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Mom's Photos Of Her Stretch Marks Removed After Being Flagged On Instagram

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When Hannah Moore posted a photo of her pregnancy stretch marks on Instagram, she did not expect it to be reported as offensive.

"I don't know why, it was out of the blue but I decided to post a picture of my belly on Instagram because I've had twins," the 20-year-old, who gave birth to Lily and Grace last June, told SWNS. "I had written underneath the picture how unconfident I had always been, how relationships have been hard and how hard it is to find clothes that I like. I want not just myself but other women thin or bigger to love themselves and love their size because everyone is beautiful."

The photo wasn't about stretch marks. It was about body positivity.

"Everyone thinks it's about my stretch marks. It's not," the mom told People magazine. "It was me letting people know this is who I am. I'm big and I'm loved and I'm beautiful."

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But Moore claimed that only minutes passed before her account was shut down on April 15 due to "violations" of its community guidelines, which bans nudity and spam.

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Moore's account was disabled in error and ultimately restored, a rep explained to The Huffington Post. Images with stretch marks are allowed on the photo-sharing network and Instagram apologized for the mistake.

"Instagram should be more careful in whose accounts they delete and look into it further," the mom told SWNS.

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Instagram has faced criticism before for deleting photos associated with women's bodies, BuzzFeed noted earlier this month, including breastfeeding, menstruation and pubic hair. The company has since updated its guidelines to be more explicit about their policies.

We know that there are times when people might want to share nude images that are artistic or creative in nature, but for a variety of reasons, we don’t allow nudity on Instagram. This includes photos, videos, and some digitally-created content that show sexual intercourse, genitals, and close-ups of fully-nude buttocks. It also includes some photos of female nipples, but photos of post-mastectomy scarring and women actively breastfeeding are allowed. Nudity in photos of paintings and sculptures is OK, too.

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8 Wedding Dress Trends Hot Off The Spring/Summer 2016 Bridal Runways

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Stylish brides looking for the latest and greatest in wedding fashion -- your search stops here.

We spent the last week scouring the Bridal Market runways to bring you the hottest trends of the season. Off-the-shoulder gowns, light blue hues (a subconscious nod to "Frozen's" Queen Elsa, perhaps?), plunging necklines, capes, floral patterns, chic separates, feathers and partial overlay skirts are all "in" for 2016.

See some of the looks we saw again and again below.




For more gowns that embody this season's trends, check out the slideshow below.



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Five Natural Hairstyle Ideas For Busy Moms

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For women with children, there are two epochs in their adult lives. "Before Children" (BC) where one has all the time in the world to spend on personal grooming -- whether that equals 20 minutes plucking each eyebrow into a perfect arch or two hours on a head-turning twist-out. Then, there are the "After Children" (AC) days, filled with diapers, doctor's visits and a dizzying array of kid-centered activities. Add to that the juggling act of careers, household responsibilities, family events and just being able to dress oneself every day seems like a minor mommy miracle. Great hair is sadly often the first sacrifice in the pursuit of child-rearing work/life balance.

For those of us with highly-textured tresses (read: curls, coils and kinks), the time-intensive regimens of the naturalista life make many styles taboo. If your Saturday consists of shuttling little junior to his basketball games and/or baby girl to soccer practice, food shopping and cleaning, chances are you won't have much time leftover for 6-hour wash day regimens. It's enough to make even the most texture-loving naturals long for the days of straight-haired simplicity. I kid, I kid. But the frustration around how time consuming natural hair can be, is real especially for mamas.

Luckily, there are simple and easy style options to transform any mother into a hot mama in under 10 minutes. These natural hairstyles are perfect for that moment of zen that occurs just after the morning coffee, and before the kids wake up.

First, a few mom natural hair care rules:

1. Keeping your textured hair shaped will save you hours of time and effort. Yes, you will have to negotiate personal time to go to the salon every few weeks for maintenance. Yes, it is totally worth it. A visit to your favorite salon equals an hour or two of scalp massaging, deep conditioning, rod-setting nirvana. It's the kind of bliss one can only experience when someone else's hands are all up in your head.

