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Post-Party Beauty Tips

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New Year's Eve is the world's most popular party night. Just thinking about NYE celebrations conjures up a whirlwind sensory overload, with images of frothy, overflowing champagne, crackling fireworks and happy (albeit messy) times with those we love. However, sometimes, partying so hard means starting the next day feeling less than fresh. Not only can we be left tired and depleted, but our big night out also takes a toll on our skin, hair and bodies. To avoid this, here's a little preparatory guide to help you stay gorgeous and feeling as renewed as your resolutions, despite the late night and fast times.

Oil up:

I love facial oils. In fact, I think applying them is one of the best ways to rebalance and replenish taxed complexions. After a night of drinking and staying up late, our skin is prey to dehydration. Slather your face in a natural, plant-based oil before going to bed to prevent flakes, dehydration lines and break outs. Yep, many of us break out from dehydration, so this quick step helps us bypass blemishes through skin nourishment. When we get home late, its an easy to go to bed without washing your face, but try to fight the urge of passing out in your make-up and cleanse, tone and moisturize with a healing face oil. Your skin will thank you.

Scrub your pores clean: A great way to vivify the morning after is to exfoliate thoroughly. Shed last night's grime through a deep pore scrub, preventing complexion congestion and dullness. Getting rid of dead, excess cells helps your skin look bright and healthy -- no one will ever suspect how little sleep you're truly running on! While dry brushing is an fuss-free way to exfoliate your body, opt for a peel or manual scrub for the delicate skin on your face. Facial exfoliation also helps to stimulate circulation, increasing blood flow. This helps to move lymphs, and will combat post-party puffiness. If using a gentle scrub or exfoliating mask, take a few minutes to do some face massage moves while it absorbs with special attention around your eyes to aid under eye bags.

Ayurvedic hang over remedies:

According to Eastern Medicinal Science, Ayurveda, alcohol is heating and inflaming -- referred to as "Pitta" increasing. This is said to cause heat and acid-related headaches that is usually felt in the temples. While drinking water is essential for rehydrating and reducing inflammation, eating cooling foods, according to this ancient modality, can help you looking and feeling better faster. Bananas, with their creamy, grounding properties are said to be an excellent Ayurvedic hang over snack, along with honey, which helps to detox and aid the digestion of alcohol. An easy-to-make Ayurvedic hang over cure can be made with a squeeze of lime (which supports the liver) in water with a teaspoon of honey, a pinch of salt (helps us retain water/hydration) and grated ginger (which stimulates digestion).

Wash the night right outta your hair:

I'm so glad so many cities have a smoke-free policy for bars and restos, but if some of your besties smoke, you can still come home with smokey-smelling strands. After a good shampoo, a clay hair mask is you best friend. Clay helps purify your skin and absorb smoke odors, so applying a clay-based hair mask will get the stink out of your mane. If you can't find a clay mask for hair in particular, you can use a clay face or body mask, or powdered clay used for clay baths.

If you have the luxury of taking it easy the morning after your big night, a nice long bath. Here, you can soak and sit back with a clay mask in your hair and exfoliating mask on your face, making for intense post-party renewal. Because, as we all know, the best beauty recuperation involves rest and relaxation.

23 Things To Just Do

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There's been an article floating around Facebook over the past few weeks titled "23 Things to Do Instead of Getting Engaged Before You're 23".

As everyone is entitled to their own opinion, the author comments on how so many of her Facebook friends seem to be getting married at such a young age, and how this is not a good choice.

It's not a good choice because you're young, you haven't figured out who you are yet, the divorce rate is increasing and God forbid you contribute to this statistic...

Essentially, life ends with marriage at 23.

Now, in my opinion, there's nothing wrong with being single (and happy about it), but there's also nothing wrong with being engaged, married and/or committed at 23 (or younger). The real problem arises when we judge others' relationships and think: She's engaged so young -- there goes her life; O.M.G. he proposed to her, and they're 21 -- he must be insecure and afraid to take on the world by himself.

For many people, relationships have pushed individuals out of their comfort zone. Their partner has given them the courage they need to reach their goals and try something new.

As much as you should know and love yourself, and have the confidence to achieve things as an individual, is it really so wrong to have your own cheering section? Your parents, your best friend, your dog -- they're always there rooting you on, and I don't see anyone writing about why that's wrong. So, what's the problem with having a significant other on your team too?

And then at the end of the article there's the list -- the list of the 23 things you should be doing instead of getting engaged. It includes things like eating a whole jar of Nutella at once, having a Girls marathon, signing up for CrossFit...

