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These Artists Turn Your Kids' Doodles Into Wearable Jewelry

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Parents can now wear their hearts on their sleeves — or on their wrists or around their necks.


Tasarım Takarım, a 2-year-old Turkish jewelry company, converts children’s drawings into cufflinks, bracelets and necklaces, among other items. 



“It’s like a single moment of someone’s childhood becomes timeless,” co-founder Yasemin Erdin Tavukçu, told The Huffington Post.



When customers send Tasarım Takarım their kid’s drawing, Tavukçu and her painter, sculptor and goldsmith, Özgür Karavit, try to figure out the best way to recreate the child’s doodle.



“Every drawing is unique,” Tavukçu told HuffPost. “So their application solutions and their techniques are also unique.”




Pieces are usually hand cut from silver or gold-plated silver. Occasionally the women add laser engraving when there’s more detail involved. The process usually takes about a week and prices range from $125 to $195. 



Many of Tasarım Takarım’s pieces are given to parents as presents, but Tavukçu says that witnessing how a child responds to seeing her drawing transformed into wearable art is the true gift.



“When kids see the jewelry [they designed], they become so proud of themselves and feel very happy,” Tavukçu said. “They feel so self-confident. They really believe that their art is loved and appreciated by others.”

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Watch This Makeup Artist Transform Herself Into Ron Swanson

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As the great Ron Swanson once said, “Never half-ass two things, whole-ass one thing .”


This make-up artist knows what we’re talking about. In a matter of moments,  transforms herself into the masculine Parks and Rec star, mustache and all.


“I don’t have a lot of words to preface this video,” she says. “But I will say this-the list of my favorite things that I have ever made goes as follows: 1. My child. 2. This.”


What more do you need to know?




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Enjoy The Days Of Wine And Roses

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Florals on a moody background -- favoring luxuriant colors from the same red palette we find in wine -- are gorgeous and wildly romantic. Some of us enjoy the mystery of brooding botanicals, while others exult in the striking prettiness of a garden on black.

Don't miss the fact that these pieces are practical too, offering an excellent transition from late Summer to Fall, whether it's fashion for your workplace, weekends, or drinks on the town.

On the runways, we see:

Erdem Has there ever been a prettier pantsuit than this one in a rich shade of merlot with a sprinkling of rose petals?

Oscar de la Renta Delicate faded roses contrast beautifully with deep burgundy in Peter Copping's romantic design.

Rodarte Floral embroidery graces the bodice of a dress fit for a princess. The sheer illusion neckline and sleeves leave a little something to the imagination.

Alberta Feretti The subtle floral brocade on this regal sheath evokes a medieval tapestry.

Armani A decidedly modern take on the trend: Abstract blossoms adorn an A-line tunic worn with narrow velvet trousers.

When shopping for clothes of this design, remember:

Feminine but not girlie: What a wonderful way to flaunt florals while maintaining our womanly mystery! This Alice + Olivia maxi dress with champagne-pink blooms and gray on black takes our vote for a Summer showing -- and when Fall comes, you'll add a cardigan like the Ann Taylor in tea rose shade or a jacket like the Bagatelle in burgundy. Same goes for the cranberry-florals Lela Rose dress (with sleeves, hurrah!). It's perfect for both seasons.

Mix with flare: The ultra-feminine silk top from Elizabeth and James (this off-the-shoulder trend shows no signs of fading) pairs well with jeans or a maxi skirt. Just think of the possibilities of this Maje skirt and its fantastic hombre design, or the merlot-colored leather leggings from Neiman Marcus (at a tempting price point).

Savor the fruit-of-the-vine shades:
We are seriously swooning over the varietal shades we see in not just the dresses, blouses and pants but the accessories too. Check out the Jimmy Choo pumps, the Joie booties, the Barneys New York sandals. But most of all, we dare you to turn your back on the lure of this Fendi Baguette micro-bag with crystal floral appliques. How that garden does grow!

Shop the trend
at Apprécier

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Getting Our Jersey On

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Every summer for the last decade, I've gotten together with five close friends from high school for what we call Girl's Weekend at a beach house in New Jersey. Four of us still live in the New York City metropolitan area, but one friend drives down from Boston and another flies in from the West Coast. It's become something of a sacred ritual -- which is not to say that we behave with decorum.

You couldn't come up with a more unlikely group of friends in terms of personality, politics, income, sexual orientation and personal style, but our shared experience as slightly wild teenagers bonded us for life.

In the '70s, we hitchhiked up and down the same shoreline -- the one we now gaze upon from under our beach umbrellas -- and hoped to rendezvous with some of the cute surfers who hung out at Johnny's parking lot in Long Branch, New Jersey. We laugh about the time we got busted for getting high in a friend's basement in the morning on a school day and had to march up the stairs with our hands in the air. The police didn't charge us, thank God. Instead, they made us sit in silence in the station until our furious mothers were able to come get us, which felt like strong punishment in and of itself. We talk a lot about our mothers and how they were in constant communication with each other, trying, unsuccessfully, to keep track of our whereabouts. We also talk a lot about our kids (five of us have them) and what they are doing to torment us, amuse us or make us proud.

We day-drink, overeat and play loud music. We jump in the ocean, get too much sun and give each other grief about our youthful indiscretions. We also feel comfortable enough to confide in one another, to brag, to argue and, occasionally, to cry. We don't really think much about what we are wearing. It's all about comfort.

We have overcome some enormous obstacles, including the death of close friends and parents and siblings, the suicide of a child, sexual abuse, depression, job loss, family dysfunction, financial hardship and more in the decades we have known one another. Somehow, we have all managed to get and stay married. The fact that we survived our teenage years is its own miracle! But the enduring nature of our friendship is an even bigger one.

