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25 Babies With Afros That Will Make Your Ovaries Flip

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The only thing more marvelous than an afro is an afro atop a little human's head -- no matter how curly, coily, big or tiny it is.


We rounded up photo of 25 poofy-haired angels and were completely unable to deal with all of the cuteness. Start scrolling down and you won't be able to, either.  


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I've Been Natural Longer Than You... So What Does That Even Mean?

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Nothing really, but I bring this up because a couple of days ago on Facebook a poster was going OFF on natural hair bloggers, vloggers, and YouTubers for acting like they have all the answers on natural hair. We were labeled as hypocrites, never having doubts about this natural hair journey and that we consider ourselves experts on everything about being natural. I had to think about her statements a little deeper, because I really wanted to grasp her anger for two reasons.

One: Where was this coming from?

Two: There were too many on the post agreeing with her and I had know why. Were some of us really being snotty, sh*tty or know-it-alls?


I've never really shared too deeply about my natural hair journey. I've mentioned it and discussed some portions, but I never delved into the unsure Sabrina that was lurking around before and during the beginning. I permed my hair for the last time in August 2005 right before Hurricane Katrina tore into the Gulf Coast. Afterward, we found ourselves temporarily homeless, so we moved our little family to Colorado. I went from a humid climate to a dry one and although I had serious stress during that time in my life, I still found time to be worried about my hair. I didn't want it to fall out, so I ditched the perming and decided to go natural.

I wasn't a "Here I am! I'm a natural woman!!" back then. Back then I was sporting braids and wigs and covering my tresses 100 percent of the time. I did that for about three years always wanting to go au naturale, but not mentally ready. Yes, back then there weren't that many of us and yes; I was self-conscious, unsure... just really not ready to expose myself to the world. My husband and sister told me to just do it already and even explained that my hair looked nice. Despite their insistence whenever I did take a break from the braids and wigs and stepped outside of my comfort zone (my house) I made sure to cover my tresses. Was I a chicken? Sure, but I had no knowledge on how to take care of my hair and what products to use.

I had done a big chop even though it had no name back then and had ultra short hair. I found some curl hydration crap on a shelf in Target and slathered it in my hair while sporting a scarf as a headband. Then, on one frightful day in October of 2008, I bared my hair and my soul to the world. Luckily, the world was inviting. I walked into work and I was showered with "ahs" and "oohs" by mostly white coworkers. Even the meanest of the meanest supervisors smiled a genuine smile and told me she loved my hair. It was the reaction I so needed. I needed the love, the like, the acceptance. I was unsure, insecure, and afraid. Yes, seasoned naturals had or still have doubts, fears, and failures but those failures have led us to successes and valuable knowledge on what to do and how to do it.

Do we know everything there is to know about natural hair? Hell no, but we have been where you are right now and have learned how to overcome the obstacles that some may be facing. It was hard to be natural when there weren't many around to gain support, knowledge, and acceptance. So yes, that does make us a little rough around the edges but the love is still there.

I'm not making excuses for the rudeness, the shortness, or the nastiness that some receive from seasoned naturals. I'm giving my take on what it was like for me and why some may be unwilling to share that dark past. There may be a lasting hurt and insecurity back there when being natural wasn't so accepted. It may be hard for some to admit they were afraid or worried about how they looked or even that they felt alone. It's not always easy to look into your soul and admit you were unsure about this natural path we feel so strongly about now.

So, what is my point? My point is many of us have been where you are today and if some are ugly about it then just brush it off and take it in stride. We aren't all like that, and I guarantee you will find many to help you and understand your plight. I envy your chance to go natural when there are tons of products, advice, and support to guide you. Am I bitter? Not at all, because I am the confident natural I am today because I was the clueless natural 10 years ago. My past is my past and it makes me stronger every single day. So the best advice I can give to those feeling anger from some seasoned naturals:

Ignore the hate, embrace the love, and enjoy the journey.

Sabrina from SeriouslyNatural.org

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8 Easy Ways To Instantly Boost Your Confidence

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When you’ve got an overflowing plate, it’s easy to toss those non-essential to-dos on the back burner. And if your life is a marathon of sprints from one event to the next, a blue mood bringing you down is the last thing you need.

Confidence isn’t a self-sustaining feeling. Rather, it ebbs and flows with us, feeding on our positive (and negative) energies with a complete disregard for our jam-packed schedules. Lucky for you, we’ve teamed up with Dove Dry Spray Antiperspirant to round up eight mood-boosting tricks you can take with you when you’ve got no time to slow down

1. Swipe on some lipstick
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If you’re looking for a fast and easy pick-me-up, look no further than your beauty bag. Believe it or not, lipstick (yes, lipstick!) has curative properties ... er, that is, it’ll cure a sullen mood and timid demeanor. Lipstick has been lifting spirits since the Depression era, and now there’s science to prove why. Turns out, the brighter your lipstick and blush, the younger and more confident you appear. That’s science we can get behind.

2. Snap a selfie
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Feeling fierce in a new outfit? Having a particularly #blessed hair day? Capture -- and enhance -- your confidence with a snapshot. Turns out, selfies can be empowering because they promote healthy self-image and self-love. So, next time someone judges your selfie taking, 1) ignore it and 2) you do you.

3. Strike a pose
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Amy Cuddy taught us about the power of body language and power posing, but it turns out that the Superman stance does a lot more for you beyond making you feel invincible. Scientists call it “embodied cognition”; for us laymen, think of it as your body tricking your brain into feeling more powerful. It’s as simple as standing taller, sitting straighter and unfolding your arms when you’ve unintentionally crossed them.

