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Jessica Alba May Not Be Able To Balance It All, But She Sure Does Have It All

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A decade ago, the name Jessica Alba was synonymous with Hollywood. The actress landed at the top of every "hot list," appeared on the show "Dark Angel" and in movies like "Honey," and made fans and designers alike go ga-ga over her sense of fashion.

Nowadays, the name Jessica Alba means a lot more in the world of showbiz. The 34-year-old just covered Forbes' Self-Made Women issue, after becoming one of the 50 ceiling crashers in the industry as the co-founder of The Honest Company, whose goal is to re-define the "family brand" with effective, beautiful, eco-friendly and affordable products. Along with Christopher Gavigan, Alba has grown the four-year-old company into a $1 billion success story.

"We're such a young company, and we’re just getting started," Alba told The Huffington Post in a phone interview. "We’ve laid a strong foundation, but this is just the beginning."

But how did it all begin? Well, Alba saw a need for a healthy lifestyle brand and decided to "fill a hole" in the marketplace. ""We’ve changed the game," she said. "You cannot find, I believe, any other brand, especially the things that we offer, out there."

Actually, the mother-of-two says the only way to start a successful business is to recognize a gap in the game, and attempt to squeeze through it. "If you have a dream and you have ideas and you want to make them a reality, you got to go for it, and you have to be smart with the way you go for it," she said. "It's so hard to start a company if you don’t think it will make a difference. You have to understand the company and give it your all -- blood sweat and tears -- because theres going to be a lot of pushback. But what’s cool about living in the United States is it can become a reality and opportunities are here for the taking."

Currently, Alba is using her healthy, proactive outlook on life to promote something she believes in: flourishing from the inside out. She has teamed up with Zico Premium Coconut Water for their Crack Life Open national campaign, which aims to remind people that life is better when our hearts and minds are open. "These days, it’s all about the hustle and bustle of life and being pulled in so many different directions. You have to take time to take care of yourself and you have to make yourself a priority. You can’t be the last one on the list that matters anymore," Alba told HuffPost about the partnership.

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Like Arianna Huffington's book, Thrive, which Alba referenced, Zico wants to avoid the "burnout" and have individuals thrive on a physical and emotional level, and ultimately live a beautiful life. "It's more than just selling you a drink," Alba said, "It’s more about a philosophy and a take on life."

And despite everyone's assumptions that the spokeswoman balances her career, business and family life perfectly, Alba insists she doesn't, and feels like she's always sacrificing something. "I always feel like I’m being pulled in so many different directions," she said. "I guess my litmus test on if I’m being stretched too thin or not are my kids. If they’re happy and they’re thriving then I just keep at it, but if I see that there’s anything faltering in their behavior, or how they’re feeling, then I stop everything and I focus on them."

"I don’t know how to balance time. I don’t have a consistent schedule for anything," she added. "I love when I can take a couple of spin classes a week, take a couple hot yoga classes a week and have a girls night out and a date night once a week, that would be great. Does that happen? No. But that’s my ideal. I wish there were more hours in the day!"

Still, despite those 24-hour days, Alba makes time to pursue acting roles -- she just recently wrapped filming on "Mechanic: Resurrection" with Jason Statham and appears in the "Entourage" movie (out now). She's also raising two daughters, Honor, 6, and Haven, 3, a doting wife to husband Cash Warren, writing books (The Honest Life), traveling the world for conferences, walking the red carpet, appearing in Taylor Swift music videos, being a spokesperson for various projects and running a company. Oh, and she does it all pretty darn well.

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Melissa McCarthy Wins 'The Daily Show' With Her Incredible Jon Stewart Dress

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Melissa McCarthy, comedic badass and star of the new movie "Spy," surprised a baffled Jon Stewart on her Wednesday night "Daily Show" appearance. The star showed up in a dress plastered with various black-and-white photos of Stewart's face, including his 2011 Rolling Stone cover.

"What is that?" said a giggling Stewart as McCarthy moved in to give him a hug.

"It's my Jon Stewart dress," said McCarthy, as she turned to the roaring audience, twirling to show off Stewart's many faces.

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"Lovely," said Stewart. "You know, I've wanted to say this to you for a long time. I am all over you like a cheap suit."

McCarthy explained that the dress is something she'll wear when "she rocks herself to sleep after night, crying" when Stewart goes off the air. Stewart said it was especially "weird" seeing the dress because he doesn't photograph well. "I am the king of the unflattering freeze frame."

No word on whether or not the dress will be a part of McCarthy's new clothing line, which premieres later this August, but one can hope.

H/T Slate

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'100 Years Of Fashion Under 2 Minutes' Celebrates American Style, From The Good To The Bad

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It's Throwback Thursday, so it's only right that the Internet would bless us with an awesome video chronicling a century of style.

The folks over at Mode Glam whipped up a fun stop-action video entitled "100 Years of Fashion Under 2 Minutes." One model is transformed in looks that range from the petticoats and parasols of 1915 to today's boyfriend jeans and motorcycle jackets.

While we love the ultra feminine attire from 1935 and 1955, there are definitely a few cringe-worthy moments thanks to our questionable sartorial choices of 1985 and 2005.

Take a trip down memory lane with the video above.




