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What No One Tells You About Going Platinum

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Photos: Courtesy of Hairstory Studio .

Last month, I made the decision to go blond as a way to untether my identity from my hair. I also did it because I was sick of my single status dictating the way I looked.


Once I booked the appointment, though, the panic set in. Did I make the right decision? Would my hair fall out? What if I turned into a hideously ugly beast? These fears were further heightened when my original colorist wasn't available for the double-process. At the last minute, I was ushered into the warm and welcoming hands of the team over at Hairstory Studio in New York City -- specifically colorist and mega-babe Roxie Darling.


Roxie put me at ease. "It will change your life because you will be received so much differently," she says. "People's eyes are naturally drawn to light, and naturally drawn away from darkness." Basically, I was about to become Daenerys Targaryen. Bring it on.


So, on the morning of May 18, I took one last selfie as a brunette, grabbed a coffee, and headed over to Hairstory for my transformation. Ahead, see what the experience of going blond was like. And if you have any questions, please leave them below! I'll be answering them in the comments and in an upcoming story.

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Before

Here it is: my final image as a brunette. (If I look extra tired, it's because it was early AF and I was only one coffee in.) I arrived at Hairstory at 9 a.m. for a long day, and Roxie gave me a pep talk on the change I was about to undergo. "Going blond is a commitment to change," she says. "It's important to know going into it that dramatically changing your color is life-changing. As a platinum blonde, you become a beacon. People's eyes are drawn to light, so you can expect people to be more attracted to you." I was excited to update the photos on my Bumble profile after hearing that.

Heeding Roxie's advice, I hadn't washed my hair for a few days to allow the oils to build up on my scalp, which would help keep the bleach from burning. She also suggested I start using Hairstory's New Wash on a regular basis. It's formulated with essential oils, so it would hydrate my scalp and hair similarly to my natural oils.

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Start Your Engines

After our chat, Roxie (pictured here) and her assistant got to work sectioning my hair. To ensure none of my hair over-processed -- painting on the bleach takes a while -- they split it into two zones, one in the front and one in the back. "Application takes about an hour and a half, depending on if one or two people are working on you," Roxie says.


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Painting On The Bleach

The first section was done processing just as Roxie painted the last section. The sectioning made it possible for her to wash out the bleach on the back of my head without disturbing the bleach on the front.

The time actually passed quickly. While my hair became progressively blonder, Roxie and I chatted, I Snapchatted like a maniac, and I checked some emails. I didn't expect my hair with the bleach to be so heavy. I kept having to ask Roxie and her assistant to push the bleach off my forehead and away from my brows. I wanted to keep my brows dark!

Full disclosure: Bleach doesn't burn as badly as I was expecting (although it's more than a tickle). To be safe, I had taken three Advil the morning of my process to help mitigate any pain, and I'm sure that helped a bit.

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Halfway There

While the bleach cooked, it also foamed, making me look like a Lego person. In this photo, the back of my hair is bleached and awaiting toning. The front is still processing.

Once my entire hair was bleached, Roxie worked New Wash from root to tip and let it sit while we ate lunch. (We were about four hours into the process at this point.) Unlike many other colorists, Roxie doesn't use Olaplex -- a product that rebuilds the bonds of your hair with protein while it's being bleached.

"I'm personally a fan of using essential oils to balance the cuticle as opposed to proteins," she says. "I like New Wash because it's completely detergent-free and essential-oil-based. It has a lot of rose oil, which has a similar pH to the hair and scalp." Instead of depositing protein onto your hair like Olaplex, New Wash mimics your strands' natural protective process by reconditioning the hair shaft with essential oils.

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Time To Tone

After I sat with the New Wash for about 45 minutes, Roxie applied a toner -- the second part of the double-process. "This is where it's important to have a colorist who can really evaluate your coloring and choose the best shade of blond for you," she says. "The toner manipulates the color of the blond to suit your skin tone and hair texture." We landed on an icy, platinum wheat-blond that got a little darker around my roots.

Once my color was done, hairstylist Wes Sharpton gave me a quick cut, and I was ready for my close-up. The entire process took about six hours. And even though not a drop of Olaplex touched my strands, I was shocked at how soft they felt.

Before I left, Roxie and I talked upkeep. "After your initial bleach job, give your hair about three to seven days without washing to replenish its natural oils," she says. "If you're going to maintain the blond, plan on seeing your colorist for a touch-up every four to six weeks."

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Hey There, Blondie

It's been about two weeks since I went blond, and I am loving the change. My hair has lightened a touch, and I now have some dark roots, but I'm really digging where it's taken my look. I got a second haircut from Wes that accentuates my natural texture. I've also been experimenting with a ton of new products. (And I already have some favorites -- story coming soon!)


Makeup-wise, I've been sticking to my classic cat-eye. But I have had to change up my lipstick shades. Instead of bright-reds, I opt for deep, brick hues. (I've found true reds bring out the pink in my skin, whereas darker tones downplay them more effectively.) I'm fully leaning into the '90s look, wearing all manner of browns and plums.

Roxie was right when she said going blond was life-changing -- but it's been a really fun experience. "I think it's an interesting social experiment to change your hair and see how that personal change reverberates through other areas of your life," she says. "If it's something that you think you would never do, just try it. You never know. It could be the best thing that you ever do."

By: Maria Del Russo

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10 All-Natural Ways To Deal With Your Acne

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What won't we try to get a clear complexion, right? And while it's always best to see your doctor or dermatologist first for a professional recommendation, there are some drug-free, straight-from-the-Earth options out there, too. Natural ingredients aren't necessarily always better than products created in a lab, but they can have many beneficial properties and fewer irritants so they're definitely worth checking out -- especially if nothing else seems to be working for you.

Plants and spices have been used in skin care for centuries, and many of them are ideal for calming inflammation, killing bacteria, unclogging pores -- all things acne-prone skin needs desperately. As an added bonus, you can find a lot of these in their purest forms in your local health-food store, which makes them more affordable than other top-shelf beauty products. To help get you started, we rounded up 10 of the most common natural acne-eradicators. They may not be miracle cures (we wish it were as easy as dipping our face into a sink full of tea-tree oil), but they can help make your journey to clear skin that much easier.

Whether you simply keep these ingredients in mind the next time you're on a Sephora shopping spree, or you decide to head to the local food co-op and get crafty with essential oils, these are the plants, waters, spices, and herbs to turn to when there are zits a-brewing.

