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This Magical 'Harry Potter' Cake Is What Wedding Dreams Are Made Of

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If you're a Potterhead with a wicked sweet tooth, chances are you've seen a photo of this magical cake floating around the internet:



The web went crazy after Caitlyn Clausen, a decorator at the Night Kitchen Bakery in Chestnut Hill, Pennsylvania, posted a photo of her enchanting creation online last week. 


"I'm a huge Harry Potter fan, so making this cake was always in the back of my mind," Clausen told HuffPost. "I think the golden snitch is really beautiful and I wanted to incorporate that somehow."


Clausen finally got the chance to create and display the fondant-coated confection of her dreams for the town's annual Harry Potter festival


When she posted a photo of the cake to a Harry Potter fan page, it racked up thousands of likes and comments faster than you can say alohomora


"People shared it over and over because the fan base is just super passionate!" Clausen said.  


The bakery has since fielded countless requests and emails from people across the country asking her to recreate the cake. 


And just in case a request comes in from a pair of Potter lovers looking to add a little extra magic on their wedding day, Clausen has some ideas for how she'd change the design to make it more nuptial-friendly.


"If it were for a wedding, I'd probably change the color scheme a bit to make it more classy and wedding-y," she said. "Maybe another color palette if they wanted that."


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This Annoying Wedding Tradition Is Becoming A Thing Of The Past

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The rules of wedding etiquette are constantly changing, making it difficult for modern brides, grooms and guests to find up-to-date and correct information. That's why we launched #MannersMondays, a series in which we ask our followers on Twitter and Facebook to submit their most burning etiquette-related questions. Then, with the help of our team of etiquette experts, we get you the right answers to your biggest Big Day dilemmas. Check out this week's question below!



"Is it rude to not have a receiving line at the end of the ceremony?" - @butterbunqueen via Twitter



Amber Harrison -- Wedding Papers Divas' resident etiquette expert -- is here to help us answer this week's question. Here's what she had to say:



Receiving lines are not required. And to be honest, the practice isn’t as popular today as it once was. The idea is to ensure that the happy couple spends a moment with each guest, thanking them for coming to the wedding and making introductions as needed. This can be effectively achieved with a receiving line but can also be done during dinner, for example, with the couple making the rounds to spend time with their guests. However you manage it, make it a priority to get some face time with all the friends and family who have traveled near and far to support and celebrate you!



You can submit your wedding etiquette questions via Facebook or tweet them to us @HuffPostWedding with the hashtag #MannersMondays.


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The 'Smush And Pull' Is The World's Easiest Mascara Trick

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Applying mascara seems pretty easy. That is, until your eyelashes get clumpy and you're stuck debating whether to just take it all off or reapply your makeup. Well, we've stumbled across what's arguably "the world's easiest mascara trick" that will help you to achieve the perfect lashes from first swipe.


In the PureWow video above, celebrity makeup artist Tina Turnbow demonstrates the "smush and pull." This lash-lengthening technique has just three steps, but the final results are sure to leave a lasting impression that will transform your beauty routine.


Whip out your favorite tube of mascara and watch the tutorial to learn exactly how to "smush and pull." 




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Here's Why HuffPost Gay Voices Just Changed Its Name To HuffPost Queer Voices

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Today, for the very first time, we're thrilled to welcome you to HuffPost Queer Voices.


Our name change comes four-and-a-half years after we originally debuted as HuffPost Gay Voices -- and after countless conversations with countless people, both inside and outside of the HuffPost newsroom.


Though I've had my own love affair with the word "queer" for as long as I can remember (more on that in a minute), at the time of our launch in 2011 some people felt that the term was too controversial, too divisive and, because of its history as a slur, perhaps just too painful to use. 


Instead, we settled on HuffPost Gay Voices (you can read more about how that decision was reached here). Though it wasn't my first choice, I have to admit, at the time, there was something radical about seeing that instantly recognizable three-letter word proudly emblazoned on one of the most-read websites in the world.


A lot has changed since then -- from marriage equality sweeping the nation and parts of the world to Laverne Cox gracing the cover of Time magazine to Miley Cyrus coming out as pansexual -- and we believe that this is an especially critical time for queer people and the queer movement to regroup and redefine its mission in the wake of these incredible, once unimaginable changes to the political and cultural landscape. We hope that HuffPost Queer Voices can be a place where discussions about where we're headed, what matters to us and how we can become the best possible, most authentic versions of ourselves as queer people -- and as a community -- can take place on a daily basis.


We, like many others before us, have chosen to reclaim "queer" and to rename the section HuffPost Queer Voices because we believe that word is the most inclusive and empowering one available to us to speak to and about the community -- and because we are inspired by all of the profound possibilities it holds for self-discovery, self-realization and self-affirmation. We also revere its emphasis on intersectionality, which aids in creating, building and sustaining community while striving to bring about the liberation of all marginalized people, queer or not.


"Queer" functions as an umbrella term that includes not only the lesbians, gays, bisexuals and transgender people of "LGBT," but also those whose identities fall in between, outside of or stretch beyond those categories, including genderqueer people, intersex people, asexual people, pansexual people, polyamorous people and those questioning their sexuality or gender, to name just a few. These groups have been and will continue to be featured on The Huffington Post, however now the section dedicated to these identities will be inclusive not only in scope but also in name.


We will also continue to present, cover and provide opportunities for conversations about topics that we believe to be patently queer and that we feel do not receive enough attention from mainstream or queer media including: non-traditional gender expressions and experiences, non-traditional sexualities, sex positivity, queer homeless youth, HIV/AIDS, the fight for global queer rights and expression, sex work and sex workers, romantic and non-romantic relationships, non-traditional families, the intersections of race, gender, class and sexualities and more.


