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Avoiding the Wrong Eyelid Surgery

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Looks are largely genetic and whether we like to admit it or not, many of our defining features are directly inherited from our family members, especially with regard to our faces. Similarly to the way we inherit these features, the process by which these features change as we get older is also largely determined by our genes.

When my daughter was in grade school, I was lucky enough to be able to observe and confirm this theory, and also determine how best to incorporate these results into my practice. Using my daughter and her group of friends, as well as photographs of their mothers as examples, I studied how the shape and form of the eye changes with age. More specifically, I was able to use this as a case study to determine the exact features and attributes that cause an eye to look "youthful" rather than aged.

Using these photographs, I was able to identify the core principles of the youthful eye, and also how certain hereditary factors affect each patient differently, allowing me to develop the most effective procedures and obtain the best results on a case-by-case basis.

Through this process, I've found that the shape of the eye is determined by the relation of the upper and lower eyelids. In young adults with normal facial skeletons, the space between these upper and lower lids that frames the eye itself is long and narrow.

In addition to heredity, aging, paralysis, trauma and previous surgery can all impact this youthful shape. Aging eyes have a rounder shape, due to the "droop" of the lower lid, as well as the inward movement of the outer corner of the eye, where the eyelids meet.

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Standard eyelid surgery (blepharoplasty) techniques, which remove lower eyelid skin, and often muscle, tend to drop the lower lid margin, further rounding the space between the upper and lower lids. As a result, newer techniques have been designed to avoid this rounding effect.

Two related procedures, canthopexy and canthoplasty, are used to elevate the lower lid when it has already fallen, or to prevent it from falling during a lower eyelid procedure. They work in different ways, and I generally only recommend one of them for my patients looking to restore a youthful look.

In my opinion, canthoplasty should be avoided in cosmetic eyelid procedures because it produces a rounder eye shape. By design, canthoplasty procedures make the lower lid frame of the eye more rounded, because they disassemble and reassemble the outside corner of the eye while shortening the lower lid.

Canthoplasty may be appropriate for certain post traumatic situations, or when the lower lid has become lengthened with age, but I do not find that it will satisfy patients who simply want a more youthful look.

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Lateral canthopexy, on the other hand, is the surgical repositioning of the outside corner of the eye where the eyelids meet. During this procedure, the corner is moved outward and pexed to the lateral orbital rim. By restoring a "normal" eye shape, lateral canthopexy makes the eye appear more youthful.

Lateral canthopexy is fundamental to altering or restoring a more youthful shape. Lateral canthopexy may be performed on its own, but many patients combine it with eyelid surgery and/or midface elevation for the most comprehensive anti-aging results.

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Thousands Of Pantless People Storm New York City For Annual 'No Pants Subway Ride'

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On subway trains and platforms across New York City on Sunday, there were awkward grins, wide-eyed stares and double-takes galore as thousands of straphangers strolled about pantless for the annual “No Pants Subway Ride.”

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Donning varying types of underwear, most participants were otherwise bundled up in winter-appropriate clothing and accessories like fur coats, scarves and knee-high socks. At 10 a.m. on Sunday, the temperature in some parts of New York was a bone-chilling 32 degrees.

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Charlie Todd -- founder of comedy collective Improv Everywhere, which organized the pants-free ride -- told The Huffington Post that some 4,000 people participated in the event in New York City. The ride, which has become something of a global phenomenon, also attracted participants in more than 60 cities in 25 countries worldwide, he said.

Todd himself participated in the pantless event. Spot him in the video above at 0:32, underwear-clad and toting his 7-month-old son.

“I think part of [the event’s appeal] is that it's just such a simple idea,” Todd told HuffPost. “Everyone can get on board with people riding the subway pantless in the middle of winter. The juxtaposition of the winter coats, hats and gloves with bare legs is something that's immediately striking.”

The first “No Pants Subway Ride” was staged in January 2002. It started with just seven people, said Todd, adding that he never imagined the event would eventually grow into “an international holiday.”

Watch snippets of the “No Pants Subway Ride” (and the priceless reactions to the event) in the video above. Click through the gallery below to see snaps from last year’s event.

Amal Clooney Was So Over The Lame Work Party Her Husband Dragged Her To

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Amal Clooney (née Alamuddin) finally gave in and agreed to accompany new husband George Clooney to the 72nd annual Golden Globe Awards on Sunday, and she could not have been less impressed with Hollywood's drunkest night.

We don't really imagine the accomplished human rights lawyer is the type to normally sit at home in her PJs and watch the show on TV, yet she could barely hide her blasé attitude for, well, everything. Not that we blame her, since she had to put up with a lot.

First, she had to suffer through chatting with Ryan Seacrest, who thought he was being funny by presenting George with a T-shirt that said "GAME OVER" and featured a smiling bride and frowning groom.

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Then she had to put up with Giuliana Rancic, who unsuccessfully attempted to get the couple to do a shot of George's own brand of tequila with her.




Fortunately, we learned that Amal's side-eye game is strong.



She did allow herself to chuckle quietly at Tina Fey and Amy Poehler's astute observation that her husband is the one receiving a lifetime achievement award.




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But when George wasn't professing that he was humbled by her love for him, girl was B-O-R-E-D.




You can tell she's just counting down the days until the Oscars.

Ways to Fix Your Dry, Brittle Hair

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There's something that is intensely gratifying about making a woman feel beautiful. Whether a lady is coming in for a refresh or a complete, transformative change, she is always seeking that moment when she looks in the mirror, and thinks, "Damn, I look good!" I cherish those moments, and I love to be the one responsible for them.