What the eff?

I was ready for a list that would inspire me to pack up my life and start over, and I'm told I should put off marriage to eat Nutella and bake a cake? I was mildly disappointed to say the least.

Disappointed, but also inspired to create my own list. But here's the thing -- you don't need to complete them all before age 23, and you can be married, engaged, single, divorced. I just ask that you have a love for life and a desire to step out of your comfort zone. So here it is --

The 23 things you should just do.

1. Fall in love with yourself -- every wrinkle, stretch mark and pimple.

2. Get a degree/diploma/certificate/etc. in something you love, whether it's accounting, plumbing, environmental science...

3. Challenge your greatest fear. Heights? Do the edge walk. Spiders? Hold a tarantula.

4. Open a savings account and dedicate a certain percentage of each pay check to your savings.

5. Make as many best friends as possible.

6. Get up early on weekdays to learn how to be a morning person.

7. Having trouble finding a job in your field? Volunteer, intern... don't think you're above working for free if you're just starting out.

8. Learn a new language. Travel to a country where it's spoken and put your skills to the test.

9. Find a fitness routine you love for more than just the visual improvements.

10. Get lost in your schoolwork -- spend a term aiming for the Dean's List. Then do it again, and again, and again...

11. Buy a pet. Find enjoyment in training and raising it.

12. What's your skill? Perfect it, then enter competitions and contests to showcase your work.

13. Move into a new place for a fresh start. Search Pinterest for ideas on how to make it your own on a budget.

14. Rock a new hairstyle.

15. Find your soul mate (whether it's a dog, a man, a woman, a hobby).

16. Allow yourself to take a break and relax. Like, really relax.

17. Find a reason to enjoy every season -- learn to ski in the winter, puddle jump in the spring, hike in the fall.

18. Try a new food and use the experience as a conversation starter. Fried grasshopper anyone?

19. Hallmark holidays aren't that overrated -- embrace them and find a way to celebrate no matter what your personal situation may be. Dress up for themed karaoke on Halloween, have drunk brunch with old friends on Easter.

20. Treat yourself to a gift every so often. Spa days, new handbags and froyo are all acceptable and encouraged.

21. Call your parents on a regular basis.

22. Break a bad habit.

23. Most importantly, don't let a blog post tell you how to live your life. There's nothing wrong with being in love and committed to someone at 23.

(This version originally appeared on readunwritten.wordpress.com)

Katrina Owens is a third year Communications student at McMaster University in Ontario, Canada. She's passionate about all things PR, and takes pride in being a young and fashionable professional who can't live without a good yoga sesh. Katrina features her blog posts on Unwritten, and you can follow her on twitter at @KatrinaOwensPR.

Why Dansko Clogs Are Pretty Much The Best Shoes In Existence

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Generally, the phrase "so bad that it's good" isn't one most women apply to their favorite pair of shoes. Yet, somehow I've fallen in love with my Dansko clogs.

Like your average woman who would like her feet to appear dainty and graceful, I was resistant at first, but the allure of shoes that supposedly help with posture and back pain became too hard to resist. I'd talked to way too many chiropractors and health experts to ignore the mounting evidence: Our uncomfortable, ill-fitting shoes are simply not good for our poor bodies.

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To be honest, I'd always been tempted to try on a pair of Dansko clogs. Something about the clean lines and the heaviness of the soles screamed Scandinavian grandma chic (in the best way possible). And since they have a Seal of Acceptance from the American Podiatric Medical Association, I figured their cult-like following couldn't be too off base.

The moment I slipped on my first pair, the black oiled leather clogs, and stood up, I felt as if my entire spine clicked into place. It sounds nuts, but those things are insanely comfortable. I initially purchased them to keep at the office (I have a standing desk), but I'm having a hard time changing back into my most comfortable non-orthopedic shoes. Dansko clogs: 1 million, Fancy designer boots: 0.

Unfortunately, most people don't really "get" them -- my friends have stopped making comments and now just look down at my feet and shake their heads when I wear them. But who cares? If standing up straighter and feeling more comfortable comes at the cost of so-called "style," then I'll take my back-supporting Danskos.

Plus, I still think they look cool in the kitsch, accidental way.

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Could've used a pair of Dansko clogs...


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23 Things to Do Instead of Getting Engaged When You're 23

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I've been noticing more and more people getting engaged and/or married under the age of 23.

I get it.

