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I Tried Wearing Fake Boobs And Here's What Happened

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A couple weeks ago, the fashion site The Coveteur tasked me with trying four "fake" beauty items (think chicken cutlets and false eyelashes) and then asked me to document my experience wearing them for an entire day. As a girl who rarely wears makeup, let alone fake breasts, you can imagine the experience was... interesting.

Here's what happened when I went all-fake-everything…

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Ever since my boobs stopped growing at age 14—to be fair, it could be argued that they never actually started growing—I've embraced my A-cups. Barring a failed attempt to stuff my bra with off-brand, rash-inducing scented tissues (I don't think I need to tell you that that was a failure), I've always just worn a sports bra and called it a day. Suffice it to say, trying these fake chicken cutlets was just a little out of my comfort zone.

I decided to try them out on a weekend and wear them to a bar with a low-cut shirt to see if big boobs really do equal better service.

Read the whole story on The Coveteur

Jeremy Renner Defends His Joke About Jennifer Lopez's 'Globes'

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While presenting at Sunday's Golden Globe Awards, Jeremy Renner decided to acknowledge that his co-presenter Jennifer Lopez has breasts by referring to them as "globes." This was of course supposed to be a humorous play on words as breasts, with their round shape, could resemble globes, and oh gee, they were at the at the Golden Globes.

Ha! Oh, what a lark.

But you see, this play on words wasn't so well received by some. Take comedian Sara Schaefer, who tweeted: "Jeremy Renner wins best supporting creep #GoldenGlobes."

Schaefer wasn't alone in her feelings as Twitter lit up with indignation, and on Monday, Renner shot back at his critics with a reminder to like, chillax, bro:


Julianne Moore Regrets She Didn't 'Stand Up Straight' During Her Golden Globe Acceptance Speech

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Julianne Moore's goal when accepting her Golden Globe for Best Actress in a Drama this past Sunday was to be "as present as possible," but as a result, according to the 54-year-old beauty, not everything transpired exactly the way she wished it had.

"Now I wish I had taken a deep breath and managed to get Kristen [Stewart]'s name out, for one thing, and Alec [Baldwin]'s," she told HuffPost Live on Tuesday, referring to her "Still Alice" co-stars. "Slowing down, I think, is the message."

The actress also lamented that she didn't accept the award with better posture.

"I didn't stand up straight, though," she griped. "As I walked up to the stage, I was all hunched over."

But while Moore "didn't prepare much of anything" in the way of an acceptance speech leading up to the event, she doesn't necessarily plan on taking a more deliberate approach in the future.

"I also feel like it's bad juju," she said. "I'm oddly superstitious, too. You know, you feel if you're too prepared, you're asking for it."

Co-star Kristen Stewart, also present for the HuffPost Live conversation, added that she thinks it looks presumptuous when stars bring a printed speech up to the stage.

"That looks so silly -- you come up with a piece of paper and you're like, 'I knew it! I knew it!'" she laughed.

Watch more from Julianne Moore and Kristen Stewart's joint HuffPost Live conversation here.

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Kim Kardashian Shares Her First No Makeup Selfie Of 2015

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It's time for a little role-playing game: Imagine you are Kim Kardashian.

It's a Tuesday (Jan. 13, to be specific). You are getting your nails done when the inspiration to take a selfie hits you. The problem is that you aren't wearing any makeup. What do you do?

You look deep inside your soul and find the courage to take that first makeup-free selfie of 2015. You let that practically pore-less skin shine. You post it on Instagram, Twitter and Facebook because it's important to be active across multiple social platforms.

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After your nails are done you sit there still clutching your phone, thinking about what it means to take a makeup-free selfie.

Anna Kendrick Says She 'Would Hate' To Be Overconfident

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There are plenty of reasons to love Anna Kendrick, but perhaps the actress' biggest draw is her relatability. Kendrick's candid interviews, hilarious Twitter account and self-deprecating humor tend to make her feel less like an untouchable celebrity and more like the best friend we wish we had. In Nylon's February issue, the "Into the Woods" star told the magazine about why she would hate to be overconfident:

I think self-doubt is healthy. It pushes you, and humbles you, and I would really hate to be one of the three people in the fucking universe who are actually well-rounded, because then you can’t relate to anybody else’s inner shit. Sometimes I meet people who are too confident. I’m like, "I don’t even like being around you. You’re boring. Get a neurosis, and then we’ll talk."


But that doesn't mean that she doesn't feel comfortable in her own skin. The 29-year-old told Nylon that she's learned to accept and embrace her body over the years:

“I was a very late bloomer," Kendrick said. "I was the smallest in my class, always telling myself, ‘I’m never getting boobs!’ I remember being comforted by hearing that guys like small boobs and big boobs. They like any boobs!’ At the time I was like, ‘That is excellent news!’”

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For more with Anna Kendrick, head over to Nylon, and pick up a copy of the February issue, on newsstands Jan. 20.

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Why an Unpaid Internship Was Worth 4,000 Miles and $3,000

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You know those Hollywood types who fall into acting because of timing and luck? That's kind of how I got into journalism. I had never considered it as a kid -- I'd always worked on the school paper, and thought it would be cool to see my name in print, but had always considered myself a creative writer first. I applied to write for Her Campus Johns Hopkins, but because Her Campus National was looking for a JHU Campus Correspondent, I found myself building a chapter of the publication as a freshman. When it was time to apply for summer internships, I sent out 31 applications, but was at a disadvantage because I was an incoming sophomore, and most publications prefer to hire juniors or seniors.

