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All Your Gross Acne Questions, Answered

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Breakouts are like annoying coworkers: Almost everyone has them, and it takes tons of effort to avoid them. But, maybe, life would be a bit easier if we could actually understand them.

70+ Wedding Gowns That Are Even More Beautiful From The Back

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Dazzle your wedding guests from every angle with one of these show-stopping dresses! From angel wings at Claire Pettibone to megawatt sparkle at Watters and draped pearls at Galia Lahav, we're suffering from a major case of whiplash this season.





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By Stefania Sainato for Bridal Guide

Valentino Quotes That Remind Us His Life Really Is That Glamorous

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When we took our seats in the 92nd Street Y's Kaufmann Concert Hall on Tuesday, we could barely contain ourselves for what we were about to witness.

Legendary Italian designer Valentino Garavani had graced us with his presence for an intimate conversation with New York Fashion Week creator Fern Mallis. Dressed in a well-tailored navy suit and his hair perfectly slicked back, the style titan was charming and cunning as he indulged the audience with tales of his illustrious career.

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From what sparked his creative genius (the gowns worn in 1945's "Ziegfeld Follies") to what it was really like designing for Elizabeth Taylor ("She was unbelievable. She was still Mrs. Fisher.") and why couture is a lost art ("What I did and what many of my colleagues did, they don't do it anymore."), Valentino made us respect his talent even more. Plus, we walked away with a notebook full of the icon's best quips.

Here are quotes that prove us mere mortals are kind of like the fashion "emperor."

On his age and being born in 1932:

No don't say it! I don't understand.


On his astrological sign:

They know what they want. I'm proud to be a Taurus. If I have a desire, it has to be immediate.


On being spoiled as a child:

Quite the case. I used to make my shoes custom-made. Since my young, young age I like beautiful things. For me it's very important.


On his first apartment in Paris on Rue de Rennes living in the maid's quarters:

My salary was nothing. My parents used to send me money. I was completely broke!


On 1980s fashion:

...The dresses were out of proportion. The hair was terrible. I hated the shoes.


On his favorite foods:

I'm Italian. I love pastas and rice. I love fish. I eat lots of chocolate.


On Hollywood stars who've worn his designs:

Jennifer Lawrence, Keira Knightley... [these are] many of my friends that I love and adore. Gisele [Bündchen] for me is the top of the top.


On Michelle Obama:

She has the most beautiful arms in the world.


On his longtime partner Giancarlo Giammetti allegedly buying a painting for $9.8 million:

He did that without my approval.


On today's women's style:

I am not so enchanted when I see lots of people dressed in black on the street.


On who would play him in a movie about his life:

I don't know. I need to find an old gentleman.

Austin Mahone: 'I Don't Want To Be That Guy.. Going To Rehab'

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Austin Mahone got discovered the Justin Bieber way: singing hit songs while looking adorable on YouTube. Since then, he's released a slew of addictive pop songs, showed off his smooth moves in the hit "Banga Banga" music video and toured with the likes of T-Swift.

Now, the 18-year-old star's gracing the cover of December/January's Teen Vogue (and finally addressing all the gossip about his boo, Camila Cabello).

Scroll down to read some of the most quotable moments from Mahone's interview and see his James Dean-esque cover shots. Pick up the issue when it hits newsstands on Dec. 2 and head over to TeenVogue.com for more.

On his girlfriend, Camila Cabello...

"I wasn't looking for a relationship, but we became really good friends when we were on tour. She's an amazing girl, and we have the best time together."

On staying sane in the face of fame...

"It's all about the team you hang out with. My friends, they're all cool, they're all clean. I don't want to be that guy who is having problems and going to rehab. I am focused on the music."

On his mom supporting his career...

"It is probably the coolest thing a parent could do—to have hope and faith in what I'm doing. I felt a lot of pressure on me and was like, OK, I definitely have to go hard now. I gotta be the man of the house and make the money and provide for my family."

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E!'s Catt Sadler: The Context Of Kim Kardashian's Paper Mag Cover Makes It Art

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Before knowing the story behind Kim Kardashian's scandalous Paper Magazine cover, Catt Sadler was skeptical.

"The truth is, if I'm really speaking truthfully, at first I was probably like anybody else," the E! News correspondent told HuffPost Live on Tuesday. "I was like, 'Oh no, really? Really really?' I gasped for air.'"

The photoshoot, which featured a fully naked Kardashian, sparked outrage across the web and even in Hollywood. "Glee" star Naya Rivera left Kim K a comment on Instagram to express her disapproval of the revealing image, writing "you're somebody's mother."

But it was when Sadler learned how the Paper spread was conceived that she realized she was actually a fan of the daring project.

"They were at Paris fashion week, and she was with this famed photographer and everybody left the room -- all the publicists and entourage and whatnot -- and it was really about recreating this artistic moment," she explained.

Looking at the photos with this newfound context led Sadler to see that the pictures weren't, in fact, "overtly sexual."

"It felt very whimsical and it looks very tongue-in-cheek and very fun," she said. "This isn't Playboy. It's more just fun."

And what's most important is that Mrs. Kardashian-West is comfortable with the revealing shots, Sadler affirmed.

"At the end of the day, I mean, say what you will, haters gonna hate, but if she feels good about it, then good on her," she said.

Watch more from Catt Sadler's HuffPost Live conversation here.

