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How To Get Rid Of Blackheads The Right Way

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For GQ by Stephen J. Praetorius.

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From shaving properly to remembering to moisturize, combatting oil to managing acne as a grown-ass adult, you've got a lot on your plate when it comes to taking care of your face. But even with all that effort, chances are that at one point or another, a blackhead or two is going to pop up somewhere between your ears. Life's just unfair that way.

Now, though they may be less conspicuous than their pulsing acne cousins, blackheads can be just as unsettling. And if left untreated, they can and will get exponentially worse--just check out a few of YouTube's truly abhorrent extraction videos if you need proof. And that's why it's important to do everything in your power to fend them off at first sight. Here, a few of our best tips on how to clean out clogged pores and regain clear, pothole-free skin.

Step Away from the Strips
We've all seen the commercials: A pretty girl, lamenting the "poor quality" of her obviously flawless skin, applies what appears to be a piece of tape to her nose. Then, what we're told is ten or so minutes later, she removes the tape, scrunching her little brow upon seeing all the muck now stuck to it. It's all very convincing. Unfortunately, it's also kind of bullshit.

The fact of the matter is, while skin strips may work in the short term to get rid of offending blackheads, they do nothing to treat the root of the problem--the oil, dirt, and dead skin cells buried deep in your pores. On top of that, they're also not at all gentle on skin, especially if it's already vulnerable due to dryness, breakouts, or sunburn. So instead, we suggest trying a pore extractor. The same tool a dermatologist would use, it'll help to force out all the gunk that's really ground in there, so your blackhead problem won't come back to haunt you before you know it.

Read more: Everything You Can Do To Get Rid of Pimples

Get Your Hands on the Right Stuff
Looking for a solution that's a little less hands-on? Then the first thing you need to do is swap out your regular grooming products for those that contain a few key blemish-fighting components. One such ingredient: salicylic acid. Found in products like Malin + Goetz Daytime Acne Treatment, it'll help keep blackheads at bay by unpacking pores and encouraging skin to shed dead cells. Retinoids, like those in Shisheido Deep Wrinkle Corrector, are another option, acting similarly but with the added bonus of also fighting wrinkles. Sounds like a win-win to us.

Exfoliate Every Damn Day
While dirt and oil are often seen as the biggest culprits, in actuality it's often your own dead skin cells that choke pores the worst. For that very reason, exfoliating is a must if your skin is particularly blackhead-prone. That could mean switching up your soap to something like Jack Black's Deep Dive Glycolic Facial Cleanser. Or it could mean going heavy-duty and investing in a handheld electric exfoliator, like Clarisonic's Alpha Fit. Either way, make sure to scrub daily for best results.

As Always, Moisturize
We've said it before, and we'll say it again: Only good things will ever come of moisturizing. That sentiment holds true just as much here as it does anywhere else. Aside from keeping the skin's oil content in check, applying lotion on the regular also keeps cells healthier for longer, so they're less likely to find themselves buried in your pores.

Leave It to the Pros
Want clear skin on your face, but don't want to put in all that work? Well, you're not the only one, which is why facials are a thing. So suck up your pride and go get one. Trust us, your face will thank you. Plus, you might even enjoy it.

Don't worry, we won't tell anyone.

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The Secret Trick Kanye West Uses To Keep His White Sneakers Clean

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For GQ by Jake Woolf.

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As the guy behind the Yeezy Boost, you might think Kanye West has an unlimited supply of the highly coveted kicks. Yet that doesn't seem to be the case. (In fact, even back when Kanye was making Yeezys for Nike, he admitted to buying his own shoes off of eBay.) But even in this highly successful Adidas era, West is remaining incredibly precious with his new pair of yet-to-be-released white Yeezy Boost 350s. How precious? He's only wearing them on pavement.

Captured by his wife, Kim Kardashian, on Snapchat while touring the construction site of their new home, Yeezy is seen taking off his soon-to-be-sold-out kicks before stepping onto the un-manicured (read: straight dirt) ground.

Is this crazy? Well, yeah, but in the highly obsessive world of sneaker collecting, this doesn't really scratch the surface of insanity. (Remember when Fat Joe literally licked his own sneaker on Cribs?) Also, it's not like he, as he once claimed he might do, walked into Nobu with no shoes. But in his defense, this is literally the easiest way to not dirty your fresh sneakers, especially when they're made of Adidas's cloth-like Primeknit fabric, which while insanely comfortable is also a dirt magnet.




All that in mind, had Yeezy just read our handy guide to cleaning (and literally bleaching!) white Adidas sneakers, he'd be fearless as he journeyed through life in his crispy white kicks. All we ask for in return, Mr. West, is a chance at getting our hands on a pair of these when they do indeed drop.

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15 Times Laverne Cox's Inner And Outer Beauty Blew Us Away

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There are few stars who use their celebrity for good quite as genuinely and passionately as Laverne Cox. The work that she has done on screen is paralleled only by the work she has done to increase visibility and awareness around the transgender community.


Beyond that, Cox, who happens to be amongst our picks for one of the best-dressed celebrities in Hollywood, wows us regularly with her relatable attitude. A glance at her Instagram feed might fool someone into thinking they're looking at just another one of their friends. 


It's that down-to-earth nature and commitment to spreading awareness that make Cox shine. In honor of the star's 32nd birthday on May 29, behold, 15 times her beauty -- both inside and out -- blew us away.


1. When she was just as much as a Beyonce fan-girl as all of us: 


 




 


2. When she was basically every friend you have during karaoke: 



This is how we do it. @oitnb #Season3 #WrapParty #karaoke #RockNRoll

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3. When she was feeling herself enough to get a friend to take photos of her on the beach:




 


4. When she was a woman who supports other women (always):


 








 


 


5. And preached about the importance of self-acceptance:



6. When she lit up the New York City sky to create awareness for National Bullying Prevention Month:



 


7. When she wore this stunner on the 2014 Emmys red carpet:



 8. And this show-stopper on the 2016 SAG Awards red carpet:



 


 9. And this glorious gown on the 2016 Billboard Awards red carpet:



 10. When she stripped down for a powerful photoshoot in Allure:




 


11. When she slayed the braid game:


 




12. And wore THIS out to the club:


 




 


12. Not to mention, every single time she educates her friends and followers about other badass transgender icons:


 






14. When she was a sucker for a bargain:


 



I just love my amazon.com swimsuits for under $15.00. Girlfriend loves a bargain. #TransIsBeautiful

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15. And when she somehow even made even a cap and gown look downright fierce: 



graduation day #NewSchoolGrad

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 Pour it up, girl! 



I needed a drink after the the events of the night. Wow ##SAGAwards #TransIsBeautiful

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This Pop-Up Boutique Is Giving Women In Crisis Designer Dresses

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10 Best Sunscreens to Protect Your Skin

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Every year, the Friday before Memorial Day is National Sunscreen Day! With summer around the corner and the rising intensity of the sun, it's extremely important to use sunscreen daily to protect our skin from its dangerous ultraviolet rays. There are so many different types of sunscreens out there these days so which brands are best? After testing so many over the past six months, I found these to be my favorites in terms of protection and feel on the skin.