Just when I thought I'd be tutoring SAT/ACT at my local library, I got an email from the copy chief of Sports Illustrated. He was impressed by my resume, and called me for an interview, where he hired me on the spot. At Sports Illustrated, I worked in the Copy department, so I was observing conferences, helping the copyeditors with filing, and learning how to copyedit. I spent my summer cross-referencing the Merrium-Webster's 11th Edition with the Sports Illustrated Style Book, double-checking that the en dashes and em dashes were in the right places, and I wouldn't have had it any other way. Looking back, I realize how wonderful that internship was -- SI treated me like a member of the team, which is something very few interns can say.

At the end of the summer, I dreaded going back to Baltimore, simply because it wasn't New York, which has an intoxicating quality when you're young and ambitious. I didn't want to stop working -- so I found myself applying for fall internships and going on interviews during my lunch breaks at SI. I landed a gig at Elle, which I couldn't turn down. To make it work, I changed my entire JHU schedule to fit a full course load on Monday and Tuesday, so I could get on an Amtrak to New York Wednesday morning and work Wednesday, Thursday, and Friday from 10 am to 6 pm. My dad doesn't believe in internships (he thinks companies take advantage of interns), but my mother was supportive because she's always encouraged me to pursue unique experience.

The Elle internship was more traditional, despite my nontraditional approach to it -- interview transcriptions, archival work, research for spreads, and yes, coffee runs and errands. It was a reality check, especially coming off the SI internship. The office was a totally different environment and the learning curve was steeper. I had less access to editors, less room for error, and more pressure. When my friends found out what I was commuting for, the responses were mixed; my favorite was, "That is both really fantastic and completely insane," which it was. I was exhausted all the time, and slept on the train because I was doing my schoolwork in the middle of the night. I broke seven years of vegetarianism because I needed more protein, got hooked on caffeine, and caught walking pneumonia five weeks in. But I was also surrounded by people working in the pop journalism industry -- there was talk in the cafeteria sushi line about the Rihanna cover and the Lorde interview. I got to observe a tabletop photo shoot, and learned how to style my collegiate wardrobe so it looked on-trend.

My life became a bizarre dichotomy of academia and pop culture -- even though my homework focused on Frank O'Hara's poetry and Hans Holbein's paintings, I learned that Eva Chen (a Hopkins alum) and Lucky had spun off from Conde Nast, Joanna Coles was named Editorial Director of Seventeen, and Karl Lagerfeld designed for both Chanel and Fendi. Back at school, my priorities changed -- I dropped out of clubs I'd loved freshman year, lost touch with acquaintances, and spent less time on schoolwork.

After 10 weeks, my Sports Illustrated money started to run out, and I needed to end the Elle internship because it was getting too expensive. Over those 10 weeks, I travelled 4,000 miles and spent $3,000 on an unpaid internship. I also discovered that the magazine industry is thrilling, but I'm still more passionate about the arts.

Before I started commuting between Baltimore and New York, my uncle told me not to do it. "You'll miss out on the college thing. Go have fun."

"This is my idea of fun," I said. It was fun to step out of my comfort zone, because uncharted territory is exciting (and learning to walk in heels is an important life skill). It was fun to prove to myself how far I will go -- 2,000 miles, apparently -- to make it in a competitive industry. Suddenly, everything from creative writing to screenwriting to film production seemed within my reach. It was empowering to do something ridiculous.

The other day, a friend of mine, a Hopkins pre-med interested in switching to magazine journalism, asked if I'd recommend doing an internship. She said it was impossible to fit it into her pre-med track, but she'd hate herself if she didn't give media a try.

"I'd say do it, even if it seems impossible," I told her, "You might surprise yourself."

The Pitti Uomo Diaries: Florence is Where the Heart Is

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Giancarlo Giannini with Solis String Quarter and Peppe Servillo, reading from Salvatore Ferragamo's memoirs at Palazzo Spini Feroni in Florence


The past few days for me have been heavy. I've searched my soul for personal thoughts about the attacks in France and have still to figure out how I feel. I know I'm sad, I find the events tragic and discouraging, but beyond that, I don't know.

Then, just as I was trying to make sense of it all through social media, and tweeted "#JeSuisAhmed," I was called a "useful idiot" on Twitter, by a 60-something Pakistani-Canadian author with a pot belly. I am used to insults from young trolls with faceless avatars by now, but this was a published writer, a man who has a hefty following of equal haters, many of whom quickly retweeted his comment. For all I've written, for every step I've taken in trying to stay away from typical media negativity and inspire those who read my thoughts to watch films and read books as means to understand the Arab world better (in my opinion the easiest and only solution for the sake of humanity) I felt defeated.

And just then, at that crucial moment, that's when a couple I call my angels of inspiration came to the rescue. Lisa Chiari and Roberto Ruta are a Florence-based duo in life and work who never cease to amaze me. They are the International Press and Italian Press Relations, respectively, for Pitti Imagine, which this week has infused Florence with the style of Pitti Uomo. Beautiful fashion, wandering around my home city, the food and hospitality of this place, and seeing Lisa and Roberto turns out to be exactly what my weary soul needs now. Right now.

