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Are These Real Or Imaginary James Franco Quotes About Lana Del Rey?

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James Franco and Lana Del Rey's friendship is a likely a weird performance art piece none of us will ever truly understand. 


But that doesn't keep us from finding their whole implicating the celebrity artifice shtick extremely fascinating. So when Penguin Random House announced last week that Franco had co-written a book about the singer entitled "Flip-Side: Real and Imaginary Conversations With Lana Del Rey," we clicked the pre-order button faster than you can say, "Remember when straight James Franco interviewed gay James Franco?"


According to The Independent (and a common sense interpretation of its title), the book will include both real and fictional conversations with the Del Rey. It is currently unknown to what extent the two artists are trolling literally everyone.


To celebrate the James Franco-Lana Del Rey-ness of it all, we decided to do do some fact/fiction combining of our own with an old-fashioned "Did he say it?" quiz. Behold: Real or Imaginary James Franco Quotes About Lana Del Rey. See if you can figure out what is true (or if any of us can, ever.) 


Real or Imaginary James Franco Quotes About Lana Del Rey


1. "She is one who has been so disappointed by life, she had to create her own world. Just let her live in it." 


2.  "When I watch her stuff, when I listen to her stuff, I am reminded of everything I love about Los Angeles. I am sucked into a long gallery of Los Angeles cult figurines, and cult people, up all night like vampires and bikers."


3. "I am a performer and she is a performer." 


4. "I understand Lana's ethereal power, because I too am more powerful than my earth body."


5. "We go to Coney Island and hang out. "


 6. "I would say she's America embodied, but she's not a body. She's a spirit in a corporeal trap."


7. "I would have sex with her music."


8. "She walks the line between the real and the imaginary -- if there's even a difference between the two."


 9. "She isn’t made for this earth."


10. "It’s like an awesome B-movie that lives in Lana’s head. It’s about her, and it’s not about her. Just like her music. "


11. "We drive down the California coastline, watching rain."


12. "Sometimes Lana doesn’t know what to say in interviews, so she plays into the idea that her songs are her, and not her creations." 


13. "I wanted to interview Lana for a book and she said, 'Just write around me, it’s better if it’s not my own words. It’s almost better if you don’t get me exactly, but try.'”


 14. "We're not together in the sexual sense. But our creative souls do figure eight flips when our corporeal beings make contact."


15. "It's like we're both just tiny parakeets, trapped in the cast-iron cage of fame. But instead of quietly perching, we try to flip that cage on itself."


16. "Some fans say we're pretentious, but that shows me they're thinking within the confines of earth. But Lana and I, we're free from that kind of limitation."


 17. "Lana spends a lot of time alone because everyone wants in."


18. "Sometimes I theorize we were born as one." 


19. "She is made to live in the world she creates."


20. "She said to me, 'The rain is American in a way.' I knew what she meant: like each plop plop was a star on the flag. Each splish splash a Marilyn Monroe in a coffin."


21. "The only difference between Lana and me is her haunting voice."


22.  "To understand Lana is to understand pretending. See, I understand that -- or am I just pretending to?"



 Real: 1, 2, 3, 5, 7, 9, 10, 12, 13, 17, 19, 21


 


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Why It's Harder To Be a Model Today, According To Tyra Banks

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Social media has made it easier to become a model, but more difficult once you actually make it to model status. 


At least Tyra Banks thinks so. To illustrate how much has changed since her earlier modeling days, the supermodel posted a Throwback Thursday photo on Instagram last month of herself backstage at an Yves Saint Laurent show in "sneakers, plaid flannel and bad jeans." 



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"Mr. Yves Saint Laurent could care less how I looked when I arrived to his show," she included in the caption, pointing out that now, thanks to social media, models constantly have to be "on." 


It's true that apps like Instagram and Snapchat drive models and celebrities to be constantly connected, open to having their photos shared all over. But as Banks told E!, that's not the only way social media has an impact. Those photos can also determine whether or not a model gets a job.   



"These gals gotta walk in and look like they’re about to do the fashion show. They have to post pictures of themselves constantly on social media. They have to make sure they have a lot of likes because if they don’t have a lot of likes they’re not going to get booked for the job even though they’re the best model," she said. 


On her throwback Instaanks also touched on the increasingly difficult beauty standards that models are expected to uphold. "When I was a young model, yeah, we had to think about our weight, but not like today. I think I was a size 6, not a size 0," she wrote. 


The Cara Delevingnes of the world seem to be fine sharing their every move on social media, but everyone deserves a break once in a while. Then again, Tyra has never shied away from sharing her realest self with the world, on social media or otherwise.


 H/T Bustle


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Woody Allen Talking About His 'Paternal' Relationship With Wife Soon-Yi Will Make You Feel Gross

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In the simplest terms, Woody Allen is a man who had an affair with a 21-year-old woman, who any rational person would consider to be his stepdaughter. The affair broke up his relationship with her adoptive mother, caused a media frenz, and then, he married her. Twenty-three years later, Allen and Soon-Yi Previn are still together and they have two daughters of their own.  


As a man shrouded in controversy and  accused of molesting his adopted daughter Dylan Farrow when she was seven years old (which he denies), Allen rarely gives interviews. But with his new movie "The Irrational Man"  currently in theaters -- the 79-year-old writer and director decided it was time to open up to NPR, and throughly creep us out in the process. 


Allen spoke of his relationship with Previn, which began in 1992, while he was still dating her mother Mia Farrow, with whom he has one biological child and jointly adopted two other children (Farrow adopted several other children including Previn on her own).  