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Witch Hazel

Witch hazel is a natural astringent. It cleans gunk out of your pores and kills the bacteria that causes acne. Witch hazel is best for those who have extremely oily skin; if you have dry or normal skin, you may find it too dehydrating. It's easy to find at health-food stores, grocery stores, or online; just be sure to look for a formula that is alcohol-free, since alcohol will contribute to drying out your skin.

Thayers Witch Hazel Aloe Vera Formula Cucumber Alcohol-Free Toner, $9.49, available at Drugstore.com.


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Tea-Tree Oil

The antibacterial properties in tea-tree oil make it ideal for controlling acne. It can disinfect pores and moderate oil production. You can find tea-tree oil online or in health-food stores, but beware of using it undiluted on your face, especially if you have sensitive skin, as it could cause irritation. You might be better off buying a product that already has the ideal formulation of tea-tree oil in it. If you have your heart set on going the DIY route, you could dilute your TTO by combining it with another beneficial skin-care ingredient, such as jojoba oil or aloe vera.

The Body Shop Tea Tree Oil, $10, available at The Body Shop.

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Turmeric

Turmeric can be helpful for soothing acne because of its anti-inflammatory properties. It can also help to control sebum production, in addition to calming redness. This cheapie cream is impressive at completely erasing redness caused by inflammation, rosacea, and irritation.

Vicco Turmeric Skin Cream, $5.74, available at Amazon.

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Evening Primrose Oil

If you've noticed that you get a flare-up of hormonal acne before your period, try taking evening primrose oil capsules. It contains gamma-linolenic acid, which has anti-inflammatory properties that can help with acne. You can also benefit from putting this oil directly on your face, since it's hydrating and calming.

Now Solutions Evening Primrose Oil, $12.99, available at iHerb.

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Vitamins C & E

If you're going to stock up on vitamins to fight acne, your best bets would be C and E. Not only does vitamin C have the ability to reduce redness in the skin, but it also regulates the body's production of collagen, which is necessary for controlling acne. Combine it with vitamin E, an antioxidant, for a powerful skin-clearing duo. Vitamin E can also be effective when absorbed topically, so be sure to look for it as an ingredient in your skin-care products.

Neal's Yard Remedies Vitamin C Boost With Wild Rosehip, $21.50, available at Neal's Yard Remedies.

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Apple-Cider Vinegar

Although many people drink apple-cider vinegar for various health reasons, you're better off putting it on your face if you want it to be effective for treating acne. It has strong antibacterial properties, making it ideal for fighting breakouts. Dilute it with water and then swipe it on your face, leaving it on like a toner for the best results.

Bragg Organic Apple Cider Vinegar, $5.49, available at The Vitamin Shoppe.

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Clay

There's a reason clay masks are so popular: Clay is effective when it comes to tightening pores and drying out zits. You can find a clay mask like this cult favorite or even make your own by combining bentonite clay with honey, apple-cider vinegar, aloe vera, or jojoba oil.

Aztec Secret Indian Healing Clay Mask, $9.72, available at Amazon.

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Green Tea

Green tea is rich in antioxidants and helps to reduce inflammation and redness as well as oil production. And using it can be as simple as making green tea at home and applying it to your face (after it's had a chance to cool down, of course). But there are also plenty of skin-care products that contain green-tea extract. This powder mask from indie brand Plant Brooklyn uses matcha green tea and chamomile for a double whammy of soothing redness relief.

Plant Apothecary Matcha Antioxidant Face Mask, $24, available at Plant Apothecary.

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Sulfur

Okay, so sulfur isn't the most fragrant of natural ingredients. But if you can get past that nose-wrinkling rotten-egg smell, you'll be glad you did -- its antibacterial properties are legendary. You may be surprised at how many brands offer products that are rich in sulfur. This mask by Peter Thomas Roth has 10% sulfur, making it super-powerful (and smelly). Aloe and clay ingredients work to enhance those pore-clearing powers.

Peter Thomas Roth Therapeutic Sulfur Masque, $47, available at Sephora.

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Aloe Vera

Consider how soothing aloe vera is when used on fried-to-a-crisp sunburned skin. It's similarly calming when used on angry, red breakouts, as it helps to reduce inflammation. For the best results, be sure to look for pure, undiluted aloe vera extract -- you can find it online or in health-food stores and drugstores. Or pick up an aloe plant and just break off the leaves to get that clear, cooling substance fresh from the source.

Aubrey Organics Pure Aloe Vera, $7.57, available at iHerb.


By: Kelly Dougher

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Marlo Thomas On Sex And Why She No Longer Worries About Aging

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In the 1960s, Marlo Thomas broke the mold with her forward-thinking TV series "That Girl" in which she played a career-minded single woman attempting to make it on her own in New York City.


She's been inspiring women ever since. In 2014, President Obama awarded Thomas the Presidential Medal of Freedom, the nation's highest civilian honor, not only for her "trailblazing career," but for her tireless work as national outreach director for St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.


On Tuesday afternoon, the 78-year-old author, actress, producer and social activist talked about a few other topics near and dear to her heart -- sex, aging, and the rapidly changing times.


"What a great world girls today are growing up in. A woman is running for president. Barbara Walters just retired at 84. Angela Merkel is running a country at 61," she said. "When I was producer of my show in 1966, I was the only woman in every room I was in and I felt that every man either wanted to kill me or sleep with me. Probably a little of both."


Speaking at "50 Over 50," a luncheon sponsored by "Good Housekeeping" to honor inspiring women over 50, Thomas also shared her thoughts about aging.


"I don't bungee jump but I didn't do that at 18 so I don't feel deprived in any way at all," she said. "I am surprised when I think about my age because I feel exactly the way I always have."


So what keeps her so youthful and fit?


"I do get a facial once a week. I use oil on my skin. Oil is the best. I exercise five times a week. And I have a motto. I think everyone needs a motto," she said. "Mine is 'never face the facts.' There is no reason to get up in the morning if you think about the facts. They are against you.


"People will tell you that you can't do something at your age, but don't listen to them and don't listen to the facts," she added. "I believe in motion. Do one thing every day that gets you closer to your dream, even if it's just one very small thing."


Married since 1980 to daytime TV talk show host Phil Donahue, she revealed her recipe for a successful marriage.


"Sex, of course, is important. But what really adds to a good sex life is listening to your spouse so that they feel listened to ... and good about themselves," she said. "I was always offering my husband advice and after about 10 years, he finally said to me, 'I don't want you to tell me what to do, I just want you to listen.'"


Thomas said that if you really do listen, the more intimate you become with your partner.


