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Nike Is Raffling Off These 'Back To The Future' Self-Lacing Shoes For A Very Good Cause

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Get these sneakers, and you’ll be looking fly. Marty McFly, that is. 


Nike is raffling off just 89 pairs of its limited-edition Nike Mag self-lacing shoes, inspired by the ones Michael J. Fox wears in “Back to the Future Part II.”


The shoes lace up automatically thanks to a built-in sensors that detect when they’re being worn. They also have nifty light-up panels that make them epically similar to the movie version:







These Nike Mag sneakers aren’t available in stores. To try to win a pair, you can buy a raffle ticket for Nike’s “digital draw” at $10 a pop, as many times as you’d like. The best part is that all proceeds will go to the Michael J. Fox Foundation for Parkinson’s research. 


Tickets are available online until Oct. 11, and winners will be notified on Oct. 17. 


These limited edition shoes shouldn’t be confused with Nike’s other new self-lacing shoe, the HyperAdapt 1.0. That model will debut during the holiday season for purchase by the general public.


We guess they’d make a passable substitute.

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Maria Kang, 'Fitspo' Social Media Star, Is Now Working On Body Acceptance

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Instagram is wonderful for many reasons, but here’s one way it causes real damage: If you follow the wrong accounts, you could begin to feel pressure to hit the gym six days a week, maintain a steady diet of green juice and have a six pack immediately after pregnancy.


The hashtag #Fitspo, short for “fit inspiration,” turns up millions of problematic photos and ideas under the guise of healthy living. And, as we’ve written before, arranging your social media feed to bombard you with images of very thin, toned bodies, weight loss stories and diet rules can be a dangerous gateway into the world of disordered eating. In fact, the fitspiration movement has become a growing concern for mental health professionals.


So we were pleased to see one #Fitspo celebrity do an about-face this week. 


Maria Kang is the entrepreneur and “fit mom” who made headlines in 2013 with her offensive “What’s Your Excuse?” Facebook photo suggesting busy moms who didn’t exercise are lazy. Today, she has a different message.


Kang recently shared an un-retouched photo of her body on Instagram. She told The Huffington Post that, following weight gain, she had been avoiding professional photo shoots ― until now. 




While Kang would normally take weeks to prepare for a photo shoot through intense workouts and calorie restriction, she decided to be photographed on short notice this time.


Jaymi Britten, Kang’s sister-in-law, suggested this new, impromptu photo shoot. “She encouraged me,” said Kang, who has been open about her experiences with disordered eating and negative body image. “She wanted me to see what other people see.”


“Right now, I’ve been feeling a lot of insecurity. I’m going through marital issues, I have three children that are in all different schools, I just felt very insecure internally,” she added. 


Just three years ago the ‘Fit Mom’ wrote a Facebook post in which she wondered “how nearly obese women could be proud of their bodies” in reference to Curvy Girl’s Regular Women lingerie campaign. But now she espouses a healthier philosophy: 


“Just be proud of where you are in your life’s journey,” Kang wrote on Instagram. “As someone who works with the elderly, I promise you, you will look back at old photos and events when you were insecure and think, ‘what was I thinking?!’”


“It doesn’t matter if you are skinny, fit, overweight or obese, if you don’t live in gratitude, you will never see what you truly have and who you truly are,” she told People


Now that’s a message we can get behind.


H/T: The Cut


If you’re struggling with an eating disorder, call the National Eating Disorder Association hotline at 1-800-931-2237.

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You're Going To Want Everything In The New Dr. Scholl's Collection

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Dr. Scholl’s has come a long way over the years. With the rising popularity of shoes like Birkenstocks and Tevas, the brand has maintained its place as one of the most iconic, comfortable shoes out there.


In spite of that, there was a time we’d be hard pressed to call the shoes especially fashionable. That first changed for us thanks to a range of sandals back in February 2015. Now, if possible, the quintessential king of comfort just upped its chic factor even further. 


Dr. Scholl’s latest line, “The Original Collection,” features a range of incredibly sharp-looking shoes ― from flatform sneaker to the sweetest booties ― and we’ve got our eye on just about everything (looking at you, over-the-knee, Cognac suede boots).



Oh, and did we mention the most expensive pair is under $200? Take a look, just try to pick your favorite below, and head to Dr. Scholl’s to shop. 


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Serena Williams Has Zero Time For Judgement About Her Sex Appeal

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Serena Williams has been dealing with comments about her body since she was just 17 years old. Somehow, she’s developed the ability to tune it all out.