4. Fake it till ...
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Can pseudo confidence work as well as the real thing? Forget the old adage that you should “fake it till you make it” and replace it with the belief that you should fake it till you become it. Think of it as a confidence-as-placebo effect: you trick your body into feeling more powerful, and suddenly you really do feel more powerful. Feigning confidence is as easy as speaking slower and walking faster, two mannerisms that radiate self-assurance. Need a trick that’s even easier to pull off? Toss on a black or red shirt. One study showed that those colors can make you appear more powerful, confident and assertive.

5. Look good, feel better
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It’s no secret that when you look good, you feel better -- cue the above placebo effect! Wear clothes that make you look and feel confident, get a haircut that leaves you feeling fresh and powerful, and use beauty products and fragrances that make you feel like you can take on the world. The best part? Studies prove that we’re more confident when we know we smell good. So go ahead, spritz away!

6. Catch up with joe
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Boost your confidence in the time it takes to brew yourself a strong cup of coffee. Turns out those caffeine addicts are on to something, as studies have shown that a cup of joe is a great source of powerful, body-protecting antioxidants that can boost your mood and invigorate your brain. Bonus: Even if you don’t have time to brew at home, you can grab a cup of coffee practically anywhere, anytime. Let’s just call it on-the-go confidence in a cup.

7. Get back to basics
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Think of confidence as part of the holistic self. That starts by treating yourself the way you would treat a child: enjoy a healthy meal, spend time outside each day, don’t put yourself in danger, limit your screen time and get plenty of rest. With the foundation of a healthy, positive lifestyle, your self-confidence will thrive. Looking for some instant gratification? Take your next conference call outside. Turns out spending time in the great outdoors boosts brain function and builds confidence. So, who’s up for some gardening?

8. Grin ear to ear
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Smiling is good for you twofold -- not only does it lift your mood, but it also reduces your stress levels. That’s because showing off your pearly whites through smiling requires you to use muscles closer to your eyes, and that produces a positive change in brain activity. Basically, if you’re going to will yourself into smiling to lift your spirits, make sure it’s a toothy grin because that’ll give you the biggest mood boost. Plus, that red lipstick from earlier will leave your smile looking whiter and brighter. If that’s not a reason to smile, we’re not sure what is.


Stay confident with Dove Dry Spray Antiperspirant. Its specially designed, caring formula goes on instantly dry for a cleaner feel with no visible residue. The 48 hour protection will leave you feeling ready to tackle the day and conquer the night.

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The One Fab Beauty Product Top Midlife Bloggers Wouldn't Do Without

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Being a Midlife Blogger, I'm lucky to have met other wonderful Midlife Bloggers who beautifully capture the journey for all of us, through empty nest and beyond.

This dynamic group of women are a powerful resource -- they've seen it all and done most of it.

I decided who better to tap for a list of the One Fabulous Beauty Product you wouldn't want to live without. They've generously shared their favorites below.

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Shellie Bowdoin, TheFabJourney.com

Lipstick is my favorite go-to beauty item. Whether I'm popping out for errands or doing the whole make-up transformation, lipstick is the piece that pulls everything together. I don't find it necessary to change my color with every outfit. Instead, I stick with a vibrant berry that works best with my skin tone. I use a dual lipliner/lipstick from Merle Norman in Hussy. I use a light hand with it to keep it from going on too dark, but it lasts like crazy. I then top it with a more emollient lipstick. Right now I am wearing Exotic Orchid by Estee Lauder. I'm also a big smiler, so my painted lips make the perfect frame.

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Jennifer Connolly, AWellStyledLife.com

I spend a bundle on my skin care. And when a new, at home, miracle device hits the market, I buy it. Over the last few years, I've been suckered into innumerable dermatological procedures and treatments that promise miracle results. Not surprisingly, I've been disappointed. Turns out, there is no fountain of youth, short of a face lift. Even it's results are questionable. All I can hope for is to be the freshest version of myself possible. What I've discovered is, there's no lotion, potion or magic elixir that can do for my face, what meditation does. Quieting the turbulant chatter in my mind appears to smooth the lines on my face. The deep, slow breaths I take probably help by bringing oxygenated blood to my skin. Perhaps the benefit I see is imagined. But it doesn't matter, because my perception is all that matters. 

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Jill Robbins, RippedJeansandBifocals.com

I turn 50 this year and my favorite beauty product is Sonia Kashuk Translucent Illuminator. I am always sweating or having a hot flash so I don't wear much makeup on my face right now. I use this instead of foundation on the days where I don't need a lot of coverage...it's easy to blend and it seems like it kind of "wakes my color up." I'm a midlife blogger but I have young kids and I really try to look presentable when I take them to school in the morning and this helps pull me together. It's about $15 at Target, which is a little bit of a splurge for me.

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Cathy Williamson, TheMiddlePage.com

I was diagnosed with a very aggressive breast cancer 2 1/2 years ago, and was given really intense chemotherapy. Chemo is so drying to the skin, but La Mer, Cream de La Mer, completely helped my skin, and I have never stopped using it! It is great for dry and mature skin. Can't live without it! 


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Carol Cassara, CarolCassara.com

At age 65 I have no wrinkles. People remark on that all the time. My secret is that I've been using Lancome's Genifique Serum since it came out. It's the only thing I do faithfully every single day. It cleared up those little dry patches that come with age and that -- and genetics -- have helped keep my face wrinkle-free.