Sex will improve "the more inside each other's head you get," she said.


Finally, she urged the younger women in the audience not to worry about growing older.


"What I am learning is that it is getting easier to be older. Why? Because I've done it all before. My work, my marriage, my friendships," she said. "I don't have the same anxieties I had when I was young because by now I have done it all and I'm just having fun."

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American Apparel Wants To 'Make America Gay Again' With New Line

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Putting a tongue-in-cheek twist on Donald Trump's favorite catchphrase, American Apparel wants to make America gay again... with a colorful LGBT Pride Month line


The Los Angeles-based clothing retailer on Monday introduced new T-shirts, tank tops and baseball caps emblazoned with the words "Make America Gay Again." The items are available both on American Appeal's website and in stores across the country. The line was produced in a partnership with the Human Rights Campaign and the Ally Coalition, which is co-founded by singer-songwriter Jack Antonoff and his sister, Rachel Antonoff, who is a fashion designer.



To promote the release of the line, the Antonoffs appeared in a quirky YouTube video, which can be viewed above, explaining their support for the LGBT community. 


Jon Henry Szymanski, who is American Apparel's director of co-branding and philanthropy, told The Huffington Post that his company was "thrilled" with the collaboration. 



Pointing to the company's history of inclusive products, he said, "It baffles us that nearly a decade later we are still using our voice to advocate for basic rights. But until that day comes, we will continue making limited edition shirts to promote equality!"


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Freddie Prinze Jr. Tries To Recreate 'She's All That' Hacky Sack Scene

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"Sooner or later, it has to drop." 


Those were the iconic words uttered by Freddie Prinze Jr. during his infamous hacky sack scene in 1999's "She's All That." How could you forget it? While attempting to win a bet by wooing the "unattractive girl" in school, Laney Boggs (Rachael Leigh Cook), "popular guy" Zack Siler (Prinze Jr.) attends a theater lounge with Laney and improvises a hacky sack monologue, per se, in order to impress her. 


It's a weird scene that was oddly enough written by M. Night Shyamalan, who was involved in re-writing part of the teen rom-com's script. (R. Lee Fleming Jr. is the credited screenwriter.)


"It made no sense to me whatsoever. But now, in terms of the hacky sack scene? Pretty much the same as 'Signs.' It's amazing," Cook told The Daily Beast of Shyamalan's involvement in the project during a 2014 interview. 







As for what Prinze Jr. thought of the scene, he told The Daily Beast that he wanted to keep it "organic," but he wasn't good enough at hacky-sacking to carry the entire sequence. When asked to attempt the routine on AOL Build Tuesday (as seen above), Prinze Jr. told The Huffington Post that he would try his best. 


"So, here's the story. The first two hits, maybe four, that's me. The rest of them was a guy that's like 6-foot-5, a professional hacky-sacker, his name's Ryan -- I'm sorry I don't remember his last name, I'm 40 now -- and he's way better at hacky sack than me, but I'll give it a shot."


Prinze Jr. lasted two reps before he "let it drop." Still, the actor indulged in the footbag fun, and for that, we're grateful. 


Make sure to pick up a copy of Freddie Prinze Jr.'s new cookbook, Back to the Kitchen, on sale now. 

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Do Millennials Want Relationships?

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Sometimes in life, we need Prince Charming to come to the rescue, and sometimes all we need is a little bit of faith. And no matter what your religious, sexual, political, or health obligation or criteria is, sometimes all we just need is a dose of love, which is bound to make any situation right. But where you go to search for love, and the intentions you seek out vary on you, and just what exactly you may be looking for at the moment.
You see, it is not everyday that you stumble through the streets of New York City slightly intoxicated, or call on a taxi to bring you to yet another destination be it a bar, club, house party, or after-hours, that probably should be your home. Yet you stumble with the hopes and intentions, of what you just so eagerly came out to look for. Either a fun night out be it, or the party you've been searching for a lifetime. And its in that fleeting moment as you cross-cross through the labyrinth we call the "grid" of NYC that you come to realize that the city is not going anywhere. In fact, you are.

Maze after maze, block after block, you swoop, sway, cross, and dodge traffic, people, buildings, and pets alike. Perhaps you have already had a few too many and perhaps you will continue to have a few too many more tonight, but in reality this is what you came for. In a time where millennials are currently dominating the better portion of the United States population and rapidly changing the overall attitude, customs, and traditions; the way in which we network, date, and talk to people is changing as well.

Gone are the days when you meet up with friends at happy hour to catch up with what is going on in each others lives, and KiKi about everything that has happened since you saw each other last. Our cell phones have given us the ability to remain constantly connected with our family, friends, exes, loved ones, enemies, or work-mates through the endless plethora of social networking that exists whether it is texting, emailing, social media apps, blogging websites, and the actual phone feature on your phone itself, which often seems to get swept under the rug. Gone are the days of snail-mail, phone conversations that cost ten cents a minute, and payphones.

Even talking to random strangers in bars that you may think are cute, or may have seen around and have a crush on has become replaced with taking out your phone, swiping left or right, and anxiously waiting for their immediate response only to wonder why you even swiped right to begin with after a match is made. Nervous conversations with a boy or girl you like is hidden behind the facade of keystrokes, and anxiety is subdued. Flirty, cute in-person conversations are replaced with asking for more pics, asking if someone is DTF (as romantic as it sounds), or perhaps even asking someones sexual preferences and tendencies. All of which would probably never have been asked if the encounter had actually happened in person.

And this is all because we are the generation of now. We want everything faster than it can be given to us, and we just can not fathom or comprehend certain things like why certain shops are not open twenty-four hours, why business hours are a thing, and why we can not get our Starbucks Coffee immediately and pay from our iPhone. When every little mishap is an inconvenience to us, we struggle to realize the greater problems that haunt the world, and as sad as it is, if it does not have a direct impact on us, we tend not to care, or turn a blind eye.

But can anyone blame us? We grew up in a time where technology changed extremely fast, civil rights were pretty solidly established (throughout most if not all first-world countries), and the general idea was that our generation should have a better life than our parents generation. We were taught that things were never really our fault, and then you wonder why we can not take the blame for anything. We were taught that even if we lost or came in last place, that we were still winners and then you wonder why we never strive to be the best or are missing motivation, when we can all win. We were taught that education was one of the most important virtues and no one should be provided a sub-optimal education, and the result is our generation being $1 trillion in student debt. We were taught not to bash one another, yell at, and to not say anything that is not nice, yet when you have to give us constructive criticism versus yelling at us you yourselves are surprised.