“People have been talking about my body for a really long time. Good things, great things, negative things,” Williams told Fader for her Oct./Nov. cover story interview.


She went on to speak about the importance of self-love in the face of other people’s judgments:



People are entitled to have their opinions, but what matters most is how I feel about me ... That’s the message I try to tell other women and in particular young girls. You have to love you, and if you don’t love you no one else will. And if you do love you, people will see that and they’ll love you too. 




Beyoncé asked Williams to appear in her visual album “Lemonade” because the tennis star personifies strength. In “Lemonade” Williams owned her sexuality like the queen she is, twirling on her haters.  


“Yeah, you know, it was ‘she’s too strong,’ and then ‘she’s too sexy,’ and then ‘she’s too strong’ again,” Williams said. “So I’m like, ‘Well, can you choose one?’ But either way, I don’t care which one they choose. I’m me and I’ve never changed who I am.”







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35 Creative Halloween Costumes Siblings Can Rock Together

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Even though their kids might not always get along, parents have a shot at spreading that brotherly or sisterly love this Halloween with coordinated costumes.


Whether they’re brothers, sisters, twins, triplets or part of another set of multiples, kids can enjoy the candy-filled holiday together with costumes inspired by pop culture, animals and sometimes, just a little creativity.


Here are 35 costumes siblings can rock:



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27 Halloween Costumes For Women That Are Way Better Than 'Sexy Firefighter'

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Finding a comfortable and memorable Halloween costume can be exhausting. Luckily, we got you covered. 


To help you out with the inevitable Halloween costume fatigue, we’ve rounded up 36 cute, funny and downright creative costumes so you don’t have to go Googling. 


Scroll through 27 Halloween costumes below that are way better than a sexy cop... or sexy crayon... or sexy Eernie.


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Redbook Magazine's September Issue: I Did It For Us

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During the iconic cover girl era of the Naomi's, Tyra's and Cindy's, supermodels seemed untouchable. Only a select few with the right bone structure and symmetrical smile could ever have the chance to see themselves reflected in mainstream outlets. I never thought I'd be in their place one day.

I have to be honest, when I was first presented with a nomination for the Redbook Real Women Style Awards, I didn't think I'd stand a chance. A quick thought came to me, there just has to be someone more cover-worthy in the eyes of these editors, right? Still I rallied up all of my supporters of friends and family and asked them to each vote for me. With an opportunity like this at my fingertips, I vowed that I would open myself to the possibility and whatever the outcome, I would be happy that I took the chance to live bolder. No longer content to play backup, I decided to put myself in the running for a spot that not too many women who look like me get asked to be a part of. Accepting the nomination was not just me saying yes to the cover girl dreams I had not known I had, but also an invitation to all the women who believe that they are not welcome to join us at the table.

It was surreal when I saw the email in my inbox announcing that I was one of six winners of the Redbook Real Women Style Award. On the day of the cover shoot, I smiled wider, strutted harder and felt simply amazing because I realized that by hiding ourselves or keeping quiet about who we are, we limit not just our own possibilities but also the potential of other women who are watching and hoping that they could do it too. This cover was for us.

Take a snack break & go check out @redbookmag from the stand because guess who's on the cover!

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Embracing the trend of seeing real women and real bodies in the fashion industry, the runways of this past Fashion Month showcased curvier women at all of the show-stopping shows like Rebecca Minkoff and Christian Siriano. It seems to be that the fashion industry is finally catching up to what we've all already known - that it is in the swish of our hips, that extra skin to grab hold of and the curves of our many figures that make women who we are. Standing confident and beautiful, owning it in whatever body we are in. It's time to celebrate ourselves in all of our fabulousness.



Seeing my face at the magazine stand right next to Oprah's, it showed me that rather than take on other's assessment of our beauty, talent and intelligence, we need to form our own opinions. We live in a world where we can create who we are. This opportunity not only became a symbolic declaration that anything is possible but an opportunity to make room at the table for everyone.

We are here.

One of my favorite looks from my cover shoot with @redbookmag. #RWSA #thisisrealstyle #sharifasays

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J.Crew And New Balance Team Up For The Activewear Collection Of Your Dreams

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Some people believe that stocking their wardrobes with nice workout garb will inspire them to exercise more. If that’s true, fans of J.Crew and New Balance are about to start frequenting the gym way more often. 


These two beloved brands have teamed up on one extremely cute activewear collection, soon to be spotted at a Classpass session near you. 