As ecstatic as we are about our new name, we understand and respect that for some people, "queer" conjures up incredibly intimate and wholly negative associations and memories. We have no intention of telling anyone what words they should or shouldn't use to define themselves or their community. That's a personal, powerful and important choice. Our hope, however, is that those who have been hurt by this word or believe it to be solely derogatory can understand how we are employing it and why (for some useful resources related to the word "queer," look below).


My own first encounter with the word was being called "a queer" by my hunky neighborhood garbage man (he was all muscles and mustache -- totally my type at the time) when I was just five years old after I snuck outside to perform (what I guess I then imagined to be) a seductive dance for him in my underwear. Too innocent to understand that he was using the word against me, I ran inside and proudly told my dad what had happened. Before my dad, visibly upset, could make his way more than a few feet toward the front door, he stopped and turned back to face me, stunned, when he heard me say, "It's OK. I like being a queer."


Of course I had no idea what was really going on -- I simply thought "queer" referred to someone who was magnificently, extraordinarily different and that sounded like a pretty magical way to live my life.


As we at HuffPost Queer Voices see it, the end goal of the queer movement has never been about assimilation or becoming just like everyone else. We're proud of our queerness -- our glittering otherness -- and we want to be treated with the same dignity and afforded the same rights and humanity as everyone else while our magnificent, extraordinary differences remain intact to be honored and celebrated.


We hope you feel the same way and that no matter who you are or how you identify, you'll help us celebrate this new beginning. And we want to say thank you for joining us on this journey. We wouldn't be who we are or have gotten this far without our incredibly passionate readers. We hope you'll stick around because we can't wait to show you -- and to see for ourselves -- what happens next. 


We're here! We're queer! Get into it! 



The HuffPost Queer Voices Team

Noah Michelson, Editorial Director
Curtis M. Wong, Senior Editor
JamesMichael Nichols, Deputy Editor
Michelangelo Signorile, Editor-at-Large 

For more on the word "queer" and queerness check out:
MTV's "So What's Up With The Word Queer?"
PFLAG's "A Definition Of Queer"
Pride.com's "6 Reasons You Need To Use The Word Queer"
Gender Equity Resource Center's "What Does Queer Mean?"
Jenny Block's "Here's Why I Use The World Queer"
A History Of Queer Nation

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Kim Kardashian & Amber Rose Have Peace Talks After Kanye West's Twitter War

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The photo below is believed to be the first documentation of Kim Kardashian and Amber Rose's peace talks after a years-long feud that was once again reignited by Kardashian's husband and Rose's ex, Kanye West.



Tea anyone?

A photo posted by Kim Kardashian West (@kimkardashian) on




On Tuesday, Rose and Kardashian posted a selfie of what appears to be the first time the two have taken a photo together. Kardashian captioned the snap, "Tea anyone?" while Rose wrote "Swingers ☕️." 


The photo would have you believe the two finally sat down in hopes of ending their feud -- which dates back to 2012 when Rose called the reality star a "homewrecker," claiming Kardashian was the reason for her split with West.  And while Kardashian has kept quiet about Rose over the years, she's had her sisters and West to stick up for her and fan the flames.  


But, in the spirit of forgiveness, it seems the two decided it was time to hash things out face to face -- over some tea. The sit-down comes days after West somewhat apologized for dragging Rose and Wiz Khalifa's son into his Twitter feud with rapper. 


Sources told TMZ it was Kardashian who reached out to Rose and asked to meet her at Kris Jenner's house. According to the website, the two had a long conversation and worked things out. 


So now that Kardashian and Rose have met, selfie'd and drank some tea together, will this meeting usher in a new era of peace between the two warring sides? Only time will tell. 


 


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Photos Of Men With Bubble Beards Show Masculinity Is Fragile Too

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Our cultural obsession with lumberjack-level beards, mustaches, goatees and sideburns is what inspired New York photographer Mindo Cikanavicius to photograph handsomely bearded men for his editorial series.


The twist: their facial hair is actually made of bubbles. 


Cikanavicius decided to poke fun at the persistence of facial hair trends with his series. Within his photos is a subtle commentary on how we embrace masculinity in our society. Beards are, as the bubble beards demonstrate, probably temporary.


"I chose bubbles because they're temporary, like a trend, they pop when they reach their end," he explained to Creative Boom. "Bubbles are fragile, like us men can be fragile -- whether we're bearded or not ... Soap bubbles are also a childish substance. When a little boy is wanting to look grown-up, he plays with a soap beard in the bath to reflect the subconscious transition from boyhood to manhood."


Sooner or later, some other craze will capture our attention. Until then, bubble beards:



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George And Amal Clooney Only Have Eyes For Each Other At 'Hail, Caesar!' Premiere

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Despite the screaming fans and flashing lights, George Clooney was only interested in one thing -- his brilliant and stunning wife, Amal. 


The couple, who is working overtime to be your new #relationshipgoals, only had eyes for each other at the premiere of the actor's new movie "Hail, Caesar!" on Monday night in Los Angeles.



The couple, who tied the knot in Venice, Italy, in 2014, still appeared to be in the honeymoon stage as they walked the red carpet hand in hand, staringlongingly at one another.


Part of that may have to do with the fact that they are both big deals in their respective fields -- and just as Amal supports the 54-year-old actor on the red carpet, he loves to talk about her accomplishments as a human rights lawyer. 



"The president of the Maldives was let out of prison, because of a lot of the hard work that [Amal] was doing," the actor told The Telegraph at the Good Money Gala in Amsterdam on Jan. 26. "She's had a very good week."