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Tam Warner Minton, TravelswithTam.com

My favorite beauty item has become Christian Dior's AIRFLASH makeup. There is a primer which evens one's skin tone, a beautiful light absorbing base, and a matte finish. These items are close to being "photo finished". Put them on with a soft brush, and voila! You look your best!

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Cathy Chester, AnEmpoweredSpirit.com

I don't do this nearly enough but once in awhile I love getting a massage. A good masseuse can soothe my aching muscles and relieve those tight spots that are screaming for relief. The life of a midlife writer means a lot of sitting and not enough stretching. After awhile I need a nice, soothing Swedish massage. The feel of loosening my muscles, the sound of calming music and the smell of essential oils equals one hour of pure joy. My body feels refreshed and renewed and it thanks me for taking care of it!! Ahh.

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Doreen McGettigan, DoreenMcgettigan.com

During my teens, twenties, thirties and most of my forties I used the same moisturizer, make-up, shampoo, the same stylist, the same spa etc...

Once I reached midlife, nothing I used or wore felt right. From the inside/out I didn't feel right physically or emotionally. Thanks to my midlife blogger friends I quickly learned I needed a beauty intervention. I'm still working on getting to that comfortable place of having my go to staple beauty products.

There is one simple product that I have used consistently since I was a kid and to this day I do not leave the house without it. I have dry skin and extremely dry lips. Dry cracked lips can affected my speaking, my self confidence and my comfort. I have tried every lip product on the market but the one that is always in my purse, the one that simply works for me is Chapstick.


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Rev Crouse, Hobsess.com

You can hide your desperate need for a pedicure with a strategic shoe selection. You can avoid shaving your legs IF your date doesn't quite merit this extra work (let's call it shave-worthy). You can even put off getting a haircut with the creative use of ties, bands and clips. But you can never EVER neglect your eyebrows. I'm serious, ladies! The fastest way to look old and washed out is to pretend you can pull off your look by ignoring the finishing touch of your brows. I faithfully use bareMinerals Brow Color (brunette) and apply it using the bareMinerals Brush Brow Master. This selection comes after multiple, expensive, trial-and-error experiments. So for the love of all things beautiful (and what could be more beautiful than YOU?), please don't neglect your brows!

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Tracy Milam, TurnAroundat50.com

I am not a fancy kind of girly girl. As I have gotten older I have found that even my modest routine required a boost from better quality problem solving products. Too Faced Shadow Insurance is a really great eye shadow primer. I tend to have oily skin, which can make eye shadow look messy ... add that to my new found crepey-ness and it isn't always pretty! I find that my shadow stays perfect all day when I use this. Love this product and wish I had found it years ago.

I love a new list of beauty favs, don't you? Let me know if you find some new keepers in this terrific list.

Kimberly Montgomery is the creator of the Choices Notebook and blogger at FiftyJewels.com, where she encourages people to use their powers for good. Hop on over there to grab your FREE copy of the Choices Notebook Mini Kit.

Follow Kimberly Montgomery on Twitter: www.twitter.com/FiftyJewels


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Dolce & Gabbana Sells 'Slave Sandals' On Its Website

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You’d think they’d have learned their lesson by now.


From using exploitative earrings depicting African women to Asian catwalk models representing “tourists who have just arrived in Italy,” Dolce & Gabbana is no stranger to criticisms of racism.


The Italian brand has come under fire yet again this week, this time over a “Slave Sandal.”



The “Slave Sandal in Napa Leather with Pompoms” recently became available for pre-order on the Dolce & Gabbana website for $2,395. The brand features the sandals in its spring 2016 collection, which it describes as “a declaration of love to Italy.”


“Slave” was once a common name for lace-up sandals, according to the shoe magazine Footwear News. The term “gladiator,” however, has largely replaced that term in fashion circles.


Social media erupted this week with shock and horror at Dolce & Gabbana’s choice of shoe moniker.


















It seems the brand noticed the controversy. As of early Friday, the website’s description of the sandals has changed significantly.


It now refers to the shoes as the “Decorative Flat Sandal.” 

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Jessica Biel Shows How Sheer Can Be Classy On Our Best-Dressed List

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This week, we thought we had gotten our fashion fill on the Oscars red carpet, but it looks like the stars kept cranking out amazing outfits. 


Margot Robbie stunned in a black jumpsuit, Sarah Hyland found an age-appropriate gown and Jessica Biel stole the show at the Vanity Fair Oscar Party. 


Check out the best-dressed celebs we saw over the past few days:


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An Open Letter to Ashley Graham

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Dear Ashley,

Here is the question that was asked of me:

Do you love the fact that we are actually stepping outside our comfort zone of what we know is like the model figure and we are actually using full figured women and making that a thing now?

This was a generic question, and I said that I did not love it. My answer was based on health concerns because of our nation's increasing problems with weight linked to diabetes, heart issues and cancer. At no time was I thinking of a specific person.

What has ensued is yet another "manufactured media feud" that is needed to feed websites and empty air time.

I was not equating beauty to weight or size, but unfortunately that is what the media reported in headlines. I was trying to express my concern over media images and the lack of education in America about healthy choices, thus the reference to the 35-inch waist as a guideline to health. I did hear that on Dr. Oz, but it's also stated on websites such as The Center For Disease Control, Harvard University and The American Diabetes Association.

And by the way, my waist is 37 inches.

I worry about the influence that print media has on this issue and I care about the health of all Americans. If it becomes the norm, then what happens with rates of diabetes, cancer and heart disease? This has nothing to do with beauty.