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Today, I had a client whose hair was extremely long (a few inches past her bra-line), straight, and without any layers. She was complaining that her ends were extremely fried and dead and told me that I could do what I wanted to her hair so long as she was able to tie it in a ponytail. When a client gives me free reign like that, I'm a happy, excited camper.

Despite this license to do what I wanted, I kept in mind that women with long hair who've had long hair for a long time usually don't want to lop it all off. It becomes another limb in a way. We become emotionally attached to our hair for some reason, and length becomes a security blanket, a familiar comfort. Knowing this, I decided to take off only what needed to be taken off, which was a good four inches. Stylists, you know you can tell where the dry, brittle hair begins even when the hair is wet. You can actually feel the difference in your fingers between the healthy and unhealthy hair.

I gave my client longer layers throughout her hair, which I cut at 90 degrees from the head, to give her hair more movement along with some face framing layers that started a bit above her chin. I point cut into the layers after her hair was dried to add texture and to remove some more weak hair without removing any more length.

After I finished her blow-dry, I whipped her around in the chair so she could take a look at herself. Her reaction was of enthusiastic delight; she exclaimed how pretty it was and how much lighter she felt. Because I preserved a lot of length, she wasn't overwhelmed or shocked by the change; she instead, welcomed it with open arms.

She asked me how she could prevent new development of dry, brittle ends in her hair; she had never had this issue before. I responded that though she may have never had fried hair in the past, our bodies change as we get older, and we have to change with it. I recommended more regular hair cuts, using a deep conditioning mask once or twice a week, and using products that have keratin in them. Keratin is a protein in our hair, and when it's depleted, our hair becomes weaker and brittle.

By using products such as CHI Keratin Mist, we can restore that depleted keratin helping our hair become stronger and healthier. (There are keratin based shampoos and conditioners that help tremendously as well. Other lines like Ion, Redken, and even Tresemme have keratin sprays, also. Most companies are creating keratin products these days because they realize the extreme benefits of adding the protein to hair, so you have a plethora of lines to choose from.)


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I find that the best time to spray the mist is when the hair is towel dried, but damp and ready for a blow dry. Spray it liberally throughout the entire head of wet hair. Another remedy is using an argan oil based product throughout the hair in a similar fashion. Moroccan Oil is the most well known of these products, but there are lots of other product lines that carry argan oil now too. Of course, using protection before applying any intense heat is also essential. One of my favorite products to apply to the hair before flat ironing is CHI Silk Infusion.

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You only need a tiny dab of this as it is an oil and heavily concentrated. You spread it through your hands, then lightly spread it through your hair starting at the back and under sections. Concentrate on adding the oil to the ends primarily along with some midshaft action, and avoid the roots. The Silk Infusion leaves the hair silky smooth and allows for more fluid movement.

My client left my chair today with silky, healthy hair that had movement and bounce that mimicked the movement and bounce she had in her step as walked out the door. Happy client, happy stylist!


*I am not a spokesperson for CHI... I simply am a stylist who loves their styling products!

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A Look Behind the Rip Curl Swim 2015 Collection

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During Mercedes-Benz Fashion Week Swim 2015, the popular surf brand, Rip Curl launched as a swimwear label with a neoprene bikini collection, using the same fabric it became known for in its wetsuit design.

The talented swimwear team behind Rip Curl's bikini collection includes Mary Miller, Rip Curl Vice President of Design and Merchandising and Rip Curl's bikini designer, Anna Amejko. Over the past six years, Mary Miller has also served as Global Chairman, overseeing the Girls' business globally and has helped Rip Curl flourish into a top tier swimwear brand.

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The Rip Curl Swim 2015 collection was inspired by elements from surf destinations around the globe including Namotu, Fiji and Bali, Indonesia. Key looks in the collection include sleeved body suits and neoprene bikinis designed in geometric and ikat print patterns accented with crochet and mesh details.

What is the inspiration behind the Rip Curl brand?

Rip Curl is the ultimate surfing brand made for surfers by surfers.

What is the theme for the Rip Curl Swim 2015 collection?

The Rip Curl Swim 2015 collection contains a tribal and electric beach theme with high contrast pieces in bold vibrant shades of coral, blue and neon hues.

What are your favorite pieces in your Swim 2015 collection?

We love our high fashion neoprene wetsuits and our reversible swimwear pieces.

What's next for your brand?

We are looking to expand our neoprene bikini collection to turn up the volume with new fabrics and styles.

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22 Zayn Malik Selfies That Will Make You Grateful Zayn And His Cheekbones Were Born 22 Years Ago Today

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I don't know about you, but Zayn Malik is feeling 22.

For those of you oblivious to the day's trending hashtags, such as #ZaynYoureMySuperhero and #ZaynBirthdaySketch, today is Zayn Malik's birthday. *Cue confetti cannons.*

To celebrate this very important day, we have compiled a list of all the times this member of One Direction assassinated us with his good looks and sharp cheekbones.

1. Ooo hello, Zayn.

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2. Can you say "jawline?" Jawline.

Fresh faced :) cut throat shave

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3. Zayn caught dinner!

Poppin caps in the water hood ! ;) ha

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4. #Belfie game strong.

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5. Zayn the Riveter. #Feminism

we don't wanna be like them, we can make it 'til the end — ❂

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6. OG Zayn.

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7. Sunkissed Zayn.

Loving The LA sun :) ha

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8. Friend to the animals, Zayn.

Meet my tiger :)

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9. Zayn's cheekbones vs. Harry's blue eyes.

it's harry's birthday! happy 20th birthday @harrystyles !

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10. He #wokeuplikethis.

Lazy Sunday

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11. Watch out, those razor sharp cheekbones might cut you.

Beard getting long :)

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12. #tbt Zayn.