Meanwhile, while Amal continues to look the part of a movie star, she has no interest in the kind of fame her husband has achieved, she told NBC News in her first American interview last month. 


"I think it's wonderful celebrities would choose to spend their time or energy or the spotlight that they have to raise awareness about these causes," she said. "I don't really see myself in the same way because I'm still doing the same job that I used to do before. So if there's more attention paid, for whatever reason, to that, then I think that's good." 




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Sarah Jessica Parker Reveals Her True Thoughts On Carrie And Big's Marriage

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Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big's tumultuous relationship was a main focal point of "Sex and the City." They loved each other, sure, but it was never clear if the two were actually supposed to end up together, let alone married, like they do in the "SATC" movies. 


Luckily, Sarah Jessica Parker, who played Carrie in the hit series, weighed in and settled the debate ... for now, at least. 


"As I recall, the way Carrie and Big married was something she wanted rather than a feeling that life was slipping away and she best settle quickly," Bradshaw said in a recent interview with Yahoo Style. "I don’t think of it as someone diminishing herself by letting a man marry her -- it always felt that she had arrived at that on her own."


She added, "But the beauty is we can all have lots and lots of opinions about lots of choices Carrie made that we object to or that we stand by." 



One of the main objectors? "SATC" creator Darren Star, who made his opinion about Big and Carrie's relationship crystal clear during a Kindle Singles interview in January. 


"I think the show ultimately betrayed what it was about, which was that women don't ultimately find happiness from marriage," Star said. "Not that they can't. But the show initially was going off script from the romantic comedies that had come before it. That's what had made women so attached."


The creator added, "At the end, it became a conventional romantic comedy. But unless you're there to write every episode, you're not going to get the ending you want." 


You mean like this?





Recently, "SATC" actress Cynthia Nixon dropped another truth-bomb about the series -- and all the sex the characters were having. According to Nixon's January interview with "IMDB Asks," all of the "SATC" hookups were based on real-life events.


"They had a rule in the writing that they couldn't put anything in an episode that didn't literally happen to someone in the writer's room or someone they knew firsthand," Nixon told IMDB. "It couldn't be, like, my father's brother's sister's shoe repair guy heard once that, you know. So the outlandish physical, sexual things that happened -- they really did happen." 


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The One Thing Gwyneth Paltrow Isn't Doing Right

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Gwyneth Paltrow, actress/businesswoman/mom and purveyor of pricey condom dispensers, seems to be getting it right at all times. Even her divorce seems enviable, with its "conscious uncoupling." 


So it's almost unbelievable to hear that Goop's HBIC gets one thing so wrong -- at least when it comes to her skin.





In a new video from Glamour Magazine -- she's the mag's March cover star -- Paltrow admits breaking the most basic of skincare rules.


"I still tan without sunscreen, which is totally fucked up," she said.



Pinch me ☀️

A photo posted by Gwyneth Paltrow (@gwynethpaltrow) on




Paltrow is hardly the first celebrity offender to forego SPF, but for someone who also told Glamour she's "a little bit nuts" about creating a skincare line that is "better than anything you've ever found," perhaps she needs to take some of that drive and apply it to herself -- liberally and every 60 minutes.


And if all else fails, perhaps a quick look at this video might change her mind.



Head to Glamour to read the entire interview, and be sure to pick up your own copy when it hits newsstands Feb. 9.


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The One Thing That Hasn't Changed About Sarah Palin's Style Over The Years

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When Sarah Palin first stepped onto the national scene in 2008, people couldn't stop discussing (and buying) her rimless glasses. The barely-there accessory defined her professional, business-like style and became her sartorial signature. 


Today, nearly 8 years later, Palin is still influencing fashion conversation -- that Milly sweater, anyone? -- now that she's back in the spotlight. 


But while style commentators have focused on her wardrobe, we can't help but notice the consistency of her hairstyle. No matter her ensemble, the politician's auburn locks are always fixed in the same bouffant-like way. 


Given Palin's past style influence, we can't help but wonder if her signature hairstyle will be requested in salons across the country. 


Scroll through the photos below and decide for yourself. 



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Kylie Jenner, You Don't Need To Pose In Your Underwear To Sell Lip Kits

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When Kylie Jenner released her highly anticipated lip kit back in Nov. 2015, the three debut colors sold out in minutes. Since then, fans of the reality star have been waiting with bated breath for more colors to come out. 


Now, the 18-year-old finally decided to give the people what they want -- a sneak peek at one of the new colors. In true Kylie fashion, however, she did it in a pretty ... revealing way.



Could this be a new lip kit color? ;) @lipkitbykylie

A photo posted by King Kylie (@kyliejenner) on




 


Jenner shared a photo of herself on Snapchat Monday, posing in a bright red bra and underwear set to match the new color (a red she called "pretty bomb"). 


And while there's no denying Jenner looks amazing, we can't help but think of the many other ways she could have promoted the new color. With an Instagram following of nearly 50 million and status as the most viewed person on Snapchat, her star power alone is enough to sell, well, just about anything, and fast.




 


The Kardashians are not exactly praised for their wholesome image, but the whole thing just feels unnecessary. Sure, sex sells, but we're thinking people would still flock to buy her lip kits if she, say, wore a red shirt. 


 


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Here's Why Gold-Infused Skincare May Not Be Worth The Hype

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We've recently noticed more and more editors and bloggers singing the praises of gold-infused skincare. Yes, we're talking real, 24-carat gold. 