2. Master a signature style, or two. Natural hair offers endless styling possibilities. Every day, thousands of beautiful Instagrammers debut cool new looks. Ignore them. Those styles are a labyrinth for time-starved mommies, with child-sized minotaurs waiting for the opportunity to dash your dreams of kinky-haired greatness. Use your down time to master a few looks that you'll be able to do with your eyes closed, if need be.

3. Low manipulation is a must. If you're longing for length, or just looking for locks that require minimal upkeep, protective styles are your best option. Low-maintenance looks help minimize wear and tear to the delicate ends of your strands, and many such as buns and updos, can be finished in minutes. Styles like braids and twists require a greater time investment, but can be worn for up to 8 weeks, which make them mommy time savers.

A mom's work is never done, but with a little effort and strategic styling, at least she'll be able to cross natural hair care off of her list. If only parenting were this simple.

Now, for the natural hairstyles:

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Dear Kelly Clarkson, Thanks for Standing Up for Girls Like Me

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Dear Kelly,

I've read you've been getting a lot of crap because of your weight. I know how awful it feels to be judged simply because you are not a size 4. But you are 100 percent right with your response when you say, "Screw 'em!"

When people think that your size is bigger than your talent, screw 'em. When people talk about your clothes instead of your songs, screw 'em. When people tweet negative crap about you instead of sharing your awesome, screw 'em.

Share your joy! Share your amazing music. Share your talent, your beautiful daughter and your spirit. Share your ability to show those bullies that the only thing their comments are dragging down is themselves.

I have a lot of experience in being bullied because of my weight. I let them get into my head, and it really messed me up, nearly to the point of no return. But like you, I finally realized that I am so much more than a size. I realized my size didn't make me less than worthy, and the gifts I had to offer to the world. Just by being me, I was enough. And not one of them had a thing to do with my size, except for the size of my heart. Like you, I wrote about these things that nearly broke me, and how it made me stronger. I wrote my song, "Brave" to show that you can get past that place where it seems like nothing will be ok. I sing it to all those who might need some courage, and tell them to how to Be Brave. Just like you tell others that you are invincible.

Now I am a warrior, a shooting star
Know I got this far, had a broken heart
No one hears the silent tears collecting
Cause it's being weak, but strong in the truth I found
I have courage now, gonna shout it out
Teacher, I feel the dots connecting


I love these lyrics because you are so right -- being weak, but strong in truth is a hard but important lesson. Kelly, you have so much talent, love and happiness in your life, and you are sharing that, instead of the negativity of others. You are an inspiration.

Keep singing loud and clear your message about strength, hope and love. You're saying, "Screw 'em" is validation to every girl in the world that who they are is more important than what size they wear!

This was originally posted on Ally's blog, Losergurl.com

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How To Wear A Bodysuit Like A Grown Woman

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Let's take a moment to consider the bodysuit. You know, the snap-crotched clothing item that gained popularity in the '60s, had a high fashion moment in the '80s thanks to Donna Karan and Norma Kamali, and then a decade later became a tween style craze that could be purchased at your local mall.

Well, the fashion-meets-function garment is making quite the stylish comeback and we're actually contemplating buying one. You should too.

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Although the Wall Street Journal once called the leotard-like creations "a sartorial oddity only slightly less icky and strange than the dickie," we're convinced that they're now cool enough for a spot in our closets. That conviction is thanks to Alix, a line of simple and chic bodysuits designed by Alexandra Alvarez. The New York-based designer believes that bodysuits should be considered wardrobe staples like a great white t-shirt, denim and a blazer.

"The most compelling thing about the bodysuit is its versatility," Alvarez told The Huffington Post. "Each style can be effortlessly integrated into so many looks, from day to night.

But how should one wear a bodysuit without looking like a middle school girl from the '90s?

"Right now, my favorite outfit is any bodysuit with my high-waisted, flared Victoria Beckham jeans. It’s very '70s and I love how the suits seamlessly tuck for a polished look" Alvarez said, adding, "With so many weddings coming up, I’m definitely planning on wearing a bodysuit with a skirt and statement necklace to at least one of them. The possibilities are endless."