Ha I'm like 16 :)

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13. Pensive Zayn.

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14. Chin strap Zayn.

Number plates :)

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15. Seriously though, do you think he contours?

omg #AMAs

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16. Man-headband Zayn.

Sikk shot :)

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17. Date night Zayn.

Date night :D haha #NightChanges

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18. "Blah" Zayn.

Blah

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19. Cropped Zayn.

cause it's true, that's what I like about you — ツ

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20. Fedorable Zayn.

Guess Who's Back on Instagram!! :) xxx

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21. Big Apple Zayn.

Big love to NYC :)

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22. #BreakTheInternet Zayn.

someone is turning 22 on monday… :)

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So happy birthday, Zayn! May this year bring you love, happiness, and selfies abound!


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Taylor Swift Fan Recreated Every Single Polaroid From '1989' -- And T-Swift LOVED It

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One Florida teen just took T-Swift fandom to the next level. Nadia Afkhami recreated every Polaroid from Taylor Swift's "1989" album. It's literally spot on.

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After Nadia posted the photos on her Tumblr, nitemaredressedlikeadaydream.tumblr.com, T-Swift replied with some major Internet
Tay posted a note to Nadia on Tumblr, and it's just as sweet as can be:

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After she won Tay's heart, the inevitable Internet bullies came a-trolling. In an email to The Huffington Post, Nadia explained that she started receiving hurtful comments about her photos. So, Nadia stood up to the haters -- the T-Swift way. She wrote on Tumblr:


"Some people commented on the articles that the pictures are the “fat Taylor version” LOL. I mean yea obviously! I will never have Taylor’s body type. And that’s ok. Creativity and beauty don’t have a size. Y’all be any size you want! Haters gonna hate hate hate hate hate."


Damn straight.

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Scroll down to see a few more of Nadia's pictures, and check out the rest on her Tumblr.

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English Country Style 2015

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Maybe the influence lies in part with a new season of Downton Abbey here in the U.S. or the fact I am on Mid-Century modern overload, but one of the looks I would love to see regain its status in 2015 is English Country Style. Popularized after World War II by celebrated decorator John Fowler, the look was characterized by comfort, tradition and a touch of elegance. By the time the nineties rolled around, the American version was on steroids, reaching its zenith as rooms were overfilled with chintz on chintz patterns, dog paintings hung on sashes and bows on brightly glazed walls and a general overabundance of collectibles while our friends across the pond no doubt winced. It's high time some of key decorative elements returned.

One of my favorite aspects of English Country Style is the quirky and unusual accessories and no one does it better than the British. I attended the Decorative Antiques and Textiles Fair in London last September and discovered some rather unusual objects that gave the term "conversation piece" a whole new meaning. An antique light fixture constructed from submarine doors, an early 20th century elephant on wheels and a trio of walnut trunk tabletops with butterfly centers were just a few of the items that caught my once jaded American eye. And no English interior would be complete without the requisite dog accessory -- everything from toys from the fifties to a handsome pair of English hound lamps was featured.

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If you happen to find yourself in London this month, the upcoming Decorative Antiques and Textiles Fair (January 20th through the 25th) at Battersea Park is a must-see. From Art Deco to post-war Modern design and everything in between, the show is one of the best fairs I have attended in a long time. Go early for the best selection, rub elbows with show regular Oprah Winfrey and perhaps you too can channel design-wise your own Lady Grantham.

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The 2015 Golden Globes Gifting Suites

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Gift lounges during the week leading up to the Golden Globes ceremony brought numerous vendors seeking to get their products into the hands of celebrities. Established brands like Pilot Pens, Pandora and Nautica stood alongside smaller, emerging brands such as Bright Baum and Canada Bliss. All vied for some one-on-one time from TV stars likes Viola Davis and Jeremy Piven and personalities like Amber Rose and Paris Hilton. Needless to say, a good time was had by all, with lots of mingling, picture taking and gift giving. Below is a sampling of what was offered:

Secret Room Event Style Lounge in Honor of the 2015 Golden Globe Awards at the SLS Hotel:

Fashion was big this year at the Secret Room. Designer Stella Carakasi had her collection of tops made with flowy, body hugging, eco-friendly fabrics that create a luxurious, elegant look. There were pull-on jeans by Golden Girls Clothing and fabulous faux-fur porcupine vests from Kathy Fielder. Heat Holders gifted their slipper socks, which keep feet warm longer than any other cotton or thermal sock. Moxie Jean gave out gift cards to its resale website featuring clothes for babies, kids and maternity wear. Visitors also received prepaid postage bags so they could send in their previously worn items for cash.

Skincare products included everything from the natural (Derma e) to the medical grade (Sente) to the customized (Ioma). Trinfinity8 gave out gift certificates for anti-aging facials at their spa, which uses quantum-based technology and algorithmic codes to rejuvenate the skin.

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Orange Is the New Black show creator Jenji Kohan at the Secret Room


The suite also teamed with family restaurant and play space Giggles N' Hugs on the Bambi Baby Lounge featuring numerous products for the little ones and activities to keep them busy like face painting and animal-balloon making.

Big Slice products had to-go pouches of kettle-cooked apples for the ultimate tasty and nutritious snack. These ready-to-eat cooked apples come in a wide range of flavors including cinnamon French toast, cherry vanilla and peach Bellini.

Proceeds from the gift lounge benefited the Farm Sanctuary, which provides lifelong care for roughly 1,000 farm animals, and Hope for Paws, which rescues animals from desperate situations. The organization also films those missions and posts the heartbreaking and heartwarming videos online.