We are a generation that grew up with the microwave, freezers, endless grocery store aisles all filled with the same genetically modified or processed foods made by the same few corporations, fast-food restaurants on every corner, and perhaps the worst; the drive-thru. And even though obesity sweeps our nation throughout every generation, we have yet to make solid changes in reforming the products in our supermarkets or changing the subprime food quality sold at these fast food restaurants. Instead we are concerned with greater world issues, such as when the next iPhone release will be, if you are wearing the latest hottest brands, or if you're driving the nicest car all of your friends will be jealous of.

So we resort to dating just the way we know how to do it; through online means. Whether you choose OkCupid, Match.com, Grindr, Tinder, Blendr, Zoosk, eHarmony or an ungodly multitude of them, we are all hoping to find love within a generation that does not necessarily want love in the conventional sense. And after a while, site after site, it all starts to become the same. The same people, the same conversations, and the same witty banter. You feel like you are having endless moments of deja vu, and are trapped in a web of endless conversations with people you have not even met before. You hope that based off of a few pictures that this individual has decided to share with you, that you have found your soul mate.

But as millennials, are we really looking for our soul mate, or just the idea of one? We want someone to have to talk too, share moments with, come to family parties, weddings, and funerals with us, to share the holidays with, to Instagram cute pictures of the two of you holding hands together on some beach in the Phi Phi Islands, and a cuddle-buddy. But we do not want the messiness, sloppiness, negatives that come with it as well. We want to only see the positives, and live in a shallow world where relationships are fun and easy and nothing bad can happen. Even if it is with the idea that when times get tough, we can always run, as messed up as it us.

So in the end we just keep trudging through the endless abyss of modern-day warfare we call our home-life, work, and daily routines. Day in and day out we search for something or someone who will complete us, when in reality we should be searching for some one that enhances us. Someone that helps to bring out the positives in one another, and are interested in each others activities and hobbies. But in the meantime we continue to use social media apps, dating websites, missed connections pages, and whatever other online means we can discover. Gone are the days of going out to meet people and have real-life conversations with some one and actually getting to know them for who they are. And sadly gone are the days of liking someone for their personality or charm, rather than liking them based solely on their looks.

Call me old-fashioned but I'll still be out on the weekends at restaurants, happy-hours, bars, and clubs with my girlfriends having fun and searching for my Prince Charming in the meantime. As for now, lets follow each others lifestyles on Instagram: @theNYCwanderer. Until next time my kittens, XoXo.

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This 64-Year-Old Woman Found A Natural Alternative To A Facelift And Fillers

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Nora Ephron was 65 when she felt bad about her neck. At 64, I feel bad about my elbows. It is nature's gift that I don't have to look at them. But you do, so let me apologize in advance. Maybe that's why we are invisible. We are a walking advertisement for the inevitable pull of gravity and today's youth clearly would rather not be reminded. Assisted suicide franchises for people over 50 will spring up replacing plastic surgery as the only alternative to aging. Who has the money? Even with all the over-65 perks, who wants the perks? I have a friend with a Senior MetroCard who keeps her full price "vanity" card handy so she wont be forced to suffer the slings and arrows of her coworkers discovering her well-guarded secret. If you can't afford a facelift or fillers I have the cheapest alternative around. It's called Warby Parkers and bangs. Aging gracefully is a bore and the term "age appropriate" gives me hives. Fashion should be age neutral -- not age appropriate. I want to make some noise, break boundaries, have a cocktail ... maybe two.

CNN recently wrote an exposé about how the modeling industry exploits young workers but nothing about older models. A stunning silver-haired model, who shall remain nameless, recently shared her own story of exploitation in the industry with me. While on a fashion shoot for a high profile billion-dollar company she was asked to work double the amount of hours of the other models who were half her age. Why, she asked indignantly? The answer was that she sold double the amount of clothes and they needed more shots. She also discovered she was being paid half the amount of her younger counterparts. Ageism at its finest.

When I was in my mid 20s I had a boyfriend who told me I needed to start exercising in order to keep my body in shape. Like the late bloomer I am, 40 years later I took his advice. I snuck onto the information highway where The Refinery29 plank challenge beckoned. Now I never leave home without it. Three minutes of blissful purgatory. Keep your bod together and who's going to notice your neck?

As people around me are retiring, dying or even worse, leaving New York, I wonder, who am I and where am I going? At 64 I'm not ready to retire or die or even worse, leave New York. So I guess I go on discovering, growing and doing my three-minute plank every day. Maybe I'll just go outside and walk around naked. I'm sure to get noticed. And try to figure out what to do with my hair, while sipping a cocktail, of course.

Photo Credit: Leland Bobbé

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49 'Hamilton'-Themed Baby Products For Parents Who Love Broadway

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The Tony Awards are fast approaching, and the enthusiasm surrounding Hamilton remains fervent. The musical sensation is nominated for 16 awards, and die-hard fans are gunning for as many wins as possible. 


From White House performances to Grammy showstoppers, the spread of Hamilton mania is "non-stop" -- even finding fans in new parents. To help moms and dads show their love for the Broadway smash (beyond the lullabies and baby names), we've scoured the internet for Hamilton-themed onesies, nursery décor and more. 


Here are 49 baby products that celebrate A-dot-Ham, A-dot-Burr and the rest of the revolutionary gang. These items are fit for the best of babies and best of toddlers.


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Prom Has Changed A Lot Since You Went. Lily Rose Depp Is Proof.

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While you're looking back at prom photos thinking, "What was I thinking?" like Rachel and Monica from "Friends," Lily-Rose Depp attended her prom in a timeless gown more fit for an awards show than a high school dance.


Depp attended prom in Los Angeles on Sunday alongside Harley Quinn Smith, the daughter of director Kevin Smith, with whom she co-stars in his new movie "Yoga Hosers." The doting dad was on hand for pre-prom festivities and, lucky for us, he shared a photo of the two lovely ladies all dressed up and ready to go:




Quinn looked a little more like a teenager in a sleeveless black gown that gathered in front, which she wore with a gold clutch. Depp, who left her hoodie at home but brought her keen modeling chops, wore a nude slip dress that appeared to be crushed velvet.


The one giveaway that this was prom and not a big Hollywood event? Depp dutifully held her cell phone in her hand. "All the better to snapchat with," she probably thought.


Kind of puts your big, pouffy gown to shame, eh?