2015-01-13-IMG_06771.jpg My journey started with a train. It's been years since I've taken one in Italy, I've grown accustomed to air travel. But flights were completely booked up on the day I wanted to set off and the train turned out to be an economical and very satisfying experience. Trains in Italy aren't what they used to be when I was a child, that's for sure. These days they are called things like "Red Arrow" and "Silver Arrow", are fast, on time and full of well behaved adults -- except for the one Italian man with the loud ringtone and even louder timber who thankfully sat at the other end of my car.

Once in Florence, I headed off to my favorite restaurant. It's probably the kind of place they had in mind when they wrote the theme song for Cheers "... Sometimes you want to go where everybody knows your name, and they're always glad you came." The immediate hospitality of the folks at La Casalinga is the reason the restaurant has been a Florentine institution for the most informed clientele since I was a child. But people keep coming back for La Casalinga's decently priced, home-cooked style food and great atmosphere. Whenever I set foot in this magical reign of great nourishment, ancient patronage and exquisitely familiar ambiance I feel like I've returned to my city, my place and most importantly, my identity. As one stylish woman in her seventies said to her fur clad equally charming friend seated at the next table, by herself, "here one is never alone." I toasted silently to the luxury of eating a meal by myself, enjoying every explosion of taste and my surroundings, uninterrupted.

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My grandfather Hans Rothe wrote in his book Shakespeare Provocateur that Italians and foreigners view Italy differently. He made the example of how a Florentine interacts with the constant flow of artistic masterpieces that he or she passes every day on the streets of the city, at once owning it all and nonchalant. But a Swede, for example, sees the beauty, and savors the artistic intention of the various craftsmen that "decorated" it. I consider myself lucky that I view Florence with both sets of eyes. I walk its streets knowing instinctually where I'm going, what I'll be passing soon, but my NYC upbringing and long time spent away make for a discovery here at every corner. I stop, stare, get lost in the beauty of this city, which in my very biased and humble opinion, possesses no ugly perspective, or unattractive views.

The Pitti Uomo related events kicked off with an evening performance at the Salvatore Ferragamo headquarters, inside Palazzo Spini Feroni, of "L'eleganza di una vita: Storia di un gentiluomo d'altri tempi." It was a reading by Italian acting legend Giancarlo Giannini, accompanied by Neapolitan songs sung by Peppe Servillo and the Solis String Quartet, of Ferragamo's memoirs Shoemaker of Dreams: the Autobiography of Salvatore Ferragamo.



The excerpts read described the journey of this master shoe designer, from his humble beginnings in Bonito, near Naples -- as the eleventh of fourteen children -- to the first two pairs of shoes he made (for his sister's First Communion) his setting off for America, where he stated "I felt at home the moment I arrived." Finally, to his settling in Florence for his work and life, with his wife Wanda. The most touching part of the evening was Giannini reading Ferragamo's retelling of his first meeting with his future wife, how he fell in love with her, while Wanda Ferragamo herself sat in the front row, listening. I imagined the thrill, and sorrow, of hearing her praises written by her deceased husband, immortalized forever in his book. Read in the husky voice of Giannini, who was nursing a cold thus adding to his charm, was thrilling and touching.

2015-01-13-cioccolatiniferragamo_thumb1.jpg Afterward, cocktails and chocolates in the form of Ferragamo's most recognized silhouette, the "Rainbow" platform created for Judy Garland in 1938, welcomed the guests, while the third generation of Ferragamos, embodied by the handsome James, played host of the evening in their boutique.

The evening finished beautifully at Il Santo Bevitore, a gourmet restaurant that combines the best traditions of Italian food style. I stand corrected, Florentine food style. Growing up in this alimentary paradise lays the foundation for great food habits that last a lifetime. The idea that the biggest meal of the day should happen at lunchtime and the evening should instead comprise of some charcuterie, cheeses and maybe something small and warm like a soup, has been my saving discipline. Forget food pyramids and fad diets, the Florentines have had it right for centuries and this restaurant, run by chef Pierluigi Campi, does it perfectly. With some truffle-infused pecorino, a bowl of hot pumpkin soup that simply nourished my soul, I rediscovered that home will always be... where Florence is.

I look forward to the upcoming days of style with highlights including "Cloakroom", a performance by Tilda Swinton and Olivier Saillard, and Pitti Uomo's guest designer Marni.

Top image courtesy of Salvatore Ferragamo SpA, used with permission.

Miss BumBum Contestant: 'I'm Being Punished For Stupid Vanity' (GRAPHIC PHOTO)

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A Miss BumBum runner-up said her obsession with plastic surgery backfired and almost ended her life.

Andressa Urach won second place in the 2012 Miss BumBum competition, a beauty contest in which online voters pick the woman with the country's top bottom.

To accentuate her figure, Urach told the Daily Mailshe had chemical filler injections for more full looking legs. But in 2013, the fillers started rotting her body tissue.

The real trouble began during a procedure to remove the chemicals in November. She went into septic shock, probably because of an infection from an unclean medical instrument, Nigel Mercer, president of the British Association of Plastic, Reconstructive and Aesthetic Surgeons, told the Mail.

Doctors saved her life, but now she's confined to a wheelchair and has large holes in her legs where doctors reached the harmful chemicals.

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"I'm paying now for my vanity. I was extremely vain. Everything in search of perfection," Urach told the Mail. "But instead of making my body more beautiful, I ended up damaging it instead and making it ugly."

Urach also said she had become too accustomed to getting plastic surgery.