This year our get-together begins on Friday, July 22nd. Can't wait! Here's to the comfort of long friendships.

Go to Apprécier to see what I'll be packing.

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The 6 Signs You're Not Dressing Appropriately For Your Age

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One day, you are going about your business when you catch sight of yourself wearing your favorite Hello Kitty t-shirt that always made you feel so free-spirited. Suddenly you think, “When did I turn into my Aunt Gladys?” Many of us fall into the trap of wearing clothes that are too young for us, thinking that the alternative is to wear dowdy, frumpy clothes.  But here’s the rub: Ironically, when you dress too young, you often make yourself look much older. And then there is the opposite trap of making yourself look older with dated trends. (Please, please, say goodbye to the 1980s Dynasty-style shoulder pads!)


“You always want to look modern, but that doesn’t mean forcing a trend that doesn’t match your body type and age,” says Samantha Brown, stylist, fashion expert, personal shopper and founder of the designer clothing consignment store, The Missing Piece. “You don’t want to look like you are trying too hard or holding on to a decade that’s past.”


Other signs that you are not dressing your age...


#1. You are still shopping at trendy teen store.


“That’s a firm no. The clothing teens wear is not the clothing you should wear and vice versa.  The cuts are different, and their lifestyle is different than yours,” says Brown, owner of samanthabrownstyle.com. That’s said, trends are open to interpretation across the ages. The way a youth is doing the leopard print trend may not be the way you should. If she is doing leopard print leggings and you like leopard, translate the trend and get a kicky pair of leopard flats. And men, even if you can squeeze into young men’s low-slung pants, with your boxers hanging out, don’t. Just don’t. Stick with fitted flat-front pants. (Going in the opposite direction with dated pleated pants will age you.)


#2. Your drawers are full of graphic humor t-shirts with sayings like, “My get up and go got up and went.”


Know your audience. If you spend a lot of time with your grandkids and are wearing it for the purpose of entertaining, that’s appropriate. However, if you are interacting with people your age, it’s little juvenile and silly for day to day. Think of the real message you are conveying and the first impression you make. You want people to think that you are pulled together, creative, powerful, self-possessed. “Novelty t-shirts say you have a sense of humor but maybe you can project that in a different way, perhaps with a quirky piece of jewelry, whimsical prints, or bright colors.  That is a way to show that aspect of your personality that seems more mature,” says Brown.


#3. You like to show a lot of skin: low hanging pants, lots of leg, Real Housewives-ish décolleté.


No, this is not about body-shaming. If you got it, flaunt it—but there are ways to do it so that it looks sexy and sensual, and not cheap. First, pick only one space to show. If you have a low cut dress, then keep the hem longer. If you are doing a short top, don’t show the belly button and pair it with long pants or a cool jacket. Be mindful of highlighting your best features. “A lot of designers are doing cutouts with sheer panels now. That is a really elegant, classy way to do it. There is still skin but there is still coverage. A sheer sleeve is still sexy but gives coverage,” says Brown.


#4. You still dress like you did 10 years ago.


The quickest way to age yourself is to wear something out of date, unless it is a timeless classic silhouette. Looking modern is more important than looking trendy. This holds especially true for men who hold onto their suits for decades. Suit jackets have become more tailored. You should be able to fit only one fist in between your chest and the lapels when the jacket is buttoned. If there is more room, it’s probably too big and an older style.


Update your closet every few seasons. “If you are into vintage clothing, most look better when mixed with modern pieces, like a 70s long flowing dress with a new leather jacket. But be careful: getting the right fit is everything,” says Brown.


#5. You are still rebelling against The Man. 


You can remain true to who you are without looking like a Ramones roadie. “I will say that if you want to participate in that trend, it is weekend casual. It shouldn’t be worn to work,” says Brown. If you want to go bad-ass and edgy, wear one statement piece matched with more timeless wear. For example, if you are into the ripped denim trend, keep the rips minimal on the knees. (“No butt rips!” Brown state firmly) Then dress it up with a fitted jacket and top.


#6. Your swimsuit is from another era.


Even if you are not comfortable with your body, you don’t have to suffer in a frumpy burka-like ensemble. There are amazing one-pieces out there with cut outs, and nice shaping. Brown says to look for ruching (it’s a great to define a waist), a natural built-in waistline, and chest support. For men, Speedos are a hard no in the US. Also, make sure the suit doesn’t squeeze the waist into a muffin top and is something you can move in. “If you can’t stand up, sit down or swim, it’s probably not the right choice” says Brown.


Overall, Brown adds, “People over 50 shouldn’t shy away from participating in trends because they feel intimidated. Fashion and great style are for everyone.  There is no reason to wear your LL Bean turtleneck and shrink into the background. You can participate in trends but pay attention to cut, fit, style and how it fits into your lifestyle.”


Read more from Grandparents.com:


Reverse Mortgages: A Primer


5 Reasons Not To Pay Off Your Mortgage Early


6 Questions To Ask Before An Aging Parent Moves In

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14 Photos Of Plus-Size Women Feeling Damn Good About Their Bodies

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Simone Mariposa was sick and tired of hearing constant negative comments about her plus-size bod. So she decided to do something about it. 


On July 23, the 23-year-old model and blogger created the hashtag #WeWearWhatWeWant to highlight plus-size women wearing outfits that society often deems “unacceptable” for bigger women.  


“#WeWearWhatWeWant symbolizes women building their confidence, and loving themselves enough to break the mold and challenge the societal norms of what’s ‘acceptable’ for big women to do,” Mariposa told The Huffington Post. 