The line marks J.Crew’s first ever activewear line, though the two brands have enjoyed partnership on shoes for the past 11 years. Perhaps it took so long because, as J.Crew’s creative director and president Jenna Lyons explained to Refinery29, she is basically all of us when it comes to working out.


“I cannot for the life of me figure out how to clip in and out of a Spin bike, and the thought of ice cream is the only thing that gets me to do any type of physical exercise,” she said, though she added that the brand “jumped” to collaborate with New Balance earlier this year. 


The collection, which includes shoes, pants, shorts, sports bras, tanks, short-and long-sleeved tops, jackets and pullovers, launches Oct. 11 online and in select J.Crew and New Balance stores worldwide. With a $15-200 price range, there’s pretty much something for every athleisure enthusiast’s wish list. 



In keeping with its New York Fashion Week vibe, J.Crew hired women it admires to model the collection, including a Muy Thai boxer and a Soulcycle instructor.


Take a look at some of what New Balance’s vice president of apparel, Deirdre Fitzgerald, called “an aesthetic of timeless athletic chic”: 


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Magical Flower Jelly Lipsticks Change Color Depending On Your Skin's pH Level

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Several months ago, the Instagram world pretty much lost its mind over Kailijumei flower jelly lipsticks. Now, Manhattan-based cosmetics brand Winky Lux has come out with its own line of flower lip balms, and good lord, they are gorgeous.




Each tube is clear with real “fairy-picked” chrysanthemums inside. Now, we’d be perfectly happy to slather some clear flower gel on our lips. But while Winky Lux Flower Balms go on clear, the formula reacts with your skin’s pH levels, or natural acidity, to create unique shades of pink lipstick.


Yes, you read that correctly. This is Harry Potter-level magic, here.





Color-changing lipsticks are not a new concept. As Into The Gloss points out, Tangee has a color-adjusting lipstick that dates back to the 1920s, and Avon sold color magic lipsticks in the 1970s. The ingredient that allows these lipsticks to change color is CI 45410, also known as Red 27. Red 27 is clear when dissolved in the lipstick tube, but reacts with your lips’ moisture and pH level to adjust color.


It’s also worth noting that color-changing lipsticks may appear to be different shades on different people due to their natural lip and skin pigmentation. But we hate to spoil the fun, so we’ll choose to believe it’s witchcraft.


Why not incorporate a little flower power into your everyday makeup routine? One Winky Lux tube will run you $12, which is significantly cheaper than Kailijumei lipstick at $25 per tube. Check out these beauties below.



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What's Pink, Red And Gucci All Over? Beyoncé, For Some Reason.

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If wearing all-pink outfits with coordinating Gucci accessories is wrong, we don’t want to be right. 


Her majesty Beyoncé stepped out in New York City Wednesday wearing a delightfully playful (albeit the teeniest bit tacky) ensemble of a pink butterfly-emblazoned sweater, a sparkly pink and white striped skirt, a Gucci baseball cap and clutch and red strappy sandals. 



Lose the heels, add a rolling backpack and swap these accessories out for knockoffs, and you basically have our dream middle school look, perfectly rounded out by that bubble gum pink studded leather jacket. 



Are we biased for concluding everything Queen Bey wears is stylish? Maybe. Are we worried The Beygency will come for us if we question the decisions behind this look? Absolutely. 


That doesn’t change the fact that this happy-go-lucky, risky outfit is just plain fun. And don’t we all need a little fun in our lives right about now? 



Pink lemonade FTW.

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Gabrielle Union Is Glowing In This No-Makeup Selfie

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The #NoMakeup movement is gaining steam, y’all. 


On Tuesday, Gabrielle Union posted a makeup-free selfie on Snapchat with a shoutout to the leading lady of the #NoMakeup movement herself, Alicia Keys.


“No makeup, head wrap, hey Alicia Keys I see you,” Union wrote.



Naturally, Union looks flawless with glowing skin and freckles.



While Union was back in full makeup on Snapchat yesterday, her posts reflect a shift toward barefaced beauty among celebs.


Though stars (and plenty of non-famous women) have made a point of going makeup-free before, Keys really ramped things up in May with a simple, powerful essay about society’s unrealistic beauty expectations and her pledge to live naturally on red carpets and beyond. The #NoMakeup movement has also made inroads with celebrities like Gwyneth Paltrow, Mila Kunis and Kim Kardashian.


Paltrow posted a positively radiant makeup-free selfie last week, proving her impossibly posh skincare routine is doing its job.