“I started the relationship with [Previn] and I thought it would just be a fling,” Allen told NPR's Sam Fragoso, adding that their relationship took on a life of its own. "And the age difference didn’t seem to matter. It seemed to work in our favor actually.“


Allen went on to say that their 35-year age difference really works for them because he's "paternal."  


"I was paternal. She responded to someone paternal. I liked her youth and energy. She deferred to me, and I was happy to give her an enormous amount of decision making just as a gift and let her take charge of so many things," he said. 


You all read that right? Paternal, as in fatherly. As in gross in this context. 


And that's not what Previn said back in 1992 when everyone was first freaking out about her and Allen's relationship. In fact, she told Time, “To think that Woody was in any way a father or stepfather to me is laughable.”


Fragoso didn't hold back and asked Allen if he thought the molestation allegations have affected how people approach his movies (he doesn't) and if he thinks he's a "good person." 


"I would consider myself ... decent as I got older." Allen said. "When I was younger I was less sensitive, in my 20s. But as I got older and began to see how difficult life was for everybody, I had more compassion for other people. I tried to act nicer, more decent, more honorable. I couldn't always do it. When I was in my 20s, even in my early 30s, I didn't care about other people that much. I was selfish and I was ambitious and insensitive to the women that I dated. Not cruel or nasty, but not sufficiently sensitive."


For more with Woody Allen, head over to NPR.


 


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'Oh, the Humidity!' What's a Girl to Do? Win with the Hair that Won't Compromise

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I was recently traveling and stepped off the plane into a sea of steamy, hot, wet air.

Sure, it's great for your skin and your hair, too, but humidity can also make your locks incredibly hard to manage. There are lots of specialized products on the shelf, some of them very expensive, for hair care in humid climates, and they do work ... to an extent.

I have this bit of advice: Make it easy on yourself. Pick your battles. Don't expect to win this one, at least not without a healthy dose of compromise. Your hair isn't going to look like it usually does. Do your best, then have fun.

Let's say you have naturally curly hair. High humidity is probably going to make it even curlier and probably frizzy. My advice is to put a humidity resistant gel or mousse in your hair after shampooing while it's still damp, scrunch it up, let it dry (as much as it's going to in humid conditions) and call it good ... Better yet, call it great! Then go have fun at the beach or shopping mall, restaurant or wherever.

Let's say you just landed in Miami after a hard summer rain. The air is thick. You look in the mirror and your hair is frizzed and curled in ways you've never imagined. This never happened in L.A.!

Here are ways to compromise with Mother Nature:

• Go with the gel or mousse after a shower, scrunch it up, let it dry, enjoy the new look for that week you're on vacation. It's the new you!

• Use the mousse, then pull your hair up into a cute top knot or back down low into a ponytail.

• Go with one of the trendy barrettes. This can slow down some of that volume and the barrette styles are endless.

Following me? The moisture is good for your hair, especially if that's not usually what it gets. And that kinky curl may not be the look you wanted, but it's what you're going to get. You can win some control but not all of it.

Maybe you don't get curly hair when it's humid. Instead, your hair goes flat, heavy and limp when it's soaked in hot, wet air ... So be it! Part it down the middle and go with a beaded leather headband for a trendy, retro hippie look. Go instead with some mousse, tease it underneath for a little volume, then brush the top layer back with a coarse brush or comb and finish with some glossy hairspray for a slick-back wet look. If you've got long hair, pull it into a ponytail.

As always, be open to change, including high humidity!

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Kids Point Out Dark Side Of Fashion Ads That We've All Been Ignoring

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"She seems to have an illness." "Maybe she's drunk." "Maybe she took some pills with drugs or stuff like that."


Those are not the feelings typically expressed by adults when they see a fashion campaign. But get a group of kids together, and the not-so-pleasant truth comes out. 


Yolanda Domínguez , a Madrid-based artist, showed a group of 8-year-olds a series of fashion ads for both men's and women's brands. The kids noted that the men, standing tall and confidently, looked "like heroes," "bosses" and as though they were "studying to go to university."


The women, on the other hand, were shown slouched over and even sprawled into the street, and conjured up some very different responses. Some of the kids even said they would stop to help that person if they met her on the street. 


Despite its adorable stars, the striking video sheds light on the broader issue of sexualizing and degrading women in mainstream media. Take, for example, what one of the kids said about an ad featuring Cara Delevingne sitting in a garbage can: "The lady is laughing ... I don't know why."


At second glance, we're not sure why, either. 


H/T Bustle  


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Caitlyn Jenner Wows In A Chic Black Jumpsuit

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Caitlyn Jenner is slowly but surely making her way to style icon status.


The 65-year-old has been widely praised for her sartorial choices, namely her form-fitting selection of dresses. But when she stepped out for dinner in Los Angeles on Wednesday night in a super-chic, strapless, perfectly tailored jumpsuit, she took it to a whole new level.



Jenner finished off the look with a cropped black jacket and strappy sandals, which she most likely grabbed out of that enviable shoe closet


Jenner has previously asked the fashion Ppolice to be kind to her, admitting she's "new at this." At this rate, we'd say she has nothing to worry about.  



 


 


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Personal Injury Lawyer 'Flattered' To Be Theme Of Toddler's Birthday Party

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In today's Pinterest-filled world, it's hard to come up with an original birthday party theme, but 2-year-old Grayson Dobra from Prairieville, Louisiana has defied the odds.


The toddler celebrated his second birthday with a Morris Bart-themed party -- a nod to the personal injury lawyer whose ubiquitous television commercials have made him somewhat of a fixture in Louisiana. "I'm attorney Morris Bart" is a familiar sound in households across the state. 