Please accept my deepest apology if you were offended or in any way think I was referring to you. I commend you on the positive influence you have on helping women to love themselves.

I care about health and longevity for everyone.

Sincerely,

Cheryl Tiegs

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Chrissy Teigen Wears The Braided Ponytail Of Our Dreams

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The world has looked on with wonder as Chrissy Teigen seamlessly moves from one amazing maternity look to the next. There's no question her sartorial choices have been stellar -- this most recent look, from the opening of a comedy show in New York City Thursday night, included.


But in gushing over her many outfits, including this black lace Asilio gown that's still available in white, we've neglected the fact that this woman has some awesome hair, too. Take her glorious braided ponytail, for example:



It's just so darn cool:



Seriously, look at that thing!



Chrissy Teigen: fashion queen, and now #braidgoals, too.


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The Latest And Greatest Beauty Buys From Sephora

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As much as we adore the Ultas and Birchboxes of the world, we always find our way back to Sephora. Even as a beauty editor, with access to loads of goodies for the trying, I still find myself perusing the store when I'm out and about. There's just something about the black-and-white striped decor that pulls you in. The free samples and awesome return policy don't hurt, either. But the biggest draw is the retailer's always expanding selection of products.

Just last year, the store added beloved brands like Herbivore Botanicals, Black Up, and Too Cool for School to its already impressive roster, and it doesn't have plans to slow down anytime soon. "We pride ourselves on being at the forefront of beauty trends and ensuring that we have all of the right brands and products our clients need to re-create for their individual expression," says Artemis Patrick, Sephora's senior vice president of merchandising. "With our New at Sephora platform, we're bringing clients the hottest brands all year 'round. I'm so excited for our March launches for so many reasons, but mostly because the brands you'll find from New at Sephora each have something completely unique about them."

Ahead, we rounded up the latest and greatest launches we're excited about. Gird your loins (and your bank accounts), people -- you're in for some salary-sucking treats.

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Targeted toward the millennial crowd, Estée Edit's latest products are designed with 18-to-33-year-olds in mind. But this highlighter is great for all generations, and is the perfect, soft complement to your contour job -- once you've perfected it.

Estée Edit Beam Team, $50, available March 15 at Sephora.

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This custom eyeshadow palette -- created by Kendall Jenner -- includes a range of matte, shimmer, and even glow-in-the-dark shades. We got exclusive scoop on the product (and an interview with Kendall), which you can read here.

Estée Edit Kendall Eyeshadow Palette, $48, available March 15 at Sephora.

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Sleep away the damage from those harmful free radicals and wake up with newly energized skin thanks to this overnight mask.

Estée Edit Pink Peony Overnight Water Pack, $50, available March 15 at Sephora.

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The latest in Make Up For Ever's Ultra HD lineup, this innovative concealer allows you to color-correct, brighten, and conceal dark undereyes in one fell swoop. The secret's in the formula -- five out of the 10 shades are created with peach undertones to correct discoloration, while the other five have yellow undertones to brighten up the eye area.

Make Up For Ever Ultra HD Concealer, $27, available at Sephora. -- SPONSORED --

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"10 scents inspired by 10 moments on 10 Crosby Street in NYC" is the story behind Derek Lam's new line of perfumes. It's the designer's first foray into fragrance, and we think he's done a pretty impressive job.

Derek Lam 10 Crosby Fragrances, $95 and $175, available at Sephora.

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Launched by model Lindsay Ellingson, Wander Beauty is all about the on-the-go beauty buff. This dual-ended lipstick includes a neutral side for the day, and when the sun starts to set -- or, when you're looking for a bolder hue -- you can flip it over for a pop of color.

Wander Beauty Dual-Ended Lipstick, $30, available March 1 at Sephora.

For the rest of our picks, visit Refinery29.

By: Taylor Bryant

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Why You Need To Stop Buying Cheap Clothes

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Scoring a sweet deal on an inexpensive shirt feels really good. But when you learn what happens when you're done with that cheap top, you'll feel anything but.


You know how the cycle goes: You buy a piece of clothing from an inexpensive chain retailer and wear the item a few times. But before you even realize, the shirt falls quickly out of your fashion rotation. Eventually, whether it takes months or years, you toss the top to make more room.


The act seems harmless -- after all, purging your drawers and spring cleaning is key -- but it has a serious effect on the planet and its people. Did you know Americans alone send 10 million tons of clothing to the dump each year? As Grist's video above details, fast fashion may not charge consumers much, but its cost is enormous on the environment and people who work under bad labor conditions or for less than appropriate wages. 


There are some really simple ways to break the unethical habit of consuming fast fashion. Buying fewer items that are more durable, timeless and made in fair conditions will actually save you money in the long run. It'll also reduce the stress we all feel when picking out an outfit: With fewer choices but more clothes that "spark joy," as organizing wizard Marie Kondo puts it, it's nearly guaranteed that you'll be wearing something you feel great in. 

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Ciara's Grown-Up Crown Braid Tops This Week's Best Beauty List

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The crown braid is one of the most versatile braided hairstyles. It's also a really simple way to pull off a polished updo without opting for the usual topknot or ballerina bun. However, one of the things we struggle with when wearing a braided crown is looking our age. Thankfully, we can look to Ciara as a muse.


The "Dance Like We're Making Love" singer attended the H&M Fall 2016 show during Paris Fashion Week sporting a crown braid. Mizani Global Artistic Director Cesar Ramirez wanted to "play off the fun patterns" in Ciara's intricately patterned dress. "I immediately thought something tribal, twisted, dreaded and maybe frizzy would complete her look," he said.