Celebs left with gift bags that included such goodies as earring and pendant sets from Zipsessory, lingerie from Farr West, handbags by Lola Blue and luxury flip-flops by Uzurii adorned with a variety of crystal gems, chains and other ornaments.

GBK and Pilot Pens Golden Globe Gift Lounge at the W Hollywood Hotel:

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Golden Globe nominee Viola Davis and winner Gina Rodriguez at GBK


Presenting sponsor Pilot Pens gifted its gunmetal-grey Vanishing Point fountain pens with rhodium-plated 18K gold nibs along with leather notebooks and multicolored FriXion Clicker Erasable Gel Ink Pens.

There were women's leather bucket laptop totes and hybrid backpack-briefcase laptop bags by Solo. SHEEX gave out bedsheets and portable "Sleep Saxs" made out of performance athletic fabrics. Unlike regular cotton or silk sheets, SHEEX materials are moisture-wicking and temperature-controlled, with plenty of breathability and stretch.

Heather Marianna was handing out her Beauty Kitchen products such as lavender bath soaks and tropical smoothie skin polishers. Burke Williams day spa offered on-site massages, while gifting guests with day spa passes, products from their skincare and makeup lines, and gift certificates to try the new Advanced Eye Lift Treatment at its spa.

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Birdman co-screenwriter and Golden Globe winner Nicolás Giacobone at GBK


Caribbean Living Magazine gave out five-day stays to Anguilla's CeBlue Villas & Beach Resort. The Puerto Vallarta Beach Club gifted three-night accommodations at its private beachfront enclave on the Mexican Riviera.

Online shopping club Beyond the Rack handed out $200 shopping credit cards to their site. Meanwhile, Canada Bliss had stylish newsboy knit caps, toques and slouchy beanies.

The charities that benefited from the event included Lambda Legal, which fights for the civil rights of gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and HIV-infected people; YES!, an organization that provides resources and support for those affected by advance cancer; and the World Vision Group, which had celebs put together Ebola caregiver kits complete with handwritten notes of support.

Golden Globe HBO Luxury Lounge at the Four Seasons Hotel in Beverly Hills:

Presenting sponsor Pandora had celebs play a round of Plinko that would determine which piece of Pandora jewelry they would "win" from categories that included rings, earring, bracelets and necklaces.

Nautica gifted waterproof rain breakers, and Big Buddha gave out stylish faux-leather handbags. There was fragrance by Gendarme and homeopathic medicine by Boiron. Montez Renault gifted grooming products for men, while DSW Designer Shoe Warehouse showcased their brand-name footwear including suede Nike hightops.

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Gilles Marini tries on Nautica's rain breaker at the HBO Luxury Lounge


Kari Feinstein's Style Lounge Pre-Golden Globe Awards at the Andaz West Hollywood:

There were silk tops and scarves by VIDA, a San Francisco-based company that works with carefully selected artists from around the world to digitally scan their work and print it on fabric. The result is luxurious, modern pieces in limited designs. VIDA also provides livable wages and literacy programs for its factory workers in Pakistan so they avoid being trapped by the cycle of poverty and get empowered by education.

Bright Baum was giving out artificial LED trees perfect for home décor, landscape accenting or just to keep as very cool nightlights. These realistic-looking trees are handmade, hand-painted and constructed to withstand both indoor and outdoor elements. Bright Baum trees come in a variety of sizes, light colors and tree styles from bonsai and cherry blossoms to willow and maple.

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Whiplash and Divergent actor Miles Teller at Kari Feinstein's Style Lounge


Swish Suits had fitted wetsuits specifically designed for women's bodies. Now they can all look like sexy Bond girls! On top of that, Swish Suits are made from limestone, not fossil-fuel-derived neoprene, so they're eco-friendly as well. For non-scuba or non-surfing celebs, Swish also had colorful lightweight jackets and vests that are perfect for aquatic sports, yoga or working out.

Celebs also received the Alcohoot, a smartphone breathalyzer with police-grade accuracy so that you never have to wonder if you've had too much. The adjoining app helps track a user's long-term alcohol trends and consumption throughout an evening and offers nearby restaurants or taxis to help sober up and get home safely.

Jayneoni Presents the Boom Boom Room's Pre-Golden Globe Luxury Baby and Parenting Products Gifting Lounge at the Loews Hotel Hollywood:

Brilliant Baby Products had a slew of items including toys by German toy maker HABA (stacking cubes, magnetic puzzles), mini backpacks by Lassig and rolls of removable tape by Inroad Toys printed to look like roads or railway tracks for kids who love playing with toy trains and cars. There were also Melody Mates, light-up cushions with built-in plush toys and detachable blankets that play lullabies to help youngsters fall asleep.

Author Ylleya Fields was handing out copies of her award-winning Princess Cupcake Jones children's book series featuring too-rarely-seen African-American characters. Meanwhile, Adri & Sara gifted scarves and canvas bags inspired by author Miroslav Sasek's This Is... book series.

There was suede and leather baby moccasins by Freshly Picked and many unique clothing and accessories for babies, toddlers and moms by cool brands such as Wee Structed, Enjoy Essential and Loved by Hannah and Eli.

Posh Pak gave out samples of their subscription-based monthly gift boxes for young girls in three different age categories. Creator Shayna Hansen-Niksch partners with brands like Kate Spade and Band.do to curate age-appropriate items such as lip gloss, hair accessories and school supplies for tween girls.

The event benefited Los Angeles Foster Care Children.