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How A Pair Of Lost Glasses Led To The Creation Of Warby Parker

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Not many people can say they've started a company that has revolutionized an entire industry. And even fewer people can say their company has a $1.2 billion dollar valuation. But then again, the founders of Warby Parker aren't just anybody. 


The eyewear company was created by Neil Blumenthal, Andrew Hunt, Dave Gilboa and Jeffrey Raider, who met at Wharton Business School. And since its creation in 2010, Warby Parker has transformed the glasses industry. Warby designs all glasses in-house, sells direct-to-consumer to avoid retail markups and offers at-home try-on services free of charge. And if that wasn't enough, for every pair of frames sold, one pair is distributed to someone in need. 


We chatted with Gilboa and Blumenthal, the two co-founders who are still involved in day-to-day operations, to find out how this genius idea came to be, what they have to say to copycats and how they are basically taking over the world eyewear industry:



On the problem they were solving for:


Dave Gilboa: The biggest problem was that glasses were needlessly expensive and it didn't make sense to us. We started off, with our two co-founders, really solving our own problems. We each had a frustrating experiencing, or we lost a pair of glasses or broke a pair of glasses and just couldn't understand why they cost several hundred dollars. This technology has been around 800 years and just doesn't make sense -- that was the main pain point that brought us all together. We were classmates at Wharton, getting our MBAs. We were friends first and I had been traveling before business school and I had lost my $700 pair of glasses. I didn't have glasses on campus and we got together in the computer lab and were talking about it. Neil [Blumenthal] had spent five years running this great non-profit called VisionSpring where they were producing glasses for people in the developing world and knew that there was nothing in the cost of materials that justified the high prices, so that was an initial spark for the business idea. 


On how business school was instrumental to the launch of Warby Parker:


Neil Blumenthal: One of the best classes we took was called "The Legal Aspects of Entrepreneurship" that was taught by two attorneys, and it was basically teaching you how everyone else can screw you when you're starting a business. How landlords screw you when you're signing a lease, so how to read a lease properly. How investors screw you when you're raising money, so how to read a term sheet. How employees can screw you, so a little bit about employment law, so just enough to be dangerous ... 


DG: Every day we were sitting in class and scribbling down, "OK we're doing these few things wrong" or "We could get sued for this and that." 



On a major misconception about entrepreneurs:


NB: There is this false methodology that founders or designers have to take these giant risks to be successful and that's what separates entrepreneurs from the rest of the population -- that they are crazy risk takers. Whereas, in reality, entrepreneurs are just like everyone else, they might just be better at managing risk. So what I mean by that, since we were full-time students we were already forgoing a salary, so it wasn't like we had to quit our jobs to start the business. And then every step of the way we would figure out, what do we need to know to feel confident to invest more time and money into the idea, so even take Apple for example. Wozniak didn't leave HP for a year and a half after founding Apple. There is this thought process that you quit your job, you put your life savings into this business and it takes off, it's just not true. We were very methodical. For example, we met with 40 different PR freelancers and firms before selecting the first person that we wanted to work with. Designing our first collection was meticulous, we culled it down to 27 shapes and roughly three colors. We launched with just acetate frames with single vision lenses. And then a year later we introduced sunwear and prescription sunwear, and a year after that we introduced titanium and mixed material frames, and a year after that we introduced progressive lenses. The whole process has been a process of de-risking. 


On how they feel about copycats:


DG: I think it depends. We have had a lot of copycats within the eyewear space and, especially initially, we had a pretty strong emotional reaction where we had been pouring our heart and soul and our life savings, every waking hour, into launching this business and then people were just blatantly copying what we were doing. We quickly realized that none of those companies were really impacting our business at all. The world is so connected today that there is transparency in every aspect of business and authenticity wins and no one wants to write about or talk about or wear something that really isn't authentic or that is a clear copy of someone else. Now we still see copycats pop up, but most of the copycats in the eyewear space have already gone out of business. None of them have scaled and we realized that it's not something that needs to illicit a reaction. In terms of other categories, there have been some articles, I think there was a Fast Company article called Why Your Company Is Not The Warby Parker of X


NB: I think that what makes Warby Parker special is [that it provides] great design and premium materials and construction for a fraction of what it would usually cost. So you have this industry dynamic where there are a few very large companies who have been over charging consumers for decades and you bring in a brand that is socially conscious, that designs beautiful product and by working directly with customers, brings down the price. If more people do that, in different industries, that's the best thing in the world. And that's actually what motivates us. We want to build a great brand that can scale, that's profitable, that does good in the world, without charging a premium for that and if we can do that, hopefully we can inspire other entrepreneurs and executives to run their businesses in a similar manner. 



On why they have their employees rate their happiness on a scale from one to 10 every week:


NB: It's more to provoke conversations between managers and direct reports to understand, "Hey this was a rough week, why was it rough?" Or, "What could we have done differently?" It's to help employees become more self-aware and to help managers and direct-reports work together more effectively. I would say the more important thing that we do, twice a year we do an anonymous employee engagement survey and we have a 99 percent participation rate and it's completely anonymous and it helps us really evaluate how we're doing. [Why] is Warby Parker an awesome place to work, what are things that we can be doing better to have our employees be more engaged? We spend a lot of time dissecting this survey and then there ends up being a lot of work coming out of it: How can we communicate better? How can we collaborate better? So we apply the same rigor as we do to something like financial performance as we do to employee engagement. 


On the advice they would give their younger selves:


DG: I think we found that so much about starting a business can't be learned from previous experiences -- you just have to trust your gut, find a real problem that you're passionate about and you can do that whether you're in college or twenty years into your career -- there is never an optimal time. You never know enough.


NB: I wish that I spent more time understanding what people do. So what is a management consultant, what do they do? What is a data scientist, what do they do day-to-day? What does someone who works in production do? What does a designer do? And really understand what the day-to-day work is. 


DG: I also tell myself, I wish I learned how to code. 


This interview has been edited and condensed for clarity. 


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27 Brides Who Weren't Afraid To Bring The 'Wow' Factor

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Brides can rock a simple dress, a skirt, or a suit and look absolutely ravishing. 


But for ladies who want to make a more dramatic statement with their wedding attire, an out-of-the-ordinary gown is the way to go. Whether it's a bold color choice, exquisite detailing or the sheer size of the garment, the 27 dresses below make quite the impression. 


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Kanye West's Style Evolution Reveals He Was Prince Of Pastels

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Kanye West's preference for monochromatic clothing has become his signature in recent years. Whether in a fancy tux or dressed down in sweats, West seems to have a strict neutrals policy in place -- especially when he's out with his wife, Kim Kardashian-West.