Here's a look at our favorite pieces from the Spring/Summer 2015 Alix collection, which ranges in price from $98 to $295. And make sure to check out the slideshow below to shop the chicest bodysuits in the market right now.

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'Technical Cashmere' Is Here, And It Can Go In The Washing Machine

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Lululemon arguably revolutionized athletic wear, and now the family that brought $100 yoga pants into the world has a new venture set to shake up the industry.

Founder Chip Wilson's wife Shannon and son JJ have launched an apparel brand called Kit and Ace that's made entirely out of a new fabric blend called "technical cashmere." Unlike Lulu, the line isn't designed with fitness in mind; it's focused on contemporary luxury wear for women and men. Here's everything you need to know about the burgeoning label's premiere material.

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The HRH Button Up, $148, left; and the Locarno Jogger, $148


What is technical cashmere?

In short, technical cashmere is a blend of 81 percent viscose, 10 percent elastane and 9 percent cashmere, and it is a fabrication entirely created and conceptualized by Shannon Wilson and her stepson, JJ Wilson. Born of a desire to make a high-maintenance fabric more accessible, it took over two years to develop.

How is it different from regular cashmere?

Machine washability. Technical cashmere can be hot washed or hot dried without piling or ruining the fabric.

"It's not going to stretch. It's going to hold its shape and it's not going to shrink in the washing machine," JJ Wilson told The Huffington Post. "We looked at all the different ways we could really improve and stabilize an existing luxury fabrication that really is such a precious, delicate fabric, and make it usable, wearable and functional."

In other words, your dry cleaning bill we be drastically reduced.

What does it look like?

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The Denman Long Sleeve, $118; Claremont Tank, $68; Snap Long Sleeve, $88; and Pacific Blanket, $138


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A Glorious Recap Of Duchess Kate's Best Maternity Looks Over The Past 9 Months

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Pregnancy suits the Duchess of Cambridge.

Yes, we know, Duchess Kate always looks put together and sophisticated, but in the past nine months, we've noticed her wardrobe game has been particularly on point.

While the world awaits the arrival of royal baby No. 2, we want to recap her best maternity looks from her second pregnancy. We learned a few things over the past couple of months -- namely that the woman hates pants but loves a good fascinator.

Check out her most fashion-forward maternity looks below:

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North West Plays Footsie With Kanye In Adorable Photo

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As if we didn't already know North West's wardrobe was 10 times better than ours, Kim Kardashian posted a photo of North looking so freakin' cool in jorts, Doc Martens and a sleeveless turtleneck from their recent trip to Armenia. It doesn't hurt her look that she's playing footsie with dad Kanye West, who seems to be wearing his now-signature Bottega Veneta ankle boots.

#TBT last week in Armenia! Footsie with daddy!

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Mary-Kate And Ashley Olsen's Movies And TV Shows Are Coming To Nickelodeon

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Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen may not know if they're returning for "Fuller House," but they'll definitely be all over TV soon.

Nickelodeon has acquired rights to the Olsen twins' movies and TV shows from the '90s and early '00s, meaning an epic Mary-Kate and Ashley marathon is coming to a TV near you. According to Variety, the network will air the Olsen twins' catalogue of movies and series over the course of the year, starting off with their 2001 sitcom "So Little Time," which originally aired on Fox Family before it became ABC Family. One episode will air each week on Nickelodeon beginning April 27.

What about "The Adventures of Mary-Kate & Ashley"? Have no fear, the mystery movies will air next across Nickelodeon's brand, followed by 10 episodes of 1995's “You’re Invited to Mary-Kate & Ashley’s” and the 2001 animated series “Mary-Kate and Ashley in Action!” Other movies Nickelodeon will air include “Our Lips Are Sealed," “Winning London," “Holiday in the Sun," “Mary‐Kate & Ashley’s Fashion Forward," “When in Rome," “Getting There: Sweet 16 and Licensed to Drive” and “The Challenge." The twins' music specials “Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen: Our First Video” and “Mary-Kate & Ashley Olsen: Our Music Video” will also air.

"Mary-Kate and I are excited to announce our video library will be available to the Nickelodeon community,” Ashley Olsen told Variety. Mary-Kate Olsen said, “Nickelodeon has been at the forefront of kids entertainment for decades. We believe this is the perfect home for our library.”