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19 Rad Brides Who Rocked Their Tattoos On The Big Day

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Brides want to feel and look like the most beautiful versions of themselves on their wedding day. And for tatted-up ladies, that means showing off their incredible ink.

Below are 19 tattooed brides who wouldn't dream of covering up those works of art on the big day.



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The Worst Dress Code Violations You've Ever Seen In The Office

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Workplace decorum can be tough to navigate -- especially when it comes to dress code. There is no universal set of rules for "business casual" or even "casual," which makes getting dressed every day a slightly more difficult task.

However, there are some employees who simply don't understand the term "work appropriate" and are clearly in major violation of the dress code. We asked our Facebook community for the worst cases they've seen, and some may require pictures to believe.

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"Someone actually wore a Victoria's Secret-branded pink velour yoga outfit to the office. That was too small. I can never [unsee] that." -- Facebook user Melissa Williams Chamberlain

"Wearing leggings as pants and skirts that are too short." -- Facebook user Terri Lamping Harper

"Crocs with socks and cargo shorts. He was the manager..." -- Facebook user Melissa Atchison

"Playboy Bunny gold and rhinestone belt buckle that said 'SEXY.'" -- Facebook user Erin Colby

"Someone wore those sneakers with the toes in the office. Really unprofessional." -- Facebook user Susan Duong

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"My pet peeve -- people shuffling around the office in bedroom slippers." -- Facebook user Jaime Ong-Yeoh

"I worked with a guy in the corporate offices of a major financial services firm who came in one dress-down Friday wearing basketball shorts -- commando!!!" -- Facebook user Lynn Colyer

"Flip flops... just because they are beaded doesn't mean they are shoes." -- Facebook user Colleen Drysdale Baccam

"One of my employees wore a tight cardigan and the buttons kept coming undone and drastically showing her bra. I had to tell her twice and finally sent her home." -- Facebook user Lisa Baginski

"Woman wearing a see-through white top and no bra." -- Facebook user Amy Kantoff

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"Leggings!!! Just because you wear them with heels doesn't make them office appropriate." -- Facebook user Kesha Houser

"Do NOT wear mandals with ANY office attire. Ladies: Gnarly feet exposed in any way is not only disgusting, but unprofessional. And can I declare 'hygiene' as part of the dress code? Leaving the house without deodorant should be thought of as leaving the house without clothes. One would think 'office dress code' would be kind of a common sense thing... but I worked in enough offices to know: 'Tis NOT. Which is why I work for myself now." -- Facebook user Susan Hoagland

"A woman would wear low-cut jeans and [a] short T-shirt that showed her belly button and thong in back." -- Facebook user Kriss Erickson

"Went to the doctor one day and the nurse practitioner came in yoga/workout pants, a T-shirt, flip flops and her hair was just thrown up in a messy ponytail. Completely unprofessional, especially for a medical setting." -- Facebook user Hannah Hodge

"I worked at a preschool where we were encouraged to dress down so we wouldn't feel inhibited [by] getting on the floor or using paints, etc. The amount of pajama pants that came through that place was astounding. And no one said a word." -- Facebook user Stephanie De Bear

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"A gal working in front of a courtroom in five-inch heels and a skin-tight, short black dress with meshy see-through cutouts." -- Facebook user Amie Eleanor

"Black thong worn with thin white fabric (like beach cover-up type) skirt... because she was going to meet her [boyfriend] at a bar after work." -- Facebook user Mary Blanchard

"A sequined party dress was worn and it was floor length." -- Facebook user Veronica Washington

"Dirty sweatshirt and pants with holes in them. I thought a homeless person wandered in but found out he was a programmer." -- Facebook user Dana Newby Wright

"Culottes in knit fabric (old and faded like you'd wear to garden) with nylon stockings and Birkenstock sandals." -- Facebook user Sonja Ingram Hanneman

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"This girl showed up to work in a crop-top with her stomach completely exposed." -- Facebook user Danielle Elisabeth Deshaies

"Jeans with holes in them ... the kind you buy that way." -- Facebook user Nickie Allen Vongratsamy

"Flip-flops. Grooooooooooooossssssssssssssssss." -- Facebook user Jutta Beinker

"My thing has always been things that don't fit well ... like muffin tops, buttons that are pushed to the limit, almost anything that is too tight and a few things that are too loose; add to it dirty, smelly or lewd and my list is done." -- Facebook user Bobbie Ann Ford McKinney




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Millennials, Let's Not Kill Black Love

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For almost every social circle I have encountered, I hear the same constant killjoys about black love.

Things like:

"Relationships are overrated." (But you still want to be someone's #ManCrushMonday)

"I don't want everyone in my business." (And yet, people will be regardless)

"I don't believe in labels." (But you are still low-key possessive about your terms of dating.)

As a black millennial, it often pains me to see that the young love era that I grew fond of from watching my mom's old-school films (Love Jones and Jason's Lyric are some of my favorites) might not happen for my generation.

It's easy to blame social media or the music we listen to, but I think it's deeper than that.

To be honest, over the past 20 years, I argue that the parents of our generation have pushed an agenda that has declared more social independence and sexual liberation at the expense of monogamy.