It's cold outside... you want to cuddle and talk about your feelings... life after graduation is a tough transition... so why not just cut to the chase and get married, right? It's hip. It's cool. You get to wear clothing that wouldn't normally be socially acceptable at the dive bar you frequent with the $5 beers. Eff it. YOLO. YOMO! You only marry once...

Oh wait.

The divorce rate for young couples is higher. Divorce is no longer a staple in a midlife crisis, but rather, something that Seventeen magazine should probably be printing on. Headlines could read,

"How to budget for your prom AND your wedding in the same year!"

"What's HOT: Kids raising Kids."

"Why your Mom doesn't really know what she's talking about."


Because at the age of 22, I have no idea who I am, what I'm doing, and who I'll be doing it with for the next year... let alone for the rest of my life. And that's awesome.

Some day, I want to get married too. I want a floor length dress with a ton of cleavage. I want it to be in Asia, with Ethiopian food, and a filthy scotch selection to calm my nerves when I inevitably start to panic and hyperventilate. But WANT and NEED are two entirely different things. I NEED to develop MY dreams and MYSELF before I can truly be the type of woman you WANT to marry.

What inspired me to scribble down my feelings (so many feelings!) is The Facebook. I'm seeing all of these notifications that "X and Y" have joined in matrimony and instantly, these waves of anxiety start to flow over me. Should I be thinking about marriage? I've never even had a serious boy friend? Is there something wrong with me? WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME AND WHY HAS NO ONE TOLD ME ABOUT IT FOR ALL THESE YEARS!?

But then I look at my life, my relationships, and my future... and I realize that, I'm fucking awesome. It literally isn't me, it's them.

I have begun to notice a common thread amongst all these young unions: inexperience. Inexperience with dating, traveling, risks, higher education, career direction, SEX, solitude, religious exploration, etc... and it's insane that I have already experienced more of the world in the last 22 years than my married peers will ever experience in their life.

I can't help but feel like a lot of these unions are a cop-out.

It is a way for young people to hide behind a significant other instead of dealing with life's highs and lows on their own. It's a safety blanket. It's an admission that the world is just too big and scary to deal with it on your own; thus, you now have someone that is legally obligated to support you till one of you dies or files for divorce.

Which could be tomorrow, because the LGTBQ community isn't ruining the sanctity of marriage, the Kardashian family is.

If your love is truly eternal, what's the rush? If it's real, that person will continue to be committed to you two months from now, two years from now, and two decades from now. Grow, learn, travel, party, cuddle, read, explore. Do. Freaking. Something... other than "settle down" at 23 with a white picket fence.

Because you owe it to yourself. You are a human being that deserves to thrive inside AND outside of a relationship.

We are not our parent's generation. I'm tired of hearing about how "my mom and dad got married young and X, Y and Z" because they were raised with a completely different set of values, priorities, and without the anxieties and adulterous risks that comes with the worldwide web. I'm speaking directly to the Millennials.

Millennials deserve the opportunity to develop ourselves, alone.

I recognize that my opinion is not going to be popular on The Facebook... especially amongst those who fall into the "under 23" category. I would be confused if I didn't receive some sort of online backlash or a loss of friends on The Facebook. Some how... I will move forward.

But in the words of my 15-year-old sister, "Sorry, I'm not sorry."

Sure. Some days I wake up and stare at my ceiling thinking: "I'm single as fuck." But then I realize that those friends are going to get knocked up and fat soon soooo in retrospect, who really is winning here? I'm in China. I'm having the best time of my life. I am responsible for my own happiness.

Please enjoy these 23 things to do instead of getting engaged before you're 23.

1. Get a passport.

2. Find your "thing."

3. Make out with a stranger.

4. Adopt a pet.

5. Start a band.

6. Make a cake. Make a second cake. Have your cake and eat it too.

7. Get a tattoo. It's more permanent than a marriage.

8. Explore a new religion.

9. Start a small business.

10. Cut your hair.

11. Date two people at once and see how long it takes to blow up in your face.

12. Build something with your hands.

13. Accomplish a Pinterest project.

14. Join the Peace Corps.

15. Disappoint your parents.

16. Watch Girls, over and over again.

17. Eat a jar of Nutella in one sitting.

18. Make strangers feel uncomfortable in public places.

19. Sign up for CrossFit.

20. Hangout naked in front of a window.

21. Write your feelings down in a blog.

22. Be selfish.

23. Come with me to the Philippines for Chinese New Year.


The post originally appeared on Wander Onwards.