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Scarlett Johansson Hits The Red Carpet With Twin Brother Hunter

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Scarlett Johansson hosted a fundraising event on Tuesday night and she chose a very special date for the occasion. The "Her" actress hit the red carpet with her twin brother, Hunter Johansson, at the Champions of Rockaway Hurricane Sandy Benefit in New York City.

Johansson, who welcomed a daughter, Rose, with fiance Romain Dauriac in September, wore a sophisticated black and blue crepe dress by Proenza Schouler for the event; her brother looked dapper in a black suit:

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The 29-year-old told Us Weekly that she opted to bring her brother to the event because of their strong affinity for New York, as they both grew up there and witnessed the Sept. 11 attacks as teenagers.

"Seeing the city shaken once more [by Hurricane Sandy], it was totally totally shocking for the people that were living here. Two years later, people are feeling huge effects of this devastating loss," she told Us Weekly.

Proceeds from the event supported Giants of Generosity and Friends of Rockaway, charity organizations that work to rebuild homes for more than 200 families still awaiting assistance following the 2012 hurricane.


We're Girl Crushing On Aurora James, Creative Director Of Brother Vellies, And So Should You

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There's no denying Brother Vellies' cool factor. The company's shoes and sandals are handmade in South Africa, Kenya and Namibia, while boasting eye-catching designs like denim-and-holographic leather sandals and Springbok desert boots. And after I had the pleasure of meeting the brand's founder/creative director, Aurora James, it became even more apparent why these shoes are so dope.

James, who hails from Toronto but now calls Brooklyn home, is the type of gal you instantly want to befriend. One look at her Instagram feed and you'll be awestruck by her down-to-earth beauty and style, as well as her love for travel and nature. In short, the former model agent and curator just oozes awesomeness.

With that said, I thought it's only right that we learn a bit more about James -- What's her beauty regimen? Who or what inspires her designs? What are her must-have travel items? She answers all those questions and more. Check it out...

HuffPost Style: I love your cool and causal approach to style. How would you define your personal style? Any favorite designers or inspirations?

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Aurora James: My focus is really about being comfortable in what I’m wearing. A lot of what I wear is vintage or from designers I have relationships with. I enjoy knowing where things come from and that extends to most of what I put on my body. The hat I’m wearing in this photo was handmade by Dani Griffiths (a fellow Canadian) its from her line, Clyde. The necklace is Mikuti, and was made in Kenya. The dress is vintage and my wool socks are from a place called Canadian Tire, they sell them in the construction section in packs of 12 and I’ve grown up wearing these gems. Jane Birkin is definitely an inspiration of mine, she always looks wonderfully effortless. I reference really great editorials from past Vogue issues as well, there is nothing more iconic to me than certain fashion editorials.


HPS: Judging by this picture, your trips to Africa must be grand. What's the best part about working with artisans from the continent?

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AJ: I am constantly enamored by the beautiful things some of the artisans I work with create. For every day spent somewhere like Giraffe Manor, there are 2 days spent in places like Kibera. I think there is a popular misconception that the streets in Kenya are just lined with all of these amazing artisans making traditional, cultural goods, which is far from the truth. You really have to seek out these people.


HPS: Do you just wake up like this? If not, please tell us how you achieve such a glowing complexion and amazing hair. In other words, what is your beauty regimen?

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AJ: My secret weapon for skin was passed on to me from my grandmother. Every morning before my feet even hit the floor, I chug 1 liter of water. For moisturizers, I swear by Origins A Perfect World with SPF 25 and RMS Beauty’s Raw Coconut Cream. For my lips, I’m a Nivea Cream addict - there is nothing better. In Winter I will alternate with cocoa butter also. I only use sulphate free shampoos and conditioners on my hair - I noticed a HUGE difference when I switched about a year ago and I wash my hair no more than once a week. I aim for every 10 days and I leave washing it to the pros. When I’m in Morocco I typically buy large bottles of pure argan oil, which I love for conditioning my hair and adding to my baths. If I’m suffering from flat hair I’ll add a couple spritzes of Balmain texturizing salt spray -- Bam!


HPS: These knee-high gladiators for your Spring 2015 collection are amazing. Tell us about your design process and what inspires you.

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AJ: I usually design 90 percent of the collection while I’m on the ground in Africa. I’ll have lots of ideas and references before I get there but it's usually in the individual countries themselves that the collection takes shape. A lot of my inspirations come from natural materials - wood, plants, animals, linen, indigo. I love nature and I like to think our connection to the earth always shines through in the items we make. The artisans and their skills are also really inspiring. The beading on the gladiator was done by women for whom beading is their first and only source of income. We worked on the design together referencing traditional Maasai beading and it was such a pleasure.

HPS: The Brother Vellies adult shoes are dope, but they become beyond adorable when shrunken down for your children's collection. And we heard there is an extra special project centered around Brother Vellies Minis -- can you tell us about it?

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AJ: I think everything is cuter when it's mini, isn’t it?! We haven’t started shrinking our sandals yet, but I think that's next! We use some of the proceeds generated from Minis sales to help pay for our artisans kids to go to school. Customers can also send back gently worn Minis that are then given to a child in need in the communities where our workshops are located.

HPS: Who's this little guy?

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AJ: That’s Cupid! He’s been with me through a lot and is my best little friend. He’s from LA.

HPS: We've never seen you in a pair of pumps. If we had a closet full of BVs then that's all we'd wear too. But do you ever wear heels?