And this is not to say that I'm a conservative prude that is calling for traditional households (I'm currently in a gay relationship and fairly liberal.) But it does say something for a generation of young black men and women who are being culturally construed not to dig deeper than just hook-ups and casual dates.

Judging by the looks of mass media, we have been skewed not to trust each other. Whether through pop culture or these pseudo relationship gurus (looking at you, Steve Harvey), our parents' generation has capitalized off of telling us that "brothers are no good" and "sisters are the enemy."

Further introspection has even perpetuated the stereotypical tropes of the angry black woman and promiscuous buck of the black man. Culturally, black men continue to appear as hypersexual and aggressive, lacking emotion and an ability to hold themselves accountable. Sounds familiar when you think of the rhetoric of how black lives continue to be discounted for the same ignorance.

Black women, on the other hand, continue to be placed in the sweeping generalization that they are loud, angry, self-serving, and justify this by the way that "black men ain't (insert any profanity you probably heard your mother, aunt or older sister say)."

As a result, this instilled fear and insecurity has carried on to us. Young black men my age are scared to commit to a relationship because they have "trust issues." The black women in my social circles want to date, but also question their ability to have some control in the ordeal and question the loyalty of men as well.

And we won't even delve into how much of a mess this becomes when you add in colorism and black beauty politics. It's even nastier how old-fashioned stereotypes on dark skin vs. light skin, straight hair vs. natural, has shaped our horrifying ability to love and respect each other when it comes to dating.

Again, I blame it on the problematic lessons passed on to us from the generation before us and their parents.

Because when I hear a 13-year-old girl at the grocery store say she won't ever get married because he will get her "pregnant and leave," we have developed a wall of improper misjudgment for any man of color she plans to forever date.

When my little brother is at school and feels the pressure to define his masculinity by being a "playa" and having tons of girls' numbers in his phone, but is encouraged not to call them -- we are perpetuating a cycle of problems that are doomed to end us.

I love social media and blogs, because it reveals the truth about our world, but I can't stand it for the same reason for it reminds me how wicked and disgusting we can be as a people.

For those before us that love to post Facebook videos of how your child's father or mother doesn't take care of the misbehaving child you are now trying to shame to the world: You are part of the problem.

To the producers of Love and Hip-Hop and other similar "reality shows" who profits off of the constant dysfunction and exploitation of black families and relationships: You are also part of the problem.

And all of the comics, corny life coaches and unintelligent dating professionals that have attempted to make a living off of finding ways to unfairly act as though blacks are less human in our ways of seeking love and understanding, please stop now.

Consequently, an entire generation of black millennials has learned how to "think like a man," rather than be treated respectfully by one. Black men have been groomed into assuming that long-term commitment is like a prison sentence, when statistically we are better off in the former than the latter.

But this is where the complaints end, and the solutions begin.

Overall, we need to start dismantling the cultural vernacular and jargon that has invaded our tongues about our fellow brother and sister. Let's make less sweeping generalizations about each other when we still have many decades to explore.

I'm so sick of hearing "black women are so... (insert tired and pathetic insult)" when you're only 23 years old. And if you have never had a serious relationship in your life, stop saying that there are "no good black men left" just because you haven't found one yet. All of these played out excuses aren't doing any of us good and only separating us from ever loving each other.

Nostalgically, I want to believe that there was a world where we loved fearlessly and sought to be more direct about it. Today, our generation stands at recreating this with more inclusion, power and liberation through various expressions of genders and orientations.

Black love might look very different from how our grandparents had it, but it still deserves to exist.

Even if it starts with the swift quickness of an Instagram double-tap, some clever Twitter re-tweets and some thirsty (but flattering) Facebook likes.

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The Flawless Response This Woman Had To A Dude Who Told Her She Needed To Lose Weight

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One surefire way to not pick up a lady: Tell her she needs to lose weight.

On June 3, marketing director and fashion blogger Christina Topacio took to Twitter to share an offensive and sexist text message conversation she had with a guy she had never actually met in real life.

The audacious dude told Topacio that while he would "seriously consider dating" her and "getting to know" her, he thinks she needs to change a few things. This unsolicited advice was not necessary (to say the least).

"It fucking kills me to say this… And it’s nothing you don’t already know," the guy wrote in a text to Topacio. "And I’m positive you’ve thought about it. And I’m only telling you this because I want it to effect a change. You need to fucking lose weight. It kills me.”

Topacio told The Huffington Post that she met the guy on a dating site where they exchanged numbers, however, they had never hung out in person.

She tweeted screenshots of the entire text message conversation yesterday to her 8,500 followers, receiving over 2,500 retweets. Check out the cringeworthy exchange below:








"My first reaction was, literally, 'Wait, what?!'" Topacio told HuffPost. "Then, I got sad. Like, this person has never seen me in real life. I was baffled."

She said that she shared the conversation on social media to empower women to stand up for themselves. "My goal is to encourage girls to not only brush it off, despite how hurtful it is, and to laugh it away," she said. "I want women to feel empowered to stand up for themselves, own who they are and understand that someone else's opinion has no relation to them being an amazing person."