The thickness of the French braid and fishtail combination made it more grown-up, while the "undone" hair wisps added a youthful touch. 


See Ciara's beautiful crown braid below. Plus, find out which other celebrity braided 'dos we can't stop talking about. 



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Melanoma and the Importance of Performing Skin Checks

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The number of cases of melanoma is increasing faster than any other potentially preventable cancer in the United States. The CDC reports that melanoma rates doubled between 1982 and 2011.

The American Cancer Society estimates that there will be about 76,380 new melanomas diagnosed in 2016. They also estimate that there will be about 10,130 deaths attributed to melanoma.

Melanoma is the most deadliest of skin cancers. It forms in the melanocytes which are the cells that give the skin its pigment or color.

Melanoma is the least common of the skin cancers yet has the highest risk of spreading to other parts of the body.

What You Can Do To Prevent Skin Cancer

Avoid the strong sun between 10AM and 2PM.

If you are outside during those times make sure you are in the shade.

Wear long sleeves and hats.

Sunglasses can help protect the eyes.

Do not use tanning beds.


Risk Factors for melanoma

If you have fair skin and light eyes you are at higher risk to develop melanoma but no one is immune from melanoma. African Americans can also develop melanoma.

Sun exposure or tanning beds can increase your risk of developing melanoma.

A history of sunburns especially when you are a child will increase your risk.

Aging is a risk factor. Melanoma is more common as you get older but even children can develop melanoma.

Having moles especially abnormal moles referred to as dysplastic will increase your risk of melanoma.

A family history of melanoma will increase your risk.

Patients who are immunocompromised such as those with AIDS or who have cancer and are on chemotherapy will have as higher risk. This patients who have had an organ transplant and are on immunosuppressive drugs are more likely to develop a melanoma.

Exposure to different chemicals such as Polychlorinated biphenyls (PCBs), vinyl cholride and radiation may increase your risk of melanoma. The EPA banned the use of PCBs in 1979

Carrying an abnormal gene referred to as the BRAF gene will increase your risk. it is estimated that 50 % of melanoma patients have this gene.

Perform regular skin cancer self examinations

Melanoma is one of the few cancers that you can detect unlike most of the other cancers that we can develop.

Melanoma can occur anywhere on the skin which includes the mucous membranes of the lips and anus. Self examinations can help detect melanoma at an earlier stage.

The more often you do self examination the more familiar you will become with the moles that are own your body.

Lets face it, most of us do not go for regular skin checks. It is important to do so.

Use a full length mirror and a smaller hand held mirror for difficult areas that are harder to examine. Perform self examinations as recommended by the American Academy of Dermatology.

Look for,

Asymmetry - the shape of one half does not match the other
Border - border irregularity
Color - color changes within the lesion
Diameter - size greater than 6 millimeters is more concerning
Evolving - the mole has changed over time

Others concerns include a mole that is itching, bleeding. or has grown smaller satellite lesions around an existing mole.

Melanoma can also occur in the eye, this is why it is important to have a thorough exam by an ophthalmologist.

Treatment of melanoma

Most melanomas are treated with surgery. New treatment modalities are being used that target specific proteins that melanoma uses to help avoid our bodies immune defense systems. Medications may be added if the melanoma is deeper or has spread to lymph nodes and other areas.

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The Fool-Proof Product Every Man Needs To Groom His Eyebrows

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Men grooming their eyebrows isn't a new trend, but it isn't a priority for most guys when getting ready in the mornings. Damone Roberts, the brow expert and face behind MAC Cosmetics new Brows Are It collection, says they absolutely shouldn't be abandoned.


"Men spend every day taking care of the hair on their face, but they neglect the hair above their brows and it grows as well," Roberts told The Huffington Post.


The self-proclaimed "Eyebrow King" also notes that we are living in an era when everything is a bit more fluid. "There's not as many rules as there used to be," he said. "People are doing a lot of things to bring out the best version of themselves. And a lot of that involves eyebrow makeup."


The one product Roberts believes men need to tame wooly eyebrows and long hairs is brow gel. "If you simply make two eyebrows versus one, get rid of that unibrow and use a clear brow gel to brush them up, it opens up the eye," he said.


This instant "lift" creates a more youthful, refreshed look -- a simple grooming trick when you want to appear less tired. Roberts also recommends tinted brow gel for men who want to cover up gray hair without the hassle of dyeing.


Shop our editors' picks below for brow gels to help whip your brows into shape.



Brow Gels: Tinted & Clear



From left to right: MAC Cosmetics Brow Set, $17; Anastasia Beverly Hills Brow Gel, $22; NARS Brow Gel, $23; Maybelline Brow Studio Eye Drama, $6.99; NYX Tinted Brow Mascara, $7


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'Pretty Little Liars' Star Lucy Hale Is A Blonde Bombshell Now

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"Pretty Little Liars" star Lucy Hale is known for her gorgeous brunette locks.


 




It's definitely one of the reasons she could be mistaken for Selena Gomez. 






But those mistakes probably won't happen anymore, now that she's a blonde!


We're talking platinum blonde, too:



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On Wednesday, hair stylist Kristin Ess gave us our first look at Hale's new blond 'do with a photo on Instagram. "Going blonder by the minute," Ess captioned the snap. 



so go downnnntown, things will be great when you're downnnntown #waitingonroxie

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A blonder hue and a mask too #waitingonroxie

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We're loving the new look, but we're not going to get attached to it. Ess told People that the actress "just wanted to do something fun while she's not filming" and will be dying her hair back to the highlighted brunette color she has been rocking this season on "Pretty Little Liars."