But as any real Yeezy fan can tell you, it hasn't always been this way.


Long before the days of couples coordinating, there were polos, blazers, red carpet sunglasses and an everlasting love of ripped denim. GQ's Most Stylish Man of 2015 and Vogue's pick for best-dressed at the 2016 Met Gala has evolved sartorially just as much as musically over the years. 


In honor of the dapper dude's 39th birthday, let's take a walk down memory lane, shall we?


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Kylie Jenner's Black Lip Kit Color Is Not For The Faint Of Heart

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Hold on to your makeup bags, people. Kylie Jenner has released photos of yet another new shade for her cult-followedsometimes controversial lip kit collection.


The teen mogul surprised fans Tuesday when she revealed the newest color is a rich, matte black, aptly named "Dead of Knight."




Devoted Kyliephiles had been waiting with bated breath for the release of KyMajesty, a shade Jenner teased two weeks ago that appears to be a deep metallic navy



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But Jenner said she decided to release the darker option first. In a slew of Instagram posts, she showed off the new hue, which she said came as a result fan requests.


"When I asked what lip kit you would love to see next for Kylie Cosmetics the majority of you surprisingly said BLACK!" she wrote.



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She also shared what appears to be a throwback image with beloved family makeup artist Joyce Bonelli, both of them wearing a black lip.


"Back when I only dreamed of having my own makeup line," she captioned the photo. "16-year-old me would be so proud." 


 




The new bold new shade, which we can only imagine is Taylor Swift-approved, will be available for purchase on Friday.

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You're Probably Going To Throw Away 81 Pounds Of Clothing This Year

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It’s about that season when we strip our closets of its sweaters and jackets, and clog up landfills with all that winter gear.


A new survey found that the average American will toss out 81 pounds of clothing this year. That amounts to 26 billion pounds of textiles and clothes ending up in landfills -- but it doesn’t have to.


Savers, a global thrift retailer, surveyed about 3,000 adults in Canada and the U.S. to get a better sense of how people discard and reuse clothing.


The group found that people often don’t know that nonprofits and thrift stores could actually use their old duds or they just don’t want to be bothered with hauling their discard pile to a donation center.



One in three people who didn’t donate said it was “easier” to throw things out. Of those respondents, 54 percent said they didn’t think anyone would take their used stuff.


Turns out, plenty of organizations will gladly take last season’s items. In fact, giving clothing away is actually even better than recycling in this case.


While contributing old sneakers to a project that uses soles to build a new track can feel rewarding, it’s not the greenest option. It still requires water and energy to recombine the ingredients into something new, Savers pointed out.


There’s also a major economic factor at play.


Goods that were not recycled or reused translate into about an $88 billion loss. That’s due to a loss in value and resources that went into making them.



On the other hand, contributing to the secondhand industry, helps to infuse money into the economy. The industry employs nearly 100,000 workers and creates $1 billion in wages in the U.S. alone.


By extending the life cycle of secondhand clothing, the reuse industry employs nearly 100,000 workers and creates
 $1 billion in wages in the U.S. alone.


There are numerous organizations that accept used clothing and some are even willing to do the heavy lifting, as the case is with the Pass the Bag project.


Schoola, a donation program, partnered with the Malala Fund, the group that provides education for girls, to make it super easy for people to donate clothes.


The project sends bags to donors, with prepaid postage, to fill up and send back. Schoola sells the clothes and donates the proceeds to the Malala Fund.


As of January, it had raised more than $103,000 for the educational organization, according to TakePart.


“In the circular economy, everybody wins," the survey added, "and the Earth doesn’t get trashed."

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The Right Nose for the Face, or Adventures in Rhinoplasty

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Rhinoplasty, commonly known as a "nose job," is not just a 20th-century cosmetic procedure. In fact, the earliest rhinoplasty was recorded in ancient India, by an Ayurvedic physician Sushruta (c800 BC), who described the necessity for reconstruction of the nose due to the mutilation of a criminal's face, religious, political or military punishment.

From the rudimentary beginnings, Rhinoplasty has evolved from strictly a repair procedure, which was perfected by an English physician, Joseph Constantine Carpue. His technique is now referred to as "Carpue's Operation." It involved using a flap of skin taken from the forehead and placed over the nose to reshape or repair damaged cartilage.

Changes in Rhinoplasty Procedures

Today, centuries later, there are multiple surgical techniques that can repair breathing or damage as well as perfect the aesthetics of the nose. Particular attention is being paid to the ethnicity of the patient. "I custom design each nose for each face. For example, a scooped nose would not look natural on a Middle Eastern male and even some females. Latinos can sometimes have thicker nasal skin, which makes it important to do certain tip maneuvers specific to these patients" says Dr. Richard Zoumalan, a double board certified facial plastic surgeon in Beverly Hills.

Plastic or cosmetic surgery, in general, has enjoyed a larger field of acceptance for women as well as men. Overall, 15.6 million cosmetic procedures, including both minimally-invasive and surgical, were performed in the United States in 2014, an increase of 3 percent since 2013, according to the American Society of Plastic Surgeons (ASPS).

Of the various procedures performed, rhinoplasty has led the list. In their 2015 survey, the American Academy of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery (AAFPRS) showed that rhinoplasty is the most requested surgical procedure, followed by Blepharoplasty (eyelid surgery) and facelifts.

It's all in the details

For cosmetic procedures, just straightening a crooked nose or narrowing the sides is not enough. There is much more to reshaping the nose that a plastic surgeon must take into account. In addition to the physical and aesthetic point of view, surgeons want to be sure the patient is realistic about what the changes will mean to them beyond altering their features.

A helpful tool in this regard is the advent of a 3-Dimensional imaging device. The 3-D camera allows the patient and the surgeon to see what various noses will look like on the patient. They can "try on various options such as a smoother slope, narrow tip and smaller or wider nostrils before undergoing the knife.

Surgical planning


As the number one requested cosmetic procedures, rhinoplasty is considered the most challenging. Over time, a myriad number of surgical approaches to artistically modify and alter the contour as well as the function of the nose have been created.

Ethnicity is just one fundamental added to the custom styling of nasal contours, but not the only factor when considering alterations desired in rhinoplasty..

Cosmetic and reconstructive code of practice is the fundamental basis for all surgeries taking into account the many advances made in performing all cosmetic procedures and especially for rhinoplasty. Advancement in materials and technique for nasal analysis has grown. Practitioners can now see into the nasal reconstruction in more detail, thereby improving the options for refinement with better information.