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1. Beautycounter All Over Sunscreen

Beautycounter has created a formula safe for the entire family, rich in antioxidants and blood orange extracts. The lightweight formula easily rubs into your skin without leaving white streaks and is waterproof. This sunscreen received a 1 rating by the EWG's Skin Deep rating system so you know it's one of the safest and most effective sunscreens out there. Made from gentle mineral active zinc oxide which provides natural, safe protection.

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2. Sun Bum Premium Moisturizing Sunscreen Spray

This ultra sheer spray is perfect for an on-the-go spritz that dries almost immediately. Sun Bum's formula is rich in Vitamin E, an antioxidant that helps the skin protect itself against pre-mature aging. The Sun Bum brand is also recommended by the Skin Cancer Foundation and priced well. My family and I are all obsessed with the amazing coconut scent and the lightweight formula.

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3. Coola Classic Face SPF 30 -- Cucumber

Coola Classic Face Sunscreen provides a fabulous eco-friendly formula for the face with a smooth texture. This ultra-sheer antioxidant rich sunscreen contains organic Acai oil rich in omegas 3/6/9 plus multiple vitamins for powerful anti-aging benefits. The evening primrose and linseed oils noticeably even skin tone and diminish the look of age spots and wrinkles. The formula is so rich in omegas and vitamins B1, 2, 3, C and E so it's the perfect primer to wear under makeup. I find the light cucumber scent extremely refreshing but if you are not a fan of fragrances, this formula is available fragrance-free as well. A great year round SPF that is 70% organic and ideal for all skin types.

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It's important to reapply your sunscreen every two hours when outside!

4. Trilipiderm Broad Spectrum SPF 30 Sunscreen with Vitamin D

The Trilipiderm skincare line has newly released a sunscreen with all the benefits of their beloved moisturizing lotions. This double duty product is enriched with Vitamin D, Omega-3 and Omega-6 essential fatty acids for a healthy skin metabolism. It repairs dry skin, hydrates skin cells and restores essential lipids, all while offering high intensity protection from the sun's harmful rays. The non-greasy formula absorbs quickly into the skin and is a phenomenal every-day moisturizer for dry skin.

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5. Alba BOTANICA Very Emollient Mineral Sunscreen

The new all-natural, broad-spectrum sunscreen by Alba BOTANICA has a "spray at any angle" applicator. This mineral based formula goes on clear and feels like a cool spray of water on your body when applied. The drug store formula is recommended by the Skin Cancer foundation, eco-friendly and aerosol free -- it's a great sunscreen option if you are looking for something that is 100% vegan and gluten-free with a friendly price tag.

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6. La Roche-Posay Anthelios AOX Daily Antioxidant Serum SPF 50

La Roche-Posay Anthelios makes an incredible daily antioxidant serum and sunscreen that offers high level protection with preventative anti-aging benefits. This formula easily absorbs into the skin and decreases the appearance of fine lines, wrinkles, dark spots, and evens out your skin's texture. This light-weight serum combines a highly potent antioxidant complex with advanced UVA/UBB protection.

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7. Vita Liberata Passionflower & Argan Dry Oil SPF 50

Fighting free radical damage and photo-aging, this unique dry oil sunscreen by Vita Liberata protects against UVA and UVB while still providing a conditioning skin treatment. Using innovative technology and its pure ingredients, this formula will improve the appearance of your skin while simultaneously protecting it from future sun damage. The non-greasy oil absorbs nicely and can be used as an overall moisturizer. I love the beautiful, dewey glow it leaves on the skin. You can also spray it on your scalp or in your hair as a conditioning treatment.

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8. SkinCeuticals Sheer Physical UV Defense SPF 50

This paraben-free sunscreen product by the renown Skinceuticals skincare company is carried in numerous dermatologist and plastic surgeon offices for a reason! The sweat-proof formula boosts your skin's natural radiance and is Infused with color spheres -- it plays up your natural skin tone and leaves a sheer, matte finish. With the infusion of zinc oxide, Skinceuticals Sheer Physical UV Defense sunscreen is the holy grail of mattifying sunscreen. It will neutralize any skin redness and is great for sensitive skin types. Available in sheer and a variety of skin-toned shades.

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9. Cover FX Clear Cover Invisible Sunscreen, SPF 30

Cover FX Clear Invisible Sunscreen is infused with UVA/UVB protection and potent antioxidants to help prevent the signs of sun damage including discoloration, redness, premature wrinkles, and dullness. Clear and invisible in the bottle and on your skin, Cover FX Clear Invisible Sunscreen provides a velvety finish that also acts as a great primer before applying your makeup. Ideal for all skin types and skin tones, this gel-like sunscreen goes on smoothly and is instantly absorbed into the skin with no white residue.

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10. Supergoop Day to Day Value Set

Sold in an adorable Hello Sunshine! tote, this Supergoop Day to Day Value Set was created for travel and to incorporate sun protection into your daily routine. From lip balm to serums to hand cream, Supergoop! makes sure all parts of your body are protected and moisturized when on the go. The variety of trial-sized products included in this kit makes it easy to pack so you can be protected from the sun at any time. The prestige brand exclusively makes sun care products, and all of them contain antioxidants to help improve the overall health and appearance of the skin.

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Wearing sunscreen should not be optional. Over the past three decades, more people have had skin cancer than all other cancers combined.* You can read about some interesting statistics and facts about tanning and skin cancer here. Now is a great time to stock up on sunscreen for the summer!

Reference:

* Stern, RS. Prevalence of a history of skin cancer in 2007: results of an incidence-based model. Arch Dermatol 2010; 146(3):279-282.

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Love Games in the Hamptons

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East Hampton, NY -- Today ... early in the week. Or it could have taken place 25 ... 50 years ago. Circumstances change, certain needs do not.

A refined, yet understated restaurant.

I had just ordered. I am the only person in this section of the room.

A middle-aged man enters with a young woman. They sit in the corner near a partition to the front hall, opposite each other. His energy absorbs the room like a vacuum -- he leaves no space for anyone else but this girl and himself. Her long brunette hair falls in untrained curls past her shoulders stealing down her back. Her skin is pale, untouched. Her face is barely visible, her profile hints at a natural prettiness. Her arms are bare.

His voice is brash, oblivious, with a sharpened tone. He makes no effort to speak discreetly. I am sitting two tables away. He wants to be noticed, he wants to be seen with her. His graying hair pokes awkwardly out of his closely shorn head in mismatched sections. His features are indistinguishable, no real character to his nose, his eyes are dull, his eyebrows hang suspended, his tanned cheeks oddly lifeless and unformed. The dark hair on his beefy lower arms telegraphs more about his character than any other physical aspect. His voice, hardened and thickened by years of meat eating and social drinking, consumes the room.