Jenny McCarthy Debuts Bob Haircut

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Bye bye, long locks. Hello, blond bob!

Jenny McCarthy is embracing a new look for the new year. On Monday (Jan. 6), the 41-year-old debuted her new haircut, first teasing that a big change was in order.




"The View" co-host ultimately decided to forgo the pixie cut trend so popular in Hollywood these days in favor of a chin-length bob.




On "The View," McCarthy revealed that she had decided to lose her hair extensions and go for a shorter 'do in order to "feel more authentic this year."

Matthew McConaughey Was Voted 'Most Handsome' After Struggles With Acne

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Matthew McConaughey, nominated for his first ever Golden Globe award for his performance in "Dallas Buyers Club," says if he wins, it will be the second most prestigious award he holds to his name, after one he nabbed as a high schooler.

Jimmy Fallon has uncovered McConaughey's earliest award; During his senior year of high school, he was voted "Most Handsome."

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Life wasn't always so glamorous though. In an interview with Fallon, McConaughey revealed that he battled a serious case of acne three years before he was awarded his handsome honors. As a pimply teenager, McConaughey says he tried to clear his skin with a new product that his mother was selling door to door -- mink oil.

Unfortunately, the oil didn't "pull out the impurities" as promised, but rather it clogged his pores so badly he developed a case of full-blown acne and was forced to see a dermatologist. McConaughey's doctor said that if he had applied the oil to his face for another two weeks, he would have needed surgery to correct the acne scars. It took him a year of administering Accutane to get his skin under control again.

McConaughey's father then decided to sue, citing his son's "emotional distress." The lawsuit took so long to hit court, however, that it was thrown out when the judge found out that McConaughey, at that point a senior in high school, had recently been voted "Most Handsome" and clearly hadn't suffered any prolonged scarring -- mental or physical -- from the ordeal. McConaughey laughed about the botched suit with Fallon, joking that his father is still a little miffed.

Looks like things have really improved for the star!

Weekly Roundup of eBay Vintage Clothing Finds

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No time to page through thousands of eBay listings? Then just sneak a peek at my weekly eBay roundup of top vintage clothing finds.

This eclectic mix of designer and non-designer vintage clothing and accessories caught my discerning eye because of its uniqueness, contemporary feel and highly collectible nature.

As always, buyer beware! Be sure to read the listings closely and contact the sellers with any questions.

This week's selection includes items by John Kloss, Celine, Guy Laroche, Jacqueline de Ribes, Sant'Angelo and Pauline Trigere. Be sure not to miss the vintage Oscar de la Renta ruffle wrap dress and strapless lace cocktail dress, the 1962 Enid Collins book box handbag and the Victorian winged amethyst brooch.

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PLEASE NOTE that Zuburbia does not endorse the use of fur, feathers, leather or animal skins in fashion. Any of these selections are offered only as more thoughtful and eco-friendly alternatives for contemporary fashionistas who have not yet eliminated animal products from their wardrobes or for collectors who are seeking to preserve these items.

What Does It Feel Like To Go From Physically Unattractive to Physically Attractive?

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This question originally appeared on Quora. Answer by Lyndsey Scott, Model, Actress, App Developer
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I feel as if I'm a pretty extreme case.

Picture of me from middle school:


Picture of me in a Victoria's Secret Show:

And backstage:

I didn't technically start being bullied until my super awkward high school years where I all of a sudden found myself at 5'9" and 89 pounds. I'm still scouring my things for photos from during that time, but they seem to have disappeared somehow.

It's been strange having people regard me at such extremes throughout the course of 15 or so years ... I was a late bloomer. Didn't really start looking like a model until after college. So it's been a rather jarring experience having people see and treat me the way they suddenly do now.

I was bullied and often friendless throughout puberty because people automatically judged me as being someone I was not. Ok, sure ... I'll admit that I've always been a nerd, but I like to think I'm a pretty cool nerd. The difference between then and now though is that back then, they wouldn't give me the chance to show them that I was kinda cool, and now they readily give me a chance ... and are then often disappointed that I'm kind of a nerd.

Same is true now as it was then -- I (like everyone else I'm sure) am judged on sight. But it's nice to now have that perspective rare to the newly beautiful -- the world is a super shallow place, yes, but it's pointless to take their snap judgements too seriously because no one deserves to be treated differently based solely on their appearance.

The perks of being good looking: People offer me a lot more freebies, I make money off of my looks through modeling, strangers talk to me more often, more people listen to me and laugh at my jokes, and I even have the occasional suitor ... all good things.