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Sports Illustrated model Gigi Hadid with a print from Scarlett and Gold Shop at Kari Feinstein's Style Lounge

The Grass Is Always Greener ... On Someone Else's Head

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Why is it that women are forever coloring their hair -- curling, ironing, extending, feathering, crimping, pulling, twisting and bending it? I have a dear friend who, for the 26 years I've known her, has been trying to undo the curls she naturally has, while I have always coveted her spectacular head of curls! For years, when she'd fall in the pool and come out horrified that her hair was rapidly winding up into tight coils, I wished it were mine. Now that she can have it chemically straightened, she swims without fear and we laugh about this old drama. I love her straight hair, because ultimately I love her. Still, it always struck me that she and I could see her hair so differently, when we agree on so many other things.

I have only colored my hair once. I had fine strawberry-blonde highlights put on the tips of my hair, to finally see what it was like to be in the "tribe." I always saw coloring your hair as a right of passage for women, and just once I wanted to share the ritual. That was 10 years ago; I was 42. At this stage, I'm pretty sure that most of the women I know color their hair -- to cover the gray, to try on new looks, to maintain an image they've always had, but for years and years, I always assumed that the hair color I saw was the color that naturally grew there. Well into my 40s, I naively believed this, and friends would laugh at me when I would finally notice "roots" or figure out that their blonde was not nature-made. Now, I assume all hair is altered, unless the evidence stating otherwise is clear.

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I grew up with bright red hair -- both a blessing and a curse in my youth. My gym teacher called me "Carrot top," while others often called me "Red"; I hated both. I wanted to have blonde hair like all the "popular girls," or wonderful brown curls, like my best friend -- anything but my own carrot top. All through college, when it was long and I suppose more striking, total strangers would come up and touch my hair. It drove my husband nuts when we were dating; though I had come to think that touching people's hair was normal -- similar to how strangers think they can touch a pregnant woman's stomach. When I went on The Phil Donahue Show in my late twenties, the show aired with Phil, with his striking white mop of hair, stroking my red hair as I asked a question. Friends teased me for years about it, though Mr. Donahue's response didn't strike me as strange at the time.

I'm in my 50's now, I made peace with my hair a long time ago. I'm happy to be a redhead -- even as it fades to a darker auburn, with increasingly visible white and silver stragglers. For now, I'll go on record and say I do not plan to ever color it again.

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My color; my curls- Wash and go!


I haven't owned a comb or brush for 18 years; I use my fingers and spritz it with water when it needs fixing. I only get my hair cut into styles that require sleep, washing and little else. I admit that I'm lazy. For the most part, I've let go of that one vanity. For that, I feel very fortunate and grateful; I know that a lot of women invest loads more effort. My good friend C, who used to cut it for me, has told me over and over: "Yes, you could have that style, if you're willing to spend a few minutes with a flat iron, or if you're willing to use some more product, or blow it out..." However, knowing me well, she too surrendered, and I went with small variations on the same, short cut for years. Admittedly, as it's grown out, I've railed against it a bit more. With more hair to wrangle, it's not as easy to just let it go. Some days I still wish it was curlier, longer, thicker... like that woman's or that one, or the one over there, but for the most part, I've surrendered this single battle.

When I told my daughter what I was writing, she shared that she once wore a hijab for several days in support of Muslim friends at college. She said she found it very eye-opening, though her professors gave her odd looks. Wearing the hijab, she realized just how much energy, physically and spiritually, she puts in to her hair each day. "The focus," she said, "was suddenly only on my personality -- just me -- not as much on my looks. It was so freeing!" I understand her point, as that's how I feel with my low-maintenance hairstyle.

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Graduation day. My girl wore her hair loose and free; I flat-ironed mine.


My daughter has gorgeous wavy hair, which has been changing from the blonde of her childhood to the darker color it will probably be as an adult. She asks me: "Mom, is my hair getting darker?" with a worried expression. "Yes; it's gorgeous," I respond. I look at her through a mother's eyes, but I understand that she is wondering if her hair might not be nicer wavier, or straighter, thicker or blonder again. As her mother, I wince, knowing that she is struggling with the same issues of self-esteem that so many women face. While each of us admires someone else's locks, we can't accept that someone is likely wishing for yours, or yours... or mine. It's not acceptable to say I wish I had your husband, your house, your career, your life... but so many women say: "I would kill for your hair."

In fact, it's truly rare to hear a woman say I love my hair. Instead, women spend billions each year to alter the hair they have; we work tirelessly to tame our tresses and attain a certain look. Black women do it; white women do it. Asian women do it; Latina women do it; Orthodox women do it and secular women do it. Women with money do it, women who don't have money do it. Regardless of our race, culture, religion and often socioeconomics, most of us seem to be chasing the grass on someone else's head.

For now, I still covet my neighbor's stuff: I'd love her figure and her wardrobe; hell, her husband is pretty cute. However, when it comes to my hair, I think I'll go out on a limb here: I'm happy with my hair. On "bad hair days" I may occasionally dream of longer, curlier, other hair, but for the foreseeable future, I'm sticking with the grass that grows on my own head.

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(And on a bad day, I'll wear a hat!)


What say you? Are you happy with what you have, or are you forever seeking to change what grows on top?

This story was originally posted on Dawn Quyle Landau's bog, Tales From the Motherland. Check it out, to read more of my work. Follow me on Facebook and Twitter. You can also hit the thumbs up icon at the top and to the right of post, to instantly receive future posts.

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Think You Can't Knit? You Just Haven't Found This Yet.

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Why would you possibly want to knit a sweater when you can just as easily (actually, WAY more easily) pick one out from a store? That's the question my brother asked me over winter break, when he found me curled up in a chair with an armful of yarn and knitting needles. (For the record, he also called me an old lady and laughed at me.)