I have been very inspired by the #nomakeup movement as the message behind it says, ‘Here I am, this is me. This is what I look like, this is where I am in time, and I embrace it,’” Paltrow told The Huffington Post in a statement.



#nomakeup for my 44th birthday, embracing my past and future. Thank you for the instalove #goopgoesmakeupfree @goop

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Kunis wore nothing but skin serum, eye cream and lip balm on the August cover of Glamou. 


I don’t wear makeup. I don’t wash my hair every day. It’s not something that I associate with myself,” Kunis told Glamour. “So to go to a shoot and have my makeup artist put on face cream and send me off to do a photo, I was like, ‘Well, this makes life easy.’”



This past weekend, Kim Kardashian attended the Balenciaga show at Paris Fashion Week completely barefaced. According to PeopleStyle, makeup artist Mario Dedivanovic used only moisturizer, lip balm and a lash curler to achieve the look.


We’ve been doing cleaner looks in the past month,” Dedivanovic told PeopleStyle. “I’m not sure why the switch happened, it’s just refreshing and something different. I thought it was time.” 



We’re all about any movement that empowers women to feel comfortable in their own skin. Wear makeup or don’t ― the choice is yours. You do you, ladies. 




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Bette Midler Ditched Her Gray Hair For This Beautiful, Softer Shade

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We will love Bette Midler no matter what she does with her tresses, but we must say that her choice to ditch the gray hair in favor of a soft blonde with light pink streaks has us wowed. We have been fans through long and short hair, gray and pre-gray. But her guest appearance on “The Voice” just has us hairily dazzled.


Take a look at Midler’s hair through the years, scroll down to the bottom to see her newest hairdo, and see if you don’t agree that this may be the best look ever for our favorite 70 year old.


 


Bette was a redhead in 1990 when she won a Grammy for “Wind Beneath My Wings.”



The actress in 2000 sported blonde highlights and a longer style.



Bette Midler in 2005 as a rich honey-blonde.



In 2007, Bette Midler went platinum blonde.



In 2014, she was just a downright brassy blonde.



A totally gray Bette Midler in June. 



And here’s Bette Midler’s new look: soft blonde with traces of pink. Loving it!



H/T StartsAt60.com

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Brothers Who Lost Parents In Tsunami Are Now Supporting Orphans In Need

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LONDON, Oct 6 (Thomson Reuters Foundation) - Nearly 12 years after British brothers Rob and Paul Forkan survived the Indian Ocean tsunami that killed their parents, they have combined charity work with travel and fashion to open a store in London to help fund two overseas children’s homes. 


The brothers were in Sri Lanka with their family for Christmas when the tsunami struck in December 2004, ripping through coastal communities in 14 countries, killing 230,000 people and sweeping away their parents.


When a wall of water crashed onto the shore, Rob and Paul stayed together, clinging to trees. They eventually found younger siblings Matt and Rosie and managed to get back to Britain where they were cared for by one of their elder sisters.


Realising how lucky they were to survive and to have family to help them, the brothers’ desire to give back inspired them to set up


Gandys, an ethical footwear company making colourful flip flops from natural materials, in 2011.



The company opened its first store in London’s Spitalfields Market on Wednesday, expanding its range from flip flops to clothing and travel accessories.


The profits from Gandys have helped fund projects including a centre for orphans near the Sri Lankan capital Colombo that the Gandy Foundation opened in 2014 and the brothers now aim to open a children’s home in Malawi.


“Mum and Dad would be happy to see the store and all that we’ve done and how far we’ve brought it with the children’s homes because that’s what they were passionate about,” Rob told the Thomson Reuters Foundation.


“They were also into fashion, so all we’re doing are things that they would have been proud of.”

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The Problem With 'How To Wear Clothes You've Been Told Not To' Stories

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French girls take gratuitous selfies in their poorly lit office bathrooms too, non?

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Let me start out by saying that I am very proud of where we are as a society, and of where fashion is as an industry. I probably don’t need to remind you of the fact that diversity is more present than ever on the runways, on the pages of magazines and on our favorite websites (but I just did anyway). And because these instances are becoming more and more the norm, they’re becoming something we eventually won’t even need to highlight.


That is a very, very good thing. 


However, I have, over the years (and especially recently) taken issue with the various videos, magazine stories and online articles touted as some variation of explaining “How To Wear Everything You’ve Been Told Not To.” 