The local celebrity has clearly had an effect on little Grayson. “Before he could walk or talk, every time the Morris Bart commercial would come on, he was just fixated,” the toddler's mom L'erin Dobra told The Acadiana Advocate. “You couldn’t talk to him. You couldn’t do anything with him. He would just sit and stare at the TV. You could call his name, give him a toy. He didn’t care. He just wanted to watch the Bart commercial."





Dobra added some of Grayson's first words and phrases were "Morris," "Bart" and the lawyer's signature catchphrase -- "One call, that's all." 


When it came time to plan the toddler's second birthday party, choosing the theme was a no-brainer. The mom requested some photos of Morris Bart from his marketing assistant and made a cardboard cutout and t-shirt with his face on it, the attorney told The Huffington Post.



According to The Acadiana Advocate, when Dobra called to order a Bart-themed cake from the local Gambino's Bakery, the employee on the phone thought she meant Bart Simpson. When she received the photo of the Bart who was to appear on the cake and discovered the party theme, the employee said, "OK, that's a first."


News of Grayson's unusual party theme trickled across local news outlets and law-related publications and even reached a global audience online.


When Morris Bart himself read about the birthday party, he was delighted. "It brought a big smile to my face," he told HuffPost, adding, "It's nice to be embraced in such a flattering way."



Bart has invited Grayson and the whole Dobra family to visit his law offices and meet him in person. "I would love the opportunity to meet him," he said.


As for why he think the story has gone so viral, Bart looked back to his childhood and remembered his own fascination with certain local commercials. "Think of how many millions of people were fascinated by some local jingle or local commercial on television when they were growing up," he said. "I think that's why this story has really resonated with so many."


At the end of the interview, Bart had one final takeaway to share: "Watch out sports heroes -- here come the lawyers!" 





 


H/T Jezebel


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How To Make Money On Instagram

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Sometimes, being constantly glued to your phone can pay off.


Marketing on Instagram offers social media enthusiasts the opportunity to land a side job where they get paid to post pretty pictures and acquire free stuff.


Instagram "influencers," as the industry calls them, team up with businesses to promote products or brand campaigns on the photo-sharing platform. These promotions take the form of photos, hashtags and captions, and compensation depends on the brand, scope of the project and influencer's bargaining power. While some brands pay between $5 to $10 per thousand followers, others offer $100 per 100 followers and still others pay only in free swag. 


The Instagram brand promotion business is a large one. Companies across all industries combined spend between $1 billion and $1.5 billion per year on sponsoring content on the platform, Thomas Rankin, CEO of Dash Hudson, a company that sources Instagram influencers for brands, told The Huffington Post.


Want that life? Here are five ways you could profit from your Instagram posts, too.



We're #mcLOVING the closing #blogher15 party. @mcdonalds is super fun! #ad

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A promotional post by social media influencer and author Peg Fitzpatrick. 


1. Actively reach out to brands you like and want to work with.


While many businesses directly reach out to influencers for help promoting their content, bloggers can also apply to brands or companies that connect Instagram influencers with brands.


Be warned, though, that the application process to become a brand influencer is competitive. Rankin told HuffPost that Dash Hudson accepts about 1 percent of influencers who apply to represent the brands it manages, such as Gilt and Bebe. The company generally sees between 25 to 50 applications per brand campaign, he added.


2. Post consistently and stylishly on Instagram.


Your feed is your social media "résumé," which brands use to determine whether or not to hire you as an influencer. A good Instagram presence means consistent, tasteful photo posts and captions. The bigger your Instagram portfolio, the better.


Brands also look for influencers whose Instagram style matches that of the brand.


Rankin gave a few examples of Dash Hudson's criteria: "What does the content look like? Does the feed have beautiful, original photos? Is the style of content what we're looking for [for] the brands we're working with? What's their follower number and engagement rate?"


3. Maintain a strong presence on other social media sites.


In her blog, influencer Peg Fitzpatrick -- author of the book The Art of Social Media: Power Tips for Power Users -- emphasizes the importance of maintaining an "active" and "professional" social media presence across platforms, especially LinkedIn.


"[A]ll the brands and agencies that I've worked with and talked to check LinkedIn to find out more about people before working with them," Fitzpatrick added in an email to HuffPost.



One of photographer Tim Melideo's promotional posts. 


4. Have at least 5,000 followers.


The number of followers that brands require their influencers to have depends on the company, campaign and project, but most brands generally require that their influencers have at least 5,000 followers. Dash Hudson tends to select influencers who have at least 10,000, according to Rankin. Skinny Bee Tea, a small detox tea company that launched this past February, requires its ambassadors to have a minimum of 5,000. (Make sure you're not buying any of your followers, though.)


For users with larger followings, the process of becoming an influencer can be a fairly smooth one. "A lot of times a brand will contact me and want me to promote a product, event, show or anything," Tim Melideo, a photographer with 31,000 Instagram followers, told HuffPost. "I have rates that they pay in addition to sending me the product."


And the more established an Instagrammer is, the more they can charge for their posts. "I rarely promote products for free anymore," Melideo wrote. "I am now able to utilize my social influence to help pay for food and to live."


In May, Harper's Bazaar reported that Danielle Bernstein, the fashion blogger behind @weworewhat, which has 1.1 million followers, charges anywhere between $5,000 and $15,000 for a single branded Instagram post.


5. Become an unpaid brand ambassador.


No luck finding gigs as a paid influencer? There's another way to get compensated for your stylish Instagram posts. Bloggers can apply to be unpaid "brand ambassadors," to whom businesses send freebies for promotion. 