Luckily, I had plenty of answers to his question. Case in point: if all you do on your daily commute is cruise Facebook only to be tortured by status updates of your friends' vacation photos, you should try knitting. If you need a distraction from the croupy toddler coughing next to you in the doctor's waiting room, you should try knitting. If you've ever wanted to give the illusion of being "busy" to avoid awkward family discussions, or if you've ever felt the need to accomplish something tangible with your own two hands, you should try knitting.

Not to mention, knitting results in an end-product that you can wrap yourself up in. Cozy blankets, sweaters, scarves, hats -- all custom made to fit your freakishly long arms, oversized head, or what have you -- are all yours to be had.

The problem is, knitting takes the patience of a saint, which I've never had. Until recently, I've only had very limited knitting skills, so I'd abandon projects every time I found knots in my dollar-store yarn. And as much as I wish my life were like Laura Ingalls Wilder's, I don't have four hours every night to devote to anything.

Enter, We Are Knitters. One day, the thickest, chunkiest, slickest yarn I've ever seen landed in my lap -- the kind that requires only the dexterity of a puppy to use. It was accompanied by a set of wooden needles the size of drumsticks. I picked them up, I knitted, and in two hours, I had finished a giant scarf. Over the course of the following month, with the help of online video tutorials, I learned how to knit a cable. Then a double cable. Then I knitted two sweaters (seen below). And now I'm working on two more. I have become a monster.

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SO WHAT IS THIS STUFF YOU SPEAK OF?
It's the product of We Are Knitters, a Spain-based company that'll arm you with everything you need to knit yourself an entire wardrobe (yes, they ship to the United States). It was founded by María José Marín and Alberto Bravo Reyes (now both 27 years old), who became friends when they were both financial auditors. They shared an entrepreneurial spirit and always wanted to start their own business in fashion, and a trip to New York sparked the concept for their brand. "We went to NYC to visit a friend and saw knitting shops everywhere!" Reyes told The Huffington Post. "Groups of friends were knitting and chatting in some cafes, and we even saw a girl knitting in the subway. We gave it a try and it was kind of love at first sight! We cannot say it was our grandma or mum who taught us. We learnt with tutorials we found on Youtube. Not a very romantic story, we know."

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You can buy nice yarn just about anywhere these days, but the kicker that'll turn you into a WAK devotee is their series of video tutorials. Featuring zero dialogue and a close-up of two hands knitting with super chunky yarn and fat needles in very slow motion, you'll never be confused. "We try to be as clear as possible," said Reyes. "We know what it is to know nothing about knitting and learn watching a video tutorial on the internet. The videos we found when we were learning were not very eye-appealing nor explained in a simple way how to knit, so we tried to fix it by doing our own."

Frankly, it may be the only set of online knitting videos that won't make you want to tear your eyeballs out. You'll find everything from simple 101s on how to cast on to start a project, all the way to more advanced techniques like the herringbone stitch.

WHAT SHOULD YOU BUY?
If you're a beginner, "The Wool" is a must. It's epically chunky and made from 100 percent Peruvian wool. The price is admittedly steep at $24.50 per 200g skein, but its quality, feeling, color and thickness are exceptional, and you'll be able to wear your garment for your whole life (and it's environmentally friendly, too).

If you've got a wool allergy, go with their yarn called The Cotton Wool, which is 100 percent cotton and $12 for 100g. It's not nearly as chunky, but it'll leave your skin itch-free. Other types of yarn are also available, from a less-chunky wool to baby alpaca, and even threads made of t-shirt material.

RATING
4 out of 5. The product itself, from the yarn to the patterns and kits, is stellar and deserves a rating of 5. But when you find something you love, you want more of it -- the high price point and the fact that you have to order it from Spain are the only drawbacks that could keep you from ordering loads of it (though, a limited selection of their yarn is now available for online purchase at Urban Outfitters).

13 Times Roots Looked Amazing

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For the longest time, roots have been the bane of any colored-hair gal's existence. Constantly touching them up and fearing their return can be exhausting. So, it should come as no surprise that people are saying "to hell with this" and just embracing them.

New Beauty Products To Add To Your Arctic Blast Survival Kit

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Our primary style focus during the winter months is all about wearing enough layers to keep warm without looking like a stuffed animal. Perfecting our hair and makeup, on the other hand, typically falls to the bottom of the list. When the weather is this bone-chilling cold, the freezing elements make it difficult to care about anything more than combating static and applying ChapStick.

Thankfully, there are some exciting new beauty products that fix common winter beauty problems like a dull complexion and frizzy hat hair. Plus, we've found a few makeup bag staples that are sure to help brighten up your look on a gloomy day.

You can never be too prepared, so we suggest updating your arctic blast survival kit with these products STAT!

Fleece-Lined Tights Are The Life Line You Need To Get Through The Rest Of Winter

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This goes out to all the women who prefer to wear dresses, even when the temperatures are in the 30s. We see you. We understand the struggle. And we're here to commiserate. Winter can be a rough season for us. It's so cold and rocking a dress or skirt with regular stockings just doesn't cut it. But wearing fleece-lined tights just might.

Many people don't even know there is such a thing as fleece-lined tights, but let us tell you, they are like little miracles for your legs. They are so cozy, so comfortable and will allow you to ditch your skinny jeans all season long, without getting frostbite on your calves.

So where do you find these mystical items? That's where we come in. First, a warning. They can be tricky to track down in stores. They often sell out in November and finding the right size (especially if you're tall) can be a bit of a nightmare. Long story semi-short, buy them online to save yourself the headache of tracking them down IRL.

To help you on your way, we've rounded up a number of options in various textures, colors and sizes so you and your legs will be warm 'till spring. Long live the sweater dress!