He fidgets insecurely. Their cautious, superficial banter reveals that intimacy has not yet been breached. They brush the surface of one another with furtive sentences back and forth.

Her voice, lead by a set Russian accent, lilts in melodic, practiced, buttery tones.

What she says is not important yet, but how she says it affirms everything. She carefully begins to wrap her voice around him in small, vibrational circles. I am quickly drawn into their conversation, an unwilling silent witness.

He talks rapidly and loudly to the waiter, "We usually eat in the dungeon below - I like it up here. But I like dungeons also -- don't you?" She acquiesces, "I like dungeons ..." with a soft, childlike laugh.

The waiter nervously laughs. The man looks at her, "You'll always know when I like something. I hold nothing back." Uncomfortable silence.

His compliments spill forth in layer after layer of clumsy sweetening. "You're so pretty ... Do you know that? You must know that ..."

She leads with conversation about her family. She mentions her mother whose husband is not working.

"Was he laid off?"

"I don't really know what is going on -" she vaguely replies. She shows him photographs of them on her phone.

"You look like your grandmother... What a handsome boy he is, I would take him out on my boat, if you'd like that."

"You like oysters?" he suggests.

"Oh, yes..." she quietly giggles.

"We'll have twelve oysters. Start with that."

I roll my eyes. 12 oysters, no less. I shake my head with a slight smile and shift uncomfortably in my chair. Oh, this is painful.

There is no ease, no breath. He keeps pushing through the air at her, testing her, prodding her, trying to court in agitated bursts of energy. She holds back, keeps him at arm's length, revealing small bits of herself, one peek at a time.

"I tried for three days to send you flowers. You know the flowers I sent you? At every turn there was a problem but I wasn't going to let anything stop me. I was going to get those flowers to you no matter what. That's who I am."

"God, you're so beautiful, you know that?" She doesn't thank him. She silently absorbs it.

The waiter returns.

"She'll have the haddock with no sauce, no dairy, no wheat berries -- do I have it right? I'm trained well, aren't I?" he boyishly prods.

"Yes ..." she playfully laughs, "And mushrooms on the side," she adds, "No dairy at all, nothing on the haddock, no butter? Just plain greens, yes?" prompting the waiter.

"Look at her. Then look at me. I eat steak everyday. I need to make a change. I mean, will you look at her? She is onto something looking like that. I'll have the haddock, sauce on the side. I'll try to be good..." he chuckles carelessly. She laughs, pleased.

She begins to open up to him. "... I want a career. I want to be successful," she stresses.

"You MUST pursue your career. You don't want to be 50 with two kids and nothing else to show for yourself ... You know I'd love to take you up into my arms and take care of you for the rest of your life, you wouldn't have to worry about anything, you know that ..." She sits silent. "Material stuff is easy. Nothing to it. Money is not a problem."

More people filter into the room. I try to escape, block his voice out, read text on my phone aloud to myself, mindlessly Google. Nothing works. I search for my IPod, it isn't in my bag. Good God, I'm a prisoner, a captive audience. I try to distract myself, lose myself in the food, the taste and texture of the meaty wheat berries kissed with butter ... The table between us remains empty.

"But we are just friends --" she demurs.

"Yes, of course, just friends. I don't want anything from you. I am here for you no matter what. I will never be angry with you, no matter what you say or whatever happens. I will never get angry with you."

"Yes, please, no anger ..." she gently purrs.

"Even if you said you were in love with Ian and decided to go off with him I would not be angry. Nothing you say could make me angry."

"Do you work all week? Is there any day you have free if I take the boat out? I've missed you these last three weeks ..."

"I really like you. I know I am 52, you are 25. I'm sure you've thought about that. When I am 72, you'll be 45 -- that's not too bad ... I am here for you, you know that?"

On and on. Their conversation has consumed me, the waiter, even the hostess on the other side of the partition, we have become mute participants in the escalating drama. Like a whirlpool, we are all caught up in it.

"God, you're so beautiful." She again remains silent.

"My skin was not so good, I had acne," she draws him to her.

"Cystic acne?"

"No, not that bad. But I had trouble with it."

"Well, now it is perfect, smooth as glass ..."

He continues to press. "You know, some people you have chemistry with in life are not good for you. And then there are some people you don't realize you have chemistry with --"

You've got to be kidding.

The desperation rises in his voice throughout dinner -- instead of becoming more relaxed, he grows more anxious, overreaching, direct.

"You need to take that call? Is that the woman with the apartment? Take the call, go ahead. I can help find you an apartment."

He turns his attention to the waiter, trying to talk him up, win him over as she speaks on her cell phone.

"What's your name? ... Oh, that's my son's name. Well, you'll be seeing a lot of us this summer. A lot."

The waiter leaves. Everyone has left the room except for the three of us. An unwitting ménage. Now he goes full throttle, he squarely faces her and starts telling her how he feels directly. She has rendered him powerless yet he still thinks he is in control, that he's the one who is driving the conversation and blossoming connection. I blank his words out, buck my head back on an unchecked impulse, cringing, have a quick fantasy about pulling him aside and telling him to STOP, just stop trying so damn hard. But he is already lost. I rush through my gelato.

"We're friends, yes?" she softly rebuffs him.

"Oh, yes, you know that. No matter what." The tension is palpable, the atmosphere tight and restricted. A painful silence follows. I am right over here, people!

I can viscerally sense his overwhelming need to penetrate into her, her nubile, supple body, into the mystery of her. He can't think about anything else.

Someone from the front hallway overhears him say, "I would divorce my wife for you -"

Then, "... Why would he leave you? Why would anyone be that crazy?"

"I don't know," she almost whispers.

Two nights later. Same restaurant. Much warmer night. Summer has arrived with a swift push. Its glow spills into the dining room. The side door is open this time. A fresh breeze.

I am at the same table. I'm almost through with my dinner when the same man with the same young woman enter. I look up in horror and disbelief with huge eyes at the waiter who recognizes the unbelievable coincidence and drops his mouth. They sit at their table in the corner. The energy between them has inexplicably changed. They sit next to each other this time, knees within touching distance. They are happy, conversing brightly and excitedly.

The room is noisier, filled with diners.

His voice still stands out.

"I have to warn you my "ex" wife is going around harassing people. She has heard I'm having an affair and she has been showing up at places around town. She might show up at the spa ..."

"Some people are so unhappy, why do they live that way? I could never live like that," she responds. No mention of being "just friends" tonight.

The noise in the room envelops them. He leans into her. They speak closely now. "I would never, never, NEVER let them send you back to Russia. Vladimir Putin would have to shoot me himself first."

The waiter goes to their table and lightly greets them.