"My story is not a new story, this happens to women constantly," she added. "I'm just happy to have been given an opportunity to share my personal experience in hopes that it empowers women to shut it down. And ultimately say... I'm beautiful, I'm strong, I'm powerful, I'm 100 percent me."

Take note of Topacio's flawless response:

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Haters gonna hate and Christina's gonna eat her Chipotle.

Go on with your beautiful, strong and powerful self, Christina.






H/T BuzzFeed

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31 Life-Changing Beauty Hacks

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On This Week's Best Dressed List, A Stylish Couple Hits It Out Of The Park

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Over the past couple of days, we've seen so many amazing outfits, we don't quite know what to do with ourselves.

Joshua Jackson and Diane Kruger looked like the fashion darlings they are at the Veuve Clicquot Polo Classic, Kate Hudson flaunted her figure in a low-cut gown at the Glamour Women Of The Year Awards, and Kerry Washington proved that sometimes a dress isn't the best option on the red carpet.

Check out the best-dressed stars of the week and let us know if you agree with our picks.

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Our Pint-Sized Style Crush Of The Week Has More Swagger Than You

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Meet Gavin, the 8-year-old whose style you're totally going to want to emulate.

The California-born kid got his start starring in Pharrell Williams' music video "Happy," and has since gone on to model for brands like Target and Izod. So it really comes as no surprise that he has an Instagram account chock full of so many stylish outfits, he could easily start his own fashion blog. Though not all the photos are professional, some of the best images come from the talented Pasadena-based photographer Derrick Montiel.

Just from looking at Gavin's photos, it's pretty clear that he has style -- and a penchant for hats. While he could easily spend the rest of his years modeling, according to his parents, when he grows up he wants to be a dentist, and a dancer and actor on the side. Sounds like a solid plan, Gavin.

Before he makes his mark in the world as a dentist/dancer, check out some photos of this little guy in some dope outfits. Damn, this kid is cool.

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Yankee stadium. #NewYork #Tbt #MilkNsoda

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H E L L O // hat from @milknsoda #MilknSoda

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Outfit @laminiatura #LaMiniatura Shoes: @jcrew

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This cali weather is unpredictable but he was ready with his new boots. Thanks @nativeshoes #Native

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Bow tie from @laecaties Pc: @derrickmontiel Shirt and pants: @laminiatura #LaMiniatura Shoes: @jcrew

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Do you have a stylish kid with an Instagram account? Tell us about him/her at style@huffingtonpost.com for a chance to be featured.




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Kendall Jenner's Matte Red Lips, Plus More Celebrity Beauty Looks We Loved This Week

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It's been a pretty exciting week for the Kardashian-Jenner family, to say the least.

At the Kendall + Kylie fashion line launch party at Topshop in Los Angeles, Kendall wore bold brows, contoured cheeks and classic red lips. We love how the high ponytail added a playful touch to the 19-year-old's sophisticated makeup and black and white outfit.

Check out Jenner's matte red lips below, and see which other celebrity bright-lip looks we loved this week.





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8 Awesome Father's Day Gift Ideas Inspired By Stylish Instagram Dads

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On the hunt for the perfect Father's Day gift? So are we, which is why we turned to our favorite place for inspiration: Instagram.

The social media platform is filled with dapper dads who have inspired us to think beyond just ties and socks. Although we're sure our fathers appreciate anything we give them, we can get a bit more creative and fashion forward this year.

Check out the eight gift ideas below, all based on the sensational style of some of Instagram's most snazzy dads. And don't forget to tell us what you're getting your dear ol' dad in the comments section below!

A Weekend Bag: When it's time to take a trip your dad shouldn't have to borrow a bag from mom. Get a roomy carryall like the one this stylish dad is sporting from Sons of Trade.

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A Bespoke Suit: There's nothing like a tailor-made suit -- especially one that won't break the bank. Give dad a gift certificate to design his own at MySuit.com.




Hair Pomade: Whether they admit it or not, men are just as concerned about their hair as women are. With that said, they should also be using amazing products -- like the sleek pomade from American Crew.




A Fancy Hat: While we're sure dad would love to add another baseball cap to his collection, it's high time he got fancy. The toppers from Stetson have something for everyone, from the country dad to the city dad.




Beard Oil: Keep your papa's beard on point with a luxurious beard oil. The formulas from Beard Brand smell amazing and will leave his whiskers soft and shiny.




A Bow Tie: Help your dad get out of his tie rut and elevate his neck accessory game with a bow tie. And thankfully there are plenty to choose from at TheTieBar.com.

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Matching Sneakers: Daddy-and-me moments are the cutest. Dad can get matchy-matchy with his mini in a pair of Converse kicks. We also love the big and little versions of Native Shoes.

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Statement sunglasses: His classic aviators are great, but dad could use a pair of head-turning shades to throw on every now and then. Snag a pair from Le Specs.

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What It Took For Me To Finally Find My Style

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For TueNight.com by Ashley C. Ford

Spencer was the most glamorous person I'd ever seen. The first time I met him, he was in five-inch heels and a pencil skirt, his curly brown hair dancing around the crown of his head. His makeup was minimal, like he put in effort, but knew he was already working with a better-than-solid foundation.