6 Essential Reasons To Book A Trip With A Travel Agent

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When booking a vacation, we're obviously always trying to get the lowest prices possible on airline tickets, hotels and rental cars. But aside from the usual tips (book trips 54 days in advance, choose the right day of the week, etc.), there's one secret weapon to nearly always ensuring a good deal: using a travel agent.

Inspired by a recent Reddit "Ask Me Anything" thread with luxury travel agent Steve Shulem, we've put together a list of the 6 reasons why you should book through an agent for your next big vacation.

1. They're likely to get you the lowest price possible.

George Hobica, travel expert and founder of Airfarewatchdog, says, "Travel agents have tricks up their sleeves that automated websites have never heard of." That means knowing when a price is actually at its lowest point or using unorthodox methods (like ferries or trains) to get you to your destination for less.

2. They've got better connections than the Internet.

As Shulem points out in his Reddit AMA, travel agents have resources and connections that the Internet does not. "We have discounted air, we have over 800 hotels where we throw in breakfast and a $100 resort credit, (and) we have cruises where we can get you upgrades and cruise credits and many times a better price," he wrote.

3. They've got the most "pull" with hotels.

Hotels are extra-careful to keep travel agents happy so that they'll continue to book in the future, writes a travel agent who goes by the name of Tychonaut on Reddit. "A hotel can tell you (a private customer) 'no' without a problem. But if they are dealing with an agent they have a bigger incentive to turn that 'no' to a 'yes,'" he writes.

4. They're especially great at finding group discounts.

If you're going to Disney World, taking a corporate trip or planning a romantic vacation, it's best to let travel agents do the work for you. They'll research the best deals for 2+ people, find coupons for going out to eat and try their best to upgrade your suite or hotel room to make it the best experience possible. Think of the time you're saving... researching alone would take days.

5. They'll rebook a flight for you.

Say your flight gets cancelled unexpectedly, or you're really, really unhappy with your rental car. Never fear, your travel agent is here! As Shulem explains on Reddit, "...the trend is to look to the travel agent to save you time and help you out should a mishap arise." Travel agents act as a safety net and can sometimes get extra help regarding cancelled tickets that you, acting alone, could not.

6. They can find the best cruises and cruise activities for you.

Need help finding a cruise ASAP, booking the perfect cabin or sorting through pages of off-the-boat excursions? Travel agents can get a cruise certification to help them navigate the cruise-planning waters like a total pro, and they're usually the first to find out about the best cruise deals or activities.

Marc Jacobs Debuts the FULL SS15 Campaign Starring Kendall Jenner, Adriana Lima and More

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Over the years, Marc Jacobs has developed his own identifiable campaign aesthetic: take 1-2 up-and-coming models, throw them against a stark background, add a couple quirky (or sometime downright eerie) props and let Juergen Teller do what he does best. But for spring/summer 2015, is appears that Jacobs is taking his namesake brand into a different direction. Shot by David Sim, it stars nine of the most talked-about models in the game -- a glimpse of which we got back when the first image was released back in December. Now, after much anticipation, the label has released the full campaign, and as expected, it does not disappoint.

In the same bare-faced makeup looks and black shaggy wigs spotted on the runway in September, Anja Rubik, Kendall Jenner, Karlie Kloss, Joan Smalls, Jessica Stam, Natasha Poly, Issa Lish, Adriana Lima and Anna Ewers come together this season to form the Marc Jacobs army-- all cast and styled by Jacobs's longtime collaborator Katie Grand in the same military uniform-inspired outfits. Much like the show, it's also a challenge to tell who's who at first look, which must be some kind of testament to the clothes considering the stature of the models at hand.

Scroll down for more of Marc Jacobs' SS15 army!

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Kendall Jenner


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Karlie Kloss


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Joan Smalls


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Natasha Poly


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Anna Ewers


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Jessica Stam


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Issa Lish


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Anja Rubik


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Jamie Lynn Spears Breaks Up Fight With Huge Knife At Pita Pit

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Last month, TMZ reported that former Nickelodeon star Jamie Lynn Spears broke up a brawl in a Pita Pit in Hammond, Louisiana when she grabbed a long, serrated bread knife and started waving it around.

As it turns out, that's actually what happened. In fact, the whole incident was caught on camera.

TMZ obtained the security footage, in which Britney Spears' 23-year-old sister springs to action, pulling her friend out of the fight before calmly marching behind the counter to grab a seven-inch bread knife, briefly chatting with the Pita Pit employee, and then proceeding to wave the blade around as a warning.

Spears hasn't commented on the incident herself, but she did post a photo on Instagram from what looks to be the same night the fight broke out, but somehow we think this photo-op happened earlier in the evening:

Happy Birthday @brandiblair22 !!! #nofilter

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Fashion and Philanthropy

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We all know the feeling.

We find that perfect item in a store, try it on, fall in love with it, look at the price tag, and... we know we shouldn't. After all, do we really need another pair of shoes?

This is how most of us respond to those inner promptings. We put the item back and walk out the store, empty handed.

Now imagine the same scenario, but with a twist.

We find that perfect item, try it on, fall in love, look at the price tag, and then... just as we're contemplating the "shouldn't," a smiling Sales Assistant kindly points out that "30 percent of the items proceeds benefits charity."

Our heartstrings are tugged. What will be the ending of this scenario?

At first glance, fashion and philanthropy seem to be worlds apart. The former seems to be solely focused on the self-centered act of making oneself look and feel good, whereas the later is giving of oneself selflessly without any thought of a return or accolades.

However, in recent years these two concepts have become entwined. In fact, the fashion industry has become a great supporter of all manner of philanthropic endeavors.