On the other hand: Would-be catcallers will sometimes skip the compliments and just call me a bitch as I walk by, some women (although very few) are very catty to me from the get-go, and many people are shocked to find out that I'm anything other than an airhead ... that I was a comp. sci. major and that I program iOS apps, for example. Sometimes, it all makes me very, very angry. Sometimes even a complimentary cat-call can make my blood boil. Sometimes, I feel as if I have to prove myself now just as I felt I had to prove myself then. Can't catch a break, I guess.

I clearly take advantage of my looks. I'm a model for pete's sake ... And in general, having beauty and intelligence is super useful during occasions that require me to assert a bit more authority. When I need to feel most powerful, I'll do my hair, throw on a nice outfit, put on a bit of makeup and it helps a disgusting amount. In general, I feel extremely lucky to have been granted this new super-power. But when I'm home and completely myself, when my hair is a mess, when I'm wearing my now broken glasses with the tape in the middle, and I'm up coding at 3 AM, I could give my middle-school self a major run for her money. I have to wonder, why didn't they like me then when I'm still the same person now? Why do they like me now? How do I know that they like me now? Does anyone actually really even like me now?

Some things don't leave you.

More questions on Attractiveness and Attractive People:

Jimmy Fallon Photographed For Vanity Fair, His Reaction Wins Our Votes For 'Most Likable Celebrity'

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With an adorable new baby girl and a career-boosting move to "Late Night," Jimmy Fallon has been hitting all the marks lately, but is the success going to his head?

He was recently featured on the cover of Vanity Fair, another impressive honor, which he publicized on his social media accounts.

Fallon's Instagram description of how he felt about being featured by the magazine shows that he is just as humble as he is funny, and assures fans that even with all this success, he's still the same Jimmy.

Okay - this is one of those - is this happening - moments. As a kid from upstate NY - Vanity Fair is... a major investment. Yes. You know it, all of the big stars are on it - classy, cool and untouchable. I WOULD'NT even dream to be mentioned in it let alone the cover. To spend my money to buy a magazine was a giant deal. (Rolling Stone, Tigerbeat, MAD) But Vanity Fair? That is a down payment. Just BUYING A COPY meant that you know what's up and you are doing well. I remember making that investment and reading and reading and keeping the magazine - like an old book. It was like the actors got a story (not necessarily the one they wanted) but a real story - plus Dominick Dunne murder mysteries - it kindof was a book.I still have some of my favorite magazines (SPIN, Details and Grand Royal (beastie boys fans know what I'm talking about)). To meet David Kamp and know he's writing about me is weird. To have ANNIE LEIBOVITZ take a picture of you is a story alone! These supermodels Alessandra Ambrosio and Doutzen Kroes were in the east river at 7am in December FREEZING in a bathing suit (it's the 50th ann of SI Swimsuit Issue) I was freezing in my suit as well but these guys were troopers. I asked them if they ever looked BAD in anything. They are so pretty. They said of course!! It was then that I realized I could've been a supermodel. Anyway- here I am. On the cover of Vanity Fair and I'm psyched, amazed, shocked and happy. Just so you know. J


That reaction wins him our votes for "Most Likable Celebrity." There's just something so charming about him.



Read Vanity Fair's feature on Fallon here.

The Down Jackets That Won't Make You Look Huge

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The holidays are over, and your pants are finally zipping up normally again. We understand the last thing you want on your body is a big, puffy coat à la the Michelin Man. We also understand that when it's six degrees outside, warmth is the main priority.

Not to worry, these down coats are are sleek enough to flatter your figure and warm enough to protect you from the polar vortex .

The fancy coat: Marc New York Fur Trim Puffer, $290.50 (On Sale!)

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This is a classic take on the traditional down coat, with details like a fur hood and a shape-enhancing belt. Fleece storm cuffs and interior bib provide even more warmth without the bulk.

The sporty coat: Uniqlo Women Ultra Light Down, $69.90

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It's hard to believe there is even down filling in this super light version of the puffer. Not only does it provide a sleek silhouette, it also folds up into an attached pouch. At just under $70, this jacket is perfect for running around town.

The statement coat: Tahari Caroline Pillow Hood Down, $179.90

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Tahari is known for his ability to make down coats look elegant. The large collar makes a serious statement, while the detachable belt gives the coat two different looks.

The colorful coat: J. Crew Wintress Puffer, $268.00

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For a little bit more color, the J. Crew Wintress Puffer in red is just the right amount of bold. With large pockets and a high neck, you'll be just as chic as you are warm in this one.