Mariposa was inspired to create the hashtag after reading a story of a plus-size woman who was judged by strangers because of her outfit. “I find it important to highlight plus women being free and fabulous with their wardrobes because we live in a society that constantly polices our bodies,” she said. “Plus-size women are constantly told to cover up, not because we look bad in revealing clothing, but because of people’s personal lack of comfort.” 










“Showing skin isn’t exclusive to smaller girls. It’s okay for a plus size women to let her body breath in her clothing,” Mariposa tweeted. “Stop making it ‘unacceptable’ for plus women to wear clothes that show skin.”














The hashtag quickly took off with hundreds of women responding to Mariposa’s image with their own photos of them in their favorite outfits. 


Mariposa told HuffPost that she hopes the hashtag gives plus-size women a safe space to talk about their experiences. “The story of the plus-size woman isn’t commonly addressed because we are often made to feel subhuman,” she said. “But with powerful hashtags like this, we are given a voice that no one can ignore.” 


Way to do you, Simone. Scroll below to see more of the tweets from women who used the hashtag.



















































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Madeleine Albright's Brooch Steals The Show At The DNC

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Sorry Bill Clinton. We’re gonna let you finish, but Madeleine Albright won last night’s Democratic National Convention.


The former secretary of state joined a slew of other famous Hillary Clinton supporters in Philadelphia Tuesday night to voice her support of the now-confirmed presidential candidate, discuss the off-(Putin)g possibility of a Trump presidency, and, gosh darn it, wear her best brooch yet. 



Just look at that thing. It’s got it all: sparkle, size, and just the right amount of flash. If the brooch, which appears to be a take on the Great Seal of the United States, doesn’t scream “U.S.A.!” in the loudest, most fabulous voice possible, we don’t know what does. 



Albright has long used brooches as a way of expressing herself in the political sphere. A collection of 200 of those brooches even garnered their own museum exhibit. As she explained to Smithsonian.com in 2010, she credits her time at the United Nations, right after the Gulf War, with prompting her to start using jewelry to send a message. 



“During that time I had something dreadful to say about Saddam Hussein on a daily basis, which he deserved because he had invaded Kuwait. The government-controlled Iraqi media then compared me to an ‘unparalleled serpent.’ I happened to have a snake pin, and wore it to my next meeting on Iraq. When the press asked me about it, I thought, “Well, this is fun.” I was the only woman on the Security Council, and I decided to get some more costume jewelry. On good days, I wore flowers and butterflies and balloons, and on bad days, all kinds of bugs and carnivorous animals. I saw it as an additional way of expressing what I was saying, a visual way to deliver a message.”



So, sure, Bill Clinton’s heartfelt, powerful speech was good, but we’re calling this one a win for the pin. 

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Meryl Streep Delivers Speech Full Of 'Grit And Grace' For Hillary Clinton

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Meryl Streep delivered a fiery speech on behalf of Democratic presidential nominee Hillary Clinton Tuesday night at the Democratic National Convention. 


Wrapped in a patriot flag dress designed by Betsy Ross Catherine Malandrino, the actress praised the first woman ever to top a major party’s ticket for the White House. Streep began the speech with a yell and double-fist pumps, clearly feeling the emotion on the historic night. 


“We got some fight left in us, don’t we?” Streep said to roaring applause. “What does it take to be the first female anything? It takes grit and it takes grace.”


“Hillary Clinton has taken some fire over 40 years of her fight for families and children,” Streep continued. “How does she do it? That’s what I want to know. Where does she get her grit and her grace? Where do any of our female firsts, our path breakers, where do they find that strength?”





Streep also spoke eloquently about the female trailblazers who have come before Clinton “with a burning passion for their cause,” rattling off a list of powerful women that included Deborah Sampson, Sandra Day O’Conner, Rosa Parks, Amelia Earhart, Harriet Tubman and many more. 


“You people have made history,” the actress said. “And you’re gonna make history again in November, because Hillary Clinton will be our first woman president. She will be a great president and she will be the first in a long line of women ― and men ― who serve with grit and grace. She’ll be the first but she won’t be the last.”


Watch the rest of Streep’s speech below.




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Meryl Streep And Her American Flag Dress Can Do No Wrong

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At this point, it’s pretty much common knowledge that there’s no role too big for Meryl Streep: She can play Donald Trump, Miranda Priestly or, as she most recently, so earnestly demonstrated at the Democratic National Convention, your passionately patriotic aunt. 


Streep gave a fervent speech in support of Hillary Clinton at the DNC Tuesday night and, like Madeleine Albright before her, the woman-of-all-trades wore her patriotism on her sleeve.



Clad in a Catherine Malandrino dress that is essentially an American flag, Streep was delightfully on-theme, and as expected, the subject of many a social media response: 










But lest you think Streep’s dedication only runs convention deep, think again. The dress is actually a repeat from Streep’s 2009 press tour for the movie “Doubt.”



Repeat or otherwise, this is pretty much how we feel about her look:




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Beyonce And Blue Ivy's Latest Mommy-And-Me Moment Is Just Too Cool

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Remember when you were a kid and your parents dressed you up in an itchy sweater to take family portraits at Sears?


Yeah, this is nothing like that.



Beyonce and her daughter Blue Ivy are masters of the mommy-and-me moment. They recently took a break from ruling the world to take some playful family photos in Paris, wearing matching Gucci dresses and using the freaking Eiffel Tower as a backdrop


The photos were posted to Bey’s personal website, along with some equally envy-inducing shots of her riding around in fancy cars and on boats with husband Jay Z (as one does).