Two videos, posted about one year apart by the same publication, share that exact name. These stories and videos feature women that I admire ― champions of body positivity and inclusion. They’re people I feel lucky enough to feature on this website on a regular basis.


These women are seen in clothing we have been conditioned to think some people “shouldn’t wear” ― horizontal stripes, bodycon dresses and all-white outfits ― to name a few. 


But instead of, say, simply putting together a chic editorial filled with outfit inspiration for women of all different shapes and sizes, more often than not, these “inclusive” and “progressive” stories and initiatives are used as a way to pat ourselves on the back for appealing to more women and checking off a box. 


Do you want to know the secret technique I use to wear things I’ve been told by society and those same fashion magazines not to?


I go into my closet, pick out said thing, and put it on.


I don’t need a video to remind me of the rhetoric previously surrounding me, stating that certain things just don’t work for my body type. 


This is not to say that I am against outfit tutorials. I am the first to divulge an obsession with blogs and social media for ideas on particularly uninspired mornings. I also know that fashion, in its purest form, is about self expression and wearing things that make you feel good. But when all you have to do these days is scroll through Instagram at the increasing number of diverse bloggers and models, it hardly seems necessary to drill certain ideals into our heads about the clothes we previously have been told to avoid. 


Why, if we are supposed to feel empowered to wear whatever we want, whenever we want, do we then need instructions on how to do it? If the idea is to make exclusivity a thing of the past, why are we constantly being reminded that there still somewhere exists the notion that we shouldn’t wear those things in the first place? 


For now, i’ll look toward a less self-congratulatory, inclusive future from the comfort of my horizontally striped T-shirt, thank-you-very-much. 

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It's No Surprise That Alicia Keys' Makeup-Free Album Cover Is Flawless

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Since declaring herself makeup free in June, Alicia Keys has put her money where her (bare) mouth is, showing up on red carpets au naturale and even posing on magazine covers without a trace of the stuff.


This image, though, taken by photographer Paola Kudacki for Keys’ upcoming new album “Here,” which debuts Nov. 4, takes the cake.




Posing in a pair of arrow-shaped earrings, some painfully glamorous hair and nothing else, Keys looks poised, powerful and unbelievably stunning in the shot.


Keys also released imagery for her first single off the album, “Blended Family (What You Do For Love),” in which she ― wait for it ― also looks beautiful with no makeup on.




While not the first celebrity to ever ditch makeup, Keys has certainly become eponymous with the movement, inspiring others like Gabrielle Union and Gwyneth Paltrow to follow suit, which is music to our ears. 

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I Was That Girl On Halloween -- Here's How I Learned My Lesson

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Update: Now that it's socially acceptable (i.e. not seen as overly eager) to plan your Halloween costume, let this piece serve as a reminder of what constitutes a good idea -- and a very much not okay one.

This story was originally published on October 19, 2015.

Halloween is hands-down my favorite holiday. Not only do I have a socially sanctioned excuse to house an entire bag of fun-sized Reese's Peanut Butter Cups in one sitting, I've always enjoyed putting together elaborate and creative costumes (mostly variations on some sort of princess).

However, things got a little complicated a few years ago when I switched on NPR in the car and heard someone talking about how offensive it is when a white girl (like me) puts on moccasins, sticks a feather in her hair, and calls herself a sexy Indian for Halloween. The argument at its most basic goes like this: Since white people have a long history of systematically exterminating and driving Native Americans off their own land, it's pretty shitty to dress up as an inaccurate, "sexy" stereotype of a Native American and get wasted.

So I crossed Native American Princess off my list of potential cute costumes. But as the discussion around cultural appropriation has intensified, and Halloween approaches again, I've looked back on my past Halloween costumes with a critical eye and realized at least of couple were maybe (definitely) a bit tasteless.

Three years ago, when it snowed on Halloween in New York, I pulled on a pair of big, furry Muk Luk boots, accessorized with every other fur accessory I could find, and called myself an Eskimo. Never mind that "Eskimo" itself is an offensive term (I was going for Inuit, I guess). Two years ago, I wrapped a gold-embroidered sari I stole from my mom's closet over gold lamé leggings and a top from American apparel, bought some jewelry from an Indian store in Midtown, and went as far as to have an Indian henna tattoo artist paint gold art on my hands. I felt beautiful, but who did I piss off as I raved all weekend with a bindi on my forehead?

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Photo via Halloween Costumes.

I called up several experts on cultural appropriation and got their take. "Why do people use Halloween as a time to be offensive?" asks Jamia Wilson, the executive director of Women, Action and the Media.