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What My Light-Skinned Best Friend Didn't Understand About My Pain, And What I Didn't Understand About Hers

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By Abi Ishola

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A couple of months ago I met a woman in Manhattan who I photographed for our ongoing Real Beauty Moment photo series. She expressed that one of the things she struggled with as a light-skinned black woman growing up in the South was not being able to have positive interactions or friendships with dark-skinned black women because of the plague of colorism. I was moved by her testimony and inspired to write about my experience as a dark-skinned black woman who once grappled with the issue and its negative impact on my relationship with someone I once called "best friend" during my teenage years. This is my story.

I will never forget the day I received my first copy of Seventeen Magazine, featuring Brandy on the cover. My best friend Candice* and I walked to my house after school like we did everyday. When we stepped onto the porch of my parents' small Miami bungalow, I opened the mailbox, and there she was-my idol, a black girl I adored, on the cover of a major teen publication. By that time my obsession with Brandy was in its beginning stages, so when I saw the magazine, I dropped my tote bag full of books, and screamed.

"What happened'" Candice said startled by my reaction. "Look who's on the cover," I said in disbelief.

"Ugh, are you gay or somethin'?" she asked through a typical Miami drawl. "Why are you acting like that over another girl? Why do you like Brandy anyway?"

By that time we were in 10th grade and had years of friendship under our belt, but I was beginning to form an identity beyond being her best friend. So I ignored what she said and reveled in how important I felt that moment was.

In the mid 90s, mainstream media did very little to promote young black female celebrities (times clearly haven't changed). Brandy was arguably the first to defy those odds with her hit TV show, movie roles, major beauty and fashion endorsements, and multi-platinum albums. Despite her crazy work ethic, her beauty was often questioned. To me she was perfect.

I kept my thoughts about that to myself since Candice couldn't understand why such a presence in the industry was so important to me--a dark skinned girl with a "weird Nigerian name" and foreign parents. I wasn't the typical Miami beauty. Candice on the other hand, fit right into the mold. She was half white and revered by the guys. Her friendly demeanor made her a hit among the girls so she always had friends around her. I was drawn to her because of her personality, but still in the midst of her kindness was an air of privilege. As a friend, I wanted her to reaffirm my beauty. At the very least, I wanted her to understand my pain.

That pain stemmed from issues brought on by colorism and at the time I felt like Miami, my hometown (or the south in general) was the worst place to grow up as a dark skinned girl. Granted everyone has different experiences, but I'm of the belief that being called "black" as a term of endearment by catcallers does something to the average teenage girl's psyche, whether they are aware of it or not. (In fairness being called "red" as a light skinned girl could be equally damaging).

Candice knew she was the object of beauty and she never hesitated to make it known. Her mom was just as eager-like the time she took us to the local Dairy Queen and she noticed the cashier staring at her daughter. "If you think she's pretty, you should see her sister--she has green eyes," her mother said as she pulled out her eldest daughter's senior school photo.

I first met Candice the first day of 5th grade. As we sat in our school's registration office, she smiled and said hello. I was new to the neighborhood and school so it was nice to be acknowledged, especially by someone so sweet and polite. When her mom walked into the office and sat next to her, Candice's long curly hair suddenly made sense to me.

We didn't become close until 6th grade. I'm not sure how it happened, but before I knew it we were spending nights at each other's houses, taking trips to Busch Gardens in Tampa, going roller-skating, and doing all the other things teenagers do. Her mother was always up for an adventure, so she took us everywhere.

But then things changed briefly. In 1993 my parents sent my sister and I to live in Nigeria to attend school there. To this day I have so much appreciation for that time because my self-esteem improved a bit. In Nigeria, my beauty didn't go unnoticed. I was American, and I was interesting. But I also fit in. I didn't have to explain my name to anyone. I was a Nigerian American.

By the time I returned to Miami in 8th grade after just one year in Nigeria, I heard Candice had changed. So when she pulled up to my house with long bedazzled acrylic nails and a fiery red weave stacked on top of her slick brown hair, I was only mildly shocked. It was then I learned that her parents got a divorce. She told me as if it was no big deal, so I never asked how she was coping.

We resumed our usual adventures, but things had changed a bit. At times I felt like a fish out of water. She was allowed to have boyfriends come around. She also had new female friends on heavy rotation. One day she told me she wanted to have a baby soon. She eventually did. At age 15 our conversations went from discussing our identical back-to-school clothes to swollen feet and baby shower plans.

As time went on we began drifting. I found a flock of friends who I could relate to and she transferred to a new school. Years after we graduated from high school, I moved to New York City. We somehow got in touch and spoke over the phone not long after I relocated. "I want to move out of Miami. If you can do it, I should be able to do it," she said with her usual air of privilege.

More years passed and we got in touch again on Facebook. "You finally got a boyfriend," she said laughing as she scrolled through my vacation photos with Kunle, who is now my husband. For a moment I reverted back to that little dark-skinned girl from Miami who didn't know her worth, until I snapped out of it. I realized then that I was still allowing myself to be oppressed by her and the sick notion that dark skin is somehow a curse. It wasn't her responsibility to boost my self-esteem. That was my job. I had to face the realities of colorism in our society and let go of the pain it brought me. I had to figure out how to find beauty in all that I am regardless of the beauty standards that society continues to push.

