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Kerry Washington Handles Photoshopped Magazine Cover Like A Boss

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Kerry Washington is on the April 4 cover of Adweek, but you may not recognize her when you see it. The "Scandal" actress looks completely unlike herself on the cover of the media magazine, with her skin tone a shade or two lighter and her face clearly photoshopped beyond recognition. 


Washington posted a respectful but frank response to the cover on Instagram Tuesday, writing that she was "taken aback" by the cover, and that the obvious photoshopping made her feel "weary."


"It felt strange to look at a picture of myself that is so different from what I look like when I look in the mirror," Washington wrote. "It's an unfortunate feeling."



So...You know me. I'm not one to be quiet about a magazine cover. I always celebrate it when a respected publication invites me to grace their pages. It's an honor. And a privilege. And ADWEEK is no exception. I love ADWEEK. It's a publication I appreciate. And learn from. I've long followed them on Twitter. And when they invited me to do a cover, I was excited and thrilled. And the truth is, I'm still excited. I'm proud of the article. And I like some of the inside images a great deal. But, I have to be honest...I was taken aback by the cover. Look, I'm no stranger to Photoshopping. It happens a lot. In a way, we have become a society of picture adjusters - who doesn't love a filter?!? And I don't always take these adjustments to task but I have had the opportunity to address the impact of my altered image in the past and I think it's a valuable conversation. Yesterday, however, I just felt weary. It felt strange to look at a picture of myself that is so different from what I look like when I look in the mirror. It's an unfortunate feeling. That being said. You all have been very kind and supportive. Also, as I've said, I'm very proud of the article. There are a few things we discussed in the interview that were left out. Things that are important to me (like: the importance of strong professional support and my awesome professional team) and I've been thinking about how to discuss those things with anyone who is interested, in an alternate forum. But until then...Grab this week's ADWEEK. Read it. I hope you enjoy it. And thank you for being patient with me while I figured out how to post this in a way that felt both celebratory and honest. XOXOXOX

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James Cooper, Adweek's editorial director, released a statement in response to Washington's post:



"Kerry Washington is a class act. We are honored to have her grace our pages. To clarify, we made minimal adjustments, solely for the cover's design needs. We meant no disrespect, quite the opposite. We are glad she is enthusiastic about the piece and appreciate her honest comments."



Cooper also tweeted about Washington's photoshopping claims:






Washington is no stranger to calling out photoshopped images of herself. In February, she took InStyle magazine to task for allegedly lightening her skin tone for its March issue. But despite being disappointed with the Adweek cover, Washington was keen to emphasize the fact that she was excited to work with the magazine and that she's proud of the article.


"I love Adweek. It's a publication I appreciate. And learn from."


Leave it to Kerry Washington to call out photoshopping in the classiest way imaginable. Bravo. 




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How One Woman Used Lipstick To Take A Stand Against Bosnian Snipers

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When international humanitarian Zainab Salbi began fighting for women's rights in the early '90s, she was just 23 years old. It was the midst of the Bosnian War -- a years-long conflict that is commonly recognized as beginning on April 6, 1992 -- and Salbi had recently founded Women for Women International to help females who faced rape camps and other horrors of being in a war zone.


At the time, Salbi, a survivor of the Iran-Iraq War herself, was fully committed to helping other women in any way possible. But, she admits to Oprah during a conversation on "SuperSoul Sunday," she still had much to learn. 


One of Salbi's first lessons came early in her activism, which she believed called for a certain image.


"I was taking myself very seriously. I was like the 'activist role,' you know, wearing jeans and sneakers. [I thought] to be a human rights activist or to be a humanitarian, you have to be… rustic," she says. "I call it 'uglifying myself.'   


Then, a woman from the Bosnian capital of Sarajevo changed Salbi's perspective.


Salbi had managed to enter the region and meet with women impacted by the violence there. She asked them what they wanted her to bring back for them upon her next return.


"This one woman, she's like, 'Lipstick,'" Salbi recalls. "I was like, 'Lipstick? Really??'"


The woman explained.


"She's like, 'No. I want lipstick because it's the simplest thing that each woman can put on every, single day and we feel beautiful. That's how I'm resisting the war,'" Salbi says. "This woman told me, 'I want that sniper, before he shoots me, to know he is killing a beautiful woman.'"


Later in the interview, Salbi opens up about how she finally came to see her own beauty through a simple exercise that helped her get beneath the surface.


"Super Soul Sunday" airs Sundays at 11 a.m. ET on OWN.


Related:Zainab Salbi: The truth about my arranged marriage

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The Best Lotions For Eczema Or Very Sensitive Skin

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Oatmeal baths, lukewarm showers and probiotic-rich smoothies are homemade remedies that many eczema sufferers use to soothe their inflamed and irritated skin. These solutions are effective, but they require extra time to whip up. That's where topical treatments like eczema lotions can provide quicker relief.