"We'll have the same thing, I know what we want. She's trained me well! She'll have exactly what she had before -- the haddock with no dairy or wheat berries, no butter, no sauce, greens with nothing on them."

"And mushrooms on the side," she playfully consents.

"I'll have the haddock again as well. Just the way she's having it. It's the best way. Amazing." She talks rapidly now, taking hold of the conversation. He sits forward content, pleased to listen to her speak. She spins and spins the melody of her conversation around him. He smiles, blissful and unaware. And happy to stay exactly where he is, no matter what.

He is just about to blow his life up.

Summer in the Hamptons is in full swing. And it's not even the first of June yet.

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Empowerment First, Profit Second: What I've Learned Owning a Social Enterprise

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What truly is a social enterprise? To me, a social enterprise is one that prioritizes serving a purpose or fulfilling a need over financial gain. Rebel Nell was established as a result of living next door to a women and family shelter. While taking my dog on walks, I would stop to chat with the residents of the shelter. Over the course of many months, they shared their courageous stories about the challenging situations they left behind in hopes of a fresh start. It was a light-bulb moment for me and my business partner to start Rebel Nell. Our business model is mission driven, with our priority being the empowerment of the women in Detroit.

All of our employees are, or were once, transitioning from women's shelters in Detroit. We teach them how to make jewelry from fallen graffiti as a way to repurpose the city. When the graffiti would otherwise seep into the ground, we give it a second life. Our profits earned directly impacts our programs and services that help our community of women to lead self-sufficient lives. At Rebel Nell, we operate under the "teach a woman to fish" mentality.


Sustainable and ethical fashion brands are few and far between in a multi-billion dollar industry that prides itself on creating trend-driven clothing for a low price. In a recent article on Business of Fashion, writer Lucy Siegle explains that, "we are, after all, children of the fast fashion revolution, and breaking away from this phenomenon seems impossible." At the intersection of social enterprises and the fashion industry are brands working hard towards moving the needle and changing the standards of what is considered ethical. This type of change is long-term and challenging, but doable.

Traversing the path of social enterprising has brought forth plenty of hiccups and roadblocks, but along the way I've developed three useful tips that are the backbone of the company.

Educate yourself. Marketing schemes can be very powerful and persuasive. Sometimes you find that promotions are actually causing more harm than good. I always tell my employees to be smarter than the average bear. Be weary of the brands that slap on descriptors like "sustainable" or "consciously made". It is our job as the consumer to ask questions and follow up. For example, when you're purchasing a necklace that raises money for a charity or is socially conscious, are you asking how much of the purchase goes to benefit the charity? Checking the labels? How was it made? Where is the change happening when you make the purchase? Who is it directly impacting? As a consumer, you have the control to know what you're doing when you're buying. Granted, not every decision we make is going to be 100% ethical. The more we challenge the fashion industry's practices, the more we continue to raise the standard for ethically made fashion.

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If your employees are happy, your business is happy. It's important that you understand your employees' background. When we sit down and talk with our ladies (most of whom are mothers,) they inform us of their past jobs that didn't provide them with any flexibility. Previously, if a disruption like the flu hit their household, they would be out of a job as a result of staying home to take care of their loved one. With child care services being unaffordable for many it left them with little or no choice. At Rebel Nell, we decided it was important to offer our employees flexibility because we understand the importance of family. The gratitude for allowing them to put their family first is reflected in their work ethic. Don't just invest in your product, invest in your employees.



Be a conscious capitalist. Owning a social enterprise is not only about capital return, it's about the social return. We could be more profitable if we didn't take care of the people we hired. Our value proposition lies within the women behind our jewelry. When you buy a piece of Rebel Nell jewelry, your contribution is helping women receive a good living wage and resources to become financially independent, like the financial literacy courses we offer. Financial stability is important, but it's not the only way to become empowered.

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We have set up a transitional system that enables them to stabilize their lives and reclaim their independence. Behind every piece of Rebel Nell jewelry is a story of a woman working towards building a future for themselves and their families. Our goal is not to pigeonhole them to be jewelry makers for the rest of their lives. At the heart of our social enterprise is a need to make better employees, to restore their confidence and to provide the resources necessary for them to realize their dreams and watch them come to fruition.

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Daphne Guinness Is Here To Stimulate Your Senses With Psychedelic Melodies

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Daphne Guinness is a lot of things -- a muse, a street-style star, an artist, a couture collector, and the granddaughter of The Honorable Diana Mitford. 


Her penchant for wearing high fashion duds by designers like the late Alexander McQueen, whom she considered a friend, and Gareth Pugh, made the black-and-white-haired Guinness a fixture in the fashion world. In fact, her wardrobe is so admired that it was the subject of an exhibition -- which Guinness helped curate -- at The Museum at FIT in New York City from 2011 to 2012.


It should also be noted that Guinness, who was born in London, has been surrounded by art her whole life. Growing up in both the U.K. and Spain, her mother was a muse for artists such as Salvador Dalí and Man Ray. 


Now, the heir to the Guinness brewery fortune is ready to show the world who she really is. "I've been a musician probably all my life," Guinness told The Huffington Post over the phone earlier this month, adding, "This is the real me."


At 48, the Honorable Ms. Guinness (yes, that really is her formal title) has just released her first album, "Optimist in Black," which was produced by David Bowie collaborator Tony Visconti. It's comprised of 14 original tracks that echo the psychedelic sounds of the 1960s and classic rock of the '70s; Guinness counts everyone from Bach to Bob Dylan to ABBA and Radiohead as influences, among a long list of others. That being said, she proudly confirmed that every song on her album is an original. 


"That's pretty difficult these days," she told HuffPost. "It's because I had real people with me and because I wrote them myself. We haven't sampled anything. These are all original chord progressions and original drum beats." 


For Guinness, the relationship between visual art and music is important, and she credits her time in the visual world with helping her understand the way artists think, "because it's quite different from the way I think," she said. 


"My ultimate goal," she added, "is to get sound and vision undivorced, because I think there are too many people in between sometimes." 


Judging by her videos, she's well on her way to reaching that goal. For instance, there's the mesmerizing Nick Knight-directed "Fatal Flaw," which brings to mind Grace Jones' "Corporate Cannibal." Its striking kaleidoscope imagery makes it almost impossible to look away, while the hypnotic tune keeps the viewer listening. 





Then there's the colorfully opulent "Evening in Space," directed by photographer David LaChapelle (whom she considers her brother -- "I think we were separated at birth.") Music legend David Bowie, who died in January of this year, also added a dash of his Starman magic to the video. 


"I'm so grateful for David for taking [the video] into a different realm," Guinness told HuffPost. "That's how he imagined it. I didn't ask him, he wanted to do it."  


Though she's had the chance to work with talented and iconic artists while pursuing her passion, Guinness admitted that the road to releasing "Optimist in Black" wasn't without its obstacles.  