The classic coat: Patagonia Women's Downtown Loft Parka, $379.00

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Old faithful! Patagonia continues to reign supreme in the outerwear world. This durable coat will stay with you for many freezing winters to come. It's also water repellent, so you can continue perfecting your snow angel game.

You'll probably be needing a hat, too...


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Why Does Bill Nye Wear Bow Ties? 'Science Guy' Explains In Video

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The name Bill Nye is almost as synonymous with bow ties as it is with science.

In fact, America's beloved science evangelist has been wearing bow ties ever since his days as host of "Bill Nye The Science Guy" way back in the 1990s -- and it's difficult to dig up a photo or video of Nye without his trademark fashion accessory.

So what explains Nye's bow tie obsession?

In a rare video interview uploaded to YouTube last September by the Television Academy Foundation, Nye admits that though he began wearing bow ties as far back as high school, he wore a (brace yourself) plain old necktie in the first episode of "Bill Nye the Science Guy." He quickly decided to swap it for the bow. Watch the video above to learn why...

Sarah Jessica Parker Hints At A 'Sex And The City' Reunion In Latest Issue Of InStyle Magazine

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Whip up some cosmos because a "Sex and the City" reunion could become a reality.

In the latest issue of InStyle, Carrie Bradshaw herself, Sarah Jessica Parker hinted at how the "Sex and the City" story may not yet be finished.

"A part of me thinks there is one last chapter to tell," Parker told the magazine. "But timing is a peculiar thing. It isn’t a decision that can wait forever. I don’t want to have to wear muumuus!"

Parker's "Sex" co-star, Kristen Davis also commented on the possibility of a third "Sex and the City" back in December. Davis told Haute Living “I don’t think [a third film] is a pipe dream, there is discussion. People talk about it amongst the people who are the players, but I don’t know if it will come together. It would be very exciting if it did.”

Since there is no official word yet of a "Sex and the City 3" it may be a little early to break out the Manolos, but any hint at more "Sex and the City" is a cause of celebration for fans.

Pick up the February issue of InStyle to read the rest of Parker's interview.

Cosmo and Positive Body Image: When a Stopped Clock Is Right

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I'm not a Cosmopolitan reader. I've rather aged out of their target readership, the words "'rents" and "vacay" set my teeth on edge, and I know plenty of ways to Make Him Moan that I've learned the fun way. There are endless reasons to leave it on the magazine rack: heterocentrism; excellent suggestions for changing yourself in pursuit of a promising lay and, of course, a ring; a parade of tall, slender, white, cis, "perfect" models; "tips for a "killer body image" that largely focus on ways to not want to eat; some seriously questionable sex tips; and, of course, their swell article about "gray rape".



And then there's Cosmo fashion editor Charles Manning, who is both a dude and the fashion editor for Cosmo. In an editorial on the magazine's site, Manning points out that teaching women to "fix their figure flaws" and camouflage their bodies to fit traditional standards of perfection doesn't exactly promote a positive body image.



These stories break the body down into a set of problems that need to be solved, and more often than not, those "problems" have to do with largeness and the "solution" involves creating the illusion of thinness. It's not that I object to making someone look slimmer, if that's what the person wants. I just don't think that should be the goal of fashion. Fashion should be about self-expression and having fun, not how best to obscure your body.



Of course, the language in these stories is always very carefully constructed to avoid judgment-laden words like "fat" or "thin," but that doesn't mean their presence isn't felt. Words like curvy, round or pear-shaped are employed to describe what ultimately still boils down to different versions of "not thin" and the goal becomes "lengthening" and the creation of a "leaner" and "more toned" silhouette. It's still a value judgment, but one that gets delivered in a gentler fashion.



Despite the body-positive message these articles claim to deliver, I worry that stories like these could be doing more harm than good since they validate people's insecurities by framing them as legitimate issues and then suggesting ways to fix them. As if hips and thighs (or whatever parts of the body you are focusing on) are problems that need to be dealt with. Furthermore, making a single page or issue of a magazine (or blog post, for that matter) specifically about addressing people with non-model body types gives the impression that all other content is somehow not also for these same people, which simply is not true. Trends are not body-specific, although they can seem that way when only one body type is used to present them.



(And, for that matter, the same can be said for women whose bodies fall on the thinner end of "perfection," whose figures are labeled "boyish" and who are given tips to create the illusion of "womanly" curves.)