This is led by the forerunners of the industry, the designers themselves. Often, personal experiences influence them to turn to philanthropy, such as with Tommy Hilfiger. As the father of an autistic child, Tommy Hilfiger has become a huge benefactor of autism research.

That's one part of the equation. The other is a very simple fact -- customers want to feel that they are making a positive difference in the world. Giving a gift that "gives" even more than the actual item makes both the gift's giver and receiver feel a part of something greater.

Some companies count on people's innate desire to help so greatly that they base their business model on it and make giving a full time commitment. They end up becoming synonymous with the cause they champion.

Take for instance, TOMS. A trip to Argentina became the catalyst for TOMS founder, Blake Mycoskie, to create his company when he saw village children without shoes. To combat this, he came up with the pioneering, "One For One" model, matching every pair of shoes purchased with a pair of new shoes for a child in need. TOMS has since added eyeglasses and coffee to its line and has even created an online Marketplace with the same mission. In an interview with elpis Philanthropy Advisors, Mr. Mycoskie said that, "Our customers want to be a part of something bigger than themselves and give back. Giving is really what fuels us at TOMS and it's inspiring to see that it fuels our customers too."

Another example is FEED Projects. Its founder, Lauren Bush Lauren, witnessed the effects of hunger firsthand when she was a World Food Programme (WFP) spokesperson. Back home, she knew people wanted to help but they didn't know how to do so. Her answer? To create a line of reversible burlap handbags -- the sale of which would, "help FEED the World."

In most cases, philanthropy isn't as all encompassing, but nevertheless it still remains a part of a fashion company's activities.

To this extent, designers often produce limited edition items and allot a portion of the item's sales to a specific cause. London-based jeweler, Carolina Bucci is one example. Approximately a third of the purchase price from a special edition of her famous "Twister" bracelet is donated to the NSPCC. Another such example came a few years back when Greek jeweler, Ileana Makri, designed a bracelet alongside Missoni to help Orphan Aid.

Another way the industry goes about giving back is through organized events, such as K.I.D.S./Fashion Delivers which holds an annual philanthropic gala in N.Y.C.

So, going back to that original, not-so-hypothetical shopping scenario... I think we now know how that story ends! After all, even if the actual item is a gift to oneself, it's nice to know that part of its purchase price is also a gift for somebody else.

Natural, Softer Styles Hold Strong at People's Choice, Deeper Side Parts, Asymmetery and Sophistication

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By Gina Rivera, Phenix President, Founder and Hair Expert

The star-studded People's Choice Award is telling us that hair trends are holding steady toward soft and simpler styles, but perhaps with a move toward deeper side parts and asymmetrical design that add elegance and intrigue to these looks.

Actress Portia de Rossi ("Ally McBeal" and "Arrested Development") coined the new direction. She wore a layered bob with soft waves, a deep side part and asymmetrical shape that gave her style a classy, sophisticated look.

Hip Hop controversy Iggy Azalea made us "Beg for It" with her hair in sort-of '70s retro Go-Go look with a center part and some poof volume off the back of the crown.

Amy Adams ("Catch Me if You Can," "The Fighter" and "The Master") proves the ponytail will live forever. This look is still trending huge, and it's hard to imagine a time when it wouldn't have a VIP seat up front with so many possible variations. Adams looked terrific with her copper-red hair gathered in a slick-back look, yet another style that continues strong, and for good reason when it looks so fine.

How to Get It: You don't want slick-back ponytails to look oily so go easy with these nutrients and use hair gels and spray with a shiny finish. To get that symmetrical illusion, try parting the hair into a deep on the side and tuck the hair behind the ear and leave opposite side down. Add some big waves or loose curls with a big-barrel iron. Pull it out with your fingers for a softer curl or wave but do NOT overwork it.
Ginnifer Goodwin ("Big Love," "Something Borrowed," "Walk the Line") wore her deep, dark chocolate hair in an edgy, piecey pixie that retained a softness.

These deep, dark browns, like Goodwin's, are popular right now ... sure as the snow, a sign of winter. We're seeing a lot of deep plums and blood-reds, too. Meanwhile, though, blondes are holding strong and they look so, so great, and in these pure, all-over tones with subtle highlights and soft, soft color transitions, these typically-summer shads work wonderfully in the dead of winter.

As always, be open to change!

The Top 5 Spring Trends You Need in Your Wardrobe

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The winter may be gray, glum and cold. Every time my alarm goes off in the morning, I tend to forgo the previous night's adorable laid out outfit and opt for comfort and warmth. However, the winter cold doesn't need to put a damper in your outfit. Check out these must have Fashion Trends for Winter/Spring 2015 that can turn your outfit from BLAH to WOWZA.

1. The 70's Flare

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RIP Skinny Jeans! This Spring/Summer is all about the 70's flare. Dress it up or down, but make sure to wear porportional tops.

2. The Watch.
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The perfect watch can be worn dressed up or down. Take fashion inspiration from brands like Michael Kors, Rolex and Tommy Hilfiger for chunky menswear styled watches. Mix both feminine and masculine pops in your outfit to balance and keep up the 2015 trends.

3. Gingham
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The gridlock pattern is a Vogue approved must. From top to bottom to accessory, Gingham prints are available all over.

4. Fringe
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Not just for your inner cowgirl. Fringe detailing on skirts, dresses and even midriffs can dress up any outfit.

5. Pops of Yellow.
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A pop of yellow adds fun to any outfit. Designers like Michael Kors, Oscar de la Renta and DVF are hopping on the train and offering versatile fashionable options. Whether in a jacket or a pattern, yellow makes the outfit fashion forward.

Regardless of your style, take these trends into consideration and make them your own. Whether embracing this season's 70s vibes or making the trends mesh with your own wardrobe, the key is confidence!
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