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AJ: Great question, I do! I did once this year, at a Morgan Lane event, I felt like it was appropriate. So yes, on one occasion in 2014 I wore heels. :)

HPS: Do you really have a hammock in the backyard of your Brooklyn apartment? If so, can I come over and chill in it?

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AJ: Yes! I felt like the hammock was necessary. In the summer I can get in there, close my eyes and feel the sun which is amazing. Julee, you’re always welcome! Bring fruit!

HPS: You often proclaim your love for socks. Are there any companies that other sock lovers should have on their radar?

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AJ: I think the best socks are hand knit, wool socks. There is a Native American shop on the strip in Venice Beach that sells amazing socks. You will never ever regret buying a pair of those. I did a collaboration with The Selby where we had epic wool socks made, I’m thinking of bringing those back. You can never have enough wool in general - especially in this weather!

HPS: Since you're a world traveler, what are your top must-haves when on the go?

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AJ: A poncho is a great travel companion actually. A good alpaca wool poncho will keep you warm, act as a great blanket on the plane and an ideal throw for a picnic spread. Other musts are a classic pair of Brother Vellies Erongos, they’re collapsible so they fit in a carry-on perfectly and I wear mine with everything which everyone on my Instagram is bearing witness to! Luisa Marie Fernandez also makes the best swimsuits, which are a must, because you never know when you’ll end up in the ocean.

HPS: What's next for Brother Vellies?

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AJ: We’re opening a store at 4 Fulton Street in lower Manhattan on Black Friday (November 28). It's a temporary space in the South Street Seaport but I’m elated about it. I think the brand is very environmental so building out our own space is a dream. I’ve been spending a lot of time upstate searching out salvaged materials for the space. Its going to smell like my favorite things -- wood, leather, sweetgrass and coffee. I think the trick will be figuring out the line between enough plants and too many plants. Julee, I might need you to come by for a second opinion!



Cara Delevingne Remains the Most Talked About Model on Social Media

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Social media is an essential part of the business of fashion week not only for designers, but for models as well. Anyone with an Instagram account and Wi-Fi connection can attest the Spring 2015 shows were all about bringing the live runway experience to an iPhone screen near you-- from the backstage chaos to the more groundbreaking live runway videos. And while every model contributed her fair share of candid snaps this past show season, it appears there was one catwalker in particular, who ruled supreme: Cara Delevingne.

As reported by WWD, according to a new study by London-based retail tech firm Editd, the British supermodel was the most talked-about model on blogs and Twitter channels during the most recent Paris Fashion Week -- a feat that was no doubt fueled by news regarding her signature thick, dark eyebrows. Followers will remember waking up to a global gasp that resounded throughout the webosphere after the model/actress bleached her bold brows for Riccardo Tisci's Givenchy show. The headlines ranged from the suggestive, "Cara Delevingne Got Rid of Her Famous Brows for Givenchy," to the more extreme, "Cara Delevingne Bleached Her Eyebrows and the World No Longer Makes Sense" (BuzzFeed). Of course, that's not to say that holding hands with Kate Moss in the front row at Burberry' or leading the charge in Karl Lagerfeld's mock feminist protest didn't help her capture 24 percent of the cyberspace buzz-- Rosie Huntington-Whiteley (22 percent) and Karlie Kloss (14 percent) rounded out the second and third spots.

But what makes Cara so special?

"She's real, and people can relate to her," said Wendy Rowe, makeup artist and creative consultant for Burberry, the label for which Delevingne is a face. "She doesn't make things unachievable."

In addition to earning high-profile campaigns with Chanel, DKNY, Mulberry and Topshop among others, Cara increased her profile with the cover of Vogue magazine's all-important September issue, a beauty campaign co-starring Kate Moss and most recently, a third BFA Model of the Year nomination. As for her growing list of IMDB credits, the model/actress proved that she's more than just a pretty face, earning starring roles in "Paper Towns" "London Fields" and most recently, the upcoming Amanda Knox biopic, "Face of an Angel," all the while keeping us entertained one goofy face at a time.

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Advice on Kids' Hair: 'You Want to Do What?'

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By Gina Rivera, Phenix President, Founder and Hair Expert

When I was a little girl, all of us had bangs. That's what our parents chose.

Times have changed and I think that's a good thing, particularly for our kids. I'm inclined to let my kids chose the hair they want, with a few exceptions that have never even been an issue. I think that letting them decide about their own hair is better for them, which is truly the point.

So much of life is about learning to deal with change, to see that it can be a really good thing and that typically whatever changes can change again.

That could hardly be more true than it is for hair, making it a great place to experiment and experience change without big, irreversible consequences. Whatever we do to our hair, it's never permanent. Also, changing hair is not particularly expensive. It certainly doesn't need to be.

Culture has opened the door to different styles for children, many of them approaching what adults wear.

You may be bucking at the notion of letting your children chose but let's look at a couple of examples:

• Eddie is 12. He wants a Mohawk. That's not uncommon, and you may be fine with that. More likely, though, you cringe at the image. Instead of saying "No way!" consider suggesting, "How about we try a fauxhawk? We can do that right now." A fauxhawk is a far less aggressive style that's very trendy and cool, and one that can easily adjust to more traditional cuts.