Manning says that showing a more diverse range of body types in magazines -- something he claims Cosmo is trying to do -- is a positive step. And indeed, studies show that seeing a wider range of body shapes in media creates more reasonable and positive perceptions of women's bodies. Manning also says that it's important that magazines and blogs back away from the concept of named body shapes and "figure flaws" to focus on fashions that are just fun to wear, whether or not they make you look taller and thinner. I'm for it.



It doesn't work universally. I can't really shop at Old Navy, not because the clothes don't make me look thin but because even their "curvy" jeans are still straight-up-and-down enough to leave half of my bodacious behind uncovered. And women with the dreaded "apple shape" that Cosmo is so happy to hourglassify often face difficulty finding pants that don't cut painfully into their midsection. Trends may not be body-specific, but clothes certainly can be, and that's up to designers to fix. Some are doing it -- legitimately plus-sized models walked the runway during Mark Fast's show at London Fashion Week in 2010 in clothes that weren't exactly slenderizing but looked like a lot of fun, and Cabiria's showing in fall of this year was the first plus-sized line in New York Fashion Week history.



But magazines can -- and need to -- do their part. Charles Manning, I hate to say this, but you brought it up, so it's on you to get the ball rolling: Less "figure fixing," more fun fashion. Finding yourself pinning the hell out of a dress to fit it on an extremely slender model? Try a larger model. Photoshop creating unrealistic, unattainable images? Stop doing that. Do away, as proposed, with "flaw fixing" features and, while you're at it, advice for "dressing your age." You're the fashion editor of the most-read women's magazine in the U.S. I may not be a huge fan of your content, but as your magazine goes, so goes, to a certain extent, the 18-to-34-year-old female nation. Trends are for everyone. So start one.

Caperton is an advertising copywriter and blogger for feministe.us, where his post first appeared.

How High-Tech Underwear Could Be One Piece Of Technology That Brings Couples Together

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Sometimes with technology, it feels like we can't get it right. We're either frustrated with a device, coveting a newer model, or engaging with it at the expense of our relationships. Technology allows us to stay connected when we're apart, but when it spills into moments of actual, real-time connectedness, it can feel impossible to go back.

The perils of technology on relationships are legion; romantic meals once illuminated by candlelight are now set aglow by smartphone screens, while iPads make for more cozy bedfellows than each other. Hearing the familiar clinking of glass screens in a moment of attempted intimacy usually kills the vibe. But just when we worried we'd soon see smart watches in robin egg blue boxes, one husband/wife tech team created a device designed to bring couples closer.

At the 2014 International CES show in Las Vegas, sex toy company OhMiBod, run by Brian and Suki Dunham, announced an embeddable vibrator that fits snuggly into underwear. Unlike prior iterations that required bulky, indiscreet remote controls (but admittedly, made for great rom-com fodder), these briefs come equipped with a Bluetooth chip, connected to a "blueMotion" massager and controlled entirely with yours or your partner's smartphone using a downloadable app. (If your partner doesn't have iOS or Android, it might be time to insist.)

Using the app, partners can program distinct vibrating patterns, control intensity and speed, and even record phrases and messages whereby the device vibrates to the cadence, speed, and rhythm of their voice. If your partner uses this device to break the news that you "have to visit his/her parents this weekend," you might be more forgiving.

While for now the device requires people be close to one another while using it, OhMiBod hopes that within a year, the technology will develop long-distance capabilities.

We're starting to warm on wearable tech.

[h/t Styleite]

Lacey Wildd Wishes She Had Size QQQ Breasts On 'My Strange Addiction,' Airing Jan. 8 On TLC (PHOTOS)

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At the age of 45, Lacey Wildd is proud to be plastic.

The former showgirl had her first breast augmentation 20 years ago and has increased her bust size far beyond what would be considered normal.

Last year, she wore a Size MMM bra, but she contemplates going up to a Size QQQ on an episode of "My Strange Addiction" airing Jan. 8 on TLC.

Wildd has spent $250,000 to surgically enhance her chest, but her ample bosom sometimes leaves her feeling like a boob.

"You know what's hilarious? I lose stuff in [my cleavage]," she says on the episode. "I had to go and buy the big phone because I would lose my other phone constantly inside there."


Huffington Issue 83: Marijuana Delivery Services, The Essential Men's Style Guide And Delicious Kale Chips

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In this week's issue of Huffington, we travel to D.C., where one family is battling to get their autistic son the education he needs to have a shot at being an independent adult. Over in New York, we look at the marijuana delivery services that are operating so smoothly, you'd never know it wasn't legal. Elsewhere in the issue, find 17 items every man should have in his wardrobe, the secret to delicious kale chips, and much more.