It comes down to Halloween being a goofy, silly holiday where people are trying to be clever and funny with their costumes. "At Halloween, you participate in the carnivalesque," says Anna Akbari, PhD, a sociologist and founder of Sociology of Style. "Everyday life gets turned upside down and inside out, hierarchies dissolve, the sacred becomes profane. Hence why so many women dress in an overtly sexual manner, because they can reclaim it in a way that becomes acceptable on Halloween."

"Halloween as a holiday has a history of being focused on inversion of power," says professor Susan Scafidi of Fordham University. She is the author of Who Owns Culture: Appropriation and Authenticity in American Law. "It's about turning the daily world on its head." People dress up as celebrities, cops, politicians, and other powerful figures, and it's funny! But when you dress up as a culture that you are currently oppressing, or have subjugated in the past, you're not inverting anything, you're just kicking them when they are down -- or, as Scafidi says, "reinforcing current power structures in an offensive way."

"We need to treat people with the dignity that they deserve, the way we want to be treated. If it's something that [you] have the privilege to wear safely, where others would be persecuted if they wore it, do not wear it," Wilson says.

Put another way, minorities have to put up with so much real BS every day of their lives -- discrimination, hostility, structural violence and exploitation -- then they go out on Halloween and everywhere they turn are people making fun of them and their family and friends using erroneous stereotypes. "You can be whoever you want for a day, but with what ramifications?" says Dr. Akbari. "Who suffers at the hand of your public display of dress-up?" Can you imagine being Mexican, hearing Donald Trump call all Mexicans rapists, and then seeing guys partying in sombreros on Halloween? Or being a Muslim and unable to get on a plane without being pulled out of the security line, and seeing someone dressed up as a terrorist? And then, you can't even say anything without being dismissed as overly sensitive.

"The pushback is 'People can't take a joke' or 'You're looking too hard for [offense],'" says Akil Houston, associate professor of cultural and media studies at Ohio University. Students there did a great campaign a couple years back called "We're a Culture, Not a Costume." But he's also seen some egregious costumes, including a Klansman with a noose around a student's neck, and white male students in blackface as Michael Jordan and Lil' Wayne.

"You should know when you go past the limit," he says. "But there are people in society who don't know that limit. If we really begin to examine the links between funny and the subconscious thoughts of others, there might be a lot more there than just a joke," he points out.

But Dr. Akbari cautions against being too strident. "Erring on the side of being PC always works in your favor," she says. "But anyone who tells you that there is a clear line, they're lying. It doesn't exist. Halloween in many ways is about pushing the envelope. Every costume can offend in the right context. That doesn't mean just go for it, because you're going to offend everyone. I don't think anyone should go in blackface; I don't encourage a Caitlyn Jenner costume."

Okay, so don't be scared to be creative, but be thoughtful. Got it. Here are some more specific guidelines I found:

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Photo via Silver Screen Collection/Getty Images.

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Photo via Devone Byrd/Pacific Coast News.

Don't wear blackface.
Don't do it. What if -- no. What about if -- no. Never. Wear. Blackface. Not if you are dressing up as a Black celebrity, or even as Rachel Dolezal, the woman who literally wore blackface in real life. Leave that one alone. It's like putting a sign on your chest that says, "I'm racist and proud of it!"

I asked professors Akil and Scafidi about dressing up as a Black celebrity without blackface, and they were both cautiously okay with it -- as long as you aren't playing on hurtful stereotypes. Just show your creativity. Wear a bodysuit, stockings, heels and a crown and be Queen Bey. Get your partner in partying to wear a tux and, bam, most powerful couple in Brooklyn. If you want to be Oprah, put on a brightly colored, monochromatic outfit and run around the party going, "And you get candy, and you get candy, and you get candy! EVERYBODY GETS CANDY!" See? No blackface or stereotypes needed.

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Don't wear a Native American headdress. Or any Native American costume.
"Costumes are meant to be fantasy or fun or scary. Cultures or people are not costumes," says Jessica Metcalfe, PhD, who writes about Native American art, fashion and design, and runs Beyond Buckskin, an online store that sells wearable Native American art. "There is the PocaHottie, the sexy native woman costume, the chief, or the savage. These costumes are playing off stereotypes of people, and we know stereotypes have negative impacts on us on a daily basis." Adrienne Keene, EdD, writes elegantly on this topic on her blog, Native Appropriations. "I just can't understand how, after hearing first-hand that your choice is hurtful to another human being, you're able to continue to celebrate with your braids and plastic tomahawk," she says.