Say bye to summer and hello to sitting in front of your TV. (Don't forget to order pizza though.)
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For more, head to Variety.

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#EmpowerALLBodies Is What A Truly Diverse Plus-Size Campaign Looks Like

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Body love activist Jes Baker was disappointed by the lack of diversity in Lane Bryant's #ImNoAngel campaign, so she made her own series of ads.

Baker's #EmpowerALLBodies photo series shows plus-size women of all shapes and sizes -- not just those who would be considered "models."

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In an open letter to Lane Bryant CEO Linda Heasley, Baker explained why she was unimpressed by #ImNoAngel: "You’ve presented the 'ideal' plus body: hourglass, perceivably 'healthy', cellulite-free, able bodied, cis-gender, and 'conventionally' beautiful."

Baker gathered a group of diverse models, including herself, and worked with photographer Jade Beall to show what a truly diverse plus-size underwear campaign would look like.

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Baker also offered suggestions about how Lane Bryant could improve when it comes to diversity and asked the company to consider including:


Cellulite; 90% of women have it. Bellies; many plus women don't have flat torsos. All abilities; we’re all inherently sexy. Transgender women; they're "all woman" too. Small boobs and wide waists; we're not all "proportional." Stretch marks and wrinkles; they're trophies of a life lived. And this is just the beginning!


Check out more images from this amazing campaign below.

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'Orange Is The New Black' Season 3 Will Have A Martha Stewart-Inspired Character

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There's a lot to look forward to in Season 3 of "Orange Is the New Black," like the new character played by Ruby Rose, Alex's return as teased in the trailer and finally learning Vee's fate. But now there's one more thing you can expect to see in the upcoming season: Martha Stewart (sort of).

Series creator Jenji Kohan told Time at Monday's Time 100 Gala that the new season of "OITNB" will feature a Stewart-inspired character. She wouldn't say who would be playing the character, but only that she'll be Southern on the show.

The choice to include a Stewart-like inmate makes sense when considering the source material. In Piper Kerman's titular memoir that inspired the Netflix series, the author mentioned how Stewart was originally almost sent to Danbury, the real-life prison that inspired the show's Litchfield prison, following her insider-trading scandal. The lifestyle guru ended up going to a prison in West Virginia instead. Stewart, however, told Time she has not yet watched the Netflix show.

Regardless, we can't wait to meet the "OITNB" version of M. Diddy.

For more, head to Time.

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Man Repeller And NARS Team Up For LOL-Worthy 'Beauty Vlog' (With Celeb Cameos)

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Makeup, cute dogs, comedy and Questlove.

Only one person could bring all of these wonderful things together into one, under-three-minute long video. That person, of course, is our favorite man-repelling, mom-jean-wearing fashion personality, Leandra Medine.

Man Repeller's head honcho teamed up with NARS to debut its dual-intensity blush. But the video, in which Medine takes a stab at vlogging, quickly becomes more of a comedy of errors than anything else, thanks in large part to a lack of mirrors, an ... interesting Simon Doonan cameo and even an appearance from THE beauty vlogger herself, Michelle Phan.

Medine eventually ends up showing viewers how to "become the Instagram filter of your dreams," using NARS' dual-intensity blush, of course. And while the entire video in itself is entertaining, arguably the most exciting part is that we finally know what Toast the dog's voice sounds like.

Check out the adorable video above.

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Heidi Klum And 'GoT' Star Pedro Pascal Strip Down In Sia's New Video

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Sorry Maddie Ziegler, but Sia has moved on to celebrities cuddling.

The singer's new music video for "Fire Meet Gasoline" ditches the usual interpretive dancing by the 12-year-old Ziegler to follow around Heidi Klum and former "Game of Thrones" star Pedro Pascal. The two roll around in the grass and kiss in bed, in what looks more like a lingerie ad than a music video. Klum also sets a house on fire wearing little more than a bra, because duh, she's Heidi Klum. The Sia platinum wig also has a quick cameo.

Watch the video above.