Prerequisites of rhinoplasty


The basics of a rhinoplasty procedure are required for every patient. It begins with an analysis of the whole patient, including the ethnicity of the patient and how that may determine important factors like:

· How much of the bump to remove.
· Whether the patient would look good with a strong bridge or a smaller one.
· How narrow to make the nose.
· Whether nostrils need to be reduced.

Ethnicity, whether it be Caucasian, Latino, Middle-Eastern or any other race will determine the overall design.

However, Dr. Zoumalan says, "In the final analysis, the nose must fit the face."

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The Simple Secret To The Queen And Prince Philip's Long Marriage

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Next year, Britain's Queen Elizabeth II and her husband, Prince Philip, the Duke of Edinburgh, will celebrate their 70th wedding anniversary. Royal biographer Gyles Brandreth says he thinks he knows the secret to their marriage -- and it's one that is perfectly simple.


"Laughter isn't just the best medicine," Brandreth writes in the latest issue of Radio Times. "It's also the foundation for a good marriage."


It can't be easy being Queen, but we think we know how she keeps her cool.


Brandreth reveals that the 90-year-old monarch's husband, who turns 95 on Friday, has a great sense of humor. And don't think that, just because she's Queen, she's the ruler of her own household. 


"The Queen wears the crown, but her husband wears the trousers," Brandreth writes, adding that the Duke has been a source of unwavering support for her since they married in 1947.


And though their marriage is strong as ever, don't expect to see them engaging in any PDA. The couple, like many royals, are reserved when it comes to their private lives. Brandreth notes you'd be hard pressed to find any photos of them holding hands. 


The couple first met as teenagers, when the Queen was just 13-years-old. Less than a decade later, they were engaged. Even as young lovebirds, the pair never showed their affection publicly. But Prince Philip did write a letter to his princess before they were married saying, he wondered if he deserved “all the good things which have happened to me,” in particular, “to have fallen in love completely and unreservedly.”


A love story for the ages.


h/t Radio Times

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Ali in Africa -- Up Close & Personal

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Muhammad Ali's mind worked differently. At first, it seemed merely disjointed and illogical. But as days passed with him, I came to appreciate it as free-flowing and creative. Even in boxing, often deemed a thuggish, brainless endeavor, imagination can beat logic.

Nothing in our experiences would have brought us together, except Africa, where odd happenings become the norm.

Ali got there because Don King -- out of prison after stomping a man to death -- had hit upon a kindred soul fond of money and showmanship, Zairian President Mobutu Sese Seko (whose full name in Lingala means "the cock that leaves no hen untouched"). King got the President to bankroll for $10+ million the world heavy-weight bout in the capital, Kinshasa, of what is now called the Democratic Republic of the Congo.

I had been living there for more than two years as a foreign service "dependent husband," my wife Carol serving in USAID. I was finishing my dissertation for Georgetown University in September 1974 when Don King asked if I'd help get the Zairian government to deliver on what it had promised, in order to broadcast the "Rumble in the Jungle."

Ali loved Africa before he even got there, and constantly heralded its glories once there. Mobutu had cleverly dispatched one of the two Air Zaire 747s, captained by the only Zairian pilot, to take Ali and his entourage from Europe down to Kinshasa.

Having modest success with Mobutu's government -- the only kind possible with that government -- Don King recommended me to Ali as someone to take him around town, which I could do well, and translate for him, which I could not do well. Yet I turned out to be an accurate translator. Ali's English was often baffling to me, while my French was more often baffling to Zairians.

Not that Ali mispronounced his words. He spoke crisply, in fact. It was just that he spoke poetry while I was thinking in prose. His talk was of images; my thoughts were of schedules and logistics.

He seemed to understood when I asked, days into his training on the isolated hilltop of the presidential compound, whether he would like to see something of Africa, about which he had been speaking incessantly.

Ali answered with flourishes: the planes across the continent were all African jumbo jets; its pilots all local folks; its women, in their long flowing skirts, all modest and pure, its ways genuine. I listened to such bullets of a fertile mind. But I needed to know whether to order a car for 4:30 that afternoon, to go down to the Ivory Market.

After several attempts, I just ordered the car. Some days we went, some we didn't. There was no telling.
Muhammad Ali was wonderful company, but more company than anticipated. During an early, in-country sparring bout, , George Foreman cut his eyelid, and the fight was postponed a month.

To keep Ali from going stir-crazy, we brought American movies into his compound. After dinner, I'd struggle to spool the film in the projector. Soon his brother, parents, chef, trainer Angelo Dundee, and a sparring partner or two, gathered around. Ali laid on the floor, a mound of muscle and fiber, soon shouting out comments on the colors or sounds or shapes or smiles on the screen. His verbal shots were funny; many were clever, some just bewildering. He caught and appreciated the image, while I at least was focusing on the plotline.

Our movie nights ended when Foreman's eye healed. At 4:00 in the morning on October 30, 1974, the boxers entered the ring in the thrown-together, just-in-time outdoor stadium. Ali was heavily favored by the Zairians; Foreman by the odds-makers and boxing writers.

During the opening rounds, they performed as expected, Ali more fleet-footed but seven years older, Foreman more hard-hitting but heavier. Then suddenly, in the eighth round, came that burst of creativity.
At first, Ali's behavior in the ring was as mystifying as his movie shout-outs from the floor. He leaned on the ropes, crouched in protective mode, and let Foreman slug away. Nothing he had practiced in sparring hours, nothing discussed with Angelo Dundee, nothing foreseen by the boxing experts or anticipated by Foreman, who kept pounding in the tropical heat.

Suddenly Ali emerged from his protective crouch to slam the exhausted reigning-champ. Within seconds, he handily knocked Foreman down and out, in what he famously dubbed "Rope a Dope."

Later I could see in Ali the traits characteristic of creative people -- high energy, varied interests and approaches, oft-disjointed thought patterns, non-conformity, originality, and high risk-taking. Such people have the gift to, as Shakespeare puts it, "apprehend more than cool reason ever comprehends." Creativity counts for a lot.

Some thirty years later, I was strolling through the lobby of the Waldorf Hotel and heard a commotion in a corner. A big lumbering man was surrounded, and seemingly bewildered, by a gaggle of star-struck kids. He looked up and evidently spotted me, as he slowly raised an arm, pointed a finger, and said, "Africa. Africa." I smiled and said, "Yep, Africa."

This may not sound like much, but it meant a lot to me. And still does.