Skincare manufacturer Peter Thomas Roth has already established a cult following thanks to its 24K Gold collection, which includes a mask, cleansing butter and gel eye patches. Other cosmetics brands such as Rodial, Chantecaille and La Prairie also offer gold-infused products costing upwards of $700. But are they worth it?



The bottom line: gold is an antioxidant and has anti-inflammatory properties. According to Tabasum Mir, a skincare physician in cosmetic dermatology and cosmetic laser surgery, the metal can calm acne inflammation, reduce skin redness and protect against free radicals that lead to wrinkles and sun damage. 


Because gold isn't soluble, Mir says the risk of applying topical treatments that contain nano gold or gold flakes is low. With that in mind, you should definitely pay close attention to all the ingredients that are listed on the label -- Mir warns that additives may cause an allergic reaction, other than the gold itself. 


But Mir doesn't believe scientific research exists that concludes the properties in gold are superior to any one other antioxidant. "I think the reason why the cache has increased in so many years is that it's just a visual business," says Mir. "Skincare containing gold is really pretty, am I right?"


If you're using a moisturizer, serum or under-eye cream that has gold in it, Mir points out that it'll definitely make your complexion look more tinted or highlighted. She explains, "It's like a filter, almost. But that's more of the cosmetic part than the actual gold working."


Mir's final words of advice: don't go crazy with pricing. "Just because something has gold in it, doesn't mean it is valuable. Nothing is wrong with using gold, but it could just make the cream feel more cosmetic," she says.


There are plenty of other antioxidant options out there that are effective, according to Mir. And you don't have to spend lots of money. She recommends resveratrol, green tea, white grape seed, vitamin C and emblica. But when making any changes to your skincare regimen, you should first seek the expertise of a dermatologist. 


Still fancy gold-infused skincare? Shop our editors' picks below.



 




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In Style We Trust: Pitti Uomo 89 Finest Street Style

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When in Rome, do as the Romans do.

The rule also seems to apply to Florence, where photographer Trevor Stuurman and myself spotted more than one gentleman with what seems to be a recurring unspoken Pitti Uomo dandy dress code since the 70's : timeless headwear, shades, colorful coats and socks along with signature shoes.

As New York Men's Fashion Week kicks off, let us reminisce on some of the trendsetting cosmopolitan gents at this iconic Italian fashion fair last month!

All photos courtesy of@Trevor_Stuurman
2016-01-31-1454247094-7141115-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of18.jpg"Shoes speak louder than words." - Unknown

2016-01-31-1454243944-6803355-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of14.jpgGQ Best Dressed 2015, @Trevor_Stuurman

2016-01-31-1454245145-1822096-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of123.jpg"Dressing well is a form of good manners." - Tom Ford

2016-01-31-1454245892-1600432-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of114.jpg"Clothes are never a frivolity: they always mean something."- James Laver

2016-01-31-1454251748-5163362-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of125.jpgKarl-Edwin Guerre, Street Style Photographer, @Guerreisms


2016-01-31-1454245544-1832334-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of116.jpg"To achieve the nonchalance which is absolutely necessary for a man, one article at least must not match." - Hardy Amies

2016-01-31-1454246627-7799043-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of13.jpg"Elegance is not standing out, but being remembered." - Giorgio Armani


2016-02-01-1454344957-497562-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of110copy.jpg"Menswear is about subtlety. It's about good style and good taste." - Alexander McQueen

2016-01-31-1454245747-5245064-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of19.jpg"A well-tied tie is the first serious step in life." - Oscar Wilde

2016-01-31-1454245390-1504096-PITTI89STREETSTYLE1of117.jpg"You can wear black at any time. You can wear it at any age. You may wear it for almost any occasion." - Christian Dior



All photos by Trevor Stuurman

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Your Horoscope: Are You Going to Meet a Lover or a Loser?

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Have you ever asked these questions about your relationships?

• "Why do I seem to attract relationships with people who take advantage of my kindness?"

• "Why do I seem to attract relationships with people who are abusive?"

• "Why do I end up in relationships with men who are either alcoholics, druggies, or cheaters?"

• "Why do I seem to attract superficial women who are just gold-diggers - only interested in my money?"

Unfortunately, more and more people find themselves in disappointing, harmful and even destructive relationships.

In the complex social world we live in, it can be challenging to find someone to have a healthy, loving relationship. We all know single or married people who seem to attract emotionally abusive relationships into their life.

Instead of attracting healthy individuals to have a love relationship, why do some people continually attract "losers?" (Definition: Loser - someone who is abusive and who behaves in emotionally or physically, unhealthy ways towards other people or themselves).

The answer to this perplexing question can be found in a person's horoscope by looking at how the planet Neptune affects their relationships. In one's horoscope, the planet Neptune rules idealism, inspiration, dreams, psychic receptivity, illusion, delusion, deception, guilt, addiction, and confusion.

Those who attract unhealthy relationships (i.e. losers), often have Neptune placed in their natal horoscope in a way that brings them relationship challenges. Their problems are further exacerbated years later as Neptune moves (or transits) through certain houses of a their horoscope. For example, transiting Neptune can create special problems when it transits a person's 1st House of Personality, the 5th House of Romance, the 7th House of Partnership, the 8th House of Transformation, or the 12th House of Secrets.

When it comes to love and romance, one of the dangers of Neptune's influence is that it can cause an individual to be attracted to unhealthy relationships where they deceive themselves about the person they are in love with; or even the nature of their relationship.

Neptune energies can cause a person to have peculiar emotional desires that emanate from their unconscious mind. Imagine being a diabetic and intellectually knowing that sugar is bad for your health. As you look in the window of a bakery shop, you see a delicious-looking chocolate fudge cake. At that moment, just like a sugar-addict, all you care about is eating a very large piece of that cake - even though, you know it's extremely bad for your diabetic condition.