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"I never thought twice about going under the knife, and when people warned me of the dangers I just thought, 'I'll deal with that if it happens,'' Urach said. "I'd go to the doctor like I go to the supermarket, saying I wanted this, that and the other. I just wanted people to look at me and think, 'wow"'.

She's now dedicated to telling others about her experience and warning women about excessive cosmetic surgeries.


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Urach's mother, Marisete De Favari told Brazil's Globo that she expected her daughter to recover.

"I'm sure that my dear Jesus is wonderful and will cure it," she said.



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Daily Shower May Be Bad For Your Skin. Docs Suggest 'Soak And Smear'

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The blast of frigid air across the country is freezing our fingers and drying out our skin. Combine this weather with the American love of frequent showers and baths and you’ve got a recipe for itchy, parched skin, or aggravated conditions like dermatitis and eczema.

New York Times Plans To Create Monthly Men's Style Section

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The New York Times is planning a new section in its print newspaper devoted to men's fashion and lifestyle coverage that will build on the Times' successful and lucrative Styles section, which runs on Thursdays and Sundays, Capital has learned.

Times spokeswoman Danielle Rhoades-Ha confirmed the plans when asked about them, saying in an email, "It will run on the first Friday of every month beginning in the Spring. There are no plans to go weekly."

Sweet Dreams Are Made Of These 15 Amazing Pillows

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A pillow is a very important thing in your life. Some people take their pillows really seriously, and some just don't. Are you a side sleeper? Or do you like pillows upon pillows around you as lounge? Or kitschy cute, especially in your guest room? Do you, perhaps, dream about food?

Whatever your thing is, we've found the perfect pillow for you. Here are 15 pillows for every single kind of person.

1. This body "hugging" pillow for the person who can't bear to sleep alone at night.

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2. This fish pillow is for the person who always dreamt of a life at sea... or something.

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3. This "Multi Position" pillow is for the person who sleeps every which way except on their back.

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4. These pillows are for the guests who always end up staying... longer than you expected.

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5. This "OSTRICH PILLOW" for the person who needs to take a nap right. this. minute.

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6. This "Handy napping pillow" for the person who can magically manage to get in a nap standing up.

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7. These "puzzle pillows" for the couple who can't get enough of each other.

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8. This wedding picture pillow for the "just married" pair.

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9. And these "My Half Your Half" pillows for the couple who needs their own space.

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10. These junk food pillows for couch potatoes who want to lounge on something almost as delicious looking as their snacks.

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11. Or these "sweet treats" pillows for the person who would rather fast forward to dessert.

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12. This "nigiri salmon" pillow is for the person who eats sushi on a daily basis.

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13. This French bulldog pillow for the person who wants a trendy dog to sleep with, but doesn't want the responsibility.

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14. These "emoji pillows" for that person who falls asleep still texting their friends. (P.S. You shouldn't be!)

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15. And this "rolled banknote" pillow for the people who dream of making more money every single night -- aka, all of us.

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#HospitalGlam Is How Artist Karolyn Gehrig Shows That Chronic Illness Doesn't Stop You From Being Glamorous

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When artist Karolyn Gehrig is undergoing treatment for her chronic illness, she doesn't want to feel invisible. So she posts glamorous selfies of herself undergoing medical treatments -- and looking fabulous -- using the hashtag #HospitalGlam.

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Gehrig was diagnosed with Ehlers-Danlos syndrome (EDS), an inherited disorder that affects the body's connective tissues, in 2003. Since then she has undergone constant treatments and struggled with the stigma of having an invisible illness.

"I started posting #hospitalglam because it was frustrating to me that every time I got sicker I'd disappear from my commitments and then feel shy about explaining where I'd been when I knew there was absolutely nothing wrong with pursuing treatment for my disabling chronic illnesses," Gehrig told The Huffington Post.

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Gehrig's images show what her day-to-day life of chronic illness is like, conveying strength in the face of her treatments.

"I began using some conventions of fashion photography to strip away ambiguity about my viewpoint and make it clear that I retain every part of myself through this battle," Gehrig told HuffPost. "I'm very excited to see how we can move forward and work on destigmatizing illness en masse."


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Gehrig hopes that the hashtag will become a social movement, inspiring other people with chronic illnesses to share their experiences in treatment.

“I want everyone who goes into a doctor’s office to feel empowered, and that they can be themselves,” she told BuzzFeed Life. “There’s nothing about being disabled that I should be ashamed of. Taking care of yourself is really important.”

See more amazing #HospitalGlam images below.

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A Conversation With Los Angeles Designer, Ryan White

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The first time I met interior designer, Ryan White, he was graciously holding court during an intimate dinner at the Colony Palms Hotel in Palm Springs. He was dressed sharply in a crisp white button down, a dark sport jacket that slightly revealed three bracelets adorning his wrists and had his blond hair perfectly coifed. His dashing good looks and undeniable charm was reminiscent of the Hollywood's Golden Age, aligning perfectly with the spirit of the room. The smile on his face captured his enthusiasm for the amazing year he's been having as a designer.

Ryan recently came onto the Los Angeles design scene after moving from a successful modeling career with FORD models in New York. He quickly found his passion designing interiors in this city and in under one year has been recognized by publications like House Beautiful, Elle Decor and The Hollywood Reporter. At only 30 years old, Mr.White is being compared to designers like Kelly Wearstler and Nate Berkus helping his brand evolve into a complete lifestyle. We recently reconnected in Hollywood to talk more about his aesthetic, inspiration, aspirations and the future of Ryan White Designs.