Finding the best lotion for eczema starts with understanding what kind you have. "Eczema is a broad term that means dermatitis inflammation of the skin," says Rebecca Kazin, a board-certified dermatologist at the Washington Institute of Dermatologic Laser Surgery and Johns Hopkins Department of Dermatology.


According to Kazin, there are three kinds of eczema: atopic, which is more genetic. It is commonly seen in children and appears on the backs of knees and creases of arms; irritant dermatitis, which is caused by outside factors like overuse of Retin A or anything topical that irritates skin (too much hydroxy acid or contact with cleaning chemicals can also be culprits); and contact dermatitis, which is known as a true allergy. Usually a sharp outline of the irritant forms when it comes in contact with the skin.


"Your skin barrier is compromised during a flare-up, so skin does not do as good a job of keeping allergens out," Kazin explains. So she suggests avoiding products that contain fragrance, hydroxy acid or retinol because they will dry out skin. 


Read the ingredients label and packaging carefully and look for lotions that are labeled "hypo-allergenic." Kazin adds, "I caution patients that just because products are all-natural does not mean they are necessarily hypo-allergenic." Glycerin, mineral oil and oatmeal extracts are calming ingredients.


She also recommends moisturizers in a tube or tub, as they are not thinned out like lotions in a traditional pump dispenser. They also have higher oil to water ratio and are more moisturizing. 


Duly noted!


Shop derm-approved picks below for the best lotions for eczema or sensitive skin.


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5 Ways to Wear Your Favorite Cowboy Boots for Spring

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I'm aSouthern Girl who loves herself a good pair of Cowboy Boots. If I could I would probably wear them every single day. That's why I decided to stretch our imaginations a little and try them out some different ways! Check it out!

1) Add some flair with your Spring Dress !
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2) Look like a real Country Girl and put on your favoriteGingham Shirt!
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3) Pair the boots with an all Black Outfit for a day full of errands!
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If you want to see how I wear my boots with an Army Vest and Graphic Teecheck out the Full Post!

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Bride Falls In Love With Grandma's Wedding Dress Weeks Before Wedding

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Two weeks before her November 2015 wedding, UK bride Connie Bell tried on the dress that her grandma Margaret White wore in 1966 -- and it fit like a glove.



Connie's wedding venue plans had just fallen through, and her beloved grandma brought out the 50-year-old floral lace wedding dress from storage in an attempt to cheer her up. Connie had only ever seen the dress in photos, and even though she had already purchased her own gown, she couldn't help but try it on.



"I was shocked at how well it fit and how lovely it made me feel," Connie, who lives in Barnsley, South Yorkshire, told The Huffington Post. "I tried it on to cheer me up. I had no idea that I would be trying it on to wear on my wedding day, but I knew as soon as I had it on that I wanted to wear it."  



After trying on grandma Margaret's dress, everything began to fall into place for the wedding. Connie and her husband-to-be Sam Bell found a new wedding venue on short notice, and Connie decided to change into her original dress at the end of the reception so it wouldn't go to waste.



She even found little pieces of confetti still tucked inside the dress from her grandma's wedding.


"It made it more special to have pieces of confetti from 50 years ago [in the dress] and there's now some from my day as well," Connie said. 



 Connie's vintage wedding dress was a hit all around.


"Wearing my grandma's dress made everybody so happy and emotional on my wedding day, especially my grandparents," Connie said. "I love my grandma so much and am so pleased that we both got to wear the same dress for our special day."


H/T Daily Mail

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The Duchess Of Cambridge Wows In An Unexpected Sheer Look

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Now this is what we call sheer perfection. 


Just days ahead of Prince William and Kate's trip to India and Bhutan, the royal couple hosted a group of young Indian and Bhutanese people living in the U.K. at Kensington Palace to, according to the palace's official Twitter account, "learn more about both countries' people, history and culture." 


The duchess formerly known as Kate Middleton fittingly chose to wear a dress by Indian designer Saloni, whom she has worn before, in honor of the occasion. But the blue, polka-dotted floor-length gown was extra notable: The sheer paneling in front is a much bolder look than we're used to seeing on Kate.



Fan sites quickly identified the dress, which retails for about $700, and informed followers that it will soon be available to pre-order on the brand's website. For his part, Prince William looked dapper as ever in a matching blue suit. 



If the dress is any indication of what's to come on their upcoming week-long trip, we're in for a real treat. 






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60-Year-Old Model Puts Sexed-Up Swimsuit Ads To Shame In Stunning Photos

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Like any article of clothing, swimwear can help you express your smart, playful, confident best self.


Sixty-year-old model Yazemeenah Rossi proves this point flawlessly in new campaign images for a swimsuit collaboration between online specialty shop The Dreslyn and lingerie house Land of Women


She makes it perfectly clear a company doesn't need young models to draw attention, making us wonder why this is still such a rarity in the industry.