As I move further into my 30s more comfortable in my skin, I continue to work on shifting my perception of the things that once held my spirit hostage. This growth allowed me to open my mind to the fact that Candice also showed signs of a teenage girl in pain. When she became a mother I never asked her how she was coping. I also never asked about how her parents' divorce affected her. I never understood her pain, just as she never understood mine. We merely existed in each other's worlds once upon a time. Sometimes I wonder if our bond would have lasted if we both made an attempt to empathize with our individual stories. It's the kind of bond that colorism, low self-esteem, and a heightened sense of privilege don't allow. But through our conscious minds, we can break those chains to create real friendships as we move forward.

*Name changed


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7 Reasons Why Scrubs Are The Best And Everyone Should Be Wearing Them

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If you happen to be a heroic nurse or doctor, or just someone who dressed up as one last Halloween, you know that wearing scrubs is the best thing ever. Luckily, you don't have to go to med school to enjoy all that scrubs outfits have to offer. I'm far from a medical professional and I wore scrubs to class all throughout my college career, and I bet I was the most comfortable person on campus. I loved rolling out of bed and finding something comfortable to wear to class and with ease--no outfit planning required. If you're not convinced to try some out yourself yet, let's go over some more of the many pros.

1. So many pockets!
Scrubs with pockets are glorious, especially when you're on-the-go. What you keep in them is up to you; pens, paper, tater tots, go wild.

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2. YOGA scrub pants.
Two of the greatest apparel creations combined: yoga pants and scrubs pants. Stretch scrubs are so incredibly comfortable and these yoga style pants make them almost too cute. Om!
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3. You'll look adorable.
There's just something about medical scrubs that make you look instantly adorable and smart at the same time. Maybe it's the monochromatic style or clean lines. Whatever it is, it's a great look for everyone!
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4. You can rock your favorite Disney characters and other cartoons.
Nemo, Olaf, and Mickey Mouse can stay with you all day in awesome cartoon scrubs. #disneyforlife
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5. So many colors!
Scrubs come in pretty much every color you've ever seen. Rock the tradition ceil blue scrubs or stand out in a pretty pink!
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6. Affordable.
Cheap scrubs are pretty easy to find, and they're so much more affordable than non-scrubs wear. $100 jeans at the mall? You don't need that in your life. Your butt will look just as good in a great pair of scrubs!

7. They last forever.
Scrubs are built to last, so if you want apparel that will return your investment in durable wear, scrubs should be your best friend.
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Bad Beard Days Happen, So Here's How To Handle Them

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Simply growing your beard isn't enough. You have to take care of it.


If you don't, all your friends will have to deal with your smelly, flaky, prickly face (and so will you). The hair on your chin isn't the same as the hair on your face, so you'll need to wash your beard with a special shampoo and follow your regimen with a conditioner or beard oil. Over time, your beard will grow soft, shiny and smelling fresh.


And you can kiss your chin dandruff goodbye.



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Oily Skin vs. Nars Velvet Matte Skin Tint

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While reading Paper Magazine's latest issue Girls, Girls, Girls I came across the article Meet the Women Proving that their Skin is the Season's Hottest Accessory. Since having good skin is something I constantly try to achieve, I had to continue reading. The story highlighted Nars' new Velvet Matte Skin Tint and declared this product as the "holy grail of a product that matches, protects, mattes and lasts". After reading these positive reviews, I decided to put the foundation to the test and see if it could retain its matte finish and stay in place throughout a long and busy workday.

After prepping my face with Shiseido's IBUKI Protective Moisturizer, First Aid Beauty's Oil-Free Mattifying Gel, and dermatologist prescribed Acanya ®, I was finally ready to put on my makeup. I applied the foundation with my fingers for better blending and found that it had a silky texture; however, it was a little heavier than expected, but it was still extremely light weight for a full coverage product. Since I have a tendency to poke at blackheads (let's be real we have all done it) my nose was redder than usual and the product neutralized it completely. I finished my routine with bronzer for a light contour and blush. The Nars Velvet Matte Skin Tint foundation did wonders to my morning routine, only if I was going out for drinks and not to the office!

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DJ, artist and designer Vashtie Kola posing in the buff with Nars Velvet Matte Skin Tint. Image courtesy of Paper Magazine.


Due to my Mediterranean and oily skin, I am always skeptical of products that proclaim to be 'matte' and 'long-lasting'. On a typical day, I end up finding my face covered in oil only after an hour or two of makeup wear, leading to an extreme amount of diffidence. On the day, I tested Nars' new foundation I found myself running to and from the bathroom to check my reflection, and to my surprise I wasn't the 'oil monster' I typically turn into when wearing liquid foundation. Today was the first day in a long time I truly felt I had a full day of perfect makeup.

Just like the beauties featured in Paper's article, I at times am self-conscious; however, I no longer have to be. Nars' Velvet Matte Skin Tint has not only changed my makeup routine, but also changed my level of self-confidence and made me feel comfortable in my 'own' skin.

To read Paper Magazine's article Meet the Women Proving that their Skin is the Season's Hottest Accessory click HERE

To buy Nars' Velvet Matte Skin Tint click HERE

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Plus-size model Diana Veras posing in the buff with Nars Velvet Matte Skin Tint. Image courtesy of Paper Magazine.

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Is the Male Model Overlooked?