In the same way, an unhealthy functioning Neptune can cause a person to become pre-disposed to attracting unsavory characters who they are destined to have an unhealthy relationship. In some cases, they have an addictive attraction to people who will abuse them. I call this pre-disposition: the "bad-boy" or "bad-girl" syndrome.

Why am I Attracted to Bad Boys?

This syndrome may manifest in the chart of the woman who comes from a traditional family where manners and moral upbringing are stressed. But, unfortunately, she finds most "nice" men (that her parents would approve) uninteresting, boring, and "too white bread." Instead, she's excited and fascinated by a man of questionable character especially if he appears fascinating and mysterious. Some women are even more bewitched if the man seems dangerous. There's something forbidden about his character that makes him very captivating.

This "bad boy" is fascinating to her for his rebellious ways, and devil-may-care attitude. (And, if her parents would disapprove - finding him socially unacceptable in some way, so much the better.) He may be devilishly handsome with a charismatic personality that says, "I do what I want and I get what I want."

Or, he may be intriguing because he lives a carefree life, unconcerned about society's approval. She's so charmed that she ignores all the "red flags" that should give her pause: he seems to enjoy drinking a lot; he gets familiar and talks about sex right away; he's changed jobs often and is currently unemployed; he's 35 and still living with his parents.

This woman's attraction to such a man may be even darker. She may become engrossed when she hears he's had a hard life, been abused in some way, dropped out of school, had some trouble with the law or is unconcerned that he can't seem to hold a job. He may have an exciting sexual charisma or just appears a bit freaky. In some way he's a "bad boy."

Why am I Attracted to Bad Girls?

This syndrome may also manifest in the chart of a man who has a history of being attracted to unhealthy relationships with women. He may be so desperate for love and acceptance that he is vulnerable and often captivated with women who are likely to treat him abusively. For example, take the man who perpetually feels used by women who seem "only interested in his money." His low self-esteem and need for the approval of others, causes him to be solely interested in women who are physically attractive. He wants a "show piece" so that others will admire him, thus he can feel better about himself. He looks for glamorous women who focus on their looks, wear expensive clothes, and are materialistically oriented (like he is). It is no wonder they are interested in his wealth since that's what they value most.

Then, there is the older man (e.g. in his 50s), with a history of disappointing relationships, only wanting to date women in their 20s and early 30s. He fancies himself youthful like Peter Pan, ageless (as well as clueless). He often complains that he feels taken advantaged when these young women eventually leave him for a relationship with a man closer to their age, with whom they had more in common.

This syndrome also causes unsatisfying romances for people who find themselves attracted to a romantic partner they can't have. It's as if their romantic interest comes alive because the other person isn't available or interested in them. For example, the woman who spends two years going out with a man whose behavior clearly shows he's not that "into" their relationship. Her low self-esteem causes her to feel she doesn't deserve more. Neptune's placement in her birth chart gives her a propensity to deceive herself, so she ignores the many signs of this man's lack of serious interest in her. Her Neptunian delusion prevents her from seeing the reality that she is only having a one-sided relationship with this man. This negative Neptune influence can keep a person trapped in a self-defeating behavior pattern that results in repeatedly experiencing disappointing relationships. Such people never seem to connect the dots as to why this pattern repeats itself so often.

9 Tips for Avoiding Unhealthy Relationships

We must look for warning signs and red flags that will help us see if we are about to engage in an unhealthy or toxic relationship.

1. Be careful of becoming involved in dependent relationships, where either partner, views the other as a savior.

2. Avoid a romantic relationship with someone who has an addiction to drugs, alcohol or any other addiction such as gambling, food, work, shopping, television, religion or pornography. These are all "tells" that must not be ignored. Neptune's influence can heighten one's sense of compassion, causing them to want to "save" the other person. That's why it is important to put energy into a healthy relationship with an equal partner. Don't make the mistake of falling in love with someone's "potential."

3. A person can heal themself so they can enjoy the love of a healthy romantic relationship but they have to be willing to set boundaries. This requires that they are very conscious, grounding themself in reality even though they would prefer "to stay in the clouds."

4. If a person wants to stop attracting abusive and unsatisfying relationships into their life they must recognize that when it comes to romantic relationships, they are prone to fantasy, delusion and self-deception (and the deception of others). It's just another facet of their idealistic and romantic nature; and their tendency to not be realistic. They need to be conscious that this makes them vulnerable to attracting unhealthy relationships.

5. When this person meets a romantic prospect who interests them, they must make sure to discuss the positive qualities they are looking for in a healthy relationship; and, then, pay attention to the responses they get.

6. It's equally important to discuss the qualities they consider unhealthy. Pay attention to these responses as well. This exchange will give them insights as to whether or not they are likely to enjoy a healthy, satisfying romance with the other person.

7. Keep in mind, it's not necessary to "vomit" on the other person about one's past relationship disappointments. It only makes the person sound like a "loser!" To stop ones' negative relationship pattern: Don't play the victim. I remind clients: when you think of all your bad relationships: the common denominator is you. Admit that you've made some bad choices. Today is a new day. You won't be making these bad choices again.

8. Most importantly, one must trust one's intuition. If a person meets a "bad boy," or "bad girl," don't waste your time - move on because you can't change them. As a healthy person, recognize it's not your job to do so. If one is not sure whether it's a healthy relationship, go slow in dating and really get to know and trust the person.

9. My final advice to clients with this issue: if early warning signs tell you this person is wrong for you, exit the relationship, immediately. No more contact.