The collection's simple white silhouette was meant to draw focus to women and their identities, veering from the "hyper-sexualized imagery" in existing swimwear lines, Dreslyn founder Brooke Taylor Corcia told HuffPost. 


And when it came time to choose a model, the glowing Rossi was a natural choice.


"This is a woman who radiates health and vitality," Corcia said. "She's confident, she's a visual artist, she takes care of herself. [This line is] all about being a person who’s well-lived and well-traveled and has intelligence and confidence, and letting that shine through." 


We've gotta say, these images have us ready to jump into the nearest one-piece ASAP: 




The Land of Women x The Dreslyn swimwear collection is currently available online, where new items retail from $155 for a one-piece to $375 for a cover-up robe. 


And whether you're swimming or not, the campaign is yet another refreshing reminder that sexy doesn't have to mean skimpy. Or young. 

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60-Year-Old Model Puts Sexed-Up Swimsuit Ads To Shame In Stunning Photos

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Like any article of clothing, swimwear can help you express your smart, playful, confident best self.


Sixty-year-old model Yazemeenah Rossi proves this point flawlessly in new campaign images for a swimsuit collaboration between online specialty shop The Dreslyn and lingerie house Land of Women


She makes it perfectly clear a company doesn't need young models to draw attention, making us wonder why this is still such a rarity in the industry.






The collection's simple white silhouette was meant to draw focus to women and their identities, veering from the "hyper-sexualized imagery" in existing swimwear lines, Dreslyn founder Brooke Taylor Corcia told HuffPost. 


And when it came time to choose a model, the glowing Rossi was a natural choice.


"This is a woman who radiates health and vitality," Corcia said. "She's confident, she's a visual artist, she takes care of herself. [This line is] all about being a person who’s well-lived and well-traveled and has intelligence and confidence, and letting that shine through." 


We've gotta say, these images have us ready to jump into the nearest one-piece ASAP: 




The Land of Women x The Dreslyn swimwear collection is currently available online, where new items retail from $155 for a one-piece to $375 for a cover-up robe. 


And whether you're swimming or not, the campaign is yet another refreshing reminder that sexy doesn't have to mean skimpy. Or young. 

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These Are The 5 Most Popular Beauty Products on Amazon This Week

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by Emily Gaynor, Teen Vogue

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While surfing on Amazon, you can do everything from ordering laundry detergent, to catching up on your favorite show, to picking out an obscure present for your BFF's birthday -- all from the comfort of your own bed. But, if you're a beauty junkie, like us, Amazon is actually the perfect place to pick out products, minus any long lines or drives to an out-of-the-way store. Amazon Beauty has an impressive range of brands -- everything from your favorite drugstore prods to a Luxury store that features fancy fragrances, gorgeous hair oils that are celeb-approved, and every kind of pimple treatment that'll banish your breakout in no time. Because Amazon literally has everything you need, and then some, we asked them to round up the best-selling products from this week. If everyone is buying them, we clearly need them too, right? Read on to see what's popular this week, and consider your cart stocked.

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1. CeraVe Moisturizing Lotion

If you're longing for the fast-approaching summer, but still very much dealing with chilly temperatures, you probably know that dry, flaky skin season isn't over just yet. Slather this under-$10 moisturizer all over for instantly hydrated, super-smooth skin. Plus, it's fragrance free, so no competing with your go-to perfume.

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2. Bio Oil

Whether you're looking to fade unwanted scars, or just experiencing extremely dry skin, pat this multi-use oil, made with plant extracts and vitamins, onto skin for a lit-from-within glow that won't break the bank.

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3. Batiste Dry Shampoo

Ask any hairstylist for an affordable dry shampoo that will suck out oil and refresh strands, sans water, and we guarantee Batiste will be mentioned. Simply spritz it on, shake it out, and then run a brush through your mane. Plus, even if your hair is clean, you can use it as a texturizer to add instant body. It's basically a hair hero.

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4. CeraVe Foaming Facial Cleanser

No matter how long a day you had, washing your face is essential. This light foaming option is packed with ceramides and hyaluronic acid to wipe away dirt and oil and leave skin luminous.

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5. Aveeno Active Naturals Moisturizing Lotion

Moisturizer is having the best week ever. And this one does not disappoint. The fast-absorbing formula sinks into skin and soothes upon contact. No ashy legs here.

See the rest of Most Popular Beauty Products on Amazon

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5 Celebrity Beauty Brands That Are Legitimately Great

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by Christa Joanna Lee, Teen Vogue

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It's difficult to find a celebrity these days who doesn't have a multihyphenate title: Actor/model/singer/dancer/[insert special skill here]. These days, it seems like the next step is adding "beauty entrepreneur" to their ever-expanding résumés and for the celebs ahead, it's way more than simply slapping their name on a product. The ones that are truly passionate about beauty are invested in the formulas, the scents, the colors -- down to the design of the packaging. We've rounded up a few stars who have taken their talents to the beauty industry with products that are so good, we'd totally buy them even if they didn't have the name attached.