"I had a big depression when I finished the album, and I couldn't listen to it for quite a long time. I didn't want to release it at all," she said. "I thought, 'Fuck you, fuck the world.' But then I think it's an important process to -- especially when you've got such great artists involved -- to honor the songs." 





For Guinness, the songs are a sort of social commentary, written through a poetic lens. Lyrics like "Many marionettes / Dripping from your fingers / Grinning, mesmerized / The foolish ones, they linger offer (from "Marionettes) and "I spent an evening in space / Man, feel like an alien / Far from ecstasy / In a parallel reality" (from "Evening in Space") offer plenty of subtext about living in a world so obsessed with money and keeping up with appearances. 


A little bit of reading between the lines surfaces themes that everyone can relate to -- interacting with someone who's just on another level, trying to prove a point that no one understands or even just trying to live authentically. 


But the songs aren't personal, Guinness explained. "It's not about me, it's about what I've observed," she said. "I hope I've been able to obscure myself enough out of these songs that they are universal." 


"Optimist in Black" is available now on iTunes, Apple Music and Spotify. 

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Selma Blair's Amazing Flat Shoes Top Our Cheap Celeb Finds List

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Sandals are just as essential to summer as a great bathing suit. And while most of us have no problem lamenting the torture that is finding that perfect bikini, it's not often enough that we acknowledge how tricky it can be to find great summer footwear. 


But this week, Selma Blair solved our problems when she stepped our in a pair of cute, cheap and comfortable-looking sandals. BRB, going to order these babies along with all the other amazing affordable items Hollywood wore this week. 


Selma Blair's sandals




Soludos Leather Slotted Thong Sandal, $89


Sofia Vergara's dress




N Nicholas Striped Jersey Dress, $58


Olivia Palermo's top







Olivia Palermo + Chelsea28 Silk Shirt, $58 (matching pants, currently sold out)


Gigi Hadid's jeans




Hudson High-Waist Skinny Jeans, $79


Bella Thorne's bag



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Skinnydip Pink "Girls" Heart Crossbody Bag, $33 


Taylor Swift's sneakers




Nike Women's Free TR Flyknit Training Sneakers from Finish Line, $129

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Queen Elizabeth II Is Just One Of 5 Reasons This Vanity Fair Cover Is The Best Yet

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Royal enthusiasts spent the better part of April and May celebrating Queen Elizabeth II's 90th birthday. There were parties, at least one stunning cake and, of course, plenty of pups.


All that excitement has culminated in yet another swoon-worthy event: The queen and two each of her corgis and dorgis (a mixed breed the mag says the queen engineered when one of her dogs "mated with a dachshund that belonged to her sister, Princess Margaret") are Vanity Fair's Summer 2016 cover stars.



Annie Leibovitz shot the iconic cover image of the queen with canine stars Holly, Willow, Vulcan, and Candy, along with a set of additional photos released in April. Among them are images of the monarch alongside her daughter Princess Anne, one with her husband of 69 years, Prince Philip, and another of the queen on the steps of Windsor Castle with some of the beloved Corgis and Dorgis she's been breeding since 1949.




The issue, which hits newsstands June 2, promises an extensive look at the queen's life, including commentary from a royal biographer and even one of her former secretaries.


We'll be swooning hard over this gorgeous image until then.

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5 Tips For Proper Tie Length

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Tie-wearing humans: do you often wonder what the appropriate length necktie length is and how to achieve it? Even if you have never worn a tie in your life, you have most likely seen the unfortunate case of someone else wearing a tie that looks like it is made for a clown or those adults who look like little boys trying on their dad's apparel. Many times, people, and mostly guys, get the tie wearing thing completely wrong and go either far too short or super long. If this sounds like you or someone you know, you should read on!

5 tips for proper tie length:

1. Pay attention to the size of the tie itself

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The length of the tie itself should depend on what type of knot you are going to be using. Some knots only require one or two loops. If you are tying an Italian-style knot, you are going to be using a few extra loops, which will make a traditional tie shorter than it should be. If you are tying an Italian tie [typically longer in length], with a traditional knot, the finished look may extend way past your waistline which is a big no no.

2. Make sure to have good posture

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Once you have chosen the proper tie length, it is essential to keep good posture when getting dressed. Make sure that your posture isn't too "proper" [yes this is a thing] because you want the finished product to look good when you are walking around with your normal posture as well. Be careful that you aren't standing too rigid, but are sprucing up your usual walking/standing posture. Alternatively, slouching or hunching over may cause your tie to sit shorter on your body when you revert back to your normal posture.

3. Disregard width

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When it comes to proper tie length, the width of the tie plays no part in what the finished product looks like. While the type of knot you choose and the length of the tie do matter, width doesn't matter when it comes to the appropriate length of your tie.

4. Ensure your tie matches your torso length and waistband


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This means that when standing in your normal posture, your tied tie should hit right at the middle of your waistband or belt, if you are wearing one. Bespoke Unit has a super-helpful infographic explaining this concept visually. While your height and weight slightly matter, the middle of your waistband, not higher or lower, is the proper place for your tie to end.

5. Watch your tie clip

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Totally get it! You want to wear a tie clip to be all fancy, snazzy, and professional. A word of caution: tie clips have the potential to shorten your tied tie. If you know you are going to wear a tie clip with your ensemble, keep this in mind during the tying process. Allow for a tiny bit of extra length at the bottom of your tie to make up for the tie clip's alternation. Once clipped, if your tie is longer/shorter than your belt/waist, make adjustments. Hit right at your middle? You're golden!

Now go out there and wow the crowd with your properly placed tie and your suave sense of style!

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See 100 Years Of Nail Trends In 2 Minutes

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Are you sick of nail art? Looking for some major manicure inspiration? Try looking at Mode's latest video, which takes a look back at 100 years of manicures.

The video starts in 1916, when nails were simple: short and neat. Clear nail polish was introduced in the 1920s, but it's not until 1936 that we see the first colored nail polish. That's when we see that the half-moon mani was trendy.
By the 1940s, long nails were suddenly in style. And not just a little length -- we're talking the super-long talons that you've seen on celebrities like Vanessa Hudgens.

Fast forward to the 1980s. Suddenly, nails are square-shaped, rather than round. Plus, there's more than just plain polish. Enter: rhinestones.

The nail trends from the '90s and early '00s are pretty predictable: simple French manicures or coats of black polish. But it's nice to see how far our mani game has come over the last 100 years.


By: Ally Hickson

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9 Insider Hacks From Former Sephora Employees

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As much as we worship everyone's favorite black-and-white striped beauty haven, we know how dangerous Sephora can be to our bank accounts. Every time we walk out, our wallets have taken quite the (chic) hits. The beauty addicts in us may be satisfied, but the responsible adults are shaking their heads profusely. But what if we told you that you could please both parties?

As unreal as it may sound, there are ways to save money at Sephora while racking up some pretty great perks in the process. In order to bring you the best hacks around, we asked a handful of former Sephora employees to share their insider tips and tricks. Click through, beauty devotees, and your bank accounts will thank you.