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These Nameplate Necklaces Are The Perfect Gift For Mom (And Yourself)

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Nameplate necklaces are a very stylish way to introduce yourself to the world. And "Sex and the City" fans will never forget how sentimental they can be, which is why every gal should own one as an homage to herself (it's okay to be a little self-involved sometimes). But on the flip side, they also make thoughtful gifts.

We're celebrating this awesome accessory at just the right moment, considering Mother's Day is right around the corner. Nothing says "I'm your favorite kid" like some personalized bling. Whether you give her a necklace etched with her name or yours, the sweet sentiment will go a long, long way.

If you have any friends who recently became mothers, customized jewelry is a guaranteed hit. New moms are always looking for ways to proclaim their love for the squishy baby in their arms. True story.

Here are some of the awesome nameplate necklaces we spotted on Instagram. Scroll down for a gallery of shoppable picks that all retail for under $200.





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Top row: Robyn Rhodes Nameplate Necklace, $88; J.R. Dunn Personalized Sterling Silver Script Name Heart Necklace, $178; Jennifer Zeuner Serafina Personalized Mini Nameplate Necklace, $165.

Bottom row: Max & Chloe Block Cutout Monogram Necklace, $90; Super Jeweler Nameplate Necklace, $80; Anna Bee Jewelry Circle Name Necklace, $89; Moon and Lola 'Script Font' Personalized Nameplate Pendant Necklace, $48.

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The Most Overlooked Aspect Of Decorating A Living Room

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You agonized for hours over the perfect stain color for your hardwood floors and the exact right shade of "greige" to paint your walls. But be honest: How much time did you spend thinking about color of your ceiling? Interior designer and Decorate Fearlessly author Susanna Salk says showing this often overlooked room element a little love can breathe new life into your home.

"We tend to forget about the power of that fifth wall: the ceiling," Salk says in the above #OWNSHOW video.

Painting your ceiling a slightly different color than your walls can make a huge impact, she says. "So I don't mean suddenly going crazy and making it a super dark color if you have light colors on the wall, but just another shade that's different, that kind of draws your eye up," she says. "And it also makes the room feel bigger and it gives that sense of whimsy that every room needs."

If you don't want to paint your ceiling, Salk says a fabulous new light fixture could be just what your room needs. "It gives instant personality, it's like an exclamation point to a room," she says.

"Go to a flea market, get something with a lot of personality and then you can rewire it and bring it up to the present," she suggests. "But a lighting fixture is so, so important."

Adding a pattern to your ceiling is another great way to add style to a room, but Salk warns to play it safe. "If you do a pattern ceiling, you just have to make sure that pattern and color is somehow echoed in pattern of the fabric or the rug or the colorations that you use below, so it doesn't stand out so much that it detracts from the rest of the room," she says. "It has to harmonize somehow while still bringing your eye up and calling attention to itself."

More: Easy tricks to upgrade an outdated sofa.




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Natural Hair Haircuts For Any Length And Texture

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The possibilities of styling are limitless when it comes to natural hair. Whether your curls are loose and wavy or tight and coiled, experimenting with different looks is a huge part of embracing your natural hair texture.

If you've fallen into a slump with what exactly to do with your tresses, this may be the perfect time to consider getting a natural hair haircut.

Think a "big chop" is your only option for starting fresh? Well, you're wrong. Below are some of the most beautiful natural hair haircuts -- from low fades to long layers -- that'll inspire your next 'do.

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Yes, There Are Probably Fish Scales In Your Lipstick. Here's Why.

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If you think it's gross that there are beetles in your nail polish, you're not going to like this truth about lipstick.

Anyone who has read The Rainbow Fish knows that fish scales have a certain pearly quality to them. That glow makes them a commonly used ingredient in various shimmery makeup, lipstick included.

When scales, which have been used to create that same pearl-like look in jewelry, are layered on top of one another, they have a crystallized effect. Now, thanks to Gawker's science-focused offshoot io9, we know why:

As light hits the plane of each crystal, some light is reflected back, and some keeps going down until it hits another crystal. As light gets thrown up, in a diffuse way, from many different levels, the scales seem to emanate light from within. Slather enough layers on a bead, and it has a glowing, pearlescent quality. If it works on a bead, it must do the same for lipstick.