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Download it free in the App Store today and spend a little more time with Huffington.

30 (More) Popular Life Hacks Put To The Test (VIDEO)

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From eating Tic-Tacs the right way to folding a shirt like a boss, the Internet has taught us many, many invaluable life lessons.

But for every brilliant life hack, there are surely plenty of duds out there that simply don't do the trick.

Fortunately for us, Mental Floss' John Green has taken it upon himself to test (and debunk) some popular life hacks -- so we don't have to.

Back in October, Green tested out several life hacks that he'd found on the Internet and this week, he's taking on 30 more.

In the clip above, watch as Green tries to turn a bathrobe into a Snuggie, to open a jar with a tennis ball and to make his own paint with stuff from the kitchen cabinet.

What works and what doesn't? Watch the video to find out.

Jessica Simpson Isn't Letting Fat-Shamers Take Away From 'The Happiest Times In Her Life'

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Jessica Simpson is the latest celebrity mom to speak out against the culture of post-pregnancy fat-shaming.

Redbook magazine featured Simpson on their February 2014 cover in a floral dress. She gave a piece of her mind regarding tabloids in her interview. The mom of two told the magazine:

"I never listen to it, no matter who the press talks about when they're pregnant. It's ridiculous and unfair. I think any woman who is pregnant and creating a life is pretty much entitled to eat whatever she wants as long as she's healthy. I wasn't going to let the media take away from what was one of the happiest times in my life."


Unsurprisingly, Simpson is not alone in that sentiment. Recently, Alyssa Milano issued a classy comeback to comedian Jay Mohr after he criticized the actress for having a "gut."

Kristen Bell has also been outspoken about her post-baby appearance. In an interview with E! News last October, the "Frozen" actress said that she had to stop giving in to the weight fuss: "I had to surrender to not worrying about the way I looked, how much I weighed, because that's just part of the journey of having a baby. I am not a woman whose self-worth comes from her dress size."

Or in Simpson's case, a pair of jeans. She told Redbook that she was criticized for how she looked in a pair of high-waisted jeans.

"What woman wants to be brought down for wearing a pair of jeans?" she said.

Amen to that.

Miley Cyrus Is The Star Of Marc Jacobs' Newest Ad (Sigh)

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Miley Cyrus now has her very own Marc Jacobs ad.

Spotted by the folks at Nylon in the new February magazines, the new ad features Miley and her signature tattoos brooding in Marc Jacobs' Spring 2014 collection. Yes, the voice of "Wrecking Ball" and "We Can't Stop" has officially landed her first high fashion campaign.

As soon as you shake off your shock, remember this: Miley and Marc have been besties as of late, with Marc putting Miley on message tees for skin cancer awareness and gay marriage and Miley, in turn, wearing a glittering Marc Jacobs gown to the 2013 FGI Night Of Stars Gala where she presented the designer with the Superstar Award.

But a full-scale magazine campaign? It's a big deal... almost as big a deal as Miley wearing this much clothing. We're stunned.

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[h/t Fashionista]

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We've Found A Portal To The 1970s And It's This Contemporary Home In San Antonio, Texas

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If you watched "American Hustle" and thought, "Hey, those sets look like they would be awesome to live in," we've got the house for you. This 1972 San Antonio contemporary-style home is basically a portal to the decade that gave us glam rock, disco and "The Brady Bunch." It can be all yours for $335,000.

Listing Agent: Diana Gonzalez
Photographer: Matthew Wingate
Photos via Realtor.com

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1970s kitchen

Hats off to one of our favorite blogs, Retro Renovation, for first bringing this gem to every vintage house lover's attention and expounding on the details we might have missed. For instance, the light fixture in the corner of this room that looks a bit like a fountain:

1970s living room

An eagle-eyed commenter noted that the light was actually a Shower Lite, a product that went through a mini-trend in the 1970s (no surprise there). The suspended light fixture, also referred to as a rain lamp, features a sculpture surrounded by nylon threads. Oil then drips down the threads, creating the look of "rain." A newspaper from 1979 advertises the lamps for $88. Today, you can find rain lamps on eBay for under $300, depending on the designer, manufacturer and condition.

Check our the photos below to see more of this amazing bit of 1970s style. And for an even closer look at the home (along with an incredible number of vintage house tours and decor ideas), be sure to visit Retro Renovation.


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