Correction: A previous version of this story misstated the number of mini-makeovers available per customer. The article has been updated to reflect the change.

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Illustrations by Elliot Salazar.

This may be a no-brainer, but hear us out. Samples are not only killer for saving money (especially when traveling), but also for testing out products before you make the leap to dish out money on full-sized items -- so don't be afraid to ask!

In fact, while you may feel satisfied exiting the store with just one, our sources confirm that employees are allowed to give customers up to three samples each.

Translation: Don't just pop in and pick up your mascara, grab a few things to try at home, too! Not to worry: If you order online, you get three samples with every order as well.

"Samples are a must to try before you buy," a former Sephora employee tells us. And don't limit yourself to just skin-care samples, either. Fragrances are also clutch to stock up on, and they're perfect for your purse.

According to another former Sephora employee, the store also always has free, pre-made samples at the register you can ask for and take home if you're in a hurry.

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If there's an opportunity for you to save a little dough, take it and run for the hills. That means if you're not a Beauty Insider already, get on that! It's free and takes two seconds to sign up.

Here's how it works: You get a point for every dollar you spend, a free birthday treat (think: luxe travel-size samples), and access to the annual (sometimes biannual) sales.

According to a former employee, you should watch your email or mailbox for the store's deals, too, which are often offered in April and November. Beauty Insider coupons are reusable until the end of the sale window, so you have some time, but don't sleep on the discount because it's big.

Naturally, the higher your Insider status, the bigger the discount. Rouge (those who spend more than $1,000 in a calendar year) and VIB (those who spend more than $350) members usually have access to the best deals.

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As a number of Sephora insiders tell us, December has the best deals.
"In December, they usually offer a gift card based on your status of Beauty Insider," one former employee tells us. "VIB Rouge gets $25, VIB $20, and BI $15. You have to spend a certain amount to use the gift card, [but] the last time I got one, I only purchased enough to get to the exact dollar amount needed and I essentially got my products for 50% off." Stock up on holiday gifts for family and friends, or, you know, for yourself.

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The Sephora Favorites sets are swapped out frequently, and the amount of money you're saving is clearly marked on the label. It's an especially great buy when you're in the mood to test out a new brand or in the market for, say, a new mascara.

The brand's perfume sampler is especially clutch. It not only allows you to test out up to 13 different scents, but, once you've determined your favorite, you can use the included voucher to redeem a free full-sized version of your pick.

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To really take advantage of the point system, you've got to save. Avoid cashing in on your points for the smaller gifts, our Sephora sources tell us. "Save them for the big perks. Occasionally, they'll have some for 1,000, 5,000, and 10,000 points, and they're major," one of our experts says. "Like the Urban Decay Naked Vaults or flying out to L.A. to meet Tata Harper and tour her gardens." While we can't guarantee these exact perks, we have seen pretty rad things hit the cash wrap for these higher point values -- so sit tight until you see one!

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Want something (not urgently) that you can't find in your local Sephora? Not to worry, you can get it shipped to you for free -- but only if you order in-store! After all, everyone knows paying for shipping is the most annoying part of online-shopping.

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Those in the know are aware that Sephora offers makeovers perfect for special occasions. However, they don't have to burn a hole in your wallet -- just ask for a mini-makeover instead. "One thing people definitely don't realize is that you can request a mini-makeover without having to spend the $50 for a full one," one of our insiders tells us. These mini-makeover services include: smoky eye, contour, false-lash application, correct and conceal, and more (just not all at once).

Another makeover perk Sephora has launched are free classes. "You book it online -- the sooner the better, because they fill up very fast," our insider recommends. "It's a great way to learn, and at smaller locations, you get more one-on-one time. They usually [take place] when the store closes, so it goes a bit more smoothly."

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Did you know that you can also get a free mini skin-care service? Because we sure didn't. Our insider tells us: "Don't go to the Beauty Studio, but have a skin-care consultant do it at the skin-care studio. They will do a more thorough job of prepping your skin, and they will pamper you more than at the Beauty Studio."

The services you can choose from are: double-cleanse, mask and moisturize, and peel and perfect. "The double-cleanse basically teaches you which two types of cleansers to use based on skin type," our Sephora expert tells us. "Mask and moisturize is usually recommended for dry skin types, and peel and perfect is for more normal to oily skin types."

Free mini-facial? Yes, please!

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We know how tempting travel-sized products can be -- they basically stare you down as you wait in line -- but, nine times out of 10, the price-per-ounce is not worth your hard-earned moola. You'd be better off buying the full-sized version and requesting a sample for traveling.

By: Taylor Bryant

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What Is a Capsule Wardrobe?

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So what is this capsule thing you keep hearing about? It's pretty simple. Get rid of pretty much all your clothes. Purchase an entirely new wardrobe on your current budget. Keep only 25 items. Forget patterns or colors, your outfits must be bland. Only wear expensive brands. Never shop and continue to wear the same thing over and over. No fun. Lots of rules. All restrictions. Period.

If you made it to the second paragraph, you just witnessed the definition of sarcasm.

But to be honest, anyone who says "they could never" create a capsule wardrobe mentions one or two or three of the above items as reasons for why "having a minimal wardrobe could never work." If you're looking for a way to have less clutter, having a capsule wardrobe can certainly assist. But that's not the entire point.

We weren't born with an inherent need to buy a jacket from H&M or shoes from DSW. Yet, these are the messages that bombard us on a daily basis and the expectations set by so many in our culture. Buy that, look like this. Wear this, feel like that. For some reason, when we follow along and purchase the things we are tempted to buy we never feel fully satisfied. It's kind of like having one Reeses Peanut Butter Cup and thinking it will hold you over until dinner time. The quick euphoric purchase somehow always leaves us wanting more and feeling a little less. After all, there's never any end goal, only a never ending supply of things we can't seem to afford.

So what is a Capsule Wardrobe, really?

To answer the question, a capsule wardrobe is "an eco-conscious, sanity-saving solution to your endless search for what to wear." Like the name suggests, it's a minimal, interchangeable wardrobe with a finite number made up of clothes you actually love to wear. The concept is that when you shop you can work toward something: a finish line. You can start regaining control of your shopping habits and have sense of freedom from your closet. Freedom from guilt. Freedom from exhaustion. Freedom from comparison. Freedom from the fear of missing out. Freedom from perfectionism. Having freedom from your wardrobe comes from knowing you're already enough - not from buying more clothes or more stuff.

To be honest, the number of clothes doesn't matter. In fact, there's nothing inherently wrong with owning clothes. Clothes play an important role in our lives. However, this idea that by having more we'll gain more must be put to rest. Especially, when studies have in fact proven that the more we buy the less whole we become.

Already having anxiety about losing that sweater your mom gave you? Or those red heels you love? By all means, if these things are meaningful to you then hold onto them, tightly.