I was walking through the atrium on our college campus when I first spotted him. He was sitting alone at a table, reading, sipping a drink and even doing that in an impossibly pretty way. Because I am who I am, I sat down beside him and said, "I'm sorry to bother you, but I think you're beautiful." He blinked his bright blue eyes several times before revealing his equally bright teeth to bless me with a smile. "Thank you," he said.

We bonded over our mutual inclination to burst into song, appreciation for good off-campus food and enduring love for Dr. Maya Angelou. Despite my initial observation, it quickly became clear Spencer didn't see himself as particularly attractive. He considered himself somewhere between man and woman, and was loathe to pick a side. He was both and neither, and frustrated his body couldn't be altered as quickly as his outfit. He felt he should pick a side, that wherever he was in the middle wasn't a sustainable option for his identity.

Still, his sense of style was a constant. Being stylish was something I'd given up on years before, but I knew what style was. I'd studied fashion, I could tell when someone else was dressed well, but clothing my own body was a mystery. Spencer vowed to help me with that, and because he knew me well, I believed in him.

Less than year later, we became roommates.

Living with Spencer was like living with a human paradigm shift. He didn't just dress up or "put his face on"; he played. He didn't wear traditionally feminine clothes every day and he didn't shave every day, but he was always beautiful because he wanted to be.

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For most of my life, I've been surrounded by well-dressed women. My grandmother was a cosmetologist and seriously fashionable old lady, and her daughters followed suit. I was the grandchild who spent the most time with her and, therefore, was the one kept under her critical eye. When I was small, I easily bent to her will. She could dress me however she saw fit, even when it meant I looked like a 7-year-old-going-on-60. As I got older, I wanted to assert my own style, which posed a problem, because I didn't have any style. Grandma would shake her head at me and say, "Someday, baby, you'll really understand how to dress. I'm just going to pray on that for you." For her, style was all about following rules. No white after Labor day, no mixing black with brown, your bag should match your shoes and no dress didn't require a slip beneath. There was no room to be playful. Because I couldn't see how I fit into those rules, I refused to play the game.

Before meeting Spencer, I didn't try to be stylish. The few times I did -- for special occasions or at the behest of my grandma -- felt unnatural and like everyone could see how uncomfortable I was in my skin. Any compliment came with a side of who knew? Ashley Ford didn't dress this well. I didn't dress badly; just well enough to be mostly invisible. And being on anyone's "style" radar made me feel like I was only seconds away from ridicule.

When I was 24, Spencer introduced me to real makeup. He could make me look pretty in a thousand different ways, and still, none of them felt like me. He would go through my closet with me, picking out clothes I never wore, forcing me to spin them into something new. Sometimes, I looked like me, but I also looked like I was trying, and I was still afraid of looking like I was trying. He would get in my face and say, "You're fine. This is fun! You're having fun! We're just playing!" He even called doing my makeup "painting," something I'd never heard before. He inspired me to keep looking for my look, so I did, privately and mostly only with him.

Some nights, when we sat in my room, watching our favorite childhood movies, he'd tell me how cute he was as a child, and I would remind him how cute he still was. Then he'd ask why I couldn't be that nice to myself. Eventually, I couldn't even fake an answer.

I don't think anyone moves to New York City and doesn't assume they have to up their style game. I was no exception. I moved here, on crutches, in May of 2014. Because of my injury, my choices when it came to fashion and geography were limited. Almost eight months later, once I was perfectly mobile and got to know the city better, I lamented my lack of knowledge about makeup and how to dress my body. How could I not? I was constantly surrounded by beautiful people who were beautiful in so many unique ways. There were women with intricately braided green hair on the train; fat women in curve-hugging wrap dresses and four-inch heels; and women in perfectly-tailored suits. They were bold and unabashedly themselves. They were all making up their own rules, and they all had style. Just like the old cliché, the city inspired me.

For the first time, I felt like I was in the perfect space to figure out this personal style thing, where no one would bat an eye if I chose to play.

And I played.

I bought lipsticks in pinks, reds and purples. I watched tutorials, and let myself try things on I assumed "didn't work for my hips," like long skirts and A-line dresses. I tried filling in my eyebrows and sent photos to Spencer for help and encouragement.

The last time I saw my grandma, I just turned 28. I'd spent two nights in the hospital sleeping beside her. Before I left, I put on a white sweater she'd given me months before and my favorite purple lipstick. She was hardly able to speak, but she put her hand on my face and said, "Baby, that lip color looks so good on you."

After she passed away, I took a sweater from her closet. It was something I loved, but would have been afraid to wear before. It was black with silver buttons that clasped all the way up to my chin. The sleeves were ¾ length and cape-like. It smelled like her. A week ago I did an on-camera interview about my queer identity, and I wore the sweater with a bright lipstick, the same one from the hospital, the one that was now part of "my look."

I sent the video to Spencer later, and he replied with a simple and affirmative, "Yes."

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Kelly Clarkson Slays Rihanna's 'Bitch Better Have My Money'

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With a voice like that, we know Kelly Clarkson "calls the shots."