Skinny Bee Tea, for example, has a brand ambassador program, through which it sends bloggers a 14-day detox package to promote on their social media accounts. Other small brands offer similar programs.


The application process for unpaid brand ambassadorships is the same as for paid influencers, but the odds of getting accepted to be an unpaid brand ambassador tend to be more favorable. Skinny Bee Tea receives two to eight applications per month and accepts about one-third of them into the ambassador program, Kristen Zahodne, the company's owner, told HuffPost.


Think you have what it takes to get money or freebies for your content? Start snapping and good luck!

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Iris Apfel's Best Piece Of Fashion Advice Isn't What You'd Expect

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Iris Apfel, who at 93 years old is fronting major ad campaigns and even recently starred in a documentary about her fabulous, fashionable life, continues to dish out sound advice for achieving great style. And maybe the best takeaway? You should stop taking it so seriously. 


"Being well dressed is a wonderful thing, but I don't think it should be life threatening," she told Harper's Bazaar UK in a new interview, admitting that the fashion press doesn't do much to put anyone's minds at ease. "There's always a list of the 10 things you must have, the 10 things that are out," she said. 


Apfel is easily recognized by her over-the-top style, but as it turns out, her method of choosing what to wear is pretty simple -- she just wears the things she loves, regardless of what season they're from. "I'm still wearing a beautiful dress that I wore when I had my first date with my husband, which was 68 years ago," she said.


Moral of the story? Stop worrying so much about the things you wear, and if something works, keep it. Forever. 


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Emily Ratajkowski Pairs A Plunging Bodysuit With Denim

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Emily Ratajkowski has been enjoying her summer vacationing in Italy, lounging poolside in Los Angeles and posing near bouquets of flowers. 


In her latest Instagram shot, uploaded Wednesday, Ratajkowski poses in a plunging red bodysuit with denim bottoms next to a bunch of yellow roses. 



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On Monday, she shared a colorful photo of her next to some street art in Venus, California. 



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Last week, she was soaking up the sun in a bikini while at a pool in LA. 



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To the good life, huh? 


 


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What Your Sleeping Position With a Partner Says About Your Relationship

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By Elyse Wanshel, writer at LittleThings.com

We all sleep, but did you know that the way you sleep says a lot about who we are as individuals?

For instance, if you sleep on your back, it often means your the strong, silent type; and if you sleep on your stomach, it typically means you have an open, gregarious, and playful personality.

So, what happens when you throw different sleeping styles -- and personalities -- into one bed? Or really, any two individual personalities into one of the most intimate and venerable situations we humans experience?

It's actually quite fascinating.

When we sleep, our subconscious minds take over. Because of this, the body language we use with a partner while we snooze can be a remarkably precise way to gauge what's going on in our relationships.

"Even if you can't or don't articulate those things while you're awake," says Patti Wood, a body language expert with more than 30 years of experience and author of Success Signals, A Guide to Reading Body Language. Many other experts and psychologists agree with this idea and have conducted studies in and written books on the subject. They have uncovered the ten most popular couple sleeping positions and the secrets they have found about each is truly intriguing...

The Spoon
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According to a study done by relationship psychologist Corrine Sweet, the position is only adopted by a fifth (or 18 percent) of couples and demonstrates a dynamic in which, " One partner takes a protective stance over the other."

Although it's a sweet, it can also be a little saucy. "It's a very vulnerable position that's sexual, but says, 'I trust you,'" said Patti Wood, a body language expert with more than 30 years of experience and author of Success Signals, A Guide to Reading Body Language.

The Loose Spoon
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New couples tend to have the most physical contact in bed, but once the relationship matures, the novelty of sharing a mattress wears off.

The loose spoon is typically what a couples that are a fans of spooning eventually do once their relationship matures and each individual wants to revert to a position that produces the best quality sleep, said Paul Rosenblatt, author of Two in a Bed: The Social System of Couple Bed Sharing.

It's like the big spoon saying, "I've got your back, you can count on me," but it's not as sexual as spooning closer, Woods said.

The Chase
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This is like spooning, but it's when one person is in pursuit of the other. One person has drifted to the other side of the bed, and the other one is "chasing" them.

This can mean two things. One that the person who is being chased wants to be pursued, or is playing hard to get.

The other thing it can be, according to Samuel Dunkell, author of Sleep Positions: The Night Language of the Body is something called "illegal Spooning" because the person has retreated because they want space.

The Tangle
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This extremely intimate position is even more rare than the Spoon. It tends to happen when there is either intense emotions at play (like after lovemaking) or at the start of a romantic relationship.

Some couples maintain it throughout their relationship but it isn't necessarily a good thing. According to Elizabeth Flynn Campbell, a New York psychotherapist, "[the couple] could be overly enmeshed, too dependent on each other to sleep apart."

The Unraveling Knot
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This position starts with The Tangle position, but then unravels after 10 minutes or so.

Believe it or not, this position is a sign of a stronger relationship than The Tangle. Yet only eight percent of couples adopt this two-part position. Dr. Sweet said it's, "A compromise between intimacy and independence, allowing for the best of both worlds."

The Liberty Lovers
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If you and your partner sleep facing opposite directions with space in-between ­- don't fret! This is actually a good thing.

According to a study done by relationship psychologist Corrine Sweet, couples that sleep back-to-back without touching are "connected and secure in themselves. This position shows both closeness and independence in the relationship."

It's also popular, 27 percent of couples prefer this sleeping style.

The Back Kissers
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If you sleep back-to-back but you touch with your butts or backs, this is also a good thing -- but it's also novel.