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1. Elizabeth and James Nirvana Black Dry Shampoo

The celebs: Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen

Why we love it: Following the success of the Olsen twins' Elizabeth and James fashion label, they launched two fragrances called Nirvana Black and Nirvana White that soon turned into a bona-fide beauty line with a body oil, hand cream, and this amazing dry shampoo. Not only does the micro powder formula instantly soak up oil and add that cool-girl texture the sisters are famously known for, but it smells amazing, too. It's lightly perfumed with Nirvana Black's violet, sandalwood, and vanilla blend that smells even better as the day goes on. It's basically a dry shampoo unicorn.

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2. The Estée Edit by Estée Lauder Eyeshadow Palette

The celeb: Kendall Jenner

Why we love it: Kendall Jenner -- mega model, social media guru, beauty star, and the face of Estée Lauder's new sister line, the Estée Edit -- designed this custom palette for the brand. It's pretty much everything you want in an eyeshadow palette: Neutral and flattering colors in matte and shimmery textures that you can wear every day or for a special night out. Then, there's the Silver and Gold Blacklight Transformer shades, which can be applied over any shadow for a sheer layer of extra shimmer and makes your eyeshadow glow in the dark under a blacklight. It's as unexpected and cool as Kendall's beauty looks on the red carpet.

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3. Eyeko Eye Do Mascara and Liquid Liner

The celeb: Alexa Chung

Why we love it: Copying Alexa Chung's perfect cat eye is possible thanks to this mascara and liquid eyeliner duo from Eyeko, a British brand that Alexa's been loyal to for years. Alexa helped redesign the packaging (even using her actual handwriting on the tubes) and though it was meant to be a limited-edition collection when it launched in 2013, we were happy to still spot it on Eyeko's site. Word to the wise: Stock up while you can.

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4. Lip Kit by Kylie Jenner

The celeb: Kylie Jenner

Why we love it: If you've ever looked at brown lipstick and thought that was your perfect color, you have more in common with Kylie Jenner than you thought. Ever since the Snapchat star launched her eight Lip Kits, which include a matte liquid lipstick and a matching pencil liner, the World Wide Web simply can't handle the traffic that's directed toward her site every time she restocks her inventory. There's so many people trying to get their hands on a kit that it literally breaks her website when she announces a new shipment. When you can finally log on, it's easy to see why they're in such high demand -- from a nostalgic, '90s-era brown to an Old Hollywood red, there's something for everyone.

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5. Goop by Juice Beauty Enriching Face Oil

The celeb: Gwyneth Paltrow

Why we love it: Gwyneth's less-is-more approach to beauty -- natural makeup, glowing skin -- fits well with Juice Beauty's mission for high performance, organic ingredients that are almost clean enough to eat. Recently, the megastar partnered with the brand to launch Goop, a non-toxic skincare brand that features six products. It's star in our opinion? This nourishing face oil that's so lightweight, you can pat it over your makeup throughout the day without it becoming a smeary mess.

See the rest of Celebrity Beauty Brands That Are Legitimately Great

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Watch These Moms Hilariously Attempt to Do Their Daughters' Makeup

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by Andrea Navarro, Teen Vogue

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Getting your makeup done -- by anyone other than a professional -- is usually a little bit tricky. We all have our preferences when it comes to products, and we all know what trends we're willing to try and not try. When it comes to having someone else make over your face, you might not always be happy with the results. That's exactly what happened when BuzzFeed had three girls let their mothers do their makeup.

Most of us truly believe "mother knows best", but does she really know best when it comes to your makeup routine? Probably not. In the hilarious video, each mom has the chance to do whatever she wants to her daughter's face, which is actually terrifying. One girl's mom used a brow pencil as eyeliner, while another's attempted to use her own saliva as makeup remover. Apparently moms aren't so great when it comes to choosing colors and tools, either. From filling brows in improperly to using a blush brush to apply foundation, the finished looks and the ways in which they were achieved weren't exactly loved by the daughters in the video.

All in all, bonding with your mom is always great, but maybe a trip to the mall or a nice long walk makes more sense than an at-home makeover. See the complete video here.

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I'm a Queer Femme -- and It Only Took Me 30 Years to Embrace It

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My kid was laughing, watching me put on lipstick. I learned how to put on lipstick from this tutorial on ROOKIE (an amazing online magazine that I love at the tender age of 30, despite it being predominantly by and for teen girls).

My kid laughed as I carefully traced the liner, and then the lipstick itself, and smacked my lips together before blotting them. He's just a baby, only 9-months-old, but for him, this -- watching mama put on lipstick -- is a normal part of his life. It's not an everyday occurrence, but it's regular enough, and it is something he understands as joyful and exciting.