Oh, and on the topic of headdresses: They're actually a sacred thing, built from individual eagle feathers that are earned over time. Through her hard work and advocacy, Dr. Metcalfe has earned a total of two. "When you are wearing a headdress, you are showing off all the amazing things that you've done. The feathers of many people can come together to create the headdress of one leader. It's like a form of voting. And to see somebody who hasn't earned the right, wearing it around alcohol in a party environment; it's completely disrespectful." Just like you don't get to wear a medal of honor by being born American, you don't get to wear a headdress on Halloween if you have Cherokee in you. Simple as that.

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Don't sexualize minorities.
"The sexualization of women from foreign cultures is part of a different kind of oppression," professor Scafidi says. "Particularly the treatment of women who are part of the 'other' as sexually available to men of the majority culture. Which is why when people sometimes say, 'I don't care if someone dresses up like my culture,' that's usually coming from a straight male."

To wit: You might have a fun time being dressed up as a sexy Geisha, but you can take off the costume and continue living undisturbed. Meanwhile, actual Japanese women (well, Asian women in general) are subjected to people fetishizing their looks without any easy way to make it stop. Same goes for a "sexy Gypsy" costume: harassment of the Roma in Europe is well documented and ongoing.

It's never an homage at Halloween.
When I asked Scafidi about my Indian costume, she said it wasn't the best idea. "You probably looked beautiful, and had it been any other day but Halloween it might have been a lovely homage."

Unfortunately, no matter how assiduously I researched typical Indian makeup and how many claims I made to how beautiful I think Indian culture is, I was still surrounded by all version of sexy and silly costumes, dancing all night in a club. As an aside: An Indian-American woman did rush up to tell me how much she loved my costume, but one person from a culture telling you they love it doesn't mean they speak for everyone, as Akilah Hughes points out in this excellent video on the topic of costume parties.

When in doubt, go as something mythical, from an extinct culture, or from a dominant culture.
So you want to dress as some sort of person, as opposed to an animal or a play on words. "If it's something that is completely fantastical and doesn't exist in real life, that is a safer zone," Dr. Akbari says. Zombies, Vikings, or fairies aren't going to hurt anybody's feelings, and you aren't going to run into a pirate wench that feels disenfranchised. "By and large, those in power in majority cultures and extinct cultures are fair game," Scafidi says. So put on your tennis whites and have a good time. Anyone offended by your WASP costume can comfort themselves with a gin and tonic. They'll be fine.

If you just have to do it, be ready to have a conversation.
Hey it's America. Free speech and all that, but if someone wants to explain to you why your Native American headdress isn't cool, don't just walk away. You brought this on yourself. "If you're going to come out in public like that, you need to be prepared to speak to that," Akil says. "It's difficult, because the atmosphere doesn't lend itself to critical conversation. But when I see the more offensive costumes, I talk to them about it."

"I've been at parties where I've been like, 'I think that is offensive, and I don't think it's funny,'" Wilson says. "There has to be an acknowledgment of privilege of power. I would want [people in costume] to be prepared to have that conversation."

Be an Advocate (carefully).
Now that you know, you might feel the need to righteously tell every person you see in an offensive costume all about it. Just be gentle about it. "I will not be rushing through Greenwich Village at Halloween shaking my finger at people," Scafidi says. "Most of this is not done with the intent to offend. It comes from a lack of knowledge and carelessness. This awareness is relatively recent."

Dr. Metcalf doesn't say anything to people, because it's too personal and exhausting for her. "I don't want to approach that person because I just don't have the energy. It does require a lot of patience, and also strength to approach somebody," she says. But she would appreciate you being an ally for her ahead of and during Halloween. "The more allies we have the better," she says.

Just be mindful of the mindset that people are in, which is to say, drunk and rowdy. "When someone has had a few drinks, it's probably not the time to bring up the issue with them," Scafidi says.


By: Alden Wicker

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This Gender-Norm Defying Ad Shows Boys Can (Obviously) Dress Like Princesses, Too

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Toy stores have traditionally divvied up their stock by gender, each aisle a sea of blue or pink. Making progress toward more gender-neutral options for kids (both in terms of toys and clothes) has been slow. But here's a lovely dose of it's-about-time news: An ad by Irish toy company Smyths Toys features a boy dressed up as a princess, The Gaily Grind reported.