• Susie is 16. She wants to shave one side of her head. You freak. My suggestion: quietly take a deep breath and say something like, "Oh, wow," confirming your surprise, part of what Susie may be hunting for. "Google it and show me some photos of what you want to do." You didn't say, "no!" and what may evolve is something acceptable and even quite beautiful. The discussion may open the door to other more important topics.

Here is where I draw the line: your child's school may have restrictions, and I'm not in favor of young kids getting their hair colored, particularly with permanent and semi-permanent treatments that involve harsh chemicals that can irritate their skin, force them to sit for a long time and cost a lot of money. Don't lead with these as your first reaction to your child's request.

Here are some other places where I 'draw the line' for my children. They need to exercise good sportsmanship, they need to be respectful of others, they need to do their best in school. With those things in place, any request for a different hair style seems far less threatening.

If I am planning to say, "no," I try to present options and compromise. Meeting your kids half way helps them learn about compromise and demonstrates that you have faith in their ability to make decisions. If they get their haircut and don't like it, don't say, "I told you so!" Find a way to help them, remind them that change is still a good thing and that most of what we change can easily change again.

Social Experiment Reveals How People React When Domestic Violence Happens In Public

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Even when domestic violence comes out from behind closed doors and into public spaces, people still hesitate to intervene, according to a new social experiment video.

A Swedish video published by the group STHLM Panda created a social experiment in which male actors pretended to verbally and physically abuse their presumed girlfriends in a public elevator.

Over the course of two days of filming, the eye-opening social experiment captured multiple people witnessing domestic violence and not intervening.


Press the settings button on the bottom right of the video to turn on English subtitles.

“You're nothing, you understand? You're worthless!” one actor yelled at the actress while he pinned her against the wall.

Another actor pushes the actress into the wall and yells "I will kill you, I will f***ing kill you."

Surprisingly, one bystander even asked the couple: "Excuse me, can you let me get out of here before you do that?"

Out of the 53 people STHLM Panda says rode the elevator and saw the abuse take place, they say only one woman said something. “I’m gonna call the police if you touch her again," the onlooker said to the actor.

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Co-creator of YouTube group STHLM Panda and actor in the video Konrad Ydhage told The Guardian they made the video to "test domestic violence and violence in close relations and to see if people react when they really need to.”

Ydhage added that they were expecting a lot more people to do something, telling The Guardian: “We were expecting that about 50 percent would intervene. I was prepared to take a hit by the bigger lads who entered the lift. But sadly enough they walked out on the girl.”

Ydhage and the group say they spoke with most of the people who rode the elevator. "Most of them said they felt ashamed of themselves for not reacting and said they were glad it was an experiment," he told The Independent. "Some people claimed they were going to call the police, but we think that that is lie. We filmed it over two days and the police never showed up once."

While only one person intervened in the elevator, it's difficult to determine how many people planned to alert the authorities, though the creators say some of the elevator riders claimed they were going to.

Although it's shocking that only one person attempted to stop the abuse, Kim Gandy, President and CEO of the National Network to End Domestic Violence, told The Huffington Post in an email that she would not recommend physical intervention for a bystander, woman or man, "as it may place the victim in greater jeopardy."

"Nonetheless, intervention is extremely important," Gandy said. "And you have to make your own determination of safety and level of intervention (for example, you might do something different if you are alone than you would if your children were with you), whether it is disrupting what is happening (asking for directions, asking what time it is), telling the abuser 'I see what you are doing and it is wrong,' or simply calling 911 right away. Any of these could save a life."

H/T Mic

10 Celebrity 'How We Met' Stories That Will Warm Your Cold, Cynical Heart

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There are plenty of celebrity couples who have gotten together after playing romantic leads (Brangelina, anyone?) But it doesn't always take a multi-million dollar picture or a glamorous Hollywood party for celebrities to fall in love. In fact, some stars have "how we met" love stories based on random coincidences that are almost too sweet to believe. Here are some of our favorites:


1. Actress Carey Mulligan and singer Marcus Mumford were childhood pen pals.

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In a story so perfectly mushy, not even Nicholas Sparks could have written it, Mulligan and Mumford were childhood pen pals who lost contact. After they each became famous, they met again as adults. They fell in love, of course, and were married.


2. Matt Damon met his wife, Luciana Barroso, at a bar on Miami Beach. She was the bartender.

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Damon met his wife, Luciana Barroso, at a bar on Miami Beach in 2003
, where the star was filming "Stuck On You." A few crew members convinced a reluctant Damon to go out for a beer. He almost refused. Once he saw Barossa, who was working as a bartender, he was smitten. They married in 2005. He says, "The moral is that when you're tired, suck it up and go to the bar because you might meet your wife."


3. David Beckham fell in love with wife Victoria when he saw her in a Spice Girls music video.

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Though the two first met at a Manchester United charity match back in 1997, David has confessed to falling in love with Victoria at an earlier date -- when he saw her in the Spice Girls' music video for "Say You'll Be There." He recalls thinking, "That's the girl for me and I'm going to get her! She's my idea of perfection. I knew that if she wanted me, we would be together forever."


4. Patrick Dempsey met his wife, hairstylist Jillian Fink, when she cut his hair.

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"Grey's Anatomy" star Patrick Dempsey met his wife, Jillian Fink, when he scheduled a haircut at the salon where she worked. Fate met great hair styling: They married, and she still cuts his hair today.


5. Kate Moss met rocker husband Jamie Hince thanks to Google.

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Moss told Vanity Fair that she met The Kills drummer thanks to a random Google search. She said, "I was at my friend's house in the South of France, and we were Googling men. And I went, "Ooh, I like the look of him." Guess he liked the look of her, too; the pair were hitched in 2011!


