 issue is no exception.

The "Pitch Perfect 2" star is obviously gorgeous, but she doesn't rely on her image to help boost her career, she told Glamour.

“The thing is, my appearance -- that’s never been my moneymaker. I’m fine being small. I’m fine being all the things I am. And I’m happy I’m not supposed to be on the '50 Most Beautiful' list all the time, because that would be super fucking stressful.”

The 28-year-old has been known to emphasize her talents over her looks. As the cover star of Elle magazine's July issue, Kendrick told the magazine that she's never "traded" on her looks. She added, "I think I’m lucky that I’ve never had a crisis about whether the only reason I’m successful is because I’m crazy hot. It’s not something that crosses my mind.”

And if that wasn't proof enough that Kendrick is super down to earth, this is what she says is her biggest celebrity struggle:

“Sometimes I just want to wear the same outfit for three days in a row. And I kind of can’t."

See the vintage-inspired photos from her Glamour spread:

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Read the full Glamour interview with Anna Kendrick, and pick up Glamour’s August issue on newsstands nationwide July 15.

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