According to Dr. Sweet, this means, "Both partners are relaxed and comfortable with one another." Yet this position is more common amongst newer couples, or those that have been together for under a year, rather than a more long-term duo.

The Nuzzle
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This sweet position, in which one partner rests their head on the other's chest, while their legs are intertwined is often seen in early relationships and occasionally rekindled ones, according to Dr. Sweet.

This is a very nurturing posture that creates a sense of protection. Shirley Glass, a psychologist and martial therapist, also notes, "There's a high level of trust here," as this snuggling position has a "strengthening sense of comradeship and protection."

The Leg Hug
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According to Wood, if your partner plays footsie with you in bed, or intertwines their legs with yours, it means they crave an emotional or sexual connection.

A pair of tangled legs is also a sign that the two of you can't get enough of each other -- even when you're sleeping. "It means your lives are intertwined, that you function as a pair. You probably finish each other's sentences and take care of each other," Wood said.

The Space Hog
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If a partner takes the "starfish position," one in which they sprawl out and hog the bed, this means that they tend to be selfish -- especially if they begin to push the other partner so they're hanging off the bed.

If this is happening in your relationship, it's time to have an honest conversation.

"One partner dominates the space, while the other takes a secondary role," said Sweet, and most people do not want to play second fiddle.

You can also tell who is dominating a relationship by where their heads are when they sleep.

When a couple's heads are right next to each other, it means they are equal, and if they touch, even better -- it's a sign that they have like minds and know what's going on in each other's heads, Wood said.

People who sleep closer to the headboard tend to feel more dominant and confident, while those who place their heads further away from it tend to be submissive and have lower self-esteem, she also said.

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Amanda Seyfried Chops Off Her Long Hair

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Amanda Seyfried has gone shorter for the summer, chopping her long hair into a lob. The 29-year-old actress posted an Instagram photo of her beloved pooch, Finn, with the the caption "Finn is wearing my #locksforlove."  



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Seyfried later debuted a photo of her new 'do on Instagram: 



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For reference, this is how long Seyfried's hair used to be: 



Just a few weeks ago, the actress teased a shorter look on Instagram, though it turned out to be just a wig



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Give Up My Bad Ass Jeans on My Plump Ass Body? No Way.

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I admit it. I'm a blue jeans junkie.

Blue jeans have been a staple of my wardrobe since before I got pregnant with the oldest of my five sons in 1969. Whether fat, thin, round with child, or puffy with post-delivery pounds - jeans were my go-to wardrobe staple. Most of the time, I probably looked downright unremarkable. A few times, though, I felt like I looked a tad alluring - a very heady feeling when your station wagon sports three car seats and is littered with smelly soccer socks and ripped apart candy wrappers.

I got the idea I had entered into the short-lived realm of being sexy because twice in one day I got extra attention - from the car wash attendant and the bag boy at the supermarket. (My best friend thought the looks were more out of pity, but I prefer a more upbeat interpretation.)

The years passed. The children grew - along with my hip width and general girth. And I still preferred donning blue jeans every chance I got while regularly shunning fashion dictates and apparel trends.

You would think that heading at lightning speed into my sixty-eighth year would critically curtail my blue jean habit. It doesn't. (Sorry, Mom, but my closet is still well stocked with denim and my obsession is not abating.)

Currently I have thirteen pairs of jeans - in all shades of that ubiquitous denim fabric. I've got carpenter jeans, tapered cut jeans, bell bottom jeans, capri style jeans, bootcut jeans, boyfriend jeans, drainpipe jeans and low rise jeans. The fit is touted as loose, slim, comfort, relaxed or regular.

Out of the thirteen, six currently fit me. Okay, only three really fit me comfortably. But, hey, there's hope. Shedding just another five pounds will allow the zipper to go up effortlessly and allow me to breathe normally in my other ten pairs. As for my never-worn, skinny-cut dungarees - that's a greater challenge. Immense belly sucking isn't facilitating this endeavor. Nor is skipping my late night caramel popping habit. So the skin tight, very tight, dungarees stay draped on a padded hanger in my closet - season after season. It's my last hold-out. I'm simply not ready to donate to Goodwill the jeans bought on a whim seven summers ago, with the expectation that one day I would effortlessly slither into them.

But I am not totally in la-la land about my jeans attire. I gave up stone washed. I gave up bleached. I gave up low-waisted. I gave up low rise. I gave up embellished. I gave up ripped. But I can't give up my blue jeans entirely. Even if I have to resort to jeans with elastic waist bands.

If sexiness defers to practical concerns (and much does as we age), jeans have a lot going in that regard too. They are comfy. Pretty much stain resistant. Durable. Cool. Easy care.

My husband and I are about one third through binge-watching Sons of Anarchy. I have become obsessed with tattoos and thick silver chains. The tattoos are on clear display. The chains hang down Jax and fellow club members' jean legs as they swagger around and are apparently attached to a wallet. My husband already "advised me" to not even think about a tattoo. Since our anniversary is creeping up soon, I may be able to successfully pester him into buying me a thick silver chain to wear with my jeans. I will then need to take "swagger" lessons and replace my coveted Louie Vuitton shoulder bag with a biker's wallet. The purse could be a tough sacrifice. Internet surfing revealed no Louie V biker wallets. Hmmm....maybe I'll jumpstart a new LV collection: Biker Babe Wallets for the Aging Baby Boomer Set.