6. Michael Caine saw Shakira Baksh in a Maxwell House coffee commercial and fell in love.

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Michael Caine saw Shakira Baksh in a 1971 television ad for Maxwell House coffee. He was so taken with her that he was prepared to fly to Brazil, where the commercial was shot, to find her. Luckily, she happened to live a mere mile away, and a mutual friend connected the two.


7. Talent agent Jim Toth met wife Reese Witherspoon while apologizing for his drunk friend who had been hitting on her.

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Toth met Witherspoon at a party while apologizing for his very drunk friend who had been hitting on the actress. Witherspoon apparently forgave the faux pas-- enough to eventually marry the talent agent!


8. "Grey's Anatomy" star Ellen Pompeo and music producer Chris Ivery met at the grocery store.

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Their story is heart-warming (or terrifying, depending on how many times you have personally gone to the grocery store in pajamas and missed the chance to meet your one true love). Four years after bumping into each other at a Los Angeles grocery store, the pair married.


9. Cynthia Nixon met future wife Christine Marinoni at a political rally.

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According to the New York Daily News, the "Sex and the City" actress met future wife Christine Marinoni while attending a political rally about education budget cuts. At the time she was with partner Danny Mozes, and had never been with a woman. Of falling in love with Marinoni after previously dating only men, Nixon says "It wasn't something in me that was waiting to come out. It was like, this person is undeniable. How can I let this person walk by?"


10. Scar Jo and Romain Dauriac met through their tattoo artist, Fuzi Uvtpk.

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It was love at first tat! According to Glamour, Scar Jo met Romain Dauriac through tattoo artist Fuzi Uvtpk. Apparently, the tattoo artist gave Johanson a tattoo of a horseshoe and the message "Lucky You," and Dauriac a tat that read "Lost Illusions."

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Empower, Inspire, and Uplift: Changing the Face of Beauty and Confidence

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When you were a newborn infant, all that mattered to you was to be in the safety of your mother's protective arms. When you were five, your life revolved around dolls, tree houses, and stuffed animals. When you were ten, it was all about play-dates and hanging out with your best friends. Now you've reached the tender age of fifteen -- that awkward, in-between stage of adolescence and the teenage years that is filled with uncertainty, heartbreak, joy, and stress -- a lot of stress, where boys, high-school drama, and your figure soon become your obsessions.

Whereas once before you were in the tiny, protective bubble that your parents created, you now find yourself immersed in the technological age where social media dominates pop culture. From countless TV ads to magazine spreads to the photos that flood your Instagram feed, each opportunity the media can get its hands on to exert its influence on your susceptible perception, it will. This constant exposure to the ongoing social media stream does not bode well for your emerging self-confidence, and you can only handle all of this up to a certain point, at which you crack and fall victim to the "comparison trap" the moment you pass your tolerance level.

With fashion campaigns featuring stick-thin models, beauty campaigns depicting flawlessly airbrushed faces, and billboards illustrating professionally photo-shopped bodies, society has convinced us to believe that there is a certain standard out there that we should all hold ourselves up to. And judging by the conversations that people are having, which seem to constantly revolve around weight and dieting, the media clearly emerges as victorious in this game of mental warfare. With a click of the button and a flip of the page, we are presented with commercialized ideals of how we are supposed to view something. We should not judge ourselves and our worth based on what society advertises as the "ideal" image -- we are all so much more than that. Beauty is an intangible concept that can be interpreted in a multitude of ways, and its definition varies based on the subjective observations made by the beholder. There is no rule in any handbook that outlines the criteria that determines what is considered beautiful and what is not; it is entirely up to the observer.

What are we portraying to our family, friends, and children when we engage in this self-abusive mental behavior in which we find ourselves trapped in a vicious cycle of self-loathing and discontent? If we cannot possibly accept ourselves for the unique individuals that we are, then how can we communicate to those we love that they are worthy of our love? Regardless of how much you weigh, how tall you are, or what you look like, none of that matters in the grand scheme of things, because what really gets people's attention is the way you present yourself and your values.

What is it about human nature that we revel in the feeling of tearing each other down where, in actuality, we should be building each other up? What do we get from comparing ourselves to others and belittling them for not being skinny enough, tall enough, or toned enough? Rather than engender harsh criticism, it is time we look to empower, inspire, and uplift each other. Beauty and confidence come from within, so if you constantly live to try to please others or to try to change and fit in with the current trend, you will lose who you really are. Don't let social standards or a set of numbers determine your perception of your body image or your confidence. When you believe in yourself, you will be surprised by what you see. You will radiate pure happiness, confidence and real beauty, and you will realize that beauty is more than just a number or a standard.

Reese Witherspoon Goes To Bat For Renee Zellweger, Will Have None Of That Face-Shaming

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Reese Witherspoon, Julianne Moore, Patricia Arquette, Amy Adams, Laura Dern, Hilary Swank and Felicity Jones recently sat down with The Hollywood Reporter for the magazine's third annual actress roundtable. When the group breached the topic of the commentary surrounding Renee Zellweger's appearance, Witherspoon didn't mince words.