What's the one word that best describes the last year for RWD?
Growth. On so many different levels.

How would you describe your aesthetic?
Highly cultivated. I like homes to look well traveled through different elements and select individual pieces. There is great joy in creating a space that reflects a lifetime of travel. I also have a passion for projects that promote "less is more" through modern and contemporary elements. It all comes down to the individual space and the inspired vision to transform it.

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Where do your ideas for each space come from?
When I step into a room, I approach it like a blank canvas. I allow the room to speak to me and go with my instincts from there to blend my vision with my client's personality to mold the finished room. It's amazing to see a vision so clearly in your mind and be given the liberty to bring it to life.

What makes a great room?
A room should feel like a symphony. There should be multiple layers that evoke all of your senses at once.

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You began your design career in Los Angeles to immediate success. Why did you choose to begin in LA over New York City?

I thought to take a leap and try it out in LA. As it turns out I fell in love with the city, my passion and my work. When I was presented with my first opportunity to design, I knew I was on the right path.

How did you feel when you designed your first project?

I felt like I was doing exactly what I should be doing. In the middle of the project I was like, "YES! I need to be doing this!" and that feeling has never stopped. Luckily, people responded well to my work and new projects were presented. This city has been very good to me.

What about interiors connected with you?

The idea of being able to live in the reality of art. A painting you can look at and you can think certain things, but a room that is well done, is livable art. You will have thousands of experiences in that room and it will constantly evoke emotions in you. I truly connected with the feeling of being able to create that and also exist in that.

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How do you stay inspired?
By constantly seeing that this world is limitless and there are always opportunities to conquer your fears and rise to new heights. It's all about putting it out there, dreaming as big as possible and believing you can make it happen.

What can we expect from Ryan White Designs next?
RWD is evolving from a design firm to a complete lifestyle brand. I'm ready to take it to the next level.


Portrait by Jonathan Clay Harris
Project photos by Steven Buskin

Valentine's Countdown: 5 Ways to Land a Date

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While New Year's might be a distant memory, It's only one month until Valentine's Day. If you're single, there's no need to be depressed or hide under the covers. If you're dating someone, but he hasn't asked you to be his Valentine just yet, here are some tips to enjoy the day, regardless of your relationship status. Remember, Valentine's is on a weekend this year and it's also during President's Day weekend, so think big and be optimistic.

1. Ramp up Your Online Search

Let's face it, everyone seems to be online theses days, so if you're not logging on EVERY day, checking your matches and responding quickly to his emails, some other girl just might get his attention faster. It's true what they say that the squeaky wheel gets the deal. If you can carve out time to go to the gym, you should be able to schedule time to log on daily. Make sure you've signed up for notifications of when someone has emailed you or made you their favorite so you can respond quickly. Ditch the old waiting game rules. This is how the digital dating world words.

2. Keep Swiping Right

If you're on Tinder, Hinge, or are using the mobile dating apps from your favorite online dating site, make more of an effort to log on and swipe right to your matches. It's really a numbers game. Unless your match is advertising for a hookup or looks like an ax murderer, swipe right and take a moment to say hello. A guy will be flattered to see the notification that you're digging him digitally. Remember to take your relationship from online to offline so you can meet IRL.

3. Attend Singles Events

The one thing about singles events is, everyone is in the same boat. They're single and are hoping to connect with someone. Check out Stir events in your city, RSVP to a MeetUp for a subject you're passionate about, and attend business networking events. The more you're out there in the public, the more opportunities you have to flirt with a potential date. Remember not to be too coy. Be bold and smile. Dr. Pat Allen, author of Getting to I Do, suggests the five-second stare. It may feel like an eternity, but it may bring you closer to that cute guy across the room. P.S. Remember to wear red! It's the color of love and romance and is known to attract men.

Related: Read Valentine's Survival Guide

4. Text an Ex

Did you know that 20 percent of singles do text an ex on or around Valentine's Day? So if both of you are single, why not get together and go down memory lane. Make sure you're on the same page and just enjoy the evening. You may not be rekindling, but the familiarity might just make it a fun evening rather than flying solo.

5. Don't Go Overboard

From going to an amusement park to ride the Ferris Wheel to taking a cooking class or going ice skating, make Valentine's Day a no-pressure experience if you're in a new relationship and aren't exclusive yet. There's no need to break the bank.

Related: Read 10 Fun Valentine's Date Ideas

Being single on Valentine's isn't the end of the world. Sure you go into stores and see nothing but boxes of red candy and roses throughout the grocery stores, but a new survey from U.K. online dating site Smooch.com shows that only 10 percent of the 2000 singles polled actually love Valentine's Day. Are the other 90 percent pretending to go along with the program?

Grab your BFF's, dress in pink or red, and head to the movies, a concert together or celebrate a day of friendship at lunchtime.

Valentine's Day isn't always about love. It's about spending quality time with someone you really like.

Are you a fan or foe of Valentine's Day?

Original article appeared on CyberDatingExpert.com

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Julie Spira is America's Top Online Dating Expert and Digital Matchmaker. She was an early adopter of online dating and creates Irresistible Profiles for singles on the dating scene. For more online dating advice like us at Facebook.com/CyberDatingExpert and sign up for the Free Weekly Flirt newsletter.