And what could be better than the 33-year-old pop star covering Rihanna's "Bitch Better Have My Money" at the BBC1 Radio Live Lounge on Wednesday:



Before she hit the studio to record, Clarkson teased fans with an Instagram video of herself making it rain cold hard cash, which she captioned, "On the way to @BBCR1 to record my #LiveLounge!! So excited for this! Here's a hint of my cover song choice. ;) #ballinonabudget."



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Willow Smith Is The Latest Of Marc Jacobs' Friends To Star In His Ad Campaign

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Willow Smith really has something to whip her hair back and forth about now. The 14-year-old is one of the faces of Marc Jacobs' newest campaign.

Both Smith and Jacobs took to Instagram on Thursday night to share the exciting news. The stylish new spokesperson joins Cher, and according to Jacobs' caption, there are even more famous faces to come:

Ever since our first Juergen Teller ad in 1998 which featured Kim Gordon on stage wearing my dress, I have always preferred collaborating with the people who inspire me to give new life to the clothes we show on our runway. Over the years we have photographed an incredibly diverse and exceptional group of talented friends and individuals who I greatly admire: Victoria Beckham, Jamie Bochert, Jarvis Cocker, Sofia Coppola, Miley Cyrus, Dakota Fanning, William Eggleston, Jessica Lange, Jennifer Jason Leigh, Stephen Malkmus, Samantha Morton, Kate Moss, Charlotte Rampling, Winona Ryder, Stephanie Seymour, Cindy Sherman, Michael Stipe, and Rufus Wainwright, just to name a few. Beauty, style and talent know no age. It is those individuals whose creativity, unique vision, and voice inspire all of us here to create and express ourselves through our medium: fashion. Photographed by David Sims, this season’s ads feature friends, each of whom evoke a sense of intrigue and inspiration and collectively provoke a true consideration for individuality. Here today I would like to share (not CHER) with you first, the talented, stylish and charming Willow Smith @gweelos Stay tuned over the coming weeks for more…

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If the upcoming additions are anywhere near as iconic as the people who have previously starred in a campaign for the brand, this is definitely going to be one to watch.




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25 Women Share Their 'Perfect Imperfections' In Mom's Stunning Photo Series

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Photographer Neely Ker-Fox knows what it's like to struggle with body image issues during and after pregnancy. After giving birth to her second child, she had stretch marks and extra skin, as well as back problems that required physical therapy. "I no longer recognized my own body," she told The Huffington Post.

Inspired by empowering photo projects like Ashlee Wells Jackson's "4th Trimester Bodies", Jade Beall's "A Beautiful Body" and January Harshe's #takebackpostpartum campaign, Ker-Fox decided to join in the dialogue that was taking place about women's postpartum bodies.

"I was compelled to bring the same opportunities for women in my own community to have access to a chance to embrace their bodies, address their insecurities and hopefully feel empowered." Ker-Fox created "Perfect Imperfections" -- a photo series that featured friends and neighbors posing in a stripped down state and in many cases, with their children.

Ker-Fox said she wanted "to make these women see how beautiful they were, to truly do something empowering with their vulnerability and bravery." She wrote a blog post about her hopes and goals for the project and then posted a callout on social media. The response was "overwhelming" and she received messages from about 30 women, 16 of whom she was able to photograph in the studio.

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To help her subjects feel empowered through the project, the photographer took some similarly raw photos of herself first. "I wanted to know how these women would feel on the other side of my camera," she said. "I felt I couldn't truly understand the feeling of being stripped down to such a vulnerable position without myself standing in their place."

Believing that art and photography have the ability to heal, Ker-Fox was proud to help women of different ages and from different backgrounds work through their various struggles, from physical and emotional pain to fertility issues to postpartum challenges. She even photographed a little girl with spina bifida, whose mother wanted to give her a moment to truly shine. "This project is so much more than photos of stretch marks, or cellulite," the photographer said. "It's about women coming out of the shadows and discussing their everyday struggles in an effort to normalize, to empower, and to educate."

Ultimately, she hopes that sharing these images will inspire future generations -- especially her own children. "The more society is exposed to these real people, the more women will feel empowered to talk about postpartum, fertility issues, postpartum depression, bullying, and the more others can find peace in knowing they are not alone in their struggles," she said. "At our core we simply need to know that we are not alone."

For the photographer, creating this series has been a personal healing experience as well. "These lines, these battle scars of life, I will carry them with me until the day I die," she said.

In the future, Ker-Fox would like to broaden "Perfect Imperfections" to include more women and girls of various backgrounds and experiences and eventually, even male subjects. "Obviously women are more apt to be the victim of body shaming, or the seemingly rampant epidemic of mommy wars. But we as humans all have insecurities and we are all scarred, imperfect and flawed in some way physically and emotionally," she said.

Keep scrolling and visit Neely Ker-Fox's website to see her images and learn more about the project.



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Selena Gomez Is Frustrated By 'Lies,' About To Drop Some Truth Bombs

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Did Selena Gomez watch a Sofia Coppola movie, or something, before she posted this very dramatic and somewhat cryptic message to Instagram on Thursday? That's definitely the vibe we're getting from the photo of some flowers near a magazine clipping that reads, "I want to claim my own name."

But the 25-year-old pop star also captioned the photo with a lengthy message that addressed the rumors surrounding her.