How can you tell if your makeup contains it? Check the ingredients list for guanine, the name by which this crystalline substance made from fish scales is typically listed.

And if slathering on fish scales just isn't your thing, here is a list of PETA-approved lipsticks for you to try, instead.

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From the Bay a Runway That Stands for So Much More

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As a trans man I often find myself in spaces where I wonder what, who, when and where I fit in. As a black kid growing up with white parents I had the same feeling of constant unease. Or maybe the better word is unrest. That shirt that never quite fits you right but you try to make it work every time. And there are moments when it works out just fine, but then there are those where you just wish you could toss it off and crawl back into bed. Restart the day. Unfortunately you can't restart life.

We find camaraderie with those whose stories are similar to ours. We assume those with the same skin tone or the same last few letters of a last name, that when we have those things in common, that we share so much more. An experience, this experience; life. And while that is true to a point, we are so much more than those descriptors. At least that's what I have always had to tell myself, it's what I've always had to believe being a black kid in a white family. I had to believe that my differences were nothing more than my skin being a darker tone, my hair being a bit thicker, my legs longer than my parents'. But what happens when you leave the safety net of familiarity. In restaurants, servers asking who I was in relation to those I was seated with. Being overlooked in groups. I was a constant shadow, as black as could be, cast over a family that looked nothing like me, and whose struggles did not even begin to mirror those that I would face.

POC often have to fight for spaces of our own. Whenever events are posted on Facebook happily promoting a safe space for strictly POC individuals, there is always, without fail a wave of emotion and protest from non POC. Just look at how quickly #blacklivesmatter was hijacked to #alllivesmatter or more recently after Michele Obama declared that black girls rock, and a hashtag followed. It was quickly taken hostage by white voices on Twitter with the hashtag #whitegirlsrock. Nothing it seems can just belong to POC without harsh resilience. Segregation can occur when it is forced upon us. But when we ask for space with pride and purpose we become the villains.

Enter fashion.

Fashion has never been known to be a haven for POC individuals. That is unless you were "Africa Black" or had features that could be fetishized on runways or highlighted in print work. I can name the black models who have influenced me on one hand. I would need about 10 more just to get through all of the Victoria's Secret models I've fallen in love with over the years. Every time POC get a slice of the pie, mainstream media literally tells us that we are taking too much. Take a quick dive into a fashion magazine, don't read an article, just flip. Then walk outside. If you live in a city like New York, or LA or Chicago, hell my hometown of Montclair, New Jersey, you will see more people of color in five minutes than you would have flipping through five more fashion magazines. The under representation of POC faces, is a purposeful miseducation. If you don't show us, we must not exist. This is how history is written to exclude and erase those the mainstream minority don't want to be seen.

This is why an event like Queer Fashion Week was, is, so monumental. Organized by women of color, in a city whose history with race is filled with leaders we still look up to. Oakland, home of the Black Panthers. The bay itself, arguably the queerest place in the country. Years of history, history that our textbooks fail to let us read about, paved the road for this summit.

I've personally flirted with modeling for years now. Our relationship has been nothing short of a roller coaster. Being the only black person on set, and noting that you are the quota is a hard thing to stomach. It eventually becomes much more than that. How can POC be celebrated, while also being part of the norm? By creating our own events. By owning what for so long we have had to be window shoppers to. Invited for appetizers, but not allowed to stay and enjoy the main course. That is exactly what Queer Fashion was, it was the holiday meal we have for so long been fighting to not just be hands in the kitchen for. No, our ancestors provided that for far too long. Queer Fashion Week showed that we can buy the ingredients, stir the pot, serve the meal, and eat it too.

Cheers to many more years, of queer POC walking down runways that we have had to fight for. We have never stopped walking, but now instead of running away from shackles we are strutting with empowerment towards flashing lights that will capture these moments and freeze in time the colossal waves of change we have been entitled to all along.

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Flawless: Racial Bias in Beauty

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Beauty may be in the eye of the beholder, but the beauty and entertainment industries have systematically crafted the lens through which Americans see others and themselves.