150 Reasons Why We Have Not Yet Reached Peak Beard

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The demise of the Beard has been vastly overstated.

Hirsute taste-makers were put on notice last April in a Guardian Australia article, "Fashion-conscious men warned we may have reached 'peak beard'." The piece cited research by the University of New South Wales in Sydney that concluded: when you're shown a succession of images of bearded men, clean-shaven guys become more attractive to you.

No big hairy surprise there, but the headline's prediction of calamity to "fashion-conscious" men who are enjoying letting their face freak flag fly was clearly an absurd ruse meant to mislead people. "Watch out," the pogonophobes seem to shriek, waving their razors and clippers and every other epilator known to the huge hair-removal industry, "you endangered beardos, your time is up! May as well get out those clippers and razors right now and do what we fasionistas demand must be the end of the trend of the beardly man."

The researcher admitted, "it was hard to tell how the experiment related to the real world" despite his conclusion that "the fashion for beards might be reaching its zenith."

For those of us observing this trend in the real world, any cursory scan of cable TV programming will demonstrate that there is no evidence that consumers and the ad agencies that love them are suffering from beard or mustache fatigue. To the point, when multimillion-dollar ad campaigns increasingly place male actors with facial hair into prominence, any claim that we have reached "peak beard" must be considered premature. Some, like Old Spice, even put ridiculous fake beards on their pitchmen (they couldn't find a guy with a real beard? Really?).

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Following is a list of major brands that used beards to sell their products and services over the past 14 weeks, everything from household gadgets to luxury cars, with links to some of the 365+ images on my Pinterest board, Beards on TV Ads. From AARP to Zzzquil, a huge market still defies the pogonophobes and hair-naysayers. Images of man-fur, fuzzy-faced men, and beards continue to mature and develop in pop culture, as evidenced by the cold hard cash that these corporations are willing to part with to support the continuing appeal of poilus.

AARP. Absolut. Acura. Aflac. Aleve. Alka-Seltzer. Allstate. American Express. Amica. Android. Android Tracfone. Angie's List. Appleby's. AT&T. Audi. Bayer. BMW. Booking.com. Brother. Bud Light. Cadillac. Campbell's. Capital One. Cascade. Chase. Cheerios. Cigna. Cîroc. Cheetos. Chevy. Coke. Coors. Corona. Crest. CSX. CVSHealth. Dawn. Depend. Delta. Denny's. Dewars. DirecTV. Discover Card. Dodge. Dollar Shave Club. Doritos. Dos Equis, "The Most Interesting Man in the World." Duluth Trading Co. Dunkin' Donuts. eHarmony. Eliquis. FedEx. Fiber One. Ford. Frosted Mini-Wheats. Gatorade. GE. Geico. GoGurt. Google. GrubHub. H&R Block, sponsor of the 2012 Washington, DC "Million Mustache March." Heineken. Hewlett-Packard. Honda. Hotels.com, "Captain Obvious." Hulu. Humira. IHOP. Infiniti. Jack Daniels. Jameson. Just for Men for Beards. KFC. Kia. KitKat. Laser Spine Institute. Legal Zoom. Lexus. Liberty Mutual. Lincoln. Lipton. Little Caesars Pizza. L.L. Bean. MasterCard. McDonald's. Men's Wearhouse. Mercedes-Benz. Microsoft Cloud. Miller. Mio. Motorola. National Car Rental. Nestle's. Nexium. Nicorette. Nike. Nintendo. Nissan Altima. Ocuvite. Office Depot. Oxyclean, the late great Billy Mays. Pizza Hut. Priceline. Prilosec. Progressive. Prudential. Ram trucks. Realtors. Sabra. Safelite. Salonpas. Sam Adams. Samsung Galaxy. Silk. Skittles. Smirnoff, "Okay, beardo." Smith & Forge. Sony. Sprint. Sprint Framily Plan. "More beard!" State Farm. Subaru. Subway. T-Mobile. Taco Bell. TD Ameritrade. The North Face. Toshiba. Totino's. Toyota. TrueCar. Tullamore Dew. Tums. Tylenol. University of Phoenix. UPS. Verizon. Viagra. Vistaprint. Vizio. VW. Wallet Ninja. Wendy's. Whole Foods Market. Xarelto. Xeljanz. Zillow. Zzzquil.

Dr. Kevin Clarke, the author of Beards: An Unshaven History, pointed out in an interview "how three very different groups of people adopted beards after 2001 for very different reasons, but collectively inspired the world to grow back big old-fashioned beards." These groups are gay/bi bears, cowboy fashion renaissance post-9/11, and "asexual hipsters, adopting the Taliban beard as an anti-establishment statement, but eliminating its political implications."

American ad agencies are arguably more "real world" than the UNSW research study sample of 1,453 bisexual or heterosexual women and 213 straight men (exclusion of gay and bi men and lesbians should raise doubts as to the legitimacy of the study methodology). The study also noticed a reverse effect, in which people shown a succession of clean-shaven images found that bearded or scruffy men became more attractive; however, this shaven-face fatigue factor in the study is conveniently ignored when proclaiming the the Beard is dead, long live the Beard.

Bearders are gonna beard, shavers are gonna shave, but even in a post-Whisker Wars world, clearly lumbersexuality is on the rise and peak beard is not yet within sight. As far as the pogonophiles are concerned, there is still ample room for the beard to grow and flourish.