I feel pretty much the same way about it.

Growing up, I was what was called a "girly-girl." I loved frilly and poofy dresses. I loved my long blonde hair. I loved dolls of all sorts and My Little Ponies (this was way before bronies y'all!) and I was totally obsessed with The Little Mermaid.

My identity wasn't a monolith -- I also loved Batman and would come home from school with my braids matted with mud -- but overall I read as "girly." Especially next to the rest of my family.

I sometimes jokingly refer to my mother as "the butchest straight woman I have ever known." That's not really fair. She doesn't actually identify with the word "butch," but she is a woman who served in the army reserves when I was young, who loathes makeup, who doesn't pluck her eyebrows, and who hates high heels.

My mother spent her childhood fighting like hell for the right to wear pants and go fishing with the boys. My older sister occupied a space somewhere in the middle, neither as much of a tomboy as my mom or as girly as me. And my fascination with everything feminine was an anomaly within the confines of my family, something novel and strange.

But everything changes; kids grow up. As a teenager, the rules of femininity morphed and became more severe. At 11, I was trying to figure out how to use concealer "the right way" and feeling like an imposter. By 12, I felt like all the other girls must be having secret meetings in which they learned important skills like how to shave your legs without multiple injuries, how to walk in heels (which also can lead to injuries!), and how to pick out eye shadow that wasn't "too flashy."

Faced by the extreme pressure to conform to impossible beauty ideals, I followed my instincts (and my budding feminism), rejecting them wholesale. I wasn't going to play like that; I wasn't going to let my gender require that I wear makeup or perform a certain way. At 19, a girl I was crushing on turned me down because she tended to like girlier girls. I looked down at my hairy legs and sighed.

Things changed again when, at the ripe old age of 23, I finally uttered the word "gay" about myself. But really things had been changing for years. I sheared off my hair every spring. I kept my fingernails short and practical. I was never really butch -- I never owned that word -- but I was just butch enough.

I was just butch enough to get called "sir" on the street in the winter. I was just butch enough to appeal to a certain kind of femme girl. I wore a fair amount of flannel.

So what changed? Looking back on it, a lot of it was that lipstick tutorial. Admitting that I legitimately wanted to wear bright red lipstick (even though I felt self-conscious in it, like it wasn't "for me") created a tiny opening which eventually let in the flood of femme. Thanks, internet.

"Femme" isn't the same thing as "feminine." But it is related.

Once I let go of the fear that being femme meant being a "feminine lesbian" who would date, love, and fuck, "butch lesbians" things got easier. Once I watched multiple friends go through the process of finding their own gender identity and getting comfortable in their own skins, things got easier.

Once I realized that I could embrace the parts of femme that I liked (lipstick! frilly skirts!) and reject the ones that didn't work for me (shaving! heels!) things got a hell of a lot easier. I was toying with it, dipping my toe in, thinking, Maybe I could be femme... sometimes.

Then I had a baby.

After having said baby, I just did not give a fuck. After being so tired and defeated and fucking wrecked from bringing new life into the world, I no longer had time to worry about whether or not the things that I wanted were "for me" or not. And then I had this conversation with my wife, about wanting to give our son greater gender freedom. Two days later, it was like something opened up in my mind and everything made sense. I dyed my hair green.

Oh. I could be the weirdo queer femme of my own dreams. OK, then!

In February, at a local art show, I read the whole terrible story of my kid's birth to a room full of people. I was nervous, I hadn't read anything in public in a long time, and I honestly don't get out that much now that I have a kid. Rather than practicing my reading, I put my hair in pin curls. I wore this incredible matte black lipstick. I bought a new dress that I couldn't afford, one that fit my new body.

When a friend came to drive up my little family to the event, he stood in our doorway and said, "Wow, you look fantastic!"

I smiled at him.

"Thank you!" I said. "I'm trying really hard," I said.

Finally allowing myself to try to be femme makes me feel safe and free in a way I cannot even explain.

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This story by Katherine DM Clover first appeared at ravishly.com. We're the Internet's favorite aunt.

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The Truth About How Many People Are Getting Hair Transplants

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First of all, you don't need hair to be attractive.


Just look at Jason Statham who, during his competitive-diving days, looked sort of like a 1980s Wall Street cliche, but has only grown better with age (and without hair).


At HuffPost we've always said that real beauty comes out of confidence and self-possession.


So all is not lost if you find yourself as Prince William does: he's one of about 35 million men in the world who experience male pattern baldness -- and women, according to the American Hair Loss Association, make up 40 percent of patients who experience hair loss in the U.S.


Consequently, men and women are getting hair transplants more than ever before: According to the 2015 data practice results released by the International Society of Hair Restoration Surgery, hair restoration procedures worldwide (both surgical and nonsurgical) increased 76 percent between 2006 and 2014, with men making up 85 percent of the patient share.