So these days, I have an emerging image of myself as an aging combination of Carmela from The Sopranos and Gemma from Sons of Anarchy. Both are women past the bloom of youth. Long married matrons who are still edgy, sexy in a slightly sleazy manner, and definitely still garnering male attention. Let's face it: sexiness is like your ability to dance. Even as your youthful bloom withers and fades, you don't lose your sense of rhythm. I believe that is true of sexiness too. Like rhythm, you either have it or you do not. I have never been blessed with rhythm. I am a horribly clumsy dancer. And I only dance with my husband when I am slightly tipsy - a state which seems to cut down dramatically on my relentless stepping on his toes as he attempts to twirl me around. The fact that he' pretty hot on the dance floor only adds to my humiliation.

But at the risk of seeming totally immodest, I have been blessed with a little bit of sexiness. And it's time to preserve that reserve and start flaunting it in an individualistic way. After all, I'm not exposing aging cleavage like Gemma. I'm not wearing tight fitting, bosom clinging tops like Carmela. I'm just returning to and fully embracing the most daring fashion staple in my closet - my beloved blue jeans - and adding a silver accoutrement.

So, if you see a five foot, two inch, aging hippie baby boomer wandering the aisles of the supermarket, wearing jeans a little too tight - with a fat biker chain casually dangling from her waist band - wink at me. You can even add, as Clay so compellingly does to his wife Gemma, a throaty, half-whispered, "Hey, Baby."

These days I need all the attention I can get.

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Mariah Carey Will Direct A Movie For The Hallmark Channel And It'll Probably Be A Glorious Mess

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Mariah Carey, star of the universally panned 2001 movie "Glitter," is giving Hollywood another shot, only this time, she'll also be behind the camera.


According to the Associated Press, the 45-year-old singer will co-star and direct in "Mariah Carey's Christmas Project," which will air on the Hallmark Channel


Naturally, the film is scheduled to air in December to ring in the holiday spirit as part of the network's annual  "Countdown to Christmas" lineup. 


No word on what the scripted film is actually about, but it doesn't really matter, does it? Didn't think so.


You should probably just stick to listening to "All I Want For Christmas Is You," because that's all the Mariah Carey-Christmas content you really need. 




 


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One Woman's Stunning Found Photos Launch A Hashtag Mystery

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It's hard to resist a real, bonafide Internet mystery. Particular when said mystery involves a hashtag like #‎FindTheGirlsOnTheNegatives‬. 


We have Richmond, Virginia-based photographer Meagan Abell to thank for this latest effort in crowd-sourced sleuthing. According to a Facebook post submitted to the World Wide Web on Wednesday night, Abell is searching for the identities of the two women who appear in the found vintage snapshots featured here.



Abell came across these photos at a thrift shop on Hull Street in Richmond a few weeks ago, nestled happily in a box full of plastic sleeved images. She guesses that the retro photos date back to the 1940s or '50s, but she has no idea who the mysterious women might be. 


"NOW this is where I need the Internet's help," she wrote on Facebook. "I would absolutely love to find the women in these photographs/the photographer who took them." She describes the photos as medium format, and no, the owner of the thrift store has no idea where they came from either.


"I'm posting the best/clearest scans of the images, so if y'all could share this around, HOPEFULLY we can make it go viral and find the original photographer/subjects!!!!" she added.



And viral they may go. Jezebel writer Jia Tolentino wrote about the curious women, one dressed in a light blue dress, the other in red. Both are either peering into the ocean or eerily walking into the water, clothes and all.


"The most beautiful thing about this photo set isn’t the women," Tolentino wrote, "it’s where they are, what is saturating them, the alchemical earthbound psychedelia of where the light and water meet. These photos were taken at a moment when day and night were slipping into each other, but this moment, simultaneously heavy and weightless, seems paralyzingly total ... "



So, do you recognize these women? Though their faces remain obscured in most of the picturesque shots, Abell remains hopefuly that someone, somewhere, will be able to identify these two anonymous ladies. Why not help her out? Spread the word, and don't forget the hashtag. 


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This Week's Pint-Size Style Crushes Are Two Very Dapper Brothers

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Meet Matteo and Chase, two stylish brothers who probably have more clothes than you.


The New York-based boys (ages seven and four) are both signed with Zuri Model & Talent and have the swag to prove it. All their cute looks and fierce poses are captured on their Instagram account, which is run by their mom, Paola Berry.


Berry started documenting her boys' outfits when her first born, Matteo, was little, but she quickly grew frustrated with the lack of fashionable boys' clothing. Once she managed to track down stylish options for her kids, her friends began asking her where to shop, and so her blog, BerryChicBoyz.com, was born. "A sense of style can boost a kid’s confidence and really allow their personality to shine," Berry told The Huffington Post. "Why be exclusive [about sharing shopping sources] when you can make the world a more stylish place?" Amen to that. 


Check out some fashionable snaps of her boys below and tell us you don't want to copy their outfits. 


 


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Learn How To Nail Boyfriend Jeans On This Week's Best-Dressed List

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This week, many of our favorite stars stepped out in outfits that were not only beautiful, but also perfectly executed. 


Actress Rebecca Ferguson showed us that a wrap-style jumpsuit is just as flattering as a wrap-style dress, model Hailey Baldwin (yes, she's one of those Baldwins) taught us how to dress up a pair of boyfriend jeans and "Orange Is The New Black" star Uzo Aduba confirmed what Atmosphere has been rapping for years, which is that every woman really does look better in a sundress


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Buy Or DIY These Modern Takes On The Friendship Bracelet

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International Friendship Day is August 2, and what better way to celebrate than to harken back to the days when we wore friendship bracelets? You know, back when all we needed to celebrate and solidify a friendship was some brightly colored thread. Forget Facebook friending, a wrist full of friendship bracelets was the symbol that let the world know we were loved and had a full social calendar. 