In the video, "Oscar" explores a toy store and ends up riding a motorcycle, flying in space, and sitting on a throne as a queen. So, basically, he likes "boy things" and "girl things." He and Adele's son, Angelo, have that in common: Angelo dressed up as Anna from Frozen for a trip to Disneyland earlier this year.

And what makes this ad even better is Oscar's rendition of Beyoncé's "If I Were a Boy" narrating the scene (his version: "If I were a toy"). There's an adorable twist at the end, too, which we won't give away.



Even though this shouldn't be all that newsworthy, it is. Because while it's become more acceptable for girls to be "tomboys," there's still a stigma against boys dressing in "girls' clothes," and really far to go before gender is removed from things like clothing and toy choices, period. Ads like this help us break from that outdated approach. With progressive depictions like this one, and more stores ending gender segregation in their toy aisles, we're hopeful that the arbitrary and unnecessary gendering is coming to an end.

And, hey, maybe that means more kids will feel comfortable dressing up in whatever costumes they want this Halloween.

By: Suzannah Weiss, Landon Peoples

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This Grandpa Doing His Wife's Hair Is Too Sweet For Words

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We thought this video of a dad styling his daughter's hair was the ultimate heart-melter. But now, one elderly couple just upped the awww-factor with this now-viral tweet. Uploaded by the pair's granddaughter, the two images show a grandpa stepping in as hairdresser for his wife.

The caption reads: "My grandma had surgery on her wrist and couldn't do her own hair so my grandpa did it for her. Cuteness overload."







We don't know what we love more: The sheer look of determination on grandpa's face, grandma's serious lipstick stash, the befitting vintage dressing room and vanity, or that grandma was smooth enough to capture it all with her iPhone. What we do know is that it's #relationshipgoals, #hairgoals, #lifegoals, #allthegoals -- all in one clip.

The takeaway: An injury can't stop the chic, as long as you have someone by your side who's willing to step in and style your strands like a pro.


By: Erika Stalder

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This Pumpkin Spice Nail Tutorial Has To Be Seen To Be Believed

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If you thought the pumpkin spice trend had gone too far, then you clearly have yet to see this video.

YouTube user twi_star took things to the next level by using pumpkin pie spice, a.k.a. literal pumpkin spice, and applying it to her nails just like you would any other polish. Aside from the fact that it looked a little gloopy, it totally worked. Just be careful of the mess.

She began with a coat of perhaps the most pumpkin-y color you'll ever see: OPI's It's a Piazza Cake. Over that, she applied a top coat, and as it was drying (but still tacky) she dipped her nails in a bowl of pumpkin spice. After doing some minor cleanup with a brush, her pumpkin spice nails were complete.

Will everyone be rocking pumpkin spice nails any time soon? Well, probably not. As twi_star points out, they kind of look like elephant poop, and when you add a top coat over the spice, it turns into a dark, muddy mess. However, it's definitely filled with the fall spirit.

Plus, the next time you want to indulge your crazy pumpkin spice impulses, you can justify that at least you're not doing this.



By: Kathryn Lindsay

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Victoria Beckham Has A Tasty Secret For Clear Skin

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Eat up like Beckham. 


In a recent interview with The Edit, Victoria Beckham revealed there’s a dietary component to her blemish-free complexion. 


“I see a dermatologist in LA, called Dr. Harold Lancer, who is incredible. I’ve known him for years –- he sorted my skin out. I used to have really problematic skin and he said to me, ‘You have to eat salmon every single day.’ I said, ‘Really, every day?’ And he said, ‘Yes; breakfast, lunch or dinner, you have to eat it every single day.’”


That’s a lot of salmon.





But wait! Beckham really is onto something, though it doesn’t require quite so much dedication. 


“Wild-caught salmon is a superfood for skin,” said Dr. Lauren Ploch, a dermatologist and spokeswoman for the American Academy of Dermatology. “But like most healthy foods, it’s not necessary to eat it every single day to reap the benefits it has to offer. I recommend at least one to two servings of salmon per week to keep skin healthy.” 


Salmon contains omega-3 fatty acids –- nutrients known to benefit overall health -– and is a great source of the antioxidants niacinamide, Vitamin D and astaxanthin, according to Ploch. Astaxanthin is a carotenoid that can help preserve skin texture and elasticity, in addition to helping preventing skin cancer caused by UVA rays, she said. 


Would you try this beauty secret for clear skin? Here is the simplest salmon recipe you’ll ever need to get you started. 

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