The study, which surveyed the responses from 274 of its practicing hair restoration members, found that the main reason for members' female patients to seek hair restoration was because they "felt self conscious about lack of or thinning hair." And though scalp procedures are by far the most popular, female patients' next-most popular procedure is on their eyebrows, while men's second option is beard and mustache procedures.


Check out the infographic below, designed using the data from the 2015 ISHRS survey, or see an enlarged version here.


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The Disturbing Truth About How We Treat Our Pubic Hair

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In this mostly (except for one hysterically non-correct presidential wannabe) politically correct world, abuse of any kind is considered unacceptable. An alert (and most likely having nothing better to do) reader has sent Life in the Boomer Lane an article about the latest form of abuse: pubic hair. Or, more specifically, how women injure themselves when ridding themselves of pubic hair. Or even more specifically, how pubic hair and its removal can be used as an explanation of both gender and racial inequality, as well as all the current evils of the world.

LBL, being of an age when most people came into adulthood with as much hair (pubic and otherwise) as they could muster, can attest to the hairless trend not being in fashion during the 60s and 70s. The only women who did shave were prostitutes (to show they were lice-free) and stars of x-rated films (to portray themselves as childlike and submissive). Real women kept themselves tidy but that was it. LBL's own daughter learned early on to shriek whenever LBL deigned to don a swimsuit with some unruliness poking out of the crotch area.

By the 90s, the hair-free look was popular, although Playboy didn't show its first hairless wonder until less than 10 years ago. Now, all Playboy models are hair-free, as are real women of all ages. What's interesting is that YouGov found that only 56 percent of women age 18-29 believe they should remove their pubic hair, but 72 percent of them do it anyway.

The result of all this lathering and scraping may be exciting for many in the privacy of the bedroom, but it's also the reason that more and more women are streaming into the ER with lacerations of their unmentionable parts.

According to Mona Chalabi (actual last name, not intended as a pun) in an article titled The Disturbing Truth About How We Treat Our Pubic Hair, "When you start to scratch at the reasons why women do this (and with ingrowing hairs, you will be scratching) the answer isn't pretty. We've been trained to hide the fact that we've gone through puberty. Being considered feminine is about remaining a girl -- not speaking too low, not being too tall, not being too shapely and of course not being too damn hairy."

Incendiary words, indeed, especially during this era of women's rights. If femininity means being childlike, masculinity means the opposite. Men are allowed to sprout hair all over the place and, in later life, usually do. What they may lose on their heads they more than make up for in their noses and ears.

Chalabi also believes that being hairless is a "white standard of beauty," difficult to attain for other ethnic groups. But that's the stuff of another post.

There's bright news ahead: For those of you out there who have been hacking away with razors all these years, at a certain point, aging is in your favor. LBL won't name the women she knows who have reached an age at which their pubic areas have become totally hair-free, but there are a lot. And, it's a shame. These women don't wear swimsuits anymore, but, if they did, they wouldn't have to worry about tidying up first, before putting the suit on. Their daughters would be so proud.

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These Vibrant Pantone Sandals Are A Party For Your Feet

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What's better than a pair of comfortable sandals? A pair of comfortable sandals in a range of fun, vibrant Pantone colors, of course. 



Pantone Universe Footwear has released a line of sneakers and sandals as part of its Spring/Summer 2016 capsule collection, and the offerings are basically just dance parties for your feet. 




The Formentera sandals, an obvious homage to Birkenstocks, come in both neutrals like black and dark green and bold statement colors like yellow and pink. The $75 sandals also feature the color name in the insole, perfect for people who, as a news release from the brand says, believe "colors should rule everyone's outfit, from tip to toe."



If you're more of a closed-toe color lover, Pantone also released two styles of sneakers that are just as fun but probably less likely to be spotted at a music festival this summer. One even gives the illusion that you've dipped your foot into a bucket of Pantone colored paint for $135. 



We were unable to track down every single color for purchase, but HBX has a solid selection.


 

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Senior Pageant Queens Show The True Beauty That Comes With Age

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For the older ladies of Ms. Senior Arizona, pageants are about so much more than just a silly tiara. For the last 27 years, the state pageant has been a place where older women go to make friendships rather than to cut off the competition.


"They build a relationship with all the ladies," executive director Herme Sherry told The Huffington Post. "You come away with a whole new group of friends and gain so much confidence."


There are no questions about solutions for world peace or swimsuit competitions. The women instead model evening gowns, show off their talents -- whether it's tap dancing, yodeling or performing a monologue -- and most importantly, sum up their life philosophy.


The women must be over 60 to participate, and they've had contestants well into their 90s. 


"So many of them have raised families, had careers, and gone through all kinds of things," Sherry, a former pageant winner herself, says. "They are so excited about doing something for themselves now, because they've spent their lives doing things for others." She says many women get help developing their talents and go on to perform at local senior centers. The proceeds from the event ticket sales go to a charity that supports survivors of domestic violence.