Then, after you've done this, look in your mirror so you can see what a healthy person looks like. You are that healthy person! You can break your pattern of having unsuccessful relationships if you commit yourself to these simple tips.

Find out if Neptune (or other transits) are affecting your love relationships by going to the Free Transit Calculator and entering your birth date. And, if you're curious to learn more about your personal Horoscope and what it says about your love relationships, career, investments and health in 2016: Order your customized Report: Your Horoscope & Future in 2016.

If you want to know about the planets affecting your love compatibility with another person, go to the FREE Love Compatibility Calculator and enter your birth date and theirs. And, if you want a customized report on your compatibility together, order Your Love Compatibility Report.


Larry Schwimmer is an astrologer in private practice. For private consultations, contact him at: Larry@astrodecision.com or go to www.AstroDecision.com

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Prince Harry Helps Woman In Wheelchair Who Fell, Proves Again He's Pretty Darn Perfect

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If you had any doubts as to whether Prince Harry was your favorite royal, his helpful gesture for one woman who uses a wheelchair should change your mind. 


During trials for the Invictus Games, a sporting event that raises awareness for wounded veterans, in Bath, England, last week, Royal Air Force Medic Anna Pollock fell over in her wheelchair. Prince Harry, being the nice guy he is, rushed to her aid. 



"He was so lovely to help me and he gives so much," 33-year-old Pollock, who is partially paraplegic, said of the prince's kind gesture, according to Gazette Live. "He makes all the lads and the lasses feel important."



Prince Harry, who launched the Invictus Games back in 2014, was at the trials, supporting athletes who were competing for a spot on the U.K. team, according to the outlet. Pollock, who was among the hopefuls, had approached the royal earlier for a photo. Shortly after, a strong gust of wind caused the competitor's lightweight racing wheelchair to tip over. 



The prince, who has long been a supporter of veterans, came over and not only helped Pollock out, but joked around with her. 


"Harry said to me 'What did you do that for?' I said, 'To show you how not to do that,'" she said, recalling the conversation she had with the royal after she fell, according to The Telegraph. "I said 'Are you sure you had nothing to do with it?'"


The Invictus Games will be held in Orlando, Florida, at the ESPN Wide World of Sports Complex in May, according to the event's website


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How To Tell If You're Using Way Too Much Of Your Skincare Products

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When using a skincare product for the very first time, you may take extra precaution by carefully following the instructions on the packaging, or you may just go with your gut instinct. If you do the latter, it's time you took the guesswork out of your regimen. Chances are, you're using way too much product and going through items faster than you need to.

To break down the exact amount of product you should apply, we collaborated with Karen Hammerman, a board-certified dermatologist in New York City. Check it out below and read on for tips from Hammerman to get the most out of your cleanser, sunscreen and more.



Cleanser:
"When it comes to cream or gel cleansers, you only need a dime-sized amount," Hammerman says. "If you have a foaming cleanser, one pump should do the trick. Using too much cleanser at once will not only dry out and irritate your skin, but it will make you go through your skincare product far too quickly. Cleansing your face once in the morning and once before bed, again with a dime-sized amount of cleanser, should do the trick."


Eye Cream:
"A penny-sized amount of eye cream is enough for both eyes. You want to be careful to use enough to hydrate this sensitive area of the skin. However, using too much eye cream can lead to eye irritation, build-up and difficulties in applying makeup. In addition, eye creams moisturize the eye area, and if you apply too much, your makeup may not hold well to your skin."


Sunscreen:
"When it comes to sunscreen, too much can never be too much. For your face, however, you should start off with a quarter-sized amount. For your body, go for a larger amount comparable to a gold-dollar coin, for example. The amount of sunblock equal to a gold-dollar coin size should adequately cover your legs, and then this same amount should also be applied to the upper body and back. Always make sure that you fully cover all areas on your body and if you feel as if you should be adding more, always add more. Also, don't forget to reapply the same amount every 2-3 hours as sunscreen does lose its effectiveness over that time."


Serum/Oil:
"Serums are great for hydrating, exfoliating and brightening your skin. Stick to a penny-sized amount of serum/oil and spread all over your face/neck area. If you overuse serum, your skin may not absorb the beneficial ingredients of the product and instead, it will be left sitting on the surface of your face. This could lead to extra oily skin, breakouts and even irritation."


Day/Night Moisturizer:
"A common size to start off with when using a daily moisturizer is about the size of a quarter, but all moisturizers are different so it is important for you to get a feel for your product as well. If you are trying out a new moisturizer, you will also know how much you should be using depending on your skin's reaction after a few days' usage. If your skin feels dry and tight, you can use a little bit more. If your skin feels clogged and oily, use a little bit less.


"When it comes to night cream, you should use a quarter-sized amount and apply it to your face and neck area," she says. "Before applying the cream, you should of course be thoroughly cleaning and washing your face. Night creams help to lock in moisture while you sleep."


Retinol:
"Retinol is great for anti-aging. It encourages skin-cell turnover, meaning that it helps produce and replenish new skin cells. It should be used at night, so that these new skin cells aren't exposed to sun/daylight right away. Most people's skin may need to build up a tolerance to retinol. I tell my patients who are just starting to use a retinol product to start with a dime-sized amount to the entire face every other night, and work your way up to a nickel-sized amount as tolerated. The retinol cream can also be diluted with a moisturizer if it is too irritating."


Infographic and illustrations by Tiara Chiaramonte.



This piece was originally published on June 4, 2015.