Throughout history, African-Americans have suffered from incredible efforts to destroy any hope for positive self-concept or imagery. Stereotypical depictions of the full lips and voluptuous figures of black women have been widely circulated from the days of Sarah Baartman in Great Britain to the present in the United States. Racist political cartoons and "scientific" drawings served to ridicule the appearance of black people in America, who struggle even today to find positive images of themselves. One need only juxtapose Disney's classic film Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs with the imagery of the Merrie Melodies animated short Coal Black and de Sebben Dwarfs, a blackface spin on the story, to see the historical misrepresentation of black people in this country.

In the past few years, the beauty industry has taken a turn towards accepting the lips, curves, skin and hair of black women. However, the problem is that these features are not accepted on black women. Last year Marie Claire came under fire for calling Kendall Jenner's cornrows in a photo shoot "epic," as Cosmopolitan did this month for calling Kylie Jenner's faux dreadlocs "fire" on Twitter, both deemed as racially insensitive for enabling these instances of cultural appropriation. Amandla Stenberg, known best for her role as Rue in The Hunger Games, recently shared a viral video discussing this issue, in which she cites many examples of elements of black culture being stolen by privileged white Americans. Though black women have embraced their curves for decades, 2014 was named "Year of the Booty" due to the rise of white Australian rapper Iggy Azalea. Though black women have styled their hair into dreadlocs for centuries and were worn by Zendaya Coleman at this year's Oscar ceremony, only Kylie Jenner was granted the cover of Teen Vogue.

There is no credit; only criticism. Black women have been criticized and ridiculed for their natural beauty while the white women who adopt them as trends have received not only credit, but praise.

As more white women turn to bronzers, lip injections, butt implants and the like, black women are still forced to maintain more conservative images in public to counteract stereotypes based on these features. Workplace discrimination based on skin tone and hairstyles is still a prevalent issue for African-Americans. When black women choose not to chemically straighten their hair, often they use natural styles such as braids and dreadlocs to keep them neat, but these styles have been restricted in the military and even forced students from schools due to questionable dress code policies. This is not to say that some black women do not opt to change their looks to further meet either Afrocentric or Eurocentric standards of beauty, but to point out that black women's beauty is celebrated less regardless.

While a lot of these "trends" are being adopted by white women as enhancements, and are subsequently praised in magazines and other media outlets, black women are punished for the same looks. We should be able to attend interviews and board meetings with beautiful afros, dreadlocs, and braids without fear of judgment. We should be on the Hot list, rather than the Not list, in beauty magazines for the makeup on our full lips and brown skin. There is no "Year of the Booty" because curves have always been sexy.

Black women really do wake up like this. They have and they will continue to do so.

So no, it is not just hair; it is our hair. It's not a tan; it's melanin. It's not lip liner. It's not implants. It's real, and all of it is worthy of praise for its beauty.

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Lena Dunham Writes Essay In Seventeen On Daring To Be 'Different' And Ignoring Criticism

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Lena Dunham knows she was a "weirdo" and is proud of it. The "Girls" creator, writer, producer and star penned an essay in the May issue of Seventeen magazine about defying normalcy in high school and how she's since embraced being different.

Dunham opens her essay admitting she was a "bona fide weirdo in high school" who wore yellow clogs and brought bagels to parties, which is far from surprising for anyone who watches HBO's "Girls." Dunham writes that one day she experimented by dressing more "normal" and wearing makeup. She recounts that a "hot boy" lent her a pencil in class that day. "'Wow,' his friend whispered," Dunham writes. "'She actually looks regular.'"

But then Dunham realized what she didn't want to be, writing, "Who wants to be regular, especially if it means taking an extra 15 minutes on your hair? [...] If regular means pretending you don't have passions and style, count me out." Dunham goes on to encourage her readers to embrace being different and to not let negative criticism affect them.

Let's not forget that the writer has long been the target of criticism, for everything from her nudity on "Girls" to her sketches on "SNL" to her personal tweets. While deleting Twitter from her phone earlier this year was one response, Dunham writes in Seventeen to just "ignore" the criticism that's not constructive. "You don't need anyone telling you what your style, substance, or happiness should look like."

For the full essay, head over to Seventeen.com. The May issue is available on newsstands now.

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