These accessories of our youth might seem too juvenile to incorporate into our wardrobe now, but they aren't. Not only do they still make amazing gifts, but friendship bracelets are totally in style -- and we don't even have to relive our summer camp days to get our hands on them. 


We can now find traditional friendship bracelets adorned with rhinestones, beads and other eye-catching embellishments. And if technicolored wristwear isn't what we're looking for, there are also sleeker versions made with precious metals that might tickle our fancy. 



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We've rounded up a selection of bracelets that will definitely make you nostalgic and have you looking super cute. And for anyone feeling particularly crafty, we've added a few friendship bracelet tutorials for you to tackle. 



Frienship Bracelets


Top row: Monica Vinader "Fiji" bracelet, $200; Banana Republic woven bracelet, $25; Holbrooke by s.berry "Philia" bracelet, $95. 


Middle row: Dannijo "Tulum" cuff, $66; Kim & Zozi bracelet, $22; Marc by Marc Jacobs "Tambourine" bracelet, $58.


Bottom row: Petits Trésors "Coeur D'ange" bracelet, $57; Vestry "Shamballa Style" bracelet, $8; Cara Couture Jewelry bracelets, $39. 


Why not DIY...


Chevron Friendship Bracelet  




Candy Stripe Bracelet




Alternating Leaves Bracelet 




Long Stripe Bracelet




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How Witney Carson Went From A Teenager With A Dream To An Emmy Nominee

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Her story might sound similar to Kelly Clarkson's or Elisabeth Hasselbeck's -- become a beloved reality star and maybe strike stardom. But Witney Carson's journey to success began on a dance competition show, grew on another and ended with an Emmy nomination. 


The 21-year-old pro-dancer of "Dancing with the Stars" fame received an Emmy Award nomination for Outstanding Choreography for her routines -- "369," "It's Not Unusual" and "Sing with a Swing-Apache" -- with celebrity partner Alfonso Ribeiro on Season 19 of the show. And she was shocked. 


"Waking up, I think I got three calls and 10 texts from random people with everyone saying, 'Congrats,' and I had no idea what was going on," she told The Huffington Post. "Then I put two and two together and figured it out!"


Carson was nominated alongside some of her idols, including fellow "DWTS" pro and Emmy winner Derek Hough and his sister Julianne, as well as some of the choreographers she worked with during her stint on "So You Think You Can Dance," Sonya Tayeh, Travis Wall and Spencer Liff. "It’s an absolute honor," she gushed. "I feel super blessed and grateful for this nomination, especially being alongside choreographers I’ve looked up to for so long, all people that I grew up kind of idolizing -- it means the world to me."




Yes, Carson got her start on that little known dancing show that launched the careers of superstar dancers including Stephen "tWitch" Boss, Allison Holker and Kathryn McCormick. "'So You Think You Can Dance' is kind of a stepping stone for dancers in the industry, so it was always something in my mind that I was going to try and pursue," Carson said. Raised in Utah, the dancer was a dental assistant at the time she auditioned in 2012. 


"I was 18 years old and I had just graduated high school," she told HuffPost. "I trained my whole life as a dancer. Every day after school, I’d come straight to dance. It was just always something that I had my mind set on -- that I would audition." 


After some pressure from her mom, Carson did audition and ended up landing a spot in Season 9's top 20. "It sort of shifted my career in a way," she said. 


Carson made it to the final six before being sent home while her partner Chehon Wespi-Tschopp ended up winning the competition. But, she did get to go on tour with the "SYTYCD" dancers, which is possibly where she made an impression on ABC producers. 


"Toward the end of the tour, I ended up getting a call from this producer from 'Dancing With the Stars' asking me to be on troupe," Carson explained. "I didn’t have to audition or anything, they just kind of said, 'Come in, let’s interview a little bit.' They know that they want you on, but they’re not sure where exactly you fit in, so the troupe is kind of the audition process."


Carson was a part of the troupe for two seasons before she emerged as a pro with celebrity partner Cody Simpson on Season 18. Although she and Simpson only made it to Week 5, she really picked up steam on Season 19 with Ribeiro. In 2014, the pair won the competition and took home the Mirror Ball trophy. Carson, of course, also nabbed an Emmy nod. 



During Season 20 this past spring, Carson was partnered with "Bachelor" star Chris Soules. He wasn't as experienced as the Ribeiro, who made waves with The Carlton Dance.


"Alfonso is super talented and naturally knew how to dance, so with him, I was able to express myself with my full potential because he was so good. We were able to kind of connect in that way and create some pretty cool numbers," she said. "I think with Chris, it was a little bit of a different story because we had to start from ground zero. He didn’t know how to count music and he wasn’t a performer, he’s a normal guy, so we literally were just trying to figure out the steps. Choreographing takes a lot of time," she added. "People sometimes forget that choreographers have a lot to deal with -- we’re focused on our celebrity while trying to think of the theme, wardrobe, music, and just everything that plays into the dance." 


 Soules and Carson finished in 5th place, surely garnering votes from the solid "Bachelor" fanbase. 



Speaking of "The Bachelor" franchise, Carson is pretty sure another familiar face from the reality dating show will be a celebrity contestant next season, as well as another name who has been making headlines across the world. 


"They don’t actually call us until the last minute, so I don’t even know if I’m going to be a professional yet, but I’m crossing my fingers!" she told HuffPost. "As for celebrity rumors, I haven’t heard much, but they usually put on the Bachelor or Bachelorette, so Kaitlyn [Bristowe], I feel like, will probably be on, which would be fun. She has a great personality. And also I heard Caitlyn Jenner might be on, but then again it’s just rumors!"