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In an industry where the female counterpart trumps the male twice-fold does the male model get overlooked? Sure it's programmed in our nature to think female when you hear the word fashion; however in an industry where the male is used mainly for his pecs rather than his runway walk, I feel we get left behind. When I say "we" I mean us boys. Why though? Why are we so overlooked when the global menswear market had a total revenue of 440 Billion dollars in 2014!? http://www.businesswire.com

Take into account that I obviously know that the menswear brands use male models duh! There's definitely a use for us, but where are the male supermodels? Where are the male models who are booking magazine covers? Where are the male models who are faces of brands? Yes of course they are fewer publications that cater to men entirely, but why aren't male models getting picked for the cover of top menswear magazines? Lets step outside the box a bit. Are male models booking W Magazine? Where's Tyson Beckford, David Gandy or Baptiste Giabiconi on these covers! Okay Tyson maybe a reach since he's a veteran but I'm sure he wouldn't mind gracing the cover. So what's the issue? I wish I could get to an editor to ask them that specific question. Can male models not generate a high enough profit ? Basically can male models sell magazines like the opposite sex? Better yet, has anyone tried it out since the 80's? It amazes me how much I fight, better yet advocate for male equality in an industry that's all about the woman. I'm just shocked at the difference in numbers; for instance, Gisele Bundchen is worth $360 million dollars courtesy of http://www.celebritynetworth.com, while Tyson Beckford is only worth $14 million cited by the same source. Of course, you've seen more of her than you have of him, but why is that? Why can't male models dominate the way women can in the same industry?

Is there a lack of confidence in publications to push a male model the way they do female models? For instance Cara, Chanel, Joan, and so on we know these models. We hear their names, we see them everywhere, their even becoming celebrities in their own right, why can't male models do that, and not just be big in one country? Tyson Beckford is big here for a male model, does his light shine bright overseas? I know of Baptiste, because I pay attention to Chanel. Would I know of him if I didn't? Maybe, maybe not? My exact point is why does there have to be a grey area? Women and men know Naomi Campbell, Tyra Banks, Kate Moss. Can men outside of the fashion industry name a male model? Can a woman outside of the industry name a male model? Excluding those I spoke about?
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National Grammar Day - How Do You Score on the Digital Dating Scale?

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National Grammar Day is on Friday, March 4th. When it comes to matters of the heart, how do you stack up in the vast digital playground? Do you know the difference between "their" and "there?" Does it even matter?

Proper grammar is one of the most important aspects for singles on online dating sites and mobile apps. Did you know that nearly half of singles consider poor spelling and grammar to be a huge deal breaker?

Before you add in that extra emoticon, here are a few studies to help you find love online and IRL.

According to a recent study by Zoosk, a majority of singles (72%) are turned off by blatant spelling errors, and nearly 1/4 think poor grammar means you're chatting with someone who is uneducated or not so smart. As far as punctuation goes, of the 9,441 respondents to the Zoosk survey, 93% of singles would be happy if they received a text message with proper punctuation.

The study also found that response rates for opening messages sent with an exclamation point are 10% higher than average!

Separately, eHarmony teamed up with Grammarly, the world's leading online proofreader, to conduct a grammar study to analyze poor grammar in dating profiles. After looking at 10,000 profiles from both men and women, Grammarly found that women make almost twice as many grammatical errors per every 100 words than men do, but are less likely to be judged by men for their grammatical errors.

As little as two spelling errors on a profile can reduce a guy's chance of getting a response by 14%, but women's spelling and grammar errors didn't have an impact on their chances at a response at all.

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Here are a few tips on how to clean up your online dating profile and communication so that you won't experience any grammar faux pas that could get in the way of attracting a digital crush.

Related: Rules of Netiquette: Love and Grammar

1. Use Exclamation Points!

As found in the Zoosk study, using an exclamation point can increase your chances of getting a response. Try "Hi Stacy!" instead of "Hi Stacy..." for a more positive reaction.

2. Proper Punctuation

Ending sentences with proper punctuation is actually preferred, even though some may think ending a text message with a period could come off as aggressive. Another important piece of punctuation to remember is the Oxford comma. There's a difference between "I love cooking my family and my dog" and "I love cooking, my family, and my dog."

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3. YOMAFIO (You Only Make a First Impression Once) and LOL


Zoosk's study found that using the acronym "YOLO," meaning "you only live once," decreases response rates by 47% and they recommended that you drop it from your dating vocabulary. However, "LOL" passed the test, as it increased responses by 25%.

4. Your vs. You're

We all remember the lesson we got from Ross Geller on that one episode of Friends (specifically, The One With The Jellyfish). There's a very important difference between "your" and "you're." The differences between there, their, and they're, or then and than, as well as to and too are also very important to know.

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5. Take Your Time

Smartphones have a full keyboard and unlimited characters, so there's no reason not to spell out what you want to say. Using shortcuts, like "u" in place of "you," shows that you don't care to take the time to write out a full sentence. You don't want your potential date to feel like you're too lazy to properly communicate with them. Beware of auto-correct, as it can bite you in the digital tush and make the smartest of singles seem a bit dumber on a good day.

Remember to always put your best digital foot forward and take the time to spell out what you want to say and your spelling and grammar will help you charm your way into your online love's heart.

Happy National Grammar Day!

Wishing you much love and joy in cyberspace, or wherever you may roam. xo

Julie Spira is America's Top Online Dating Expert and Digital Matchmaker.

She's the CEO of Cyber-Dating Expert and has been coaching singles on finding love online for over 20 years. Julie's the author of The Perils of Cyber-Dating and The Rules of Netiquette.

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