Stars: Sometimes they are so not like us. 


 

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So THAT'S How You Pronounce 'Moleskine'

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Chances are, you know Moleskine ― the name of the ubiquitous little journals found in nearly every Barnes & Noble/Starbucks across the land.


But do you know how to accurately pronounce “Moleskine?”


Maybe you pronounce it “mole-skeen, or perhaps, “mole-skin” or “mole-skyne.”


Or do you say “mol-uh-skeen-uh?” “Mole-skeen-y?” 


Turns out, they’re all right, according to the company:


“Many Moleskine users send us enquiries as to which is the correct way of pronouncing the word ‘Moleskine,’” the company explains. “The answer is: There is no predetermined answer.”


They explain this as a way of saying that the Italian-based company is a brand with “undefined national identity. And that’s the way we like it.”


If that’s not enough for you, perhaps you can take the lead from the company’s CEO, Arrigo Berni, who can be heard pronouncing it, “Mole-uh-skin,” on PRI’s “Marketplace.” But then again, that could just be his accent.




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Here Are All The Tweets That Judged Bill Clinton's Outfit Last Night

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If you were up late last night watching the Democratic National Convention and reading Twitter, it’s likely that you were expecting to see tweets about potential first gentlemen Bill Clinton’s speech. But if you were ready and waiting for all the sassy discussion that dissected his sartorial choices, you were probably disappointed.



The dress that first lady Michelle Obama wore for her speech the night before was touted as a stunner the land over. We all knew that she wore a custom blue dress designed by Christian Siriano. But Clinton’s suit ― striped in blue with a vibrant blue tie ― was met with crickets.


Any tweets about his fashion were tongue-in-cheek sarcasm about how little they expected the coverage to be about his suit ― his speech, technique and charisma were the focus of the response and analysis.


The LA Times didn’t even care enough to investigate, reporting, “We don’t know who made the suit specifically (he’s worn Hickey Freeman and Hart Schaffner Marx in the past, among others) but we can tell you that if you stare at it long enough, a subtle tone-on-tone stripe becomes apparent.”


Indeed it does. We’ve reached out to the Clinton campaign for more information about his duds and will update here if we learn more.


For the record, because nobody’s saying it: Clinton looked pretty damn sharp in that suit.


Here’s a comparison of the Twitter commentary about the first lady’s attire, compared to the potential first gentleman’s.


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Michelle Obama:






















































The lack of attention paid to what he wears not only highlights the different ways men and women are portrayed in our society, but it also presents an interesting new issue in the fashion industry.


First ladies have historically held a unique position to represent and showcase U.S. designers to the world, and are therefore incredibly influential to the industry. Will that change if we’re represented by a first gentleman? Or would a female president carry that torch instead?

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Apparently 'Pokemon Go' Is Influencing Baby Names

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Move over, Khaleesi and Arya. There’s a new pop culture baby name trend in town.


According to a press release from BabyCenter, parents are turning to “Pokemon Go” for name inspiration. New data from the parenting network shows a spike in popularity for Pokemon names among BabyCenter users. For example, the name Roselia has risen 5,859 spots over the past year. Onyx is up 2,184 spots and Eevee jumped up 1,377 spots.


“Parents are always looking to pop culture for baby name inspiration and, right now, it doesn’t get hotter than Pokémon Go,” said Linda Murray, BabyCenter Global Editor in Chief. “It’s possible that parents’ enthusiasm for the game will reignite their love for the brand and spark a full-fledged naming trend,” she added.


BabyCenter’s report also notes that Pokemon like Starmie, Ivysaur and Shayman may be influencing baby name trends, as Star has risen 2,040 spots for girls, Ivy is up 1,287 spots for boys and Shay jumped up 369 spots for girls and 64 for boys since last year.


According to a recent BabyCenter poll, almost 50 percent of mom users play “Pokemon Go.” Thus, the notion that the game is impacting baby name choices “might not be that far-fetched,” the press release states.


A BabyCenter representative told The Huffington Post that these baby name popularity rankings stem from site users. When parents register on BabyCenter, they indicate their child’s name and birthday or due date. The popularity of specific names may fluctuate slightly day to day, as the data updates in real time, and the press release figures reflect the rankings on July 26.


So, will preschools of the future be filled with little Mewtwos and Jigglypuffs? Only time will tell.

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Prince Harry's Live HIV Test Had A Major Impact

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We’ve seen the way members of the British royal family can be an influence for good, but this might be the one of best examples yet. 


Orders for a new, free at-home HIV test spiked five times higher after Prince Harry underwent an HIV test in video streamed live on Facebook.  



The Terrence Higgins Trust, which is “the largest voluntary sector provider of HIV and sexual health services in the U.K,” according to its website, launched a short pilot program in June to offer free versions of the at-home HIV test BioSure. The test usually retails for around $33. 


According to a press release from the Trust, the program saw success on its own, with about 4,000 tests delivered during a first-come, first-serve promotional push that lasted two weeks. Orders continued to be placed even as the pilot period wound down, with 32 placed on July 12. However, after the segment with Prince Harry aired, orders “surged five-fold to 150 per day,” the Trust announced. 


Harry was tested at the Guys and St. Thomas’ hospital in London earlier this month in an attempt to educate, de-stigmatize and highlight how easy and painless it is to be tested for HIV. Thanks to tests like BioSure in the U.K. and OraQuick in the U.S., which promise results in less than an hour from the comfort of your own home, the process is easier than ever.


Dr. Michael Brady, medical director for Terrence Higgins Trust, said the free pilot program definitely had an impact. 