The winner gets the honor of representing Arizona in the national competition, Ms. Senior America, later this year. The Ms. Senior America pageants have been around since 1971, the brainchild of a classically trained singer named Dr. Al Mott.


But what makes the women in these pageants so beautiful isn't really about looks at all. 


"They know what life's about and they have wonderful souls," Sherry says. "And they are so excited about doing something new." 


Check out some photos of the beautiful contestants from this year's pageant below. 



 


 

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A Look Back At Billie Holiday's Ladylike Style

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Billie Holiday's short life may have been marred by a tumultuous upbringing and drug addiction, but when she stepped into the spotlight her image was immaculate.





Born Eleanora Fagan in Philadelphia, the "Strange Fruit" singer adopted her stage name from the actress Billie Dove and musician Clarence Holiday. She launched her jazz career in New York City nightclubs before being discovered by producer and talent scout John Hammond. He eventually signed her to Brunswick Records and introduced her to big band acts like Count Basie (a collaboration that included the famous tune "Summertime") and Lester Young (the saxophone player who came up with the nickname "Lady Day").


While Holiday received considerable recognition after her death, including posthumous induction into the Grammy Hall of Fame, a biographical film starring Diana Ross aptly titled "Lady Sings the Blues" and, most recently, a Broadway show biopic with Audra McDonald in the leading role, her ladylike style was always praised. From the fresh gardenias that adorned Holiday's hair to the fit-and-flare dresses she donned, she was truly a class act. 


In honor of what would've been Billie Holiday's 101st birthday on April 7, we're taking a look back at her greatest fashion moments, both on and off stage.



A version of this article was previously published on April 5, 2013.

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Jennifer Lawrence Is Happy To Please, As Long As She's Being Paid Fairly

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When Jennifer Lawrence penned her thoughtful essay on the wage gap in Hollywood, she wasn't expecting it to become a viral sensation. But, being a celebrity, those things happen. 


In the latest issue of Harper's Bazaar, the "Joy" actress talks about the reception to her Lenny letter, admitting that she only focused on the negative feedback. 


"I obviously only absorbed the negative. I didn’t pay attention to the positive feedback," she said. "My parents get really upset. They do not like me speaking out about anything political because it’s hard to see your kid take criticism."


But JLaw realized that most of her critics were "people who think women should not be paid the same as men. So I don’t really care what those people think." 


The Oscar winner, who acknowledged her privilege in the letter, added, "I try not to be too sensitive to the 'poor rich girl' jokes. I was saying my reality is absolutely fabulous, but it is not the reality of a lot of women in America. That’s what I’m talking about." 



In her essay, Lawrence also noted that she's "over trying to find the 'adorable' way to state my opinion and still be likable!" But at the same time, she's decided it's OK to be a people-pleaser sometimes, "if you're smart about it" and you're "getting what's fair."


"You know, I want my employers to be happy. I want to please anyone I’m working for as long as they pay me the appropriate amount," she told the magazine. "I'll make them as happy as they want."


To read more from her interview with Harper's Bazaar, head over to their website or pick up the issue when it hits newsstands on April 19. 

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The Real Story On How Trench Coats Got Their Name

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From khaki pants to pea coats, international military has always had an effect on the fashion and style of everyday civilians.


And trench coats -- double breasted, generally oversized coats with deep pockets and a belt -- are known as such today because British military soldiers wore them in the trenches of World War I. But they existed in the years leading up to that war, and would live long after it, thanks to celebrities such as Humphrey Bogart and Marlene Dietrich -- eventually becoming as mandatory to have in your wardrobe as blue jeans or that J.Crew gingham shirt. Here's the story.



The trenches of Europe in the 1800s and 1900s were nasty places to fight for your country. Long, winding tunnels, "they smelled, of both the unwashed living bodies crammed in there and the dead ones buried close by," a Smithsonian article describes it. Exposed to the elements, "[trenches] were muddy and filthy, and often flooded with either rain or, when the latrines overflowed, something worse."


The soldiers, then clad in woolen "greatcoats" -- long overcoats of a thick twill fabric called serge -- were warm but too bulky for agile soldiers.


Obviously, a military unit is going to be interested in clothing that protects its soldiers from the elements -- but in the mid-1800s, the predominant weather jackets were known as Macks, which started showing up thanks to inventor Charles Macintosh around 1823.



Rubberized and inflexible, Macks would keep rain out but your sweat in. Still, they were successful enough to create a market for consumers who wanted jackets that would protect their wearers from the weather.


Enter Thomas Burberry, who at the age of 21 in 1856 launched a new shop where he'd invent a fabric called gabardine in 1879 -- Burberry's was much more breathable and still weather proof.