"It's horrible. It's cruel and rude and disrespectful, and I can go on and on and on. It bothers me immensely," Witherspoon told The Hollywood Reporter:

I know this is so Pollyanna of me, but why -- and it's particularly women -- why do they have to tear women down? And why do we have to tear other women down to build another woman up? It drives me crazy. Like, this one looks great without her makeup but that one doesn't look good without her makeup, and it's all just a judgment and assault that I don't -- look, men are prey to it as well. I just don't think it's with the same sort of ferocity.


The actresses, who have starred in some of the year's best films, also chatted about the dearth of interesting female roles as well as the nude photo hackings that rocked Hollywood earlier this year.

"I feel really strongly that there's nothing deviant about two lovers sharing sexual intimacy. That is normal," Patricia Arquette said of the photo hacks. "It's been happening since the beginning of time. Through any different medium. We had paper. Before that, we met behind the bush. You know?"

"What is deviant is when a community decides that they can break into your sexuality, steal that from you, insert themselves, observe your private sexuality ... I feel like we're teaching our children social values," she continued.

Arquette went on to say that she encountered much victim-blaming when discussing the hacked photos, especially from other women who called the actresses "stupid" to have taken the photos in the first place.

"That society thinks it's okay [to hack the photos], that it's their fault -- that's deviant. That's what we're teaching our kids, that if somebody messes up or does what they want in their private life, they're stupid and you can, basically, communally molest them," she said.

Arquette's comments echo Jennifer Lawrence's feelings about the invasion of privacy: "Just because I'm a public figure, just because I'm an actress, does not mean that I asked for this. It does not mean that it comes with the territory," Lawrence told Vanity Fair in October. "It’s my body, and it should be my choice, and the fact that it is not my choice is absolutely disgusting. I can’t believe that we even live in that kind of world."

She added, "Anybody who looked at those pictures, you’re perpetuating a sexual offense. You should cower with shame. Even people who I know and love say, ‘Oh, yeah, I looked at the pictures.’ I don’t want to get mad, but at the same time I’m thinking, I didn’t tell you that you could look at my naked body.”

For more, head over to The Hollywood Reporter.

Imitation Is the Sincerest Form of Flattery

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In finding my own personal style and aesthetic, I have picked up a couple tips and borrowed looks from a few ladies along the way. In coming into my own, I have learned through imitation (both subtle and not).

Jane Birkin: A white t-shirt paired with light flared jeans makes the perfect boating or day at the beach outfit
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Nora Ephron: You can never have too many black turtlenecks
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Man Repeller: How do you dress Parisian anytime, anywhere? Stripes!
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Emily Weiss: How to die your bleached blonde hair back to its natural color
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Jenna Lyons: How to cuff your sleeves
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Caroline de Maigret: The white t-shirt
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Kate Moss: That simple 90's spaghetti strap dress is always a good idea
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Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen: Vintage- and not just the stragglers in the back of your mother's closet.
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Ashley Olsen in vintage Dior & Mary-Kate Olsen in vintage Chanel at the 2013 Met Gala

There Are Serious Deals On Home Goods At Kohl's This Black Friday

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The store: Kohl's

The time: Kohl's is one of the stores starting its Black Friday sales early, both in stores and online. Sales begin at 6 p.m. nationwide in Kohl's stores on Thanksgiving Day. Online, the deals start on Monday, November 24 through Black Friday at 3 p.m. Central Standard Time.

The standout deals: Kohl's is offering shoppers:
  • $15 in "Kohl's Cash" for every $50 spent from Monday, Nov. 24 through Sunday, Nov. 30.

  • Customers can sign up for "Yes2You Rewards," a new program that allows customers to earn one point for every dollar they spend and receive a $5 rewards for every 100 points.

  • Select toys will be 50 percent off.

  • A trivia game! Kohl's will be hosting a "Black Friday Twitter Trivia" event. Starting on November 24 and though Black Friday, the brand will tweet out trivia questions for people with correct answers to be entered to win a $500 gift card. Be sure to use hashtags #BlackFriday and #KohlsSweeps.


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We Buy An Obscene Amount Of Clothes. Here's What It's Doing To Secondhand Stores.

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Many of us can't get enough of "fast fashion" -- hyper-trendy clothing that moves from catwalk to retail floor at breakneck speed. While this is great for you rarely having to wear the same outfit, there are some serious implications of consuming clothes in ever-increasing volumes. What happens when you're sick of your bedazzled loafers or upset that your $10 jeans are starting to wear out?

You likely turn to thrift shops. But are all of our discarded novelty tees and color-block cardigans really doing our favorite secondhand shops any favors? We set out to answer that question.


Thrift shops receive more clothes than they know what to do with.

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We love getting new stuff. According to the Council for Textile Recycling, the U.S. generates around 25 billion pounds of brand-new textiles per year (around 85 percent of that eventually heads for landfills). Goodwill, Salvation Army and other secondhand stores get the remaining 15 percent, which certainly adds up.

One New York City Salvation Army store received about five tons per day in 2012. Last year, Salvation Army locations across the country took in 80 million pounds of clothing overall, according to Tim Raines, marketing manager for the organization. While stores aren't exactly complaining -- there are other avenues for excess textiles than resale stores, after all -- the sheer volume of discarded, yet still wearable, fashions illustrates the way we view clothing these days: totally disposable.



Many of those clothes are items that were on-trend as recently as last season.

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"You get a clear sense of the overconsumption prevalent in most of the United States by frequenting thrift stores," Susan Choi, who operates an Etsy shop for vintage clothing, told The Huffington Post. "It's common to find items that were in trend only a year or two ago," she wrote, "and a vast quantity of them."