"Sometimes I get frustrated when I hear lies about who I am. The Internet is meant to keep you "updated" but it just takes old news and freezes it like it's now. You have watched me in pain and I've owned up to it through my music and actions. I grew up with you. I am beyond excited to show you the next chapter, the TRUTH. I've been keeping so many secrets... I'm reborn in every moment so who knows what I'll become.. As long as I'm happy with me. #strongisbeautiful #healthyperspectiveonthemfools "


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It wouldn't be too surprising if the "lies" Gomez was referring to were reports that her alleged drinking problem had flared up again after spending time in rehab last year -- a claim that her rep has already denied.

Still, the pop star just admitted she's "keeping so many secrets" -- and we're ready for those truth bombs anytime she's ready to drop them.

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Still Not Sure What To Get Dad for Father's Day? You Can't Go Wrong With These Winning Grooming Gifts

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This article was written by Ahmed Zambarakji and was originally published on AskMen.

Still waiting on that nod of validation from your dad? You could be waiting a long time... but with Father's Day around the corner, there are countless ways to bribe him into bonding with you again with these great father's day gift ideas. Express your gratitude with a luxury shaving set, a fine fragrance or one of the other straightforward, upmarket and dad-friendly grooming options we've picked out.

Ultra-light Bai Ji Hydrator by Molton Brown

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Molton Brown's guy-friendly -- and, crucially, age-appropriate -- bestseller gets a rethink in time for Father's Day. The Bai Ji moisturizer now comes in three different versions (an ultra-light cream, an extra-rich cream and a as an anti-fatigue eye gel), all formulated without parabens. Better yet, go the extra mile and get one of the beautifully packaged gift sets for men.

$38.00 at MoltonBrown.com

Further reading: 10 Toys Dads Will Probably Enjoy Even More Than Their Kids

Incense & Cedrat Cologne by Jo Malone

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Jo Malone juxtaposes smoky incense with a luminous citrus accord to striking effect in this new release. Elegant and deeply sensual, this fragrance has an oriental air to it that won't go unnoticed. In order to protect the Boswellia Sacra (Frankincense) tree, which has been harvested for incense for thousands of years, the brand employed a new technology called NaturePrint to capture the scent without harming the environment.

Available at JoMalone.com

Further reading: Everyone Needs Help With Their Kid. Here Are 10 Tips Guaranteed To Help You

Oliver Peoples Box Set by Byredo

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Cooler (potentially younger) dads will already know about niche fragrance house Byredo and optical enthusiasts Oliver Peoples. The two brands have collaborated in a "synesthetic" project that demonstrates the influence of color on smell.

The new Oliver Peoples box set includes a pair of limited edition specs along with a bottle of Byredo's new eau de parfum (also named Oliver Peoples -- natch). The specs are available in three different photochromic lens colors including Indigo, Champagne and Green; the bottle will match the lens color you chose. The idea here is that the color you pick out will invariably have an effect on what you smell most in the multi-faceted fragrance. Weird but true. You may pick out anything from the juniper berries and Californian Lemon in the top of the fragrance to the musks, warm sand and patchouli that are deeper in the mix. And if the sensory illusion is completely lost on you, you can always buy the fragrance separately -- it smells just as good without tinted specs.

Available at Byredo.com

Further reading: Your Life Isn't Over When You Become A Dad - Here Are 10 Ways To Stay Social

Collezione Barbiere by Acqua di Parma

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Instantly upgrade his shaving ritual with Acqua di Parma's Collezione Barbiere range, which now includes three new products. In addition to the existing creams and soaps is a lightly scented airless shaving gel, a revitalizing face serum and a hand-made razor that takes Gillette Proglide blades.

Available at Amazon.com

Further reading: 10 Ways You Can Get Your Career Back On Track After Becoming A Father

Oxford & Cambridge Travel Shaving Set by Czech & Speake

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One for traditional dads and/or Anglophiles, this set from London institution Czech & Speake contains a travel-sized shaving brush, shaving soap and aftershave, scented with the brand's signature lavender fragrance.

Available at CzechandSpeakeFragrance.com

Further reading: The Must-Have Gear That Will Make Your Buddy's New Life As A Dad A Breeze

Eau Sauvage Cologne by Christian Dior

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Dior's legendary fragrance for men is reinvented in cologne form for 2015. Fans of the 60s original will recognize the signature accord nestled at the core of a modernized composition that now features Mandarin, Calabrian Bergamot, Grapefruit and Vetiver. Not a radical departure from the original so much as a 21st century update.

$84.91 at Amazon.com

Further reading: Did Your Best Bud Just Become A Dad? Here Are 10 Ways To Keep The Fun Times Going

Birchbox

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Still unsure which grooming products are worth the investment? Sign him up for Birchbox, a personalized grooming service that delivers samples (plus one full-size product) of the latest and most popular grooming unguents straight to his door for a mere $20 per month. All the top men's brands from Anthony to Zirh are on board, so you're unlikely to ever lose out.

Starting at $20.00 at Birchbox.com

Want more Father's Day gift ideas? Check out:
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Jill And Jessa Duggar Say Brother Was 'A Little Too Curious About Girls' In Fox Interview

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Jill Dillard and Jessa Seewald, stars of "19 Kids and Counting," have spoken out and revealed they were two of the five minors whom their oldest brother, Josh Duggar, molested.