Having a capsule wardrobe is not about removing the things you love, it's about making space for the things you do.

We all want to have more freedom, more time and more money. The real question is, are we all willing to make a change? It's up to to determine if what you're holding onto, is really holding onto you.

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Artist Imagines Daydreams Of Royal Hamster And They’re The Same As Ours

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This hamster's wheel fancy. 


After it was revealed a few weeks ago that the royal family has a hamster named Marvin, writer and blogger Christine Frazier began creating illustrations of the pet, living out his daydreams of participating in all the fun things the British royal family gets to do, she told the Huffington Post in an e-mail. 


And the illustrations, which are part of her HRH Marvin, #TheRoyalHamster blog, are as majestic as they are adorable.  




 


Frazier's drawings feature Marvin on the cover of Vogue, a riff on Kate Middleton's cover. There's one of the little rodent ready to play polo atop a unicorn, based on the princes' recent attendance at the Audi Polo Challenge. Frazier, who's created about 15 of these Marvin drawings, said she stays up to date with the royals' fabulous activities to create the illustrations.




 


"My illustrations of Marvin's daydreams are based on the news that day about the royals," she wrote. "Then I try to combine that idea with objects that might surround Marvin, like a hamster wheel or a toy unicorn." 




 


The writer, who's based near Washington, D.C., told the Huffington Post that she's long been a fan of the royal family. Her mother was particularly inspired by Princess Diana so Frazier's grown up with an admiration for the clan. Frazier also told HuffPost that she's an avid doodler so when she heard of Marvin's existence, she was inspired to explore the character.




 


"The idea of illustrating Marvin was too hard to resist," Frazier said. "Something about this hamster seemed both so normal and absurd!"




 


While she's not sure if the royal family knows about her art, she hopes they'll get a kick out of Marvin and his whimsical daydreams. 




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Solange Knowles Sets The Tone For The Most Outrageous Outfits Of May

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When life gave Beyoncé lemons, she made lemonade. But when Solange got a hold of some lemons, she made couture. Bright, frouffy couture. 


Over the past month, we've seen some pretty outrageous outfits in Hollywood (Solange's Met Gala dress included). We saw Britney Spears on the red carpet in underwear (and not much else), we spotted Chloe Sevingy in a look from another era and Rita Ora rocked an outfit covered in enough feathers that she could have flown away. 


Check out the most outrageous outfits we saw in May and let us know what you think of the ensembles. 


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A Christian Arab Just Won Israel's Transgender Beauty Pageant

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Israel's first transgender beauty pageant, won by a Christian Arab on Friday, brought together contestants from the Holy Land's main faiths in an unconventional show of tolerance and coexistence.


In what organizers described as an ethnic "mosaic", the 12 vying for the Miss Trans Israel 2016 crown included a Jewish confectioner from an Orthodox Jerusalem family, a Muslim belly-dancer from Tel Aviv and a Christian ballerina from Nazareth.


The Christian, Taleen Abu Hanna, won and will represent Israel at the Miss Trans Star International pageant in Barcelona in September - a role she will evidently relish.


"Our country deserves to come out on top," Abu Hanna, 21, told journalists. "Our country allowed me, a Christian Arab from Nazareth, to end the war between my soul and my body. So if it made peace for me, our country is only a country of peace."



Unlike elsewhere in the Middle East, Israel has mostly liberal laws on sexual identity, with openly gay and transgender troops in its conscript military.


But people who are homosexual or transgender often face hostility from religious conservatives in the Jewish majority and Muslim and Christian Arab minorities. An ultra-Orthodox Jew is on trial for murder, accused of killing a teenage girl in a stabbing spree at last year's Jerusalem gay pride parade.


"Israeli people like transgenders but they don't have enough information about transgenders," said pageant judge Efrat Tilma at the prestigious venue, Tel Aviv's Habima National Theatre.


"Among us there are judges, there are doctors, there are lawyers, there are people who are working in hi-tech positions and, as well, people who would like to go to the Israeli parliament and to represent us in our parliament."



Carolin Khoury, a Muslim contestant, said she hoped Friday's contest would "send a message to the Arab communities in Israel or abroad, to accept the other".


She described overcoming sometimes violent opposition to her gender choice from her family.


"The Israeli police helped me to move out of my home, and despite all of the bad situations, I came through, I kept moving toward my dream, and here I am now," she told Reuters. "This competition will open the door for some people."


(Writing by Dan Williams; Editing by Andrew Heavens)


Scroll through the slideshow for more images from Miss Trans Israel 2016.

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What Losing All of My Hair Taught Me About Black Womanhood

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A month ago, I had one of the biggest scares of my life. As I was sitting in my room, getting ready for bed I had decided to take my hair out and piece by piece it began falling from my scalp, into my hands with ease. Handful after handful, I was losing my curls and gaining fear of the unknown. I had no idea what was happening nor why.

This wasn't dead hair or buildup from braids, I know what that looks like... but this was strand after strand of the healthy, curly locks I had been tending to for the past two years coming out in front of my eyes with no reasonable explanation why. As each minute, which seems like hours, passed by, I kept reassuring myself not to cry, holding back the tears as thoughts of chronic illness and death crossed my mind.

I should be strong, that's what I've always been taught. But in those moments, I felt powerless as the tears began to pour from my eyes.

After the initial shock died down, I had multiple doctor's appointments and blood tests to find out that before the age of 25, I had been diagnosed with Alopecia, an auto-immune disease that never goes away. The disease affects your hair leaving some people with bald spots, but in my case, a completely bald head. Despite what happened, I am grateful to be healthy and alive. I took it as a sign from the universe that this had happened so that I can reassess where I am in life and prioritize what really matters.

We know that the relationship between hair and black women is a very intimate one, but throughout this process, I've learned some very valuable lessons.

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Three weeks before "the incident"


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After the Shave


Allow Yourself Time To Heal

So often, when women of color face tragedy or hardship, we don't allow ourselves time to fully recover and reflect on what has happened to us or those that we love. We feel the need to consistently be strong for everyone else around us, to be the superheroes that the world needs. This situation put into perspective that we need to allow ourselves to be human too. We deserve to take our time, slow down and deal with our emotions.

Sometimes Hardships Happen to Teach Us A Lesson

Even though I've been diagnosed with something that will change my life forever, I've come to terms with it and learning how to live with it more and more each day. Everything happens to us for a reason, whether we're supposed to learn about ourselves through the situation or inspire others with our story. Hardships happen to allow us to reevaluate our lives and bring into focus what should really matters.

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Even When We Think We Have It Figured Out, See A Professional

Whether it's a mishap with our body or struggles with mental health, there has been a long running stigma with people of color and seeking help. We can't do it all on our own and sometimes, seeing a professional will benefit in many ways. Even if you think you know what's going on and you've Googled it endlessly, don't be afraid to ask for help from a professional. Although it might be terrifying, having that security once it's all over will allow you to feel better.