11 Revelations From Gwyneth Paltrow's Interview With Howard Stern

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Gwyneth Paltrow said it herself during her interview with Howard Stern on Wednesday: "Just get me to shut the fuck up!”

Well, Gwyneth didn't take her own advice. In fact, it appears she couldn't help but talk about every aspect of her life on Stern's Sirius XM show, including past loves, famous friends and her thoughts on estranged husband Chris Martin's rumored new girlfriend, Jennifer Lawrence.

Here are 11 things we learned from Paltrow's no-holds-barred interview on "The Howard Stern Show:"

1. In her opinion, Gwyn's most-famous "famous" friends are Jay Z and Beyonce.
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"My best famous friend is Cameron Diaz and Jay and Beyonce. I met Jay first at a benefit in New York probably, I think I had had my daughter but not my son yet. And we all became friends," she said. "I normally don’t [become friends with famous people] but in that particular case, Chris and Jay, we all just kind of [vibed] ... They’re the greatest people. They’re funny and sweet and they’re self-aware and they’re really intelligent."


2. Coldplay's song "Fix You" was written about her.
"'Fix You' was about him trying to put me back together after my dad died," she said of Chris Martin, adding that there were "a few" tunes written for her. "I think it’s pretty nice."


3. Paltrow swears she did not steal her Oscar-winning "Shakespeare In Love" role from Winona Ryder.
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"That’s an urban myth," she asserted, saying she hasn't seen Ryder in years. "I swear to God I did not, I’m raising my right hand on the Bible. I swear to God."


4. Her late father, Bruce Paltrow, was the real love of her life.
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Paltrow's dad died in October of 2002, following a battle with cancer. "He was kind of the love of my life. I’ll never forget when he died .... someone wrote me an email saying, ‘Everybody has a father, but not everybody has a daddy.’ And that’s what he was," she said. "He was the best."


5. Gwyneth's real philosophy behind "conscious uncoupling" is simpler than you think.

Gwyneth made the phrase "conscious uncoupling" a thing last year after announcing her split from Chris Martin. "The idea is you try to do it with minimal acrimony and you say, 'Look, we have kids, we’re always going to be a family and let’s try to find all the positives in our relationship, all the things that brought us together, the friendship.' We actually have a really strong friendship and we laugh and we have fun," she said of her split from Martin. "But there are times when it’s really difficult and things happen and you’re like, ‘I’m sure he doesn’t want to hang out with me and I don’t want to hang out with him.' But for the sake of the kids you do it. But you also don’t do it all tense."


6. Apple Martin really likes her name, according to her mom.
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“She loves it, she does," Gwyneth said, adding, "Chris named her though."


7. If Chris Martin is into Jennifer Lawrence, his estranged wife is cool with it.

Martin is reportedly dating Jennifer Lawrence, although neither one of them have spoken out about the relationship. Still, it sounds like Gwyneth is a fan.

Howard Stern: Let’s say he starts dating someone you don’t approve of, like J.Law or whatever the hell her name is.
Gwyneth Paltrow: Who says I don’t approve?
HS: You don’t approve of Jennifer Lawrence ...
GP: Why not?!
HS: Because I’m saying this, just assuming ... But that’s going to be an issue.
GP: Why is it going to be an issue?
HS: Because you don’t want your kids exposed to someone who’s a maniac.
GP: But I respect him as the father of my children and it’s his life and it’s his decision. And I do think he loves the kids so much and I don’t think he’d be with someone who wasn’t great. And if I’m wrong, I’ll come back here and tell you.


8. She turned down a role in "Boogie Nights" because of her conservative grandfather.
"I can't be totally naked and giving a BJ onscreen. I'll kill my grandfather," she said of the role, which eventually went to Heather Graham. She also turned down the part of Rose in "Titanic," which was ultimately played by Kate Winslet, but she says she doesn't regret her decision: "I look back on some of the choices that I've made and I'm like, why the hell did I say no to this and yes to that? And you look at the big picture and you think there's a universal lesson here and you know, you can't hold on. What good is it?"


9. She thought Brad Pitt was "too good" for her, and their breakup devastated her father.
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Paltrow and Pitt fell in love on the set of the 1995 film "Seven" and dated for almost three years before splitting. "I definitely fell in love with him. He was so gorgeous and sweet and, I mean, he was Brad Pitt, you know?" she told Stern. The couple became engaged before calling it off because she felt she wasn't ready to take the next step. "I was such a kid," she told Stern. "I mean I was 22 when we met and it's taken me until 40 to get my head out of my ass. You can't make a decision when you're 22 years old."

The actress says the breakup wasn't easy on her father, either: "My father was so devastated when we broke up. My father loved him like a son." Still, the pair remain amicable exes, as Paltrow insists that she and Pitt are "friendly" when they see each other.


10. She says her ex-boyfriend Ben Affleck "wasn't in a good place in his life to have a girlfriend."
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After her breakup with Brad Pitt, Paltrow moved on with another A-lister, Ben Affleck. But when Affleck and Paltrow split in 2000 after an on-and-off relationship of three years, her parents weren't as upset as they were when she and Pitt went their separate ways. "I think they appreciated how [Affleck] is super intelligent, and he's really, really talented and he's funny. But he wasn't in a good place in his life to have a girlfriend so I think they were okay with -- they loved him -- but they were okay with us not being [together]," she said.