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This Barber Wants To Inspire A Social Movement By Giving Free Haircuts To The Homeless

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Hairdresser Joshua Coombes transforms Londoners' looks on a daily basis, and is making a difference at the same time. 


Coombes, who is originally a musician, gives haircuts to homeless people free of charge along the streets of London. His altruistic endeavor started late last year, when an idea sparked after he passed a homeless person on the street. 


"It just happened one day. I had all my gear on me and I was walking past somebody who was homeless and it went from there, really. It was a lightbulb moment in my head and I was like this is an amazing way to connect with people," he said.  


Since Coombes started cutting hair five years ago, he's seen the impact that a little trim can have on a person. When someone sits down for a haircut, Coombes catches a glimpse into that person's life, even if for a moment. Then his friend, photographer Matt Spracklen, captures it for Instagram




"I approach somebody, I talk to them on a human level," he said. "During the haircut, it's quite an intimate thing and you really see someone come out of their shell and they start talking to you a bit deeper about their life and their situation. And you show that look in the mirror and you're like their best friend."


Coombes hopes his work will inspire others to give back as well and document their random acts of kindness with #DoSomethingForNothing, a phrase that he, Spracklen and Be Social Global CEO Dave Burt dreamed up together. 


"I saw a vision where this could be a social goodwill movement, rather than just me cutting hair for homeless people," he said. "Everyone's got a compassionate side within themselves and I really believe that it's about waking that up in people sometimes."


Coombes is putting that vision into practice with a day of giving back in London on July 9. 


Learn more about the story in the video above. 

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Loving My Hair Has Allowed Me to Love Myself

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I took one last longing look into the mirror. There it was. My hair. The large halo of an Afro that rose high above my head and even higher around my face was about to meet its demise. Or at least, that's what it felt like to my 12-year-old self. In the coming years, I would dig deep into the far reaches of my mind to resurrect that memory, pining for that thick head of hair of days long gone, convincing myself that it existed once, but no more.

I guess you could call it a rite of passage of sorts. I was just a couple of months away from starting high school (I was born and raised in Jamaica, where our "high school" begins in the seventh grade, rather than the ninth), and so it was expected that I would begin to take the usual steps to being a "big girl". Relaxing my hair was mostly a relief to my mother, who would now only have two heads of hair to style on Sundays in preparation for the school week ahead, instead of three. Little would she expect that, at least for the first year of the seventh grade, I would wake her every morning to section my hair in straight lines for me, a skill that took a very long time for me to master.

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One of the hardest things for me to get used to after my hair was relaxed for the first time was how strangely people reacted to it. While my hair had always been thick and of a considerable length, it annoyed me that so many people felt the need to comment on the length as if it was a prize, the greatest stroke of luck a girl could possibly have. I will admit, especially in those years of extremely low self-esteem and constant self-deprecation, I did find some small pleasure in the fact that, even though I was not beautiful in any other way (or so I naively thought for too long; don't worry, I know better now), at least my hair was viewed as somewhat beautiful...


It annoyed me that so many people felt the need to comment on the length of my hair as if it was a prize, the greatest stroke of luck a girl could possibly have.


For years I went through the cycle -- relax, set/wrap every night, load with products each day -- to ensure ultimate smoothness and straightness, tame every strand of new growth as they are made noticeable, run home from school with your backpack overhead so as not to be sabotaged by the impending rainfall, tame even more new growth, and repeat. It was just the process of how things were done without much thought.

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I think it was my second year of university that I started to notice a noticeable shift in my hair. It was stringier than usual, breaking off at the ends at an alarming rate. I started researching a lot about how to care for it, making healthy hair my main concern. After a couple of months of being the ultimate deep-condition and cover-with-satin-at-night ninja, I found myself on a natural hair website. So began my fall into this naturalista life.

When I first decided to stop relaxing my hair on a regular basis, it was initially just supposed to be a way of giving my hair more time to recover between treatments. Eventually it hit me. If my hair needs time to "recover" between relaxing, why was I doing it in the first place? I began to delve deeper into not only how to treat my hair, but how to do so with the least amount of chemical and unnecessary additives as possible.

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Despite the many statements of, "When are you going to start combing your hair again?", "Are you really going out like that?" and courtesy of an ex-boyfriend, "You know I like weaves and straight hair; you're only keeping your hair curly and natural because you know I don't find that attractive." I have been able to sift through my own destructive thoughts on beauty, health, and identity. Making a conscious effort to care for my hair led me to making a conscious effort to take care of myself holistically.


Making a conscious effort to care for my hair led me to making a conscious effort to take care of myself holistically.


My hair is no longer my crutch in a dark state of self-loathing, neither is it my crowning glory. Loving my hair as it is, has allowed me to love myself as I am, and this natural hair journey was the perfect catalyst for this state of introspection.

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This post is part of HuffPost's My Natural Hair Journey blog series. Embracing one's natural hair -- especially after years of heavily styling it -- can be a truly liberating and exciting experience. It's more than just a "trend." It's a way of life. If you have a story you'd like to share, please email us at MyNaturalHairJourney@huffingtonpost.com.

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This 11-Year-Old Ballerina Dancing To 'Hamilton' Is Your New Hero

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If you've yet to listen to Leslie Odom Jr. croon the words to "Dear Theodosia" in Act I of a little musical called "Hamilton" -- well, that's fine, because it's pretty hard to get a ticket. You should really listen to the song, though. On Spotify, on YouTube, or, on Olivia Bell's Instagram account


Bell is, according to her Instagram, an 11-year-old dancer who's participated in American Ballet Theater's Young Dancer Summer Workshop, The Alvin Ailey School's Summer Intensive, and is an ambassador for Brown Girls Do Ballet


She is, in a word, amazing. And her Instagram account shows it:




She recently posted a video of herself dancing to the "Hamilton" song at the Dallas Conservatory, posted above. We love it for a couple of reasons:


1. The Tony Awards are happening this Sunday and "Hamilton" is bound to win at least a couple of the 16 statues it's nominated for. Good timing, Bell.


2. Bell is such a fan, she's even aware of that time a woman rolled down her car window in front of creator Lin-Manuel Miranda and screamed, "Congrats on 'Hamlet'!"


#YayHamlet.




Yup, she's your new hero.




Who's ready for the Tonys?




The 2016 Tony Awards will air on CBS on Sunday, June 12, at 8 p.m. ET. From “Hamilton” to “Spring Awakening,” “Eclipsed” to “The Humans,” Sophie Okonedo to Leslie Odom Jr., check out our live coverage of all things Broadway on Twitter this weekend.

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