 


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An Easy Smokey Eye Tutorial With a Surprising Twist

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Date-night makeup can have an expectation attached for needing to go above and beyond your normal daily makeup routine to create a little extra dazzle. The good news is that these amped-up looks don't have to take much more time than you would ordinarily spend doing your everyday look. Here, I'm showing you how to streamline your classic smokey eye with a Valentine's Day twist: use pink eyeshadow instead of brown or black. With this easy substitution -- pastel palettes are everywhere right now -- not only do you get that coveted date-night smolder, but you also get a brightening effect thanks to the soft, shimmer pink hue (similar to using blush on the go to make your eyes pop). Scroll below to learn the five simple steps to achieve this romantic look in five minutes flat.

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Prep: Flawless Face  + Chocolate Lip


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Apply your base makeup following this flawless face tutorial. Add a soft pale pink blush like Narsissist Cheek Studio Palette in Fleshy Pink ($65) onto the apples of your cheeks and highlight above your cheekbones with a bright matte powder like Cream Bisque from the same NARS palette. Pair with a deep neutral lip color that will allow your eyes to be the main feature while still having a little punch of drama. I'm wearing Too Faced Melted Chocolate in Chocolate Honey ($21) -- totally kissable, BTW!

Step 1: Matte Highlight


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I chose to go with a matte highlighter on my brow bone and inside corners of my eyes to keep this look overall on the matte side of the fence. I am using the Cream Bisque color from the NARS palette in the last step.

Step 2: Sweep of Pale Pink


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Using a flat brush or even your finger, apply a soft pink from the inside corners of your eyes slightly over the cream shadow that you applied in the last step, across your eyelids and into your creases. Switch to a flat brush and apply the same pink to your lower lash line. I'm using Shimmering Rose Peach from the same NARS palette.

Step 3: Smoke It Out


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This step is best if you use a smaller, slightly firm shadow brush for precision and a slightly smudgy effect. Apply a deep brown eyeshadow like Darkhorse from the Urban Decay Naked Palette ($54) to the outside corners of your eyes, pulling the shadow slightly below your lower lash line and into the outer creases of your eyelids. You could use black eyeshadow if you really want to have a smoldering drama, but I like brown to keep it soft and romantic.

Step 4: Pink Shimmer


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Now it's time to apply one little touch of shimmer directly to the center of your eyelids to catch the light and create a dreamy subtle shimmer that will have your lover locked into your gaze! I am using NYX Cosmetics Roll on Shimmer in Mauve Pink ($4) that I apply with a flat shadow brush instead of rolling on for a more natural lighter finish.

Step 5: Deep Gray Liner


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Instead of using a true black eyeliner, grab a deep charcoal or gray eyeliner like Buxom Hold the Line Waterproof Eyeliner in Sparkling Gunmetal Gray ($17) that will be contrasty enough up against the soft pink without overpowering the overall finish of the look. For that smudgy effect, apply on the outside corners of your eyes, along your upper lash line and on the outside portion of your lower lash line. You can use a cotton swab or brush to blend over the liner to make it a little softer and smudged out.

Finishing Touches: Fluttering Soft Mascara


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For your mascara, keep it lighter by using a soft brown like my current go-to Benefit Cosmetics They're Real Tinted Primer ($24). This is going to finish off those soft smoldering pink eyes without being too stark!

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Now I ponder... he loves me, he loves me not!

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Who cares? I feel pretty! :)

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4 Reasons The Retail Industry Is Declining

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It's no secret the retail industry has seen a decrease in in-store sales over the last few years. Over the course of 2015, the Sears Holdings Corporation, parent company of Sears and Kmart, closed over 230 stores nationwide. As a fashion industry professional with over twenty years experience, I've been on a quest to learn why physical retail is on the decline. The problem stems from more than just issues like subpar customer service, but rather a 180-degree change in customer habits. Here are the four biggest offenders that have contributed to the widespread decline of brick-and-mortar sales.

1. Conscious Customers
The biggest shift in retail has not been the switch from in-store to online shopping, but rather a shift in the customer's approach to purchasing items. The fashion script has been flipped -- customers are no longer compliant consumers but rather savvy shoppers. They compare prices and purchase merchandise through multiple platforms including brick-and-mortar stores as well as department stores online shops, boutiques, designer sites and third party sellers, within a matter of seconds. This type of unique access has created educated customers who understand how and when to purchase clothing and accessories in order to get the best deal.

2. Going Online: Couches vs. Fitting Rooms
Retailers have seen a rapid rise in online sales in the past several years. In 2015, mega e-tailer Amazon saw a 97% increase in sales year-over-year. What does this mean, besides the obvious? While this huge increase in online shopping is helping keep the retail industry afloat, it's also eating away at income at brick-and-mortar stores. The one-click online shopping experience allows customers to buy an entire new wardrobe with ease. Online shopping also means not having to step outside of your comfort zone (literally), and for some, that's worth more than any physical retail experience could ever offer.

3. Sales On Sales On Sales
In an effort to combat the continuous decrease in sales, retailers have shifted their focus to heavy promotional selling. This quick fix may bring customers into stores but over time, it devalues both the brand and the product. Pricing is directly reflective of the quality of the product and brand. When retailers discount their product, they're also cheapening their brand. Don't get me wrong, I love a good sale. However, when retailers put all their eggs in the 40% off basket, customers will always expect a discount and become less inclined to purchase full-price merchandise. Retailers should use promotions as one of their tools in their sales kit - not the only one.

4. Next Gen Shopping
With more and more customers moving to online shopping, physical retailers need to evaluate what's making customers migrate online. If it's foot traffic stores are lacking, retailers need to make sshopping an experience rather than a chore. If customers, especially millennials, are going to spend their time in physical stores, they need to feel stimulated and engaged. Taking risks and allocating budgets towards experiential marketing and technology will get people off the couch and into the fitting rooms. In an effort to create a digital retail experience, retailers should look to omni-channel shopping efforts in store. Incorporating kiosks or handheld mobile devices where clients can purchase additional product from online and other physical stores, while in-store, is one way retailers can stay on top of an ever changing and demanding clientele.