At around the same time, Aquascutum, a brand whose name translates from Latin into "water shield," invented what it called the world's first waterproof textile. Their "Wrappers" were soon seen on guys who liked to dress up while still staying dry in a rainstorm (the two brands both claim to have invented the trench coat, but The Smithsonian says nobody knows for sure who deserves the credit).


When the British commissioned Burberry in 1901 to make his generously sized overcoat to be a part of its military kits, "it would make his fortune," according to the "Fashion Dictionary," edited by Baldini Castoldi Dalai, which further explains:



"The garment had shoulder straps, a waist belt with rings from which to hand anything a soldier might need in a trench, more small belts to make it a sort of diving suit to protect oneself from water and cold, doubled fabric in the parts most exposed to rain, and many pockets."



Today, still a cornerstone of its business, Burberry's trench coats come in a glut of styles and fabrics -- suede, cotton silk and gabardine, fetching thousands of dollars -- and during WWI, officers forked over £3 and £4 for this good Burberry trench coat, which would have been a soldier's three or four months' pay.


Here, see how much (or little) has changed between the early trench coats and those that are available in Burberry's London collection online today.



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Google Trends Proves That Beards Aren't Dead (Or Even Dying)

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Predicting the death of the beard has become an annual tradition for so-called style experts all over the internet.

Recently historian Alun Whitney weighed in. He claims that beards have run their course, and that historical trends back him up.

Unfortunately for Alun and others predicting facial hair doomsday, some great tools exist to help us examine trends in near real time, so we can see if they're on to something, or just blowing smoke.

Google's Search Data Shows No Decline

Google Trends is a tool that shows the popularity of a search term over time, and Google Keyword Planner shows us the average monthly searches of keywords, or search terms.

Let's take a look at the search "beard styles", because it reasons that if men were no longer growing beards, there would be fewer men wondering how to style their beards.

Keyword Planner tells us that "beard styles" gets 60,500 searches per month, on average, and that all "beard style"-related searches (like "facial hair styles" and "beard care") add up to between 360,000 and 550,000 every month.

That's a lot of bearded information requested - by Americans alone.

Here's a graph from Google Trends that clearly shows searches for beard styles actually seem to be growing, not declining.

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From November to January of this year, more people searched for "beard styles" than ever before.

Even the dip you see in March and April can be attributed to the historically lower searches during the spring months. I fully expect to see the graph continue upward as summer and then the holiday season approaches.

All this to say - beards aren't dead. In fact, their popularity might still be growing.

How To Keep Up With The Beard Trend

With so many men growing beards, how do you stand out?

For some, it's a beard adorned with Christmas ornaments and flowers.

For serious men looking to stay relevant and continue to give high quality first impressions, it comes down to the quality of the beard, and the attention to detail in your grooming routine.

Here are three tips to stay at the top of the beard game.

1. Don't be afraid to try a new style

One of the worst things we can do is get complacent with our style.

If your beard starts to look tired and dated, it makes you look like you have stopped caring, even stopped paying attention to the world around you.

Even a moderate style change can make a huge difference.

If you've been keeping a 3 or 4 inch beard, try keeping the same style, but bringing it down a couple of inches so that it more closely hugs your face.

Tighten up your look by keeping it short along the sides of the face, fade it into your hair at the sideburn, and make sure you're taking care of stray hairs by trimming regularly.

Had a goatee for years? Let your full beard grow out. Give it a bit of length and make sure you are grooming it daily. If you can't make it work, keep the full beard but try a stubble length.

If you're rocking a full beard, the possibilities are endless, but a more sleek, refined style like the Verdi is an easy first step into shaping your beard.

2. Pay attention to the little things

Attention to detail can make or break a man.

When people see that there are fly away hairs, a poorly trimmed (or not at all trimmed) neckline, or that you simply do not groom your beard at all, they're going to assume the worst.

If you can't even give your beard the attention it deserves, they'll think you don't pay attention in other areas of life, too.

Imagine the consequences when you're interviewing for a better job. Or trying to impress a potential mate.

You could lose out on a job or business opportunity, and even a relationship, because of your bad beard habits, so create a daily routine and make it a habit.

3. Condition daily with a balm or oil

Perhaps the most important method of your grooming routine, the foundation on which everything else rests, is the daily conditioning of your facial hair using a balm or an oil.

If you do nothing else, you will see significant results just from giving your beard a bit of moisturization.

Of course a balm helps control your beard and allows you to style it while keeping stray hairs in place, but your personal preference will dictate whether you use balm or oil.

The health, the shine, the overall cleanliness of your beard will be evident to all who look at it if you simply apply a bit of a natural moisturizing conditioner every morning.

Beards are not dead.

And that means more men than ever will be growing beards.

It's no longer enough to just grow a beard. You need a good beard to keep up with the competition. Get serious about your grooming habits and make sure that the more beards other men grow, the more yours stands out.

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