Maybe we just can't help ourselves because clothing has gotten so insanely cheap. Back in 1901, the average household might spend 14 percent of its annual income on clothing, and now it's just over three percent. It makes more sense for us to buy new instead of repairing or altering our old stuff -- indeed, between 1900 and 2013, tailors in the U.S. declined from nearly 230,000 to just 21,400.

Erick Martinez of ARC Thrift Stores says that from the operations side, that's both a blessing and a curse. "Today's fast fashion does tend to show its wear sooner," he said.



When there are too many clothing donations, items are turned into rags or end up in landfills.

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As much as 80 percent of all donations to charity thrift stores are reclaimed by textile recyclers for use as wiping rags or polishing cloths, the executive director of Secondary Materials and Recycled Textiles (SMART), a trade organization, told NPR. Unsurprisingly, the rag industry is a booming -- and cutthroat -- business that doesn’t totally behoove the secondhand industry. Certain street-side bins and for-profit used clothing recycling ventures take donations that may otherwise have gone to thrift stores, so items head to the shredder instead of the racks.

To be fair, the rag industry also helps thrift shops. Even if donations can't be sold in their stores, at least the organization may profit slightly by selling them for other uses and, in the case of charities, pass on that revenue to people in need. In 2013, the U.S. exported about 860,000 tons of secondhand apparel to other countries, according to Department of Commerce stats. It typically gets packed into large bales, sorted by the condition it's in and sold at markets -- sometimes for more than the U.S. thrift store asking price.



Fast fashion is even competing with thrift stores.

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Some stores say an influx of recent trends helps them remain relevant in the eyes of consumers. But when customers can buy new and even more current styles for around the same price as used, why go thrift shopping at all?

"Forever 21 is not great news for us," Bill Gover, vice president of merchandising and production at the NYC-based Housing Works, told HuffPost. In fact, such stores are competition. Many fast fashions end up at the organization's warehouse where, for $25, customers pack whatever they can into a bag. (Goodwill has a similar operation in Texas, where excess clothing is sent to Goodwill's Blue Hangar store where customers sort through massive bins.) To compete, Gover explained, he's trying to teach employees to look out for "on-trend" vintage -- older items that line up with current fashion trends and can fetch a slightly higher price because they're better made.

Elizabeth Cline, author of “Overdressed: The Shockingly High Cost Of Fast Fashion," lamented that, no matter the manufacturer, our view of clothing needs to change. "No matter where consumers shop, even if it's an H&M," Cline told The Huffington Post, "I think the key is not thinking of clothing as disposable. Clothing has a life cycle and we have to take responsibility for it."


4 Fashion Apps You Need To Know About

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It's easy to get a quick fashion fix on your phone, but a full-on sartorial experience is more difficult to come by. But there are a few apps out there that will make your life so much easier. We spent time researching and trying out different ones and came up with a list of four that you've got to try.

You may get addicted, so consider yourself warned.

The App: Shop It To Me

How it works: In short, this apps notifies you when items from brands you like go on sale in your size. Users fill out a profile with their clothing and shoe sizes and select brands they like (from a list of over 860); whenever an item goes on sale, it will appear in your feed (you can also opt for push notifications).

Why we love it: The app only culls in items that are on sale, so you're never going to be paying full price. It's especially clutch around Black Friday and Cyber Monday.

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The App: Sproose

How it works: Sproose is the app for people who wish they could shop Instagram. Users can upload photos of themselves and tag the clothes they are wearing, providing a direct link to buy the item. You can either purchase it right on the app or get it through the store's website. Sproose also offers unique coupon and discount codes.

Why we love it: You no longer need to spend hours tracking down a skirt you saw in a photo. Amen.
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The App: The Hunt

How it works: The Hunt tracks down items that you see on Instagram, Pinterest, Tumblr (or anywhere on the Internet for that matter) and gives you shopping details. Users can upload a photo of something they see online and ask the community to find the exact item or a cheaper version. The site runs off the shopping prowess of other users to find your item, so you don't have to.

Why we love it: It's a HUGE time-saver. If you're lusting after a pair of jeans you saw on Instagram, but don't know the brand and don't have time to figure it out, someone on The Hunt can do it for you. And the best part? Most pieces are tracked down within 24 hours. (Oh, and it just became available for Android!).
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The App: Polyvore

How it works: Calling all stylists in training! Polyvore allows you to pull different items from various retail stores and create "sets" (aka outfits) just as a real stylist would. The search feature allows you to sort by brand, color and price making it a total breeze to find exactly what you're looking for.

Why we love it: Before investing in a big ticket item, this app can help you figure out how many different ways you can style it. The community is also really engaged, so expect to get tons of likes and comments.

Hating Katherine Heigl Is A Sexist 'State Of Affairs'

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With her return to television, Katherine Heigl is re-visiting the sort of redemption tour that we first saw when she appeared on the cover of Entertainment Weekly in March of 2010. Four years later, she’s still quite sorry, this time that Shonda Rhimes (and America) has a “crappy impression” of her. She’s hoping “State Of Affairs” and her turn as a woman named Charleston will set things straight.