11. But Gwyneth, Ben and his wife Jennifer Garner are all close friends.
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"I like him, I'm friends with him still. He settled down and his wife is awesome. Not only is she beautiful, but she's so warm and she cooks and is so into her kids -- she's really great and she's hilarious," she said of Garner. "I had a girls' dinner before the summer and she came over, she's my neighbor. I really like her a lot."




Listen to the full interview here:

Selena Gomez Slips Into A Black Bikini

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Looks like Selena Gomez took some time out of her busy schedule for an afternoon swim.

The bikini-clad singer posted a selfie to her Instagram account as she relaxed in the sunshine, writing a caption that totally reminds of us of our old AIM away messages: "Swim, shower, script then studio":

Swim, shower, script then studio ☺️ have a great day erbody #face

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Perhaps Gomez is reading the script for her upcoming lead role in the film adaptation of the 2013 novel by Jonathan Evison, The Revised Fundamentals of Caregiving. The 22-year-old announced the casting news on her Twitter account on Tuesday:




According to Deadline, Gomez will play the role of a "sassy young woman" who meets a frustrated teenage boy with muscular distrophy and his caregiver, Ben (Paul Rudd). It looks like Rudd and Gomez are already acquainted, as she snapped a photo with the actor (and Justin Theroux) at a Golden Globes after-party on Sunday night:

The guys were, happy

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PSA: Sometimes One Earring Is Better Than Two

5 Ways To Whip Your Bathroom Into Shape

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For a room we spend so much time in, the bathroom often gets taken for granted when it comes to organization and decor. Products can pile up and it's hard to keep everything tidy in such a small space! But with a few tricks, you can quickly transform your bathroom into a calming oasis.

The Pitti Uomo Diaries: I Could Wear That and Hood By Air

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The MINI mascots, in front of the MINI Pavilion, taking a well deserved break from their fans


It's amazing how the mind works. When I see something appealing, I immediately start imagining ways to get it for myself and being around menswear this week is no exception. There are belts I like, hats that would complete my outfit, accessories that seem fantastically cross-gender and in one particular pavilion, women's down jackets that I could put on right now. That's probably the reason why museum gift shops are such a successful concept -- we as humans, want what we see.

At Pitti Uomo in Florence, running through Friday, where designers are showing their Fall/Winter 2016 menswear collections, I've seen quite a lot I like. From perfumes, to hats, to pocket squares, there was even a ball gown on display, made out of men's foulards. And don't get me started on that blush pink reversible fake-fur-slash-down-jacket at Colmar.

Of course, it could be that my style has become increasingly more tailored in the last few years. It's so much simpler, I find, to travel with a few glamorous suits and accessories than to pack dresses and girlie things. A suit -- albeit one that's a little rockstar like those by French brand Zadig & Voltaire -- is always appropriate, for day or on a red carpet and the variety of options out there make for simple purchases. It may cost a little more upfront but if you apply a "pay per wear" calculation, it's probably cheaper than that impulse purchase you made last summer at Forever 21, and never, ever wore. For me, it's a no brainer.

Pitti Uomo has also been a great chance to catch up with wonderful journalists from around the world, and trade ideas. Like Al Arabiya's Salma El Shahed, an Egyptian writer and photographer based in Dubai, Moroccan TV personality Simo Benbachir and luxury, travel and aviation editor Riaan George from my beloved city of Bombay. Sitting around with them, sharing a meal or a car to an event, has been simply delicious. And my appreciation for the power of cross-cultural idea-sharing has grown even more. The world may end up being OK after all... I adore El Shahed's intro to Pitti Uomo, which is a great way to get all the important info about the event.

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A walk through the main halls of Pitti Uomo at La Fortezza da Basso allowed for a few discoveries, like Gallo socks, which has replicated the designs of their most eye-catching socks on a beautiful entrance board that begged to be photographed.

The evening belonged to Hood By Air, the NYC brand designed by DJ Shayne Oliver, which showcased its latest, special collection in the truly atmospheric Villa di Maiano, in Fiesole. The villa combines sixteenth century Tuscan architecture with eclectic English politician John Temple Leader's style. Leader owned the property in the 1800s and changed the look of its interiors to a kind of gothic, neo-renaissance fusion. Think a party scene from any Sorrentino film and you've got the idea. The feeling of the place fit the mood of the brand perfectly and seeing those pastel hued Matrix-looking models with extreme false eyelashes and long hair catwalk through the courtyard was breathtaking.

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The incredible thing about HBA, which is also the brand's very recognizable logo featured on some of the creations, is that as a whole, the entire outfits are outrageously theatrical and appears show-stoppingly unwearable. But, and here come the big but, if taken apart, piece by piece, accessory by accessory, each individual precious element is a treasure. Totally wearable, although still pushing the boundaries in a way that makes Oliver who he is. I wrote a big, bold lettered, all capital "COURAGE as fashion" in my notebook, and underlined it enthusiastically. As Gandhi said, and I take the liberty of paraphrasing here, "Love is the prerogative of the brave." So is fashion, great, life-changing fashion, really.

As a perfect ending to the perfect day, our newly formed crew of international minds took a break from Italian food and ended up at a brewery in the center of Florence. A little hole in the wall that serves hamburgers, so cheesy and good that even a gourmet, triple-priced burger joint in NYC can't hold a candle to it. I can't remember the name, and anyway, there are only four tables, and one of them is permanently reserved for us...

Hood By Air show image by Proj3ct Studio courtesy of Pitti Immagine, used with permission.
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