Your Beauty Radiates From the Inside Out

When you feel comfortable in your own skin, anything is possible. After losing all of my hair, a wave of insecurity passed over me for a few days. I was nervous about if I would still feel desirable, if others would view me differently, how would I explain what had happened... and then I had a realization. I slay no matter what.

When you're full of life and have confidence in who you are as an individual, tedious details like what hairstyle you have (or lack of hair) won't matter. After taking agency and shaving off the rest of the few strands that I had, I felt in control of the situation. Choosing not to hide behind masks and fully embrace who I am had allowed me to feel even more beautiful and ready to take on the world.

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No matter what situation you might be going through, the most important thing to remember is that you define your narrative. You have the power to take an unfortunate situation and to learn from it, coming out better than ever.

And also remember, like India Arie once said, you are not your hair. There is so much more to your intricate, beautiful self than what lies on your head.

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Amy Schumer Was Basically Aphrodite In Her Nude Photo For The Pirelli Calendar

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“If you’re an actress and you have this area right here, you have to write your own stuff if you want to get it made," Amy Schumer said in her Critics' Choice Award acceptance speech in January. The actress and comedian may not conform to Hollywood's cookie-cutter image of what's considered beautiful, but her body fits the Greek ideal. We have photographic proof.


Instagram user whitneyzombie posted a side-by-side comparison of Schumer's semi-nude portrait for the 2016 Pirelli calendar and a photo of a marble statue of Aphrodite. The resemblance between the Comedy Central star and the goddess of love is striking.




Many described the photo of Schumer, which was taken by famed photographer Annie Leibovitz, as "brave," which isn't exactly a compliment.


“That’s what you want everyone to say when a naked photo of you goes viral. You want them to say, ‘What a brave photo,’" Schumer also remarked during her acceptance speech at the Critic's Choice Awards. "You’re like, ‘Thanks, wow, thank you.’” 


The Instagram post from whitneyzombie shows that Schumer simply being herself is more beautiful than "brave." "What a wonderful resemblance between two beautiful women," the caption read. "So many women and young girls are shamed by the media and fashion industry for not having a flat stomach and not being a size zero. But look, the goddess of beauty is portrayed here with stomach rolls and doesn't have a perfectly smooth, toned body."


Whitney's post has received a lot of attention after Schumer tweeted it to her more than 4 million followers.






Schumer is more than capable of defeating her body-shaming trolls and calling out Hollywood's body image problem, but this is probably the best use of art history in pop culture ever. Plus, Aphrodite would totally approve of Schumer's love advice.






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Aging: To Fix or Not to Fix?

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No one can deny that we live in a culture that values youth and beauty. And it seems to be getting worse. Back when Marilyn Monroe was alive and famous, the curvy look was what women strove to look like. But now, it seems like it's "the skinnier the better!"

But it's not just striving for beauty that puts pressure on people. Aging is another aspect of our lives that is "looked down upon." The plastic surgery business is booming now more than ever, and it's all because we have bought in to the idea that "younger is better." Don't you wonder why? Sure, young skin looks beautiful. But why can't we re-evaluate our visions and re-program ourselves to think that wrinkles are also beautiful? Who's the one that said that wrinkled, sagging skin is bad?

I'm sure it goes back to biology. If someone is young (and beautiful), then they are more likely to have healthy babies. And subconsciously, people wanted to join their DNA with those kinds of people. But believe it or not, there were some cultures in ancient times that valued their elders. In fact, it was actually a good thing to be "old" because people recognized that you had wisdom that young people didn't. And people respected that. But it seems like that doesn't happen anymore.

I guess you could say that I'm "middle aged." I still think I'm 22, so admitting that is difficult for me! My mom is almost 80, and she still thinks she's 17, so I guess I come by it naturally. But even though I think I'm 22, I can't deny the fact that I'm not. I am slowly reaching the point where I am putting a lot of thought into anti-aging therapies and/or cosmetic ones.

I think there is a lot of stigma surrounding cosmetic procedures. It's almost like people think you are shallow for altering your face (or other parts of your body) in order to stay young and healthy-looking. I see their point. I really, really wish we lived in a world where we did look forward to getting wrinkles and saggy skin, but the reality is -- we don't. And just because I teach and write about issues such as this, it does not make me immune to how society has brainwashed me to want to look my best -- and youngest -- self.

I have done a lot of thinking about it. Why, if you have cosmetic things done, does it mean that you are shallow? Maybe it just means you want to look and feel your best! Again, is that cultural programming? Or just an innate desire to feel and look good? Either way, I think many people do want this. But honestly, I don't want to look 30 when I'm 80 (that's probably impossible anyway). But I wouldn't mind looking like Jane Fonda when I'm her age. She looks incredible! And even though she likely had "work done," she looks natural. And basically just she looks "really good for her age."

I got interested in all the possible cosmetic procedures a few years ago when one of my friends asked me to take her to her liposuction appointment. So, while waiting in the doctor's office, I perused the brochures they had laying around. I had no idea there were so many things that could be done that can preserve our youth! I thought the only thing you could do was have major plastic surgery. Boy, was I wrong.

So I started doing even more research about what was out there. And while I am certainly not encouraging or endorsing any of these procedures, I just thought you might find it interesting. I can't cover everything in this article, so I'm just going to report on the top things that I think I might consider in the future -- maybe.

1. Microdermabrasion or Chemical Peels.

From what I can gather, both of these procedures take off the top layers of the skin. The point is to diminish the lines and wrinkles in the face. They do it differently, however. I've seen pictures, and the results look good for both, but I don't know if I'd ever do it. Maybe, maybe not.

2. Teeth whitening or veneers.

I wish I had gotten braces as a kid. My teeth aren't really crooked, but I'd love to have them be more straight. And I would love to have them be whiter too. A couple of options to fix this would be teeth whitening or getting veneers. I'm not sure I'd do any of them, but at least I did learn a lot about the differences.

3. Mini-face lift.


Usually when we hear the word "face lift," we think major surgery that takes a really long time to recover from. But there is such a thing as a mini-face lift which seems a bit less daunting. Since my problem is (and will continue to be) sagging in the jowl area, I might think about this later in life.

4. Skin tightening.

Apparently, there are ways to tighten your skin beyond a face lift or a mini face lift. Dr. Oz provides some information about different ways you can do that. There are a bunch of different ways, so I don't know which is best. But I do know there are options.

I don't really know that much about these procedures, only what I learned in my research. So if you're thinking about doing something, do your own research and more importantly, talk to you doctor first.

I want to close with this. I don't know if I'll ever do any of these procedures. I might, I might not. But if I do, I'm going to be really clear about why I'm doing it. I don't want to be unrealistic or think that I'm doing it for the wrong reasons. Ultimately, it's all our individual choice. Aging isn't easy, but at least we're all in it together!

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