The Reason Why People Still Hate Katherine Heigl Isn’t The Reason You Think,” “Katherine Heigl Suing Duane Reade Is Yet Another Reason People Hate Her,” ”Does Everyone Still Hate Katherine Heigl?” the headlines read, both automatically assuming that we have such "hate" for this woman and wondering why that's the case. But her alleged diva behavior on set isn’t enough of an explanation. It’s fine to skip “State Of Affairs” because it’s a lazy broadcast version of “Homeland,” but reports of Katherine Heigl being "ungrateful" aren’t good enough reason to not give Charlie a chance.

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Difficult talents are about as common to Hollywood as weird crimes are to Florida. The problem for Heigl isn’t that she is allegedly hard to work with. It’s that she’s allegedly hard to work with … and stopped bringing in big box office numbers. “The Big Wedding,” though an ensemble effort, was a relative flop, making less than $22 million in domestic gross. Her last lead role, 2012's “One For The Money,” made under $27 million. The reported on-set antics of her and her mother Nancy might be a bit easier to stomach if she was still breaking out hits like “27 Dresses” (nearly $77 million in North America) or “The Ugly Truth” ($89 million) or “Knocked-Up” ($149 million). Those three proceeded a series of projects where she seemed to repeat similar characters and plot lines with the ferocity of an industrial era rom-com factory. Hollywood turned on her, and now she’s back on television.

That explains the industry’s issue with her. What’s America’s problem, though? Is the movie-and-television-watching public so concerned about what demands K. Heigl and her mom have for their trailer? It would appear that we, as consumers of celebrity, have a huge issue with perceived personalities of female stars. The hatred for Anne Hathaway stemmed from the feeling that she was the type of person who had been to drama camp and might pronounce it “the-a-ter." Now, as Kevin Fallon wrote over at The Daily Beast, “the court of public opinion [has] convicted [Heigl] of the celebrity crime of 'seeming a little bitchy.'"

There is a ton of sexist malarkey embedded in the fact that strong, successful women are criticized for “seeming a little bitchy.” Male actors, male CEOS, male anythings can get away with being "a little bitchy” except for them it’s just “a little assertive.” The phenomenon is a bit more complex than that when it comes to the ladies of Hollywood, though. A public personality is an obligation for female stars, in a way that it isn’t for male ones. Chevy Chase, James Cameron, Isaiah Washington and Christian Bale are all supposedly “difficult." Where are the think pieces about why people hate them? A man who is hard to work with might be susceptible to falling out of favor with industry executives if he can't bring in big box office numbers anymore. The celebrity-obsessed public seems largely unbothered by that reality, while the possibility of “bitchiness” is all-consuming for their female counterparts.

So what if Katherine Heigl is hard to work with? An element of this is that part of her clash has come up against Shonda Rhimes, the rightful reigning queen of television. Let’s just assume Rhimes is completely in the right for bringing up Heigl’s name during an interview where she also discussed a “no-assholes policy." As consumers and audience members, we should be concerned with quality of performance, not whether the actor is fussing over how many lines she’s given backstage. It’s about much more than that, though. We hold women to a completely different standard in Hollywood. It’s impossible for them to be judged solely on their work, because imagined brattiness means infinitely more than talent. Heck, maybe Katherine Heigl is, as a one character calls her on “State Of Affairs,” “one of the most obnoxious creatures, man or woman, roaming the planet.” But the man or woman portion of that sentiment isn’t irrelevant. It makes a huge difference.

Follow Lauren Duca on Twitter: @laurenduca

Net-A-Porter's Fantasy Gifts Are Unreal And We Want Everything

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Move over Neiman Marcus, there's a new purveyor of over-the-top, eye-popping, expensive holiday gifts in town! Net-A-porter has launched its first-ever fantasy gift list and it's a doozy.

The luxury e-commerce website is offering a selection of drool-worthy gifts that range from a package of exclusive beauty products to unlimited shopping on the website. We repeat: UNLIMITED shopping.

“Fantasy gifts are incredibly special -- they are the ultimate luxury for the woman who has everything,” Sasha Sarokin, Buying Manager at Net-A-Porter.com, said in a press release.

Brace thyself, ladies, for these gifts will blow your mind...and your wallet.

The Endless Shopping Bag, Priceless/Unlimited
Unlimited store credit for one year to indulge your every fashion desire, along with a dedicated Personal Shopper to help you with all your style needs, access to new products first, exclusive previews and the ability to pre-order.
Translation: The gift giver allows for their credit card to be used on the site whenever the insanely lucky recipient wants to shop.

Shoes Every Week of the Year, $41,500
Your choice of a beautiful pair of shoes each week (that's 52 pairs of shoes!), chosen with the help of a Net-A-Porter.com personal shopper, as well as access to all new products first and the ability to pre-order.

The Bag Subscription, $29,000
One bag per month for a year - from the ultimate tote to the party-perfect clutch -- chosen by you alongside your own dedicated personal shopper. Plus, access to all new bags first and the ability to pre-order.

A Stylist for a Season, $24,000 / $48,000
The complete Net-A-Porter.com experience! Build your dream closet via a personal shopper, who will be on-hand to help you with all your style needs for six months. You will also enjoy access to new product first, exclusive previews and ability to pre-order the items you love.

The Ultimate Beauty Kit, $3,250
Work with a Net-A-Porter.com beauty expert to create a bespoke kit of the must-have products and cult favorites perfectly suited to you.

One can only dream, we suppose, except for those who can make these gifts a reality. The experiences are on sale now and available throughout the holiday season. Happy shopping!
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