“The pilot self testing scheme has been a real success in terms of developing our plans for increasing HIV testing in the future, but also was important for the people who took the test and may not otherwise have known their HIV status. For one in five, this was their first ever HIV test,” he said. 


Upon seeing the “great news,” Kensington Palace tweeted to thank the Trust for its “great work in tackling the fear and stigma around #HIV testing.”






Great news, indeed. Check out some at-home options for HIV testing or find a testing center near you

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Woman's Viral FB Post Fights Girl-On-Girl Hate With Kindness

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When a young woman from Cornwall walked into the UK-based beauty store Superdrug, she wasn’t expecting to be mocked for her outfit by two employees. Unfortunately for Harriet Rae, that’s exactly what happened.


But instead of crumbling, Harriet chose to kill her haters with kindness. In a July 23 Facebook post, Harriet wrote an open letter to the two women who made rude comments about her appearance and the fact that she was wearing shorts.


“You spoke loud enough for most people to hear. Its obviously not the first time you’ve had a giggle and a made comments about another girl,” she wrote.


She continued, writing that the two employees had nothing to gain from making the rude comments, and even threw a few compliments their way: 



Just so you know, your words didn’t hurt me. The looks you gave me did not either. I do feel slightly saddened that you think it’s ok to speak about another female, or in fact anyone, in that way. I don’t believe you gained anything from it apart from looking a little bit silly when you realised I heard you. If somehow you end up reading this, as Cornwall is a very small place, can you be a little bit kinder with your words? Some peoples skin isn’t as thick as mine has become and the next persons might be very thin indeed.
So in response to your comments, I send back some love! If you did your own hair and make up for work today, you are both very talented. I could never get my winged liner or my ponytail that perfect!



Harriet posted a photo of her (totally appropriate) outfit with her open letter:





The post struck a major chord. Since being posted on Sunday, it has been shared more than 50,000 times. The post also prompted a response from the store’s managers. 


“I have spoken to the lovely people at Superdrug Head Office...who apologised for what happened in the Truro Store on Saturday,” Harriet wrote. “I re-enforced that the intended message of the post was to spread kindness and positivity, not embarrassment or hurt. They understood and accepted that I didn’t want to give a description of the people or my location in the store when it happened.”


Remember, people, it costs nothing to be kind. 


The Huffington Post reached out to Harriet for comment but did not hear back before publication. 

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The Ultimate Hair Guide For Women

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Well let's face it, whether India Arie agrees or not, you are your hair.

Your hair is an extension of you, same as your dress sense, your spoken words and your disposition generally. And so, whether its winter, fall, spring or summer, a consistent daily hair care routine for your hair type is always a must.

Is your hair straight, wavy, curly, or coily? We have the right hair guide for you.

Straight hair, typically known as Type 1, falls smoothly and has a sleek feel since the natural oils from the scalp easily work their way to the bottom. Straight hair doesn't need much conditioning because it's typically soft and smooth. But that doesn't mean you can't suffer from common problems like flatness at the top, weak and stringy hair and your hair getting greasy more quickly.

Clean/care: Comb your hair with a small-tooth comb daily to distribute the sebum to the ends of the shafts. Wash your hair every other day. Deep condition your hair at least once a month to keep your hair soft and supple, while applying some other hair care tips necessary for your hair type.

Style: When your hair gets flat, try teasing your hair at the crown and adding in hair spray. Also consider blow drying your hair upside-down with a round brush.


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Wavy Hair, typically known as type 2, has s-shaped curls down its length, it's the perfect blend between straight and curly. Sometimes the hair can appear straight with slight bends towards the ends of the hair, or it can have consistent waves throughout the shaft. This hair has ultimate flexibility, and is easy to straighten, keep wavy, curl and style. However, sometimes it can get greasy on the top and dry at the bottom, and is much more prone to frizz than other types.

Clean/care: Wash your hair two to three times a week, and use dry shampoo for in-between days.
Use a deep conditioner twice a month to keep your hair soft. You can also use a dime-sized amount of leave-in conditioner or a couple of drops of argan oil to keep your hair from frizzing during the day.

Style: Since wavy hair has many choices, you can choose whether you want to straighten it, leave it wavy or curl your hair more. We suggest keeping it natural and spritzing some texturizing or salt spray to give you a beachy look.

Curly Hair, typically known as type 3, is bouncy, playful, and full of volume. The strand thickness can range from fine to coarse but is most often fine. The greatest challenges for curly hair types are frizz, lack of shine, lack of curl definition, shrinkage and dryness.

Unlike straight hair, which tends to have a natural luster, curly hair has an uneven surface that does not reflect light very well. That means the curlier or wavier your hair is, the duller it appears.

Clean/care: Wash your hair just once or twice a week. Shampoo can strip the moisture out of curly hair more quickly, so make sure to apply some leave-in conditioner or argan oil.

Use a deep conditioning treatment once a week (before the day you wash your hair) to keep your hair silky and smooth, and your curls bouncy.

Style: Use a heat protection spray before you run your hair through a diffuser, and spend some time styling the individual curls. If your hair gets frizzy, take a spray bottle and spray your strands again to give the curl a chance to re-form.


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Coily/Thick Hair, typically known as type 4 hair, has the tightest curls ranging from fine to coarse, with s-shaped and z-shaped curls. It is the most fragile of hair types. Many people with thick hair complain of having an itchy, flaky scalp. This is usually caused by insufficient rinsing after cleaning your hair: the shampoo soap leaves a residue which is sealed onto the scalp by the conditioner, causing dryness and irritation. This type of hair is filled with texture, so you won't have to worry about your hair slipping out of a braid or style. A common problem with coily hair is that it is dry and fragile, but that doesn't mean it can't look beautiful.

Clean/care: Wash your hair just once a week with a cleansing conditioner.
Seal your hair with heavy oils and coating butters (like shea-butter and coconut oil), right after the shower, and put it through a pre-treatment with a hot oil treatment to make it easy to wash.

Style: You can wear it natural, braid it, or put it up in a bun. You decide. If you want to give yourself a voluminous fro, use a diffuser to dry it 50% of the way, then let it naturally air dry. The less heat you use on coily hair, the better.


Is your hair Greasy?


A little oil or grease in your hair is normal; in fact you need it to keep your tresses in good condition. But too much can make your hair look dirty and limp. If both your hair and scalp are greasy, make sure you are not using a shampoo or conditioner that is too heavy for your hair.

Other tips for controlling greasy hair include:
• Cleaning your hair every other day. You may be tempted to wash your hair frequently, but the oil glands on your scalp are actually stimulated by massage so the more you wash your hair, the greasier your scalp becomes.
• Using the flat of your fingers to shampoo your hair for a more gentle cleaning action.

Or too dry Hair?


Too many coloring jobs or perms can weaken your hair structure and cause damage, as can excessive exposure to heat from hairdryers, curling irons, heated rollers and other electric styling tools. To restore your hair to its natural splendor, try following these techniques:

• Cut down on the use of hairdryers, curling irons, etc.
• Change your appliances regularly as the internal thermostats that regulate heat eventually break down.
• When hitting the beach or going for a swim, use a leave-in product to protect your hair.


These are generic tips, but are by no means all encompassing. Good advice usually comes from physicians trained specifically in hair care and hair therapy with special training in skin and hair cosmetic care.

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An Honest Conversation About Body Image

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A recent Time magazine article revealed that our societal drive to love our bodies more and to build self-esteem is just turning us into a more narcissistic culture. A truly positive body image should not feed your narcissism or your vanity.

Embracing your body as-is and loving yourself despite your flaws is trending lately, and that's a great thing. Jennifer Aniston's Huffpost essay on the objectification of women is just one voice in the growing chorus of positive body conversations. Loving our bodies is not enough though. What is fundamentally missing is the honest body image conversations. #BodyPositive conversations are on our collective mind as a society but they are tragically one sided.

There seems to be an attitude from those within the movement to bash those who work on changing their body. Somehow those who are overweight are given more praise than those who are fit, and it's not driving the right message. I have been on both sides of the spectrum, being that I used to be morbidly obese. After having my son I got motivated to get healthy for my child, and since then I have received mixed feedback. Sure, there are more people congratulating me than not, but to my surprise I have gotten many, "don't get too skinny!" comments. People love to throw in there that no one loves a twig, and real women have curves. Funny thing is, I never once got a comment from someone telling me not to get too heavy, even though I was dangerously unhealthy. Thin shaming is every bit as problematic as fat shaming, yet most people don't blink an eye at it.

The misconception is that people who are working on their bodies cannot love themselves at the same time. The truth is, after growing and birthing another human being, I gained a new respect for my body. I decided that I loved it enough to treat it right, and that was the turning point for me. I didn't lose more than 100 pounds because I hated my body, I lost the weight because I decided to love my body and treat it how it should be treated.

I follow many other inspirational people on social media who have lost loads of weight as well, and I am shocked by the comments I see on their amazing transformations. They get backlash from getting surgical procedures done after losing the weight, as if that is a bad thing. I know the main surgeries after weight loss is the removal of excess skin, along with tucks and lifts, and they are not only for cosmetic reasons. Dr. Stephanie Power , a Toronto, Canada based Plastic Surgeon says:
"As rates of bariatric surgery increase, more patients are seeking plastic surgery following massive weight loss. They present with redundant skin, which is often uncomfortable and negative for one's body image. Common body contouring procedures include tummy tuck and lifts of their breasts, arms, and thighs. These patients are not interested in purely cosmetic enhancement. It's more of a restorative process. Many studies have also shown improved quality of life following these procedures."


It can be plain old uncomfortable carrying around extra skin. Even if it is for cosmetic reasons, who are we to judge the choices someone else makes? If it makes them happy and increases their confidence, I am all for it. Our well-intentioned conquest to develop a positive body image should allow for people to make their own body change decisions without fear of judgement.

As someone who has had to watch what I ate for two years now, I know how hard it can be to face the pressure from outsiders who don't get it. "Oh, come on, eat the pizza!" Along with, "Enjoy life and eat what you want," are common remarks I get when I pass on the donuts or fast food. Why does eating healthy have such a negative stigma? Also, why does watching what you consume mean you aren't enjoying life? When I treat my body right I feel amazing inside and out, in so many ways. Knowing you have the willpower to avoid junk food, and the strength to work towards your goals is enough to keep you motivated day after day. Food is meant to be treated as fuel, and somewhere along the way humans have turned it into more than it is.

There is nothing wrong with treating yourself now and then, and you definitely shouldn't beat yourself up over it. You also shouldn't beat yourself up for working towards bettering yourself and your body, no matter what anyone says. Body positivity works both ways -- you should love yourself no matter what size you are, and no matter how many stretch marks you have. That doesn't mean you have to accept where you are and remain stagnant. Change means growth, and I believe we should always be growing as humans. As long as you are healthy and treating your body how it should be, you should feel amazing.

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What Happened When I Added Weed Into My Beauty Routine

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Weed, ganja, pot, cannabis, Mary Jane -- call it what you want. Marijuana has had a somewhat controversial history in the United States. But recently, national perception of the drug has shifted as more and more states are legalizing it -- so far, 24 for medical purposes; four for recreational. What was once associated with Woodstock and Reagan's War on Drugs is now pretty damn socially acceptable.

In the last few years, there have been a number of triumphs in the weed community, like the creation of pro-pot spas in states like Colorado and Illinois, weed-infused lube, and the opening of New York City's first medical-marijuana dispensary this year. Given the plant's popularity, it's no surprise that it's making its way into skin care. I figured, as a beauty editor, it'd be almost irresponsible if I didn't test the latest thing, right?

First things first, is cannabis-infused skin care legal everywhere? Well, that depends. Both of the brands I tried, Apothecanna and CBD For Life, are sold legally in all states in the U.S., but according to Mollie Twining, founding partner and president of sales for CBD For Life, "The legality is dependent upon the source and extraction of CBD." CBD is derived from the stalks and stems of hemp (like that found in Apothecanna and CBD For Life's products) and is legal as long as the THC level is under 0.3%, she adds.

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As I dipped my fingers into Apothecanna's Everyday Face and Body Oil, I couldn't help but giggle -- despite the fact that the moisturizer is completely legal in the States, something about using it felt naughty, like I was stealing a (pot) cookie from the metaphorical cookie jar. I rubbed the slick oil onto my face and it felt like, well, any other facial oil I'd tried. The scent, however, set it apart: citrusy and crisp, with some warm woodiness in there, too. But what about the weed? I didn't think I'd get high, but I thought maybe something would happen.

Both Apothecanna and CBD For Life employ the power of cannabidiol (CBD), one of the two compounds responsible for most of marijuana's effects; the other being tetrahydrocannabinol (THC). Unlike THC, CBD doesn't produce any psychoactive effects. In other words: no high. The compound is also known for its pain-reliving and anti-inflammatory properties, says Julie Winters, chief operating officer of CBD For Life, making it an effective skin-soother.

"[It can also have] an indirect benefit on 'inflam-aging,' or aging caused by chronic skin inflammation," says Ni'Kita Wilson, cosmetic chemist and founder of Skinects. Hemp-seed oil, she says, is very moisturizing and can improve the skin's barrier, reduce dryness and skin sensitivity, and help skin to appear plumper and smoother. The compound is also great for soothing bug bites, muscle aches, and menstrual cramps, adds James Kennedy, founder of Apothecanna.

After using these products for a month, I've found they give the same results as the other, non-cannabis skin care I keep in my medicine cabinet. Apothecanna's face oil was great. It was extremely moisturizing, didn't break me out, and plumped my skin overnight.

I found CBD For Life's Facial and Body Cleanser to be a great body wash for year-round use, because it effectively cleanses without stripping the skin of its natural oils. Often, post-shower, I didn't feel the need to moisturize my body.

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But it was CBD For Life's Pure CBD Extract Pain Relief Spray that I was most curious about initially. I gave it to my boyfriend, who constantly complains of muscle fatigue and back pain, to test, with the instructions to use it for a few weeks in lieu of his beloved Tiger Balm and Dr. Teal's Pre & Post Workout Pain Relief Cream.

This is what he had to say: "It doesn't have that satisfying icy-hot feeling, but it does seem to reduce general muscle tension. You really have to douse your body in it -- two to three spritzes minimum on each area. It's not any different than the pain-relieving topicals available at the drugstore, but it did make me feel relaxed."

I tried it on my body post-workout and on my abs when I was on my period (What the hell, right?), and fell into a chill state of relaxation. Whether the CBD or the menthol is responsible is up for debate.

"If the source of the pain is very localized in the skin, rubbing on a concentrated solution of cannabis might help reduce the pain," says a slightly skeptical Gary Wenk, PhD, professor of psychology, neuroscience, and medical genetics. However, Ethan Russo, MD, board-certified neurologist and past president of the International Cannabinoid Research Society, warns that "there's a tremendous placebo effect with cannabis-based medicines, especially anything pertaining to topicals and massage."

Basically, nothing's as potent as a good ol' toke of herb. Or so we hear.

Refinery29 in no way encourages illegal activity and would like to remind its readers that marijuana usage continues to be an offense under Federal Law, regardless of state marijuana laws. To learn more, click here.

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I Tried Kylie Jenner's 18-Step Makeup Routine -- & Here's What Happened

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Kylie Jenner's fan base is so enthusiastic (and I'm a part of it) that she could read a page out of the phone book on Snapchat and people would flip. So imagine the pandemonium that followed her first-ever makeup tutorial on the app last week. Here was Jenner, my guiding beauty force, walking me through every step of her routine -- and you can bet I replayed the story more times than I'd like to admit.

Naturally, I decided I'd volunteer as tribute and copy the whole damn thing. I collected an amount of makeup that seemed obscene for a Broadway cast, let alone a single person, sat down in my living room, pulled out my phone, and willed myself to get in touch with my inner Kylie. How hard could it be? Well, famous last words.

Little did I know, I was about to embark on an hour-and-a-half-long filming session during which I followed Jenner's lead (tutorial above) down to the last detail (I also took a few gratuitous selfies, but I imagine she probably did, too). I was feeling 18, and I was into it.

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Almost immediately, I realized how hard it is to Snapchat while applying a full face -- much respect to Kylie, who makes it look seamless. I started by bouncing a blend of Make Up For Ever's Ultra HD Foundation and Urban Decay's One & Done Hybrid Complexion Perfector all over my face with a damp Beautyblender Pro. I used my iPhone screen as a mirror while swaying to the slow beats of Frank Ocean with my finger pressed against my lips. (Why hadn't I thought to get coffin nails for this?!)

Then, I moved on to the eyebrows -- the second step in her 18-step routine. I've mentioned my lack of brows on this site before, and I knew that my thin arches wouldn't transform into Kylie's full ones no matter how much Anastasia Brow Wiz I drew on, but I did it anyway. Then I set my work (yes, this is a thing Kylie does) with Laura Mercier's Translucent Setting Powder.

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Next, Kylie dusts a mid-tone brown shadow all over her lids and into her creases, before blending a deep, brown-black shadow across her lashlines in a slight wing. Since she doesn't share the palette she uses in the video (Could it be because she's launching one? Fingers crossed!), I used the Lorac Pro. At this point, I was getting pretty damn tired of holding up my phone to Snap. Kylie must be getting some serious hand and arm massages in her downtime.

But I pressed on because I am a trooper, and swiped two generous coats of Urban Decay's Naked Concealer under my eyes. To keep her makeup from looking cakey, Kylie gently presses in the product with a damp sponge, and that tip really did help things blend much faster. Although, I have to admit, things still felt heavy -- and that was before I dusted Chanel's Double Perfection Lumière Powder all over.

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Not done yet. Kylie applied more brown shadow under her bottom lashes before proceeding to contour her face with Benefit's Hoola Bronzer, and set her brows with brow gel. So I did all of that. Now, the final steps: a light dusting of a peachy-pink blush, a heavy coat of Candy K lipliner (I used MAC Whirl instead), a few coats of Lancôme mascara, a bit of Sephora's Shadow & Liner along the waterline, and a slick of lip gloss. Phew!

When all was said and done, I was worn out -- and ready to wash my face. It seems only Kylie, queen of social media, can apply layers of foundation, concealer, eyeshadow, blush, and bronzer with one hand, and still have the energy to hop in the car for a dance party after. Me? I'm going to stick to my regular, two-handed, 15-minute routine -- after all, unlike Kylie, I still have to make it into the office on time every morning.

To see full-length video proof of my experience, click here.

By: Mi-Anne Chan

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Let Me Introduce You To "Asian Fit" Glasses

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Some people dread swimsuit shopping. Others consider the process of finding jeans that fit as enjoyable as a colonoscopy. For me, I've never not ended a session of eyeglasses shopping without choking back rage tears at the optometrist's. And, as someone who's needed glasses since the second grade (my vision finally plateaued at -7.5 in middle school), I've had a lifetime of anguish to come to the conclusion that I have a deformed head.

Here's the problem, I've got: a wide, flat face; a shallow nose bridge; puffy cheeks; a skull that's more basketball than rugby ball; and the aforementioned high prescription. For 364 days of the year, I have absolutely no problem with my head -- in fact, I love it. It's my head, and it seems like a waste of time to have anything short of good feelings toward something as prominent (and permanent) as your own noggin.

But, during that one day in the year in which I'm obligated to seek out a new pair of specs, I hate my head. Just two years prior, after spending hours weeding through hundreds of beautiful frames at a certain not-to-be-named trendy eyeglasses retailer I've extolled on the site dozens of times before, the sales associate and I came to the conclusion that the only pair that fit my particular needs was one that only Sarah Palin could love. Tired, annoyed, but frantic, I just picked a pair that I thought looked nice, and hoped that by the time they came fitted with my prescription, my face would have undergone a miraculous transformation. Upon arrival, the already high-index lenses were as thick as a Peanut Butter Patty cookie, so unevenly heavy they would have tipped off my nose if I put them on, but I couldn't even get them on my face, because they were a good inch too narrow, and I accidentally snapped off the arms trying to wiggle into them. Commence: tears.

It wasn't until I went glasses shopping in China that I realized my deformed dome wasn't deformed at all. Every single pair I tried on fit and flattered. No stretching, bending, pinching (or tears) needed. Obviously, not all Asian faces are created the same, but generally speaking they are different from other faces. I just needed to find the brands that could cater to me.

My first time in LensCrafters last year, a sales associated pointed me to the "Asian Fit" section when I started describing my particular constraints. I was about to throw out indignations, but realized it wasn't actually that bad an idea (it was just a bad name). Despite the backwards-sounding moniker, the frames in that range all followed a similar look: The lenses were smaller than your average "on trend" eyeglasses, featured adjustable nose pads, and had a more substantial frame to camouflage thicker lenses. I left with a pair of Prada glasses that I wear regularly -- they're the first glasses I've ever owned that don't slide down my face at the first hint of humidity, don't have the too-tight arms that give me a pressure headache, and don't get jostled around by my cheeks whenever I smile.

If you're of Asian descent, wear glasses, and live in a Western nation, chances are you've experienced some of the same frustrations. To make things a bit easier, I've found 10 pairs that have an "Asian fit" (though you definitely don't have to be Asian to enjoy them). I can see clearly now, the rage-tears are gone.

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Oliver Peoples Wilkins, $390, available at Oliver Peoples.

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Moscot Mazel, $250, available at Moscot.

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Gentle Monster Pavana S3, $210, available at Gentle Monster.

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Illesteva Dean Silver Optical, $165, available at Illesteva.

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Miu Miu Cut-Top Cat-Eye Fashion Glasses, $340, available at Neiman Marcus.

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Bonlook Darling, $99, available at Bonlook.

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TC Charton Scott Blue Smoke Eyeglasses, $330, available at Eyewear Envy.

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Dita Vida, $450, available at Dita.

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Frency & Mercurcy Cultura Abundante, $800.84, available at Frency & Mercury.

By: Connie Wang

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