But, in the conclusion of Megyn Kelly's two-part interview with the Duggar family, airing Friday at 9 p.m. EST, the sisters defend their brother's actions to "The Kelly File" host.






"Josh was a boy, a young boy in puberty, and a little too curious about girls," Jessa, who married Ben Seewald in November and is expecting her first child, told Kelly. "And that got him into some trouble. And he made some bad choices, but, really, the extent of it was mild -- inappropriate touching on fully clothed victims, most of it while [the] girls were sleeping." (Via the police report: [Jim Bob Duggar} said that [Josh] had told him that [he] had been touching [redacted] on the breast and vaginal areas while [they] were sleeping." Later in the report [Jim Bob] said there was another incident in March 2003. [Jim Bob] said that [Josh] was reading to [redacted] and [she] was sitting on [his] lap, [Josh] had touched [redacted's] breasts and vaginal area...sometime during this timeframe [Josh] had been standing in the laundry room and [Josh] had put [his] hand under [redacted's] dress.")

Jill, who married Derek Dillard in 2014 and welcomed a son in April, echoed what their parents had told Kelly on Wednesday -- that they "didn't even know" about the molestation until Josh had confessed to their parents. "None of the victims were aware of what happened until Joshua confessed," she said. Jessa added, "My parents took [us] aside individually, and they said, 'Here's what happened,' and of course at this point, you're shocked."

While Jessa said she thinks that giving her brother the label "child molester or a pedophile or a rapist," is "so overboard and a lie." Jill admitted that she was "scared," and added that she was "sad" to learn of what Josh had done, "because this is my older brother, who I love a lot. It's conflicting."

Meanwhile, Jessa also is quick to defend Josh (who before his confession was the executive director at the conservative, anti-gay group Family Research Council Action) against those calling him a hypocrite.





"It’s right to say, ‘Here’s what I believe, here’s my values,’ even if you’ve made stupid mistakes or failures," she told Kelly. "If you’ve had failures in your past, it doesn’t mean you can’t be changed. I think that’s where ... I think the real issue is people are making this sound like it happened yesterday."

The Duggar parents have been heavily criticized since they revealed they didn't seek any sort of help for Josh until the third time he confessed his behavior to them -- the breaking point, they said, was when he admitted to touching his youngest sister, who was only 5 years old at the time. The sisters, however, contend certain "safeguards" were implemented by their parents after their brother confessed to the abuse.

"Locks on the doors. You know, everybody’s in bed," Jill explained. "Girls in the girls' room. Boys in the boys' room -- as a mother now I look back, and I think, you know, my parents did such an amazing job for me. Even when we went through the DHS investigation they complimented my parents on what an amazing job they did through that process."

In the interview, Jill also said, "My parents have always actually stated ... we are not a perfect family. We are just a family."

"The Kelly File" airs at 9 p.m. EST. on FOX

Need help? In the U.S., visit the National Sexual Assault Online Hotline operated by RAINN. For more resources, visit the National Sexual Violence Resource Center's website.

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Trans Women Discuss Sisterhood And The Violence They Experience Every Day

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Sisterhood is a revolutionary act for all women.

A new documentary series called "This Is Me," created by WifeyTV with the help of executive producer Jill Soloway, explores the issues trans and gender non-conforming people face everyday. In the most recent episode called "And My Sisters," artist/actor Van Barnes, performance artist Miss Barbie-Q and artist/filmmaker Zackary Drucker sit down to discuss their friendships and the daily threat of violence they experience as trans women.

“Trans women are born witty, thank God. It’s part of our survival," Barnes says at the beginning of the video. In the video, the three women sit around a table creating "prayer pumps" to memorialize a sister of theirs who was recently murdered for being trans.

“It’s a revolutionary act to be an out, visible trans person," Drucker says, to which Barnes added: “It’s a revolutionary act just to walk down the street [as a trans person].”




With one gender non-conforming person being murdered every 48 hours around the world, the violence these women face is very much real -- and it informs their behavior.

“I feel like I have to walk around with my fists up again," Miss Barbie-Q says. She goes on to recount a time two months prior when she was assaulted by a man on the subway, simply for the way she expresses her identity.

“I have to gauge people because if they’re staring at me for too long, I think ‘Do I have to watch my back when I walk away from this person?’ Because violence can go from zero to 90 in a heartbeat," Barnes says.

She also tells the other women about a time she was assaulted by five men on the street: "One of [the men] put his arm out and clotheslined me, right at the neck... He grabbed me, picked me up, body slammed me. Every single one of those guys took a turn body slamming me," Barnes said. "Every time I was getting lifted into the air I thought, ‘I hope they don’t paralyze me.’ And nobody came to my rescue.”

"How many trans people are going to have to die on the street before change happens?” Miss Barbie-Q asks the other women in the video. In January and February of 2015 alone, seven trans women were murdered in the U.S.

A sentiment towards the end of the video sums up how important these women's friendships really are: "These relationships give me a sense of stability, they give me a sense that things are possible, they give a sense of wholeness.”

Head over to WifeyTV to watch more of the "This Is Me" series.

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