Realistically, brick and mortars aren't going anywhere. In the end, there is nothing as appealing or intoxicating as walking into a store and being greeted by a familiar scent and a smiling face. At Liberty Fairs, we create an experience where the customer is transported and inspired to think differently about fashion. And, hopefully, our vision inspires them to transcend their clients shopping experience.

What are your thoughts on the current climate of the brick-and-mortar shop?

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Off-Camera: The Sartorialist Unveils First Collection

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2016-01-26-1453768477-9815429-TheSartorialistSissiJohnson.jpeg Guido Biondi, Creative Director, Roy Roger's (left) & The Sartorialist (right) - ©Roy Roger's


Acclaimed street style photographer Scott Schuman also known as The Sartorialist, has ventured out from behind the camera's lens this season to create a 70's inspired capsule collection with leading Italian denim brand Roy Roger's.


Presented at Pitti Uomo 89 in Florence ahead of Milan Fashion Week, Schuman talked about how the fall-winter 2016 designs were "almost selfish", being items he wanted only for himself to wear.



2016-01-25-1453765941-4874576-THE_SARTORIALIST_ROYROGERS.jpg His girlfriend even joked that he looks taller as he wore his collection's high-waisted jean's, a signature cut present across the collection which is entirely made in Italy.


Initially, the collaboration between Roy Roger's and The Sartorialist was meant to be strictly denim, but quickly grew to include more items such as jackets and sweaters.

As seen on the left, sweaters were made slightly cropped, a look working so well that it led one to question: why hasn't this trend blazed into menswear more ?


With Beatles-esque haircuts and casual chic silhouettes, models helped bring to life a well-rounded collection that is sure to be timeless.













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When asked if the collaboration would be ongoing, Schuman responded with enthusiasm:

" We signed a contract for two collections. So this is the first, the next one will come out in June. But if it goes well we will keep doing it.


But you know these guys [Roy Roger's] are easy to work with. The reaction so far has been very good so I could see it becoming an ongoing thing," he added.

2016-02-02-1454404827-2834-SissiJohnsonScottSchumanTheSartorialist.jpgThe Sartorialist (left) & Sissi Johnson (right) - Photo by Sarah Fielding


Will The Sartorialist turn into a full-time fashion designer ? Not just yet.
Regarding his plans for 2016 Scott Schuman shared with me:

"Just more going out and shooting. That's the thing I still love to do.

You know the design is fun to do. I love doing stuff like this because it keeps my brain challenged. But at the end of the day, I like to just go out and take photographs," Schuman explained.

2016-02-02-1454402187-8607707-SissiJohnsonGuidoBiondiRoyRogers.jpgGuido Biondi, Creative Director of Roy Roger's explains how the collaboration came about. Photo by Sarah Fielding

"I have always been attracted to Scott Schuman's pioneering vision of fashion and to the way he catches people, interpreting it and making it personal.

The Sartorialist, in fact, is a constant lens on trend changes around the world: through his alert eye, he reports how people dress up during their daily lives.

Having the street as a fundamental inspiration is a point in common with Roy Roger's: this is also where I always start from when I'm designing a collection. Trends take a shape from our day-by-day reality," Biondi said.


A man who knows how to create beauty through pictures and clothes is certainly a man to watch.

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How Many Of These '90s Fashion Trends Did You Own?

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If you grew up in the '90s, you grew up in the era of butterfly clips, slap bracelets and Baby Gs. You knew that puka shell necklaces were cool and tie-dye shirts were even cooler (bonus points if you made one yourself at camp.)


For all the '90s babies (and those who grew up in the decade), we've compiled a list of 16 clothing and beauty items that embody the era. We're willing to bet you owned at least one (if not multiple) things from our list below. So, how '90s were you?


1. These shrinking tops that saved you so much space when you were packing for a trip. 



'90s bubble shirt, popcorn crop top seapunk floral ombre puffy blue pink crinkle shrink cropped, $19


2. A Triple 5 Soul sweatshirt. 



Triple 5 Soul NYC Vintage Sweater, $14


3. Tattoo chokers that strangled you a little. 



4. A best friend necklace that inevitably started a fight between you and your multiple best friends. 



Claire's Best Friends Heart Pendant Necklace Set, $9


5. Several scrunchies.



6. Hideous brown lipstick.



7. A Jansport backpack (to tote around all your unflattering lip colors). 



Jansport Superbreak, $36


8. Platform sneakers that you inappropriately wore to gym class. 



RaRe Vintage '90s Sketchers Chunky Sneakers Creeper size 6 grunge goth Nastygal, $39


9. Too many vests to count. 



10. These Steve Madden sandals. 



'90s Platform Black Slides Elastic Fabric Stretchy Slip On, $48


11. Plenty of Looney Tunes gear.



Looney Tunes Tee, $12


12. These beauties, in every color. 



Set of 6 Chinese Mesh Slippers with Floral Designs, $39


13. This painful device that never stayed on properly. 


 


Circular Flexible Hair Comb Headband -- Essential Circular Flexible Hair Comb Headband, $3


14. A plaid flannel shirt, which you most likely tied around your waist, Angela Chase style. 



Vintage '90s FLANNEL Shirt Grunge Plaid Red, $15


 


 15. These monstrosities. 



JNCO Blue Hypnotix, $69


16. All the CK One.



CK One by Calvin Klein, $16


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