As for Emmys night on Sept. 20, Carson couldn't be more excited. 


"I’m looking for dresses and what to do with my hair and makeup," she gushed. "I’m super, super excited. I’ve never been, so it’s going to be a special experience. I really want Alfonso to come, and I’m going to tag along with him." 


Season 21 of "Dancing with the Stars" premieres Monday, Sept. 14, at 8:00 p.m. ET on ABC.


 


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Stop Photoshopping Your Pics And Start Loving Your Body

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There's a great Instagram quote that says, "Try loving yourself as much as you want someone else to love you."

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It's funny. We have this romantic vision of how we want our lovers and significant others to treat us. We want them to not only tell us that we are beautiful, we want them to believe it. We want to be adored. We want them to stare at us hypnotized by our beauty. We want them to take us out to fancy places and buy us flowers and jewelry. But we don't do half of that stuff for ourselves. If we did just a fraction of the things we expected a lover to do for ourselves, we'd feel so much better, happier and more beautiful.

I made the mistake of turning a friend onto a quick iPhone Photoshopping app. We live in a superficial world and sometimes you need to remove that sweat stain under your arm or maybe smooth out that pimple on your face. But people are taking these tools to the next level.

I've gotten a call on more than one occasion at 2:00 a.m. in the morning, from a frantic friend in utter distress, begging me to take a picture down from Instagram so they can "fix" it. And I'm talking face, waist and arm slimming -- virtually turning themselves into a whole other person.

But what if we decided we we are beautiful just the way we are? Exactly how we are. What if we decided we are picture perfect? Here are seven ways to love your body exactly how it is right now.


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Write your body a love letter
I'm 30, so that means my body has gotten me through 30 years of both amazing and rough stuff. I love my body for that. It houses my mind and my spirit. It protects me. When I fall down both, literally and figuratively my body gets back up and moves on. Our bodies are awesome. That's why I've recently started the practice of writing my body love letters. They can be short or long. Sometimes they are long journal entries and some times it's just a post it note on my bathroom mirror that says "Hot Damn you're gorgeous" or your "booty is banging." Either way it does the trick.

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Dance
No matter if you're in pain or if you just feel like you've gained a ton of weight, turn on your favorite song and dance. I'm still rocking out to Bruno Mars' "Uptown Funk you Up." It's my happy song. No matter how down I am, it makes me instantly want to get up and move. And moving is key!

Dancing and moving is a celebration of your body and it will instantly change your mood. It helps you let go of tension and negativity. It's almost impossible to be mad or sad when you turn on Uptown Funk You up.

Be as silly as you want while dancing too. Look at yourself in the mirror. Jump up and down. Make circular motions with your booty. Throw your hands in the air and wave them like you don't care!!

Write A Gratitude list
There are a million and one things to thank your body for. Welp, today's a great day to list them. Think of all the people who woke up and couldn't move their limbs, all the people who couldn't walk from their bed to the kitchen this morning. But for most of us our bodies didn't fail us this morning and they deserve a metal for that or at least a gratitude list.

Not to mention all the emotional stress we put our bodies through or the heavy purses and bags we make them carry. Think about it on a deep level and then start writing.

Thank you body for getting up today.
Thank you legs for getting me to work today.

Tell your body you love her
Each of us has a least favorite part of our bodies. Right now mine is my lower stomach or what I like to call my gut! She's a little chubbier than usual right now. But you know what I love my gut anyway. In fact it's kind of cute. It is what it is! I'll change this part of my body when I'm ready but right now, it's a part of me and that's all good.

It's okay to take an "it is what it is" approach to the parts of your body that you're not so happy with. Send that part of your body lots of love. Tell that part of your body you love her because she is you and you're pretty awesome. And make peace with the fact that you will change it when you're ready.

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Celebrate the best of you
I've noticed that men do this. Yes we can all take a lesson from men. More than a few times I've been on a date feeling fat and uncomfortable sitting across from some guy. And although I'm not feeling that great about my body, I spy the guy stealing glances of my booty or staring deeply into my eyes or commenting on how beautiful I am.

That's because when I guy likes you, he focuses on all the amazing and beautiful things about you and the less flattering things become temporarily invisible.

There are parts of you that you love. Parts of you that you know for sure could make "People's Most Beautiful People List." Don't be afraid to take the attention off the things you're not so fond of and celebrate the parts of you that are amazing. Maybe it's your hair: well have a full fledged Herbal Essence commercial at your bathroom sink. Maybe it's your smile: well put on some lipstick and have yourself a selfie party! Luxuriate in your beauty then start your day and see how you feel.

Put on Your Freakem dress
Every woman's got one. In the words of Beyoncé "Put your freakem dress on." Maybe it hugs your booty just right. Or maybe it slims your tummy. Whatever it does, whip out that dress that makes you feel beautiful. Put it on and go do something you love Whether you take yourself on a date, have a party in your mirror at home or produce your own photoshoot with a photo timer app -- just do something that makes you feel gorgeous.






Give yourself a hug.
We MUST have compassion for ourselves. Deep inside of all us there is a little child who just wants to be loved and accepted. When you're having a tough day and saying all of those negative things to yourself, think about the child version of you. Would you let someone say "you're so fat" to a little child? You probably wouldn't even let someone say that to your friend. So why do we say these things to ourselves? Give yourself hug. Tell yourself you're doing the best you can and have